₦airaland Forum

LagosOrigin:
Yes , it will work only if you buy and personalise it.

Dangote you be thief

You guyz dont like think thats mainly the Problem,.... i dont understand the bitterness you people have towards Dangote whereas the govt are to be blamed

Wonder why Foreign investors are hestitant to come into Nigeria they see us finish ... Dangote on the other takes a whole huge risk investing in a country the FG is commited to run aground

Dangote knows Ajaokuta will never work just like our local refineries cos it an avenue for FG to loot billions claiming maintainance ... thats it

Kobojunkie:
So, because a woman takes her husband's name and the children she bears share her DNA and the man's DNA in marriage, that automatically means that everything that belongs to her husband belongs to her too....she is not an outsider? Are you sure you are OK?

2. According to the book which you pretend to quote from, the man is expected to leave his father and mother — the woman is never commanded to leave her father and her mother —to become one with the woman. That is not the case with either your traditional marriage system or your court system. So, why are you desperate to link what you have in Nigeria with that which is foreign to it?

See question .... i have heard husband and wife put funds together to build there house, buy cars and properties .. Did peter n paul join money to build the home there wives stay, or buy a car together

By law nd white wedding standard everything that belongs to the man belongs to the wife tew, you write english so well but you have very little comprehension

The bible need not say about the woman cos on a Norm the Woman go leave her father house But the bible knows its not out of place for a Man to want to remain in his father's house ... hence that verse

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:
In the western world she is even more of a stranger. Just let something come between you and see how she will strip you to your pants. Nobody said you should neglect your wife, but never disregard your siblings because you are married.

what makes you think you can't prioritize your wife without disregarding your sibling

I always make it clears there is no "Versus" or sides, talkless of picking one

You cant disrespect my wife no matter what, Let me be the one to treat her fvckup same rule applies to my wife let me handle them.

Siblings will come n go cos they have their own life to live but a good wife is always there to stay cos you are her life .. its that simple

ajalawole:
One told me she can't live with my mum even before I marry here. I despose the weyrey.

And why will she live with your mom .... did your mom live with your Dad mom

if you are a xtain, did the bible say you will bring your wife to live with your mom

MichaelUweh:
This dude made sense!!!
Your wife can divorce you, but your siblings can't.
It get why!!! But I know you will still argue.

Your sibling can't divorce you cos the option never exist But your Siblings can " Abandon" you ...

i can tell you for free there are siblings who have not spoken to one another in decades
paul and peter of psquare are twins did dey not abandon one another, even Mama fit abandon pikin

go find another thing talk

Kobojunkie:
In Nigeria, the wife is an outsider. The traditional system of marriage makes this abundantly clear. I wish Nigerian women would realize and accept this fact already. They gain absolutely nothing from marrying under the traditional marriage banner.

in which passage or verse did tradition emphasized a Wife is an outsider and should be treated as such ... you just like misyarning

how many outsider bears same surname as you, how many outsider shares DNA with your children, which outsider plus so called sibling can take care of your kids like there mom

If anyone understands the bible verse, two shall become one, you will understand that prioritizing your wife literally is prioritizing YOU .... or would you have prioritize your siblings over you

Normally naa woman dey leave im papa house ... but there is a reason the bible commanded " and a man shall

Dogalmighty17:
From the moment pictures started going out of the pot Hilda Bacci planned to use for her record setting attempt to cook the world's largest pot of jollof rice, anyone with a fair background in physics and possibly material science would have sensed something was off. There was no way that pot was going to serve.

See, physics is impassionate and brutal. It's laws are set from the beginning of creation. For Hilda's record to have gone through without a hitch, the laws of physics would have been broken.

I don't know what the dimensions the pot of galvanized steel she used are. I do however know that they were far too insufficient. The math alone was going to be problematic. Her initial plan was to use 250 bags of rice for that pot. Assuming she used 50kg bags of rice, that's already 12.5 tons. She later reduced the quantity to 200 bags which is 10 tons of rice or 10,000 kg. A look at that pot and its supporting legs clearly indicate it is no way rated to handle such a load. Disaster was already afoot.

Heat causes metal to expand. This expansion, weakens the metallic bonds that holds the atoms that make up the metal in the pot. The weight of the rice in the pot further strains the structure of the pot, hence the collapse.

She and her team did not consult widely nor did they meet qualified engineers for counsel. Today's disaster was inevitable as a result.

You Sabi All this yet Nobody knows you by any "Invention or creativeness "

The goal of 1st Attempt is not " Perfection" rather its just activate " Possibility " ... if she is to make another attempt to cook another one it will definitely be better

For those complaining the rice no sweet, pepper no reach, oil short .... The record is only have biggest pot of jollof rice ... e sweet or e no sweet no follow


Thumbs up to hildaci creativity ... she chose sense over yansh

mjblinks:
Yes, husbands fight silent battles.
But let’s also remember: wives do too.

Many women carry invisible loads that often go unnoticed, even by the men they love most.
Why don’t wives talk?
👉 Because they don’t want to “nag.”
👉 Because they don’t want to feel unappreciated.
👉 Because they’re told “that’s just what women do.”

But just like men, their silence doesn’t mean peace. Behind her smile, here are 10 hidden battles many wives secretly face in marriage:

1. Pressure to Hold Everything Together
From kids to meals to home and sometimes career, she feels she can’t afford to “fall apart.”

2. Fear of Not Being Enough
She wonders if she’s still attractive, still desirable, still “the one.”

3. Loneliness (Even When Married)
She may crave quality time, deep talks, or affection but doesn’t voice it out.

4. Silent Exhaustion
Between work, home, and motherhood, many women are simply tired to their core.

5. Emotional Starvation
She longs for affection, appreciation, or just a listening ear—but may not ask for it.

6. Comparison Pressure
Seeing “perfect” wives or mothers online quietly makes her doubt herself.

7. Invisible Sacrifices
She gives up dreams, hobbies, and sometimes career progress for the family—often unnoticed.

8. Fear of Growing Apart
She worries: “What if one day, he stops seeing me the way he once did?”

9. Spiritual Weight
When she feels she’s carrying the faith of the family alone, it can be overwhelming.

10. Silent Cries for Partnership
She doesn’t just want a provider—she longs for a partner who shares the journey of life fully.

The truth is: both husbands and wives bleed silently.
Marriage is strongest when both see, honor, and support each other’s battles—not just endure them alone.

Because love isn’t about who suffers more. It’s about carrying each other’s burdens, together. ❤️

Did you just say wives dont talk .... is it that you just arrived from pluto

women dont talk ke !! make man pay rent for 10yrs make wife pay 11th year cos he is broke the community go hear the day that man disobey her instructions

if you cum marry ishilove or pocohantas Add bonus two

helinues:
Probably you just arrived from Pluto regarding @emboldened. You are outdated

Dont doubt, i just arrived, why not update me on how Trump has removed benefits and tax refund .. you know i like facts

helinues:
Racoon, when would you ever display joy and happiness on this forum?

Is there a Joke? have you imagined the percentage of Nigerians that are happy under this Tpain regime

Is it the national grid that collapsed that is funny or the 5% tax on fuel come january that you except joy or happiness

i travelled outside lagos, upon calcu what i have spent on fuel n feeding alone .... i pity Nigerians the naira is just completely uselezz

helinues:
Honestly, considering some policies and reforms by this government, it takes mind to initiate them in first term.

What mind exactly, how hard is it for a boy with gun to slap an elderly man.

This policies and reform affect the masses the most, this are plainly anti people policies .. for a docile citizens what difficult there,

You think trump will cancel benefit in America and protest won't choke white house But here Nigerians are so comfortable with suffering,

The true test of whether Tinubu has ball is reforms with the political class .... 1st implement orasanye report , implement electoral reforms

You dont slap the average citizens n claim you have balls.. for Nigerians docile is an understatement

Roof top lounge is a trend buh not the main trend in the grooving world
We have more of open space bar under trending people just sit under the under in a fenced squared floor with bands or hypeman dj... asun, suya and barbecue stand outside the entrance

MrAndre07:
That is not funny, especially when she is always reminding you of being a covert cheat, and how severely she will deal with you if she eventually catches you.
And can go out of her way in making efforts to catch you cheating.

yeah ! in some cases out of desperation women like that can set you up with another gurl ... just to catch you cheating

why would you bait your spouse .... sha use folake4u o ti lor

Natbrowny:
And they'll say. Babe imagine tunde ooo, trying to collect my number

Or babe. See wahala o. That Ojo that sells electronic is trying to ask me out all to boost ur ego and form loyalty
But won't tell you when Jide colects her number lailai

U knw why. She likes Jide. So she's reporting bros she ain't feeling to you. But keeps entertaining the one she likes

When u f*ck up or she ain't feeling u no more, she starts acting out and JIDE MOVES IN EASY BREEZY

Bro what you miss is that, Once your babe come home and she can mention a guy name to you he is disturbing me .. hmmmm

As a man just know your babe is about to consider that guy, date n knack him to satisfy are curiousity 1st

if you display insecurity to her, it will only hasten the process and if you form i dont care she will still fvck that name . don't try to stop her

the only thing you can do to help her at that period is to urge her on to be with him, howfar have you seen Tunde house is it nice ?? tease her more with the new guy's name

Brandiebird:
Don’t let your boyfriend stand in the way of your husband! Iykyk

if you know your boyfriend is not your husband to be why are you dating him

CoronaVirusPro:
God bless The Sole Administrator of Rivers State, Vice Admiral Ibok-Ete Ibas (retd)

I hope many and all have learnt, and reckoned with forces that is wake you up from hours of deep sleep.

To all those that mentored Fubara, How is it going?

We have forgiven Fubara and he is sure of re-election and the senate afterwards.

Morale of the story, don’t mess with people who can create and end.

Saw a dwarf in Sango Ota bragging about how he was going to open the gate of hell if Jonathan lost the election. I smiled.

Same dwarf encourage Peter and he still lost.

Why I always say the greatest confusion that befell the opposition is not knowing or quantifying the powers they up against.

People that can creat and End should no " No one rules for Life" .... where is Baba Adedibu

Dead or Alive ... No one holds power for life, OBJ was once Alpha n Omega in Nig. today baba no fit do pass write letter

Wike should remember Liein Mohammed ... where he today. Time will take care of Tinubu n wike i promise

OfoIgbo:
I like Gej, but he couldn't defeat Buhari when he was the president. He has zero chance of beating BAT, as an ordinary citizen.

To make matters worse, GEJ doesn't have a movement as fanatical as the Obidients. The Obidient movement can muster tens of millions of people. GEJ just doesn't have that reach.

Obidients are by far, more than northern voters, so Obi will not be phased by that old threat of Northern voters. Obidients are made up of northern and southern voters

He couldnt defeat Buhari cos of "Wrong Time"

1. North believed it is their turn since he spent 6yrs already

2. Buhari was the biggest icon in North .... the chosen

3. Nigerians were tired of PDP., We wanted to try New

These three factors are enough for any incumbent to lose,

blaise26abj:
Look at what the obidient said. Politics no be by strong head o . It is all about the numbers . If Jonathan has better chances , Obi should step down . Which one is he is an elder statesman . This desperation by Obi is the first reason his support with non-easterners is dwindling . Obidients are a not so distant second .

We call it whyning, dem say make Jonathan no spoil is record, and i ask which record ...

He GEJ accepted defeated 2015

accepting he failed is what they want Jonathan to be remembered for You can see dem dey whyne

Skeyskey:
I'm Obidient but Jonathan has the most reach to oust that thing in Aso rock than any other southerner. North will gladly support him knowing he has only one term to his name.

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that is the only leverage Jonathan, single term left If not i would have even wanted us to try something New .. not as if i believe OBi will perform excellent but @least he wont be as heartless as the Tax demon in Aso rock

Peter Obi needs to understand his reach in the North is not strong enough and they wont over look one term left for the south

Sonnobax15:

Nigeria to the world..

They can't stop talking about us.... They call us loud-mouths,we agreed but they still can't breathe without mentioning our names...

If not for our leaders who derive their erections by maltreating us, nowhere on the earth would be better than Nigeria..

They cant stop talking about us, Same as Nigerians can't live there lives without copying these people, we want to eat, walk, sound, fvvck and sleep like whites, isnt that weird

maybe we ask for the attention

legitnow1:
SEE QUESTIONS?



MUST U FOIST LAGOS ON US EVEN WEN WE DONT WANT IT?

How are they Foisting Lagos on you ... no be you as importer go choose port of destination

Have you tried Rivers port or benine republic port and Sanwo olu hold your hand, go elsewhere 1st

simpleseyi:
Wait till election time, we will humiliate you again. No be Cho cho Cho, na strategy

Which strategy .... e pass rigging and pushing out apc agbero members to intimidate voters.

you bypass rules, do ojoro upon ojoro call it " strategy" ...just remember no king reigns 4ever

simpleseyi:
Let him include Donald Trump, we the BAT team will humiliate them all

You want to see humiliate go to any public market nd campaign Tinubu is working,m

AfonjaPriest:
I have said it many times in many fora that the reason noisemakers are claiming Lagos to be their birthright is because of the undeserved status Lagos have been bestowed with.
Oya, close the ports in Lagos and see if Lagos nor go dry pass bonga fish.
Accommodators go wake up to discover say population of Lagos don go down.
Tribal landlords nor go fit dey select tribes, as their developer customers wey dey pay dem well well go don vamoose.
Trust me, dem accommodators neva see anything, but by the time they close down the ports, even oshodi-apapa expressway go dey look like wetin they want take do football field.

Why must it be only when FG close Lagos Port other seaport can thrive ... is it not suppose to be competitive or a competition

Why cant other state make their seaport a preferred alternative ... once upon a time tecno, infinix were nonsense chinco but they improvised, copied and upgrade quality today they are popular demands
the existence of samsung n iphone didnt stop tecno or infinix

what have other states with seaports done to push themselves as an affordable alternative.

IamMobisola:
Slot is just an overpriced organization.

We sell Brand new sealed S25ultra for 1.3, 1.4 depending on the storage. Straight from Samsung

yeah i get ! Buh you know slot is a renowned brand ... naa the name dem dey sell

Samsung standard vary by country standard ... yours miight be Samsung Nig.. people dont suspect buh they vary

Even if you give pocohantas 2million to cook those meals ... naa from market she go call oga money no reach i don support you with 500k oko mii buh you go gimme later o ..

make i borrow you money buy malt join fear that gender

OgbeniOja1:
1000 houses Jesus, how can!!

E sure me if a Man marry 1000 wives ... you cant remember all there names. naa PA go remind oga you neva go sleep folake4u wife no. 700 place in the last 5yrs

i marry that one tew

kedeojo:
only foolish and bitter soul will criticize the outstanding project just because he didn't pass through their landlock area. I haven't seen a south south leaders from either political, religion, traditional institution and even the masses criticizing it but our brothers across the niger has been the ones. How can you cry more than the bereaved. The only consign raised by the governors and the late Edwin Clark was to also start from the calabar end too and the president not only started from calabar end but added Akwa ibom end too. Meanwhile the tribal and religious bigot obi who can't point to any legacy project as governor due to pains of Tinubu getting more support from south south because of the road project and others he has been fixing which obi knows will gradually reduce drastically and depreciate his votes in 2027 resulted to criticizing it. What a people. Jonathan rumored contesting again, has exposed the deep hatred they have for anyone or region against thier interest. By God's grace, we shall know who rule the game now between south south and south east.

You cam think whatever you like But so far No one says coastal road is not good But the truth remains We dont need it now, these is a project that will last more than 2 decades .. lets even assume the project is protected and cannot be stopped by other govt

Nigeria have so much pressing issues, that funds put into the coastal road could have been awaken Agriculture .. Make it a potential that generates revenue n export, we have tew many resources to be broke

We are tew blessed with resources ro be chasing palmpay n opay for loans... Govt are just lazy minded, unserious

OgbeniOja1:
When they want to embezle money they raise one sham of a policy. We know all this things. Then their unfortunate broke minions will be running up and down defending what they don't understand

You don get, they make sure its a sham elites can relate with, something you learnt in school so immediately they throw it out elites/socialite take the bait and start justifying it will textbooks, benefits, merits

whereas for theese politician it was jus a decoy, there motive n goal is to find more Money to loot, but someone go wear suit claim economist/okonjo iweala defending heist ... never trust politicians they are cursed with stealing public funds no amount is enough


Emefiele owned over 1000 houses, my cloths no reach 40 sometimes i 4get to wear some for months .. how do you carry 1000 houses in your head nd not 4get ....our leaders need men-tal rehab