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amakadlite:
yes it's the guy. you need to draw his attention to this thread.

BluntNigerian:
If the photo on your profile is truly you, then you are no more an anonymous Nairalander.
Even your current girlfriend might have seen this story.

SirBen90:
OP is that Hall 3, UNIBEN? Greatest Uniben Students!!

Opeke2020:
Hello everyone. Please bear with me because this might be lengthy. I have being dating a Jehovah witness lady for about two years now.

She is such a wonderful and caring lady. The type that would make sure I am happy at all times.

Around November last year, she found out that I cheat. She even found out that I cheated that same week she came to my house. After much apologies and all, she forgave me and we continued. We kept having issues and reconciling. We finally broke up in February because they don't marry outside their church (I am not even thinking about marriage now) and someone in her church has approached her for marriage.

They are planning the wedding but she still comes to my house and we Bleep each time she comes. Today she came and her husband to be was calling her she refused taking the call. I asked her why is she doing this to the guy, she said even if she gets married tomorrow she will still be fuc...king me. Although I don't know the guy but I feel pity for him




@ OP A CHILD LOOKED BACK AND PLACED A CURSE ON SANGO(god of thunder) AND HE RAN AWAY THINKING THE god WILL KILL HIM THAT SAME DAY BUT HE WAS MISTAKEN. MAY GOD KEEP U ALIVE THEN U WILL UNDERSTAND THE INTERPRETATION. EVEN THE WORD OF GOD IN PROVERBS SAYS

Do not desire her beauty in your heartOr allow her to captivate you with her alluring eyes, 26 For because of a prostitute, a man is reduced to a loaf of bread,But the wife of another man preys on a precious life. 27 Can a man rake fire to his chest and not burn his garments? 28 Or can a man walk on hot coals without scorching his feet? 29 It is the same with anyone having relations with his neighbor’s wife;No one who touches her will go unpunished.


SIR YOUR LIFE MAY NEVER REMAIN THE SAME AGAIN.YOU HAVE DOOMED YOURSELF BECAUSE YOURE SOUNDING UNREPENTANT. WE ARE VERY SORRY FOR YOU....LUSTFUL GENERATION. EEYAHH. HAVE U FORGOTTEN THAT SUCH A WOMAN AND YOUR LUST ARE EXACTLY AS GRAVE? YOU WILL NEVER GET ENOUGH OF SUCH ILLICIT RELATIONS UNTIL YOU LOOSE UR BLESSINGS NOW AND IN THE FUTURE. MATURED AND RESPONSIBLE
MARRIED NAIRALANDERS HERE UNDERSTAND THE GRAVITY OF THE SIN(S) YOURE "ENJOYING". A SQUAIREL IS EATING BANANA AND HE'S SHAKING HIS BUTTOCKS.....ASK RESPONSIBLE EKDERS TO FINISH THE ADAGE FOR U......Pele SHey u hear

Obedinho130:
Don't mind them always looking for what to say against witnesses

amakadlite:
yes. marriage base on this foundation cannot succeed. the earlier the better for her.

amakadlite:
please do this brother a favour, when next she come visiting, try and collect the fiance's number and direct his attention to this thread. even if it means doing it codedly with out exposing your identity. this friend of yours is an infidel and a potential adulterer. she doesn't deserve to be in that marriage.

clockwisereport:
@chige777, is that not faculty of arts unn in ur profile picture?

mayim:
Ok, let me drop my two cents. So you have actually done well by bringing the topic here, I’ve done same in time past and got very useful advices, infact a guy took it upon himself, we exchanged numbers and he mentored next through it all. I sorted out my issues with my then fiancée and we are happily married with a daughter today.
Just like everyone has said, put the said guy in your shoes, it shatters a man’s ego and self esteem when he’s cheated on. Your ex is not a dummy that can’t think for herself, she should have stood her ground and said no to the guy regardless of the pressure from the parents, the day she said yes and accepted, you should have let her go, push her way. The sex is not worth hurting another man over, if tables turn miraculously, I won’t even advise you to marry the girl cos she will cheat on you the same way. It’s an integrity issue for you to give to your word to man while sleeping with another, it’s not excusable at all. Leave the girl and walk away with your head high, she will respect you. God bless

Humanoid01:
I understand how you feel about this. How he went about the matter wasn't wise at all. If they end up getting married and she cheats on him, then he probably deserves it. However, that's not a justification, because it's a union and chances are she can grow to love him with time.

On your part, you got yourself in a more complicated situation: you have a girlfriend and you're cheating on her with a soon to be married woman. If you have a good conscience, you should also consider that. If you care for the lady who's about to be married and put yourself in her fiancé's shoes, then you should advise her to really think about what she wants to get into.

Quit sleeping with her, then tell her not to go into that union if she doesn't love him because it'll only spell hell for them. Don't do it because you want to keep having her around, but because you don't want her to be unhappy.

seunisamidget10:
That's seun nairaland owner.

He creates and backdate fake accounts to post fake stories and generate traffic.
The account was created this month but he altered the date to 2018

I feel pity for the man sha because by now he should be a top class celebrity like Linda Ikeji but for his introverted homosexual and irritating nature.




You are the most foolish person alive. You will put yourself into a very big problem because of stupidity. How can you say what you don't know with much effrontery. See how he is accusing someone of something he knows nothing about

seun = Reile = Crownedrookie = GentRoyal = Aududunine11 = homo!

Mexzie:
Somebody will do exactly the same and MORE for the woman u want to marry and will eventually marry, if u change women, they will all do the same.

If u think its fine, by the name of GOD you will experience same and far worse.

Continue...

broswilli:
She can't continue cheating for very long because she would be caught. She should know that. Jehovah's witnesses are like detectives, once the proposal is made, the man's Jehovah witness friends will become natural detectives. Everywhere she goes it will be as if she is being followed. Every Jehovah's witness eyes will be on her and immediately she enters a suspicious place the message will get to the elders and her husband to be will definitely hear of it.

It is a thing of pride to report people you suspect in JW. So you could even be reported for talking to your female cousin if you are a man seen holding hands and strolling with your female cousin. It will surprise you how the elders will get the information within a flash. JW's sending reports about each other makes being one of them the most difficult life to live especially if you were not born in that organization. The whole environment is really toxic and you an outsider coming in would be wondering how people could live like this.

If you have a bad record in one branch, the elders will write about it and send the record to the branch you will be attending in the event of relocation so many youths tend to be moving about with bad records on their heads. You could be labelled as a rebellious person just for keeping a beard and with such a record everyone starts avoiding you.

This lady doesn't want to be a JW anymore and she is looking for a way out. She may have already been caught when the phone was ringing while at your place. A JW may be standing at your door waiting for the phone to ring so that they can confirm that she was at your place. If she is found guilty of fornicating she could be disfellowshipped. If she is disfellowshipped it means even her parents will not be allowed to speak with her, she would not be allowed to speak with her blood brothers and sisters in the religion.

She knows the consequences and she is preparing herself for it. People like this are called PIMO Physically In Mentally Out, by those that have left the organization.

Mcslize:
You are not taking strict measures. You are still enjoying the sex she is giving you that's why you are still allowing her to come over to bleep you. What stops you from advising her and preaching to her about how bad it is to commit fornication let alone adultry in a matrimonial home?

Because right now she is bent on fvcking you even after getting married to that naive innocent man who believes that all jw ladies don't fvxk except they are married and always go out to preach. A girl can be going out to preach and still pass there to bleep a guy outside. Very terrible thing to do.

Stop the girl from coming to your house. So all these she is doing with you for two years now, she has not been caught by other witness members or are the parents not aware their daughter is fvcking outside?

Do the parents know you? Are they aware their daughter is having illicit affair with you?

The more reason you need to reset that babe brain cuz she feels no single guilt about committing adultery in the future with you if she finally marry that innocent man.

Priz20:
In my opinion,the girl is in love with you and you like her too cos you claim to have met her before him.
She should break up with the guy and date you.
If she marries the other guy the marriage will be a loveless one and you will wish she wasn't because you mentioned she is a nice girl to you.
Just date her and marry her instead.

donvoice:
I have once been in your shoes. I had a friend who is a JW lady. She's pretty, lovely, romantic, hardworking, industrious, caring and loving. She's a rare of her kind. She is a good home maker and the dream of every young and responsible man.

I love and cared for her. I wanted more than s*x. I wanted relationship and marriage but she declined. I even wanted to convert her faith but she said NO. She said I should become a JW only if I wish but shouldn't be because of her. I later found out she had a guy who is a JW too, so I backed out of relationship talk and enjoyed the f**k while it lasted.

After I got married, she still wanted us to continue. She begged for it passionately but I told her I mean the vow I shared with my wife on the altar. It pains her and thought she should have been the one I married but it's a pity it's too late.

She's my daughter's godmother and my wife's tailor but I never tell my wife what happened between us in the past.

zexy2030:
everyone is judging the guy but sex is consentual, she is the eve giving you forbidden fruit to eat then when ur eyes are open you will now find it so difficult to marry for the Fear of what u have done to others.

Solution: sit her down, tell her all these years u have been dating her, u never loved her, u have been telling her lies and that her pussy is so good but u have never thought of marrying her, then watch her reaction. say more like' if we continue fvcking each other, I'm just enjoying myself, I don't have any feeling for you.' show her a picture of who u really want in ur life(/even if its fake). see how she will fold, and leave ur house crying, leave to cry and never say sorry. she will leave with a broken heart, I'm just scared she might be the suicidal type. But I'm sure she won't come again.
If u continue if when she is married, the day u r caught, I'm sorry, we will see ur full nude online. JW members are diabolical and investigate things too deeply.

Ugaboy:
are u ok, it a negative energy to strt checking ur profile...someone who has no regard for himself, will neva see wat hurt anoda man...congratulation u have earn the award of nobel fool

25tolife:
you looklike jehova witness even in ur dp.

merieam16:
must u name d church? i guess u need 2 grow up. mind u am nt frm dat church buh isn't right

Ugaboy:
and he has gotten the attention

joviegghead:
This guy ehn. You sound like a typical Lagos boy.

But seriously you for give us description of this girl wey make you no wan let go. Na so she fine reach.

BTW, when is she getting married. I think once you know the date of her marriage, pray to God to give you the strength to resist her.

MiaB:
All I have to say is thunder fire both of you

Rilangelo:
Bro truth is, you are feeling on top of d world ryt now; but d tin is, how would u feel if ur in dat oda guys position? Btw, dat ur gurl has got no ambition in life no disrespect!

BiggyB242:
No leave am, you better be careful not all men joke with this. Non go die for nothing, some men will just kill you for sleeping with their wife.

placeofallure:
Meaning?

Educonomist:
It state that when a lady had awesome/mind blowing sex with a guy in a romantic relationship , during friendship or had a one night stand, there is a high probability that she may go back to the same guy irrespective of if she's married or not, the kind of heartbreak/breakup she had with him.
A pussy once banged can also be re-bang

jmaxjohn:
Guy reply my mail. We should talk

Educonomist:
Okafor's Law

placeofallure:
Does your girlfriend know you're still sleeping with her?

If she knew, is she in support?

Does your girlfriend has an ex?

If she does, are they in good (f*"king) terms?

If they are, are you in support?
K
These questions, when answered in truthfulness, will help you to act decisively.

Quality20:
Did u say d lady is JW? I really don't know them to be into illicit things like this sha. Anyway op, why don't u just start attending their church so u can b eligible to marry her?