Family › Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by chieni(f): 10:16pm On Jun 29, 2024 |
TheChameleon: He was very stupid to admit to a crime like that.
I was sickened at all the display of SIMPness.
Questions for the Silly Simp :
1. Why would you go to that length to placate a wife over your God-given rights?
2. Why would you bring your personal issues online?
This guy is really stupid and deserves all that happens to him.
Jarus you be real idiot. Call your wife to order like a real man and not a cuckold. You were NEVER in charge, that is why she could even resist 2nd Wife. You now stupidly admitted committing a crime openly. IF you see this, stand in front of a mirror and repeat " Jarus is an idiot" 10 million times. Why didn't he tell her in the first place, before getting married to her. You all think women don't like variety too? But it's not in our DNA, it's not in our nature, that's why most of us have self control. |
Family › Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by chieni(f): 10:13pm On Jun 29, 2024 |
hyzich: You’re right, no woman will accept that. He could have married the new wife in another apartment or city The solution to all of this is tell her you plan on marrying more than one wife from the onset. It will save both of you the headache. |
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Food › Re: Snake, Donkey Meats Flood Calabar Markets As High Cost Of Beef Persists by chieni(f): 12:58am On Jun 27, 2024 |
OZIOGU1: Are you a hunter? Lol e reach to ask |
Crime › Re: Nigerian Boxer, Isaiah Olugbemi Dies After Being Shot By Neighbour In US by chieni(f): 6:15pm On Jun 23, 2024 |
otipoju: It's a long short story. Let me narrate.
The guy once asked me for a ride to work. I thought they were married.
After giving him a ride twice, I asked what happened to their car and he said they repossessed it. Because they missed their monthly payments.
I advised them to get a older model car that they can pay of at once instead of buying the latest that they could not afford.
Like a month later, the guy came to ask me for cold water and I gave him. Same week he came to ask to charge his phone and I helped him. Then on Sunday of that week he came to knock on the door telling me that they told him his wife was in my apartment.
Brother, I don't even recognize your wife, come in and search she is not here oo. Don't let anyone play us against each other. He did search and found and found nothing.
I left for church and advised him to be patient and settle whatever was going on between him and his wife.
Na so I go church, leave my mom for house. I dey church I just see my phone dey ring. I went out of church and returned my mom's call. After I left, the guy saw knocked and when mummy did not open, broke down the door.
Weather it was to attack mummy or to search again I don't know. But she was able to sneak out through the back door and called neighbour's for help. They called police but by the time they arrived he had fled.
I had to go back home. Involved the apartment and demanded that they moved us to a vacant one that same day. They said it was Sunday it would be hard. I told them this guy will definitely come back.
They fixed the door, changed the locks. But as night fell, I no gree sleep. I knew he would come back. So I was just watching TV to stay awake. Around 2 am, I heard a car approaching and stopped. I peeped out the window and saw him and another guy in the car and heard him say " This niggar is watching TV. I'm gonna kill him this night.
My own OT of teenage years kicked in. I grabbed a knife, poured pepper in water and put off the light woke my mom in the other room, dialed 911 and was in the phone with them while waiting by the door.
He punched on the door kicked banged and screamed that I was going to die by his gun and i should come and open the door.
My own plan was simple, if you come in. I first blind you with pepper water turn back on the lights and stab your neck as many times possible then grab your gun put off the lights again and wait for the second guy in the car to come in.
Well after about 10 minutes of banging and shouting, the second guy told him that they should go that the cops will surely be on their way. He got back in the car and left.
Soon after the cops came about 6 of them and told me to open the door. I did with the knife still in my hand. Na so I dey hear " drop your weapon " with guns and flash lights in my face.
If they had not been calm and I was not talking to them as I opened the door they could easily have shot me thinking I was the intruder.
After every, they told me the guy was a drug dealer that was out from prison and was on parole and the woman was not his wife.
That she had got tired of him and moved out the apartment when he went to work. She had turned out the utilities. So their apartment had no lights,no gas and no water.
That explained why he needed to charge his phone, ask for cold water etc.
Some months later, they caught him and was asked if I want to press charges. I declined.
In retrospect I should have sued the apartment for negligence for not moving me out of the apartment that same day that I requested. Although we moved to another unit the next morning on Monday but we had to sleep in a hotel till morning.
I think the girlfriend was using me to taunt him. That's the only reason that I can think of for him to come after me.
Since then, I no dey too shine teeth with people or dey interested in knowing my neighbour's. Thanks for sharing your experience. Indeed crazy things are really happening. The guy is insane. No proof or evidence just acting like a psycho. Hope you went for Thanksgiving. This is indeed thanksgiving worthy. In my opinion the policy that allows for ownership of guns by every dick and harry should be reversed. Imagine such policy in Nigeria, conductor for danfo go just dey shoot any passenger wey vex am. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Would You Take This Amount For This Position? by chieni(f): 1:03pm On Jun 22, 2024 |
It depends on her experience toom For instance someone with 8 years of experience may not accept it. |
Crime › Re: Nigerian Boxer, Isaiah Olugbemi Dies After Being Shot By Neighbour In US by chieni(f): 12:51pm On Jun 22, 2024 |
otipoju: All you have said here is nothing but the truth.
TBH, I minimize my interactions with many of them. Unless it's absolutely necessary I don't talk to you and don't smile unnecessarily.
There are plenty of psychos roaming around here. I almost got killed by my neighbor on 2016. Guy came to the door around 2 am. Thank goodness I was awake , had replaced the locks.
Immediately I noticed his precense, I put off all the lights and waited by the door in silence. As soon as he saw that I put out the lights, he knew I was waiting and was reluctant to break down the door like he did in the morning when I was not home and had gone to church. OMG! Did you two have an altercation before this happened? |
Education › Re: Nigerian Man Blocks All His Secondary School Friends by chieni(f): 8:03pm On Jun 21, 2024 |
Whatshallido: Pride! You will need them one day and you will regret why you blocked them by the time they turn down on you for a request or help . It might not be a financial help, but............ Pride? Seems you don't like your sanity. Most people do it for their sanity. Who likes negativity? Well I don't. |
Education › Re: Nigerian Man Blocks All His Secondary School Friends by chieni(f): 8:00pm On Jun 21, 2024 |
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Education › Re: Nigerian Man Blocks All His Secondary School Friends by chieni(f): 7:57pm On Jun 21, 2024 |
wallarwallar: Useless idiot u shud be thankful to them becos if they did not talk down on u then u might not take things seriously and achieve success. You don't understand anything abf life u can block ur higher institution mates also plus all ur family idiot. Really? You seem to love negativity. Are you aware that such experience would have made him discouraged and even doubt himself?
You can make your point without being insulting.
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Phones › Re: How Can I Fix My Whatsapp Looking For Backup Problem? by chieni(f): 5:33pm On Jun 21, 2024 |
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Education › Re: Nigerian Man Blocks All His Secondary School Friends by chieni(f): 5:29pm On Jun 21, 2024 |
PotatoSalad: Smh. My secondary school mates came through for me when I had an accident. Infact, I'm more closer to them than the snakes I went to uni with. Lucky you then. |
Education › Re: Nigerian Man Blocks All His Secondary School Friends by chieni(f): 5:27pm On Jun 21, 2024 |
Wawelexy: Nigerians and this blocking of a thing sha... don't really know how they see it... Especially ladies...
Till you block your destiny helper, you won't know. I prefer people not to cheer me up at the beginning of my dream so as to use that as a motivation to push harder... Those same friends who didn't take him serious back then when he was nothing, can still be a point of contact to a big firm or individual that will take your brand global... Abi you think it's only you that has made it? Lol... Hollywood don mess with this guy brain Oga everybody is different. Do you know how it would have affected him then? Do what works for you. |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by chieni(f): 11:45pm On Jun 20, 2024 |
armyofone: Thank you. Can regular blender do the grinding ?
Or only Nigerians power machines can grind kwaruru ? I suggest you use the regular power machine. Imagine grinding the regular beans without soaking in water. It might spoil the blender or not grind smoothly. |
Art, Graphics & Video › Re: My Drawing Book Will Be 22years Next Month by chieni(f): 3:45pm On Jun 20, 2024 |
Skydivine: I can see that Maths is not your thing Hahaha |
Health › Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by chieni(f): 11:59am On Jun 20, 2024 |
It depends on who your parents are. This is a sensitive information. Are they people who will spill it out if they kick against the marriage or they will silently deal with it by not announcing to other people, even if they don't agree to the marriage.
My second advice. Please let her go since you are not sure you can handle it. For some they don't have a problem because it's the woman they love first. She's not an experiment for you to experiment with by getting her pregnant before marriage. Peradventure she gets pregnant who knows you might dump her for one reason or the other. Please let her go someone will love her with hope that a child will definitely come. |
Phones › Re: Iphone 5s Stuck On Apple Logo And My Photos Isn’t Backed To Icloud by chieni(f): 7:42am On Jun 20, 2024 |
kerny: Oh! Okay
Which means Fiverr seem more plausible in getting jobs than Upwork. I think I’d go that route since I need jobs I can get doing soonest.
If you don’t mind putting me through the processes to avoid common challenges and curating my profile to be more accessible, I’d truly appreciate it.
Also what payment account is best to open for task payment? None of the platforms are easy. It's saturated at the moment. Though it is definitely possible to get clients. I have been on the platform for sometime. On fiverr, you can't bid. You just wait for a buyer who is interested in your service to contact you. I will advice you open an account on both. Make your profile and gig interesting and enticing for buyers who come across your gig to contact you. Also be patient. Don't pressurize yourself because you might just loose interest. It is definitely possible to earn on the platform. For fiverr, I still use exchangers. I haven't figured how to transfer directly to my account. There's PayPal, payoneer and directly to bank account for those based in US I think. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Call Center Agents For A Financial Institution In Victoria Island - 80k Monthly by chieni(f): 11:33pm On Jun 19, 2024 |
There are people who are in their thirties but look like they are in their early twenties. You won't even know. This age thing has to stop. |
Phones › Re: Iphone 5s Stuck On Apple Logo And My Photos Isn’t Backed To Icloud by chieni(f): 10:44pm On Jun 19, 2024 |
kerny: Hi Chieni, I did
I currently work for my company as a Business Intelligence Analyst and want to branch out working as a Virtual Assistant on Upwork ( ALX Trained). Given the current economic realities, I’m in dire need of another source of income else I dip. I was going through the Upwork tread and came across on of your comments. From my assessment, you been on there for while and was hoping you’d please be kind enough to put me through the platform and getting jobs on there.
By Virtual Assistant, majorly help: Student Esp abroad with their coursework on Assignments and Research Develop product paper and creation of company profile for Business owners/Enterpreneurs Research and develop Questionnaires Market research and Benchmarking. I think you should contact Qtguru. Yes I have been there but haven't gotten a job. I also don't bid frequently due to limited connects. I have only been able to navigate fiverr. It is also possible to get clients on upwork. You need patience, a good proposal and connects to bid for job. Most times people resort to buying connects because the free connects given by the platform is not sufficient to bid for jobs. |
Health › Re: Nurse Confesses To Changing DNA Results Of Kids, Tricks Man Into Divorcing His W by chieni(f): 4:10pm On Jun 19, 2024 |
Moniya4Real: In-spite if this nurse’s devilish act. I think it’s a pointer to the fact that the ex-wife , herself, isn’t sure of the paternity of the kids cos if she was, she most definitely would have objected and stood her ground that the kids belong to her husband. Even if it meant insisting on a confirmatory test in another location Stood which ground? You all that are always bashing women here. Who will listen to her? Once it's a woman, it's a man's world. |
Health › Re: Nurse Confesses To Changing DNA Results Of Kids, Tricks Man Into Divorcing His W by chieni(f): 4:09pm On Jun 19, 2024 |
We4all: Lol......I admire your confidence sha. But what if they are not really your blood, what will you do? In my opinion this is a silly question. Why are you so interested in wishing that will be his lot. It is well oh |
Phones › Re: Iphone 5s Stuck On Apple Logo And My Photos Isn’t Backed To Icloud by chieni(f): 3:42pm On Jun 19, 2024 |
Hello cc Kenny. You sent me a Pm. What's up? |
Politics › Re: MKO Abiola's Children Who Couldn't Afford Drugs Have Died In Last 30 Years by chieni(f): 11:39am On Jun 19, 2024 |
zoghys: You sound stupid. That's is father's wealth and legacy, so every right thinking kid should ride on his parent's legacy and work hard to better it. Fools make mistakes but the wise lean from it. Experiences like this has made him give out such advice. It is left for you to learn so you are not disappointed. |
Family › Re: My Younger Brother Seems To Hate Me! by chieni(f): 10:25pm On Jun 16, 2024 |
Before you jump into conclusion, know that there might be an underlying cause. Is he an introvert? If yes then it might be the cause. Some introverts have difficulty with expressing themselves even with family members. It is a struggle for some. They just don't know how to bring themselves out of their shells both with family members and outsiders. However, there is always a solution to every problem like they say |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by chieni(f): 1:39pm On Jun 14, 2024 |
armyofone: So okpa is made from Hausa kwaruru. As a kid, I love eating cooked kwaruru. So tasty! Cooking it as beans takes too long to cook. I saw it at the store. I'm going to buy some - maybe try to make okpa 
Do I need to soak and remove the skin to make okpa? No it is grounded in powdered form. Then mixed with water when preparing. |
Politics › Re: Throwback Photo Of Nigerian Soldiers Celebrating The Liberation Of Port Harcourt by chieni(f): 10:24am On Jun 14, 2024 |
Goodvibes007: It was never their property to begin with. Same way the Nazis were pained after losing Paris lol.
You are right. Below is from the book sunset in Biafria by an Ikwerre solder that served in the War - Elechi Amadi.
It was indeed a liberation. This is inhumane. Reason one shouldn't jump into conclusion when it comes to sensitive issues. |
Crime › Re: 2 Russian Women Beat Man To Death For Refusing To Have Sex With Them by chieni(f): 10:20pm On Jun 12, 2024 |
It's definitely end time because what the... |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Monday Is Children's Day by chieni(f): 7:52am On May 27, 2024 |
Maj196: We don hear mister children's day Lol |
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Business › Re: Upwork Thread (Questions/Help/Advice) by chieni(f): 9:46pm On May 18, 2024 |
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Business › Re: Upwork Thread (Questions/Help/Advice) by chieni(f): 5:29pm On May 17, 2024 |
Mannyautos: Been on Upwork for sometime and I landed my first ever Enterprise Client! It’s indeed true that most high paying jobs come from direct invites without even wasting connects. Let’s keep pushing! No bidding, just a direct message? |
Events › Re: Babatunde Fashola's Daughter, Yewande, Weds Posi Ogunlesi (Photos) by chieni(f): 12:26pm On May 04, 2024 |
MatrixReloaded: Not pretty... she need nose lifting, lips curling, cheek flattened, eyes not bulging and the guy go dey cheat patapata. Please post your picture let's see how you look. You are the same category of people that would body shame women when they work on their body. |