Philip4564:
thanks bro..I have move on since then

Good 4 u

Philip4564:
why do people always behave like this that was how I helped a guy in my 100l when in school I accommodated him and when I traveled home before I came back he went away with all my belongings. Till today I've not set my eyes on him.

Chai. Sorry

Homeandaway:
I helped a colleague at work. housed and fed her because her residence was far and commuting to and fro work daily was difficult and costly for her. She robbed me blind. My laptop, Iphone and money. Laptop had all my lifeswork, manuscripts, soundtracKs, screenplays, travel documents and saved passwords. She claimed to be ill on a workday, so she stayed home while i went to work. The rest is history.

Never take a work colleague, stranger, acquaintance, church member or even friend to your house. it never ends well.

Keep your relationships at arms length. Trust NOBODY

Did you Bleep her or not...

I understand the helping part

DrObum:
You be thief?

No legit business would give you that without high risk.

If you mistakenly contact these guys advertising their numbers here, your money don loss.

If nah like dat e take easy to grow money...
Banks for no dey give loans

shawante:
You left your money with your mom... Guys should we tell him

Money wey him mama don take feed family

yorubakid:

I think it's in Nsukka GRA. Formal government field..

Okay

I thought as much...

That's nice

akaahs:

Honestly, the painful thing she insists on no sex till marriage during courtship. Me wey ordinary won't accept that crap but found myself obeying like mumu. All my single hood I have never beg for sex but found myself begging in marriage oooo. Sha I told her I never beg her for sex again, she better up her game or deal with the consequences.

Stay strong bro

Sha apply wisdom and thread carefully.

Dsalvo:
https://www.alimoshotoday.com/alimosho-news/lagos-residents-will-pay-monthly-rent-to-landlords-as-from-2022-says-sanwo-olu-4846253

Becus nah him build the house abi


Instead of the state to build more public housing schemes...

Kuriosmynd:
As my policy,i don't buy food, sweet or anything for people's kids.
.
Even my sister's kid, I hardly play with them, except on few occasions when everyone is there and I try to be funny with them...
.
U will hardly see me and a kid playing all alone...like don't I have other things to occupy my mind? I don't see kids as play partner....Maybe that's why till today I don't feel strongly about kids..
No time for unnecessary palaver..

Omo good for you oOoOO ...

These days nobody know where wahala go from come...

Ur innocent gestures can be misinterpreted these days....

AmazingELixir:


Op sorry ooo! Don't hate your sister because of that...I'm sure it is her husband that put her upto the plot and she can't go against her husband's wish also that presents her the opportunity to prove her brother You ain't no paedophile.

Trust she is proud and glad you passed the test if that is what it is.

Just try to limit your show of physical affection towards the kids and also reduce the frequency of your visit to their house....don't be quick to forget all the wonderful things she's done for you when you were little.

Aa for the husband he is just trying to protect his children ...parents can't be too careful these days

May the wife starve the husband of sex soon




Op say amen

Reason I don't get personal with people's kids...

I love Dem from afar...

No brother carry me on ur lap and shiiii


They can hate me all they can...

I no dey baby sit any body pikin ..

To avoid stories that touch...

Denvacandy:
This is a true life story that has made me to hate my sister so much and never to have anything friendly with peoples kids again.

Shes my elder sister and she has a daughter of 5 year old, have always love little kids, maybe because i am the last born tho. so everytime i show love and care for her kids, not knowing shes thinking negative always.

She stays in abeokuta and i also reside in abeokuta, most times i do go to thier house every saturday and when i get there, i dont really interact with elderly people, i can play with kids from morning till night, eventually.

On this particular day, i informed her i was coming and offcourse she know i will get something for the kids. i got there around noon and when i greeted everybody, i noticed she and her husband left for the room and also sent the other girl staying with them outside and she now asked the little girl to come it beside me and everybody left the parlour expect me and the little girl.

My mind was actually not there because over my dead body will i be sexually attracted to a little kid, when i no mad.

So they have actually planned all this just to see if i have somethin in secret, the little girl started questioning me allot, asking various question just for me to give her attention, but i just stay focus watching the television till some of them started coming outside to the parlour.

Immediately i left, i recall that scenario and i was so devastated and sad, like this woman is my blood sister, all the love i show for them are geniue from my heart and i will never have any negative shit towards them.

To be honest with you guhs, the main reason why i care so much about this family is because of how she took care of me when i was little, i still remember everything, now me trying to show the love back, this is all the bullshit i got.


To actually confirm this matter, i posted something similar on my whatsapp group, blocking all my contact from seeing it except the husband, and he responded by posting something on his status ( Trust nobody ).

Anytime i remember i always thank God for not putting me to shame, like what could ave happen if the devil use my enemy or something, its just to sad this is a family member.

akaahs:

The same thing I used on my wife.
We are just 7months into tha marriage, but her attitude towards sex is something else even as we are trying to conceive ooo.
The last issue happened last month, I traveled to see her because we aren't in the same place. On getting there, she denied me sex claiming she is tired, I no struggle with her, early in the morning I left back to my base.
Come see messages, begging and pleading.
This isn't the first, second or even the fifth she's acting in that manner.
I'm just fed up, though she has promised to change.

Baba I feel ur pain....

The mata just tire me


Pastor said we should abstain from premarital sex

That sex is sweet when you are married

Bla bla bla...

See us now

If only I could turn back the hands of time


I would have bleeped some more



They lied to us obviously...

Nice to win again

Our crazy December continues

In Klopp we trust

Stevie nah coach no doubt

Make him help us put nail for other contenders title hopes

Female cousins and sex though

Why always them

awesonjr:
good morning nairaland

I'll make it quickly as I can and I really need advice on what to do about it,
there is this my cousin my mum bring from village in 2018 she lost her mum and her dad is always busy don't have too much time for her and her junior once, and she's the first born after her mum burial she decided to follow my mum to the city and my elder sister in the city help her register for senior WAEC after her Senior WAEC her result was good so she applied for school of Nurse she gained admission there letter on my mum take her to where she can learn sowing after school while me am a art printer it all started if she have an assignment in school about Drawing Of Women Private Part Illustrations & Clip Art cause I'm good in drawing cause is my job from there she'll start telling me about women Virginia how women give birth, how sperm from babies I was lyk because u dey go school of Nurse now we no go here word again, so recently in 2021 anytime my mum is on night duty at her working place me & this my cousin sister are the only one left home, (note I also lost my dad in 2016) if I came back from work I use to branch my guys place gist play PS and come home late lyk 10:30pm some times to 12 anytime I came I always meet her sleepless and if I ask way u never sleep by this time she tell me I'm the one she's waiting for before she can sleep I was lyk are you a babe. so recently my mum travel for her senior sister's son wedding since last 2 week, anytime am sleeping I notice that my cousin will start touching my dick, I'll quickly remove her hand and turn on light she well now pretend as if she is sleeping sometimes she well come to where I'm sleeping that she can't sleep alone in her room that she lyk to join me I thought she's joking until she climb my bed I now went to sleep in the parlour that is day before yesterday this happen so yesterday she was watching TV I'm also eating around 8:30pm after I finish eating I tell her I wanted to see my friend that I'll be back 11:00 or 12 she now say OK she'll be waiting for me I say no go and sleep but leave the door open so I leave after gist charts with my friend I went back home I meet my cousin necked I shouted at her that what's wrong with her are u OK at all before she now went nd put on her Nyt wear so I went to my room around 2:45 or 3:00 she came start robbing my dick I weak up immediately and see her half necked she now say why I'm I behalving as if I don't what to do she can't take this my behavior I must sex her this Nyt I was confused throughout yesterday Nyt can't even sleep I don't now what to do should I report her to my mum if she comes back or I should tell my elder sister
I really need ur advice pls
and she's just 22 year old while I'm 25 pls help

sofiscatedmoron:

At whay age should a man stop bleeping his wife?
Any idea?

Prostate cancer is real


Bang till thy kingdom come and thy will be done

mekuso89:
Ok guys I caught this (Ukpara in igbo) resting on my Shirt I hunged outside

So I decided to snap it and upload here.

in Igbo we called it ukpara

What do you people call it in your various languages And also the correct English name for it?.

Abutanta

tpapi:
once they just give birth like this , they suddenly change and loose interest in sex

But why is this so

Yomboy4ever:



I was in a public bus just last week a hardworking guy carrying somethings he bought from owode onirin was saying even after all this whala now and later I get home ask for sex to cool my self down my wife still say no she is tired guess what all the men inside d bus said almost the same thing this guy was complaining about..
Its so rampant among those ladies from 1980 down �
Most Nigeria ladies of now a days don't actually deserve the faithful husband they get..
Funny we still have good guyz who and not ready to cheat once they get d desired sex at home..
I am a living witness mk I just keep quiet ni

Nawah oooooo


Same women complain of men cheating..

But nah Dem dey first withhold sex ooooo

Baba

I no fit envy you

U are really trying

emmaodet:




Association of grumbling married man.
Most women are selfish, we are the ones to put a cap on their greediness.
Let me share a personal experience with you.
Few years back, I took a loan and did a business but failed. So I was struggling financially- to pay back loan, supporting family,other bills etc.
In all these, my wife even though do say she understands what am passing through and will manage, in reality she wasn’t.
Saying one things and acting another way are two different things.
During this trying time, I was having challenges with my car mechanically so I decided to sell and downgrade to clean Nigerian used pending when things come up. At least, we still have a ride to move around - go to church etc. BUT in all these, she was insisting we buy a tokunbo car worth 2.5m then when I planned 1m for the Nigerian used car.
She started complaining that we should buy quality things and not just managing blah blah blah.
At a point, I became furious and fired back that - she is not even ashamed of herself.
I have loans hanging on my neck to clear in millions, we are still staying in a rented apartment and yet to finish our house- she is not worried about that.
She is jobless and not worried about that. If she is really thinking, is she not the one to say ha my husband, don’t spend this 2.5m on a car when we are struggling. Use 1m on car while I take the remaining to setup a biz for myself to run and support the house too.
She is not even worried about that but how to use a good car.
How I pay off my loan is not our problem, I should solve that by myself. That is what her action says despite what she says with her mouth.
She pushed me but I pushed back and reminded her that she is a burden to me rather than asset.
Being jobless is one thing, I can manage that But having a big mouth and a big eye for big things is another totally and that I won’t take it.

Klass99:
This has got to be one of the most hilarious threads I have come across this year, the comments are so amusing.

Heaven knew what they were doing when they created us, male and female. The way you married men are honest about your realities is very interesting.

Going back to comments. I can't remember which page I stopped at again

@ Chigomiced, your narrative has me laughing out loud like crazy. Please how old is your marriage?

I once told a friend that, the only time I see married women praying hard and religiously, is when their marriages are in trouble or they perceive it, to be in trouble. And their prayers are always about the other woman (side chic) not taking their man. Your story just confirmed what I said.

Enjoy urself madear....

My marriage is as old as man

Lorayne:

Since you re now having good sex with your wife, are you still cheating?

You want to find my trouble bah

Waste of 5 years plus

Stupid course

9-5 awaits you Sha....

Practical knowledge my foot

Op see solution to your problem

chigomiced:



emmaodet:


Lol

My wife started trying this bullshit with me early this year. Our sex life dropped to the lowest low.
It became very boring, predictable, same old missionary style, unromantic.
Tried spicing things up but it seems the more I try, the lesser she became interested.
It was now looking as if she is using the sex thing to manipulate me.
Asked her why she is not always in the mood despite my romance and efforts to spice things up and it is now looking as if I am the one that likes sex too much. She quickly placed the pressure more on me by saying it is my duty to try as much as possible to bring her into the mood. Can you imagine? Despite all my efforts, it is still my fault.
I know a lot of Hot simps will say I no dey do am we’ll say another man go knack my wife take her to cloud 9.
I kuku ma drop everything thing. Lost interest in her. She became a turn off to me.
I traveled for 2 months, came back home and will still travel another 3 months after staying 1 month at home yet you are not sexually excited seeing me and still getting turn off.
From January this year to may, we only touched ourselves just 4 boring times. When I came back hom July, didn’t even noticed her. I don’t even get romanced or my thing getting raised seeing her.
She became worried that it seems am seeing someone outside. En en and so?
Tbh, I was seeing a lady who was doing all her best to have me. Mind blowing sex while my wife they do like log of wood for house.
Na person wey no get option woman fit dey manipulate with sex.
After some time, she started crying that I don’t love her again blah blah blah. Asked what is the problem and I told her point blank I have lost interest in her that I don’t find her romantic anymore.
She knew the house is on fire. Started praying midnight that holy ghost should destroy every woman that wants to destroy her home, distracting her hubby attention blah blah blah.
To cut long story short, our sex life changed after then, became highly erotic with different innovations and then deep down me, I started thinking if this is the same woman who had been acting soooo Boring months ago?

Gaggii:
I must confess, the only challenge in my marriage is sex, I was not a masturbator as a bachelor because I have girls around me, if one no come another go show, but as a married man have turned a chronic masturbator because my wife is always complaining that she is tired.

I would gotten a side chick, but I had a second thought because the consequence will affect my home financially.

Am just so fed up.

If you are married and in same shoe, how have you being coping

emmaodet:


Lol

My wife started trying this bullshit with me early this year. Our sex life dropped to the lowest low.
It became very boring, predictable, same old missionary style, unromantic.
Tried spicing things up but it seems the more I try, the lesser she became interested.
It was now looking as if she is using the sex thing to manipulate me.
Asked her why she is not always in the mood despite my romance and efforts to spice things up and it is now looking as if I am the one that likes sex too much. She quickly placed the pressure more on me by saying it is my duty to try as much as possible to bring her into the mood. Can you imagine? Despite all my efforts, it is still my fault.
I know a lot of Hot simps will say I no dey do am we’ll say another man go knack my wife take her to cloud 9.
I kuku ma drop everything thing. Lost interest in her. She became a turn off to me.
I traveled for 2 months, came back home and will still travel another 3 months after staying 1 month at home yet you are not sexually excited seeing me and still getting turn off.
From January this year to may, we only touched ourselves just 4 boring times. When I came back hom July, didn’t even noticed her. I don’t even get romanced or my thing getting raised seeing her.
She became worried that it seems am seeing someone outside. En en and so?
Tbh, I was seeing a lady who was doing all her best to have me. Mind blowing sex while my wife they do like log of wood for house.
Na person wey no get option woman fit dey manipulate with sex.
After some time, she started crying that I don’t love her again blah blah blah. Asked what is the problem and I told her point blank I have lost interest in her that I don’t find her romantic anymore.
She knew the house is on fire. Started praying midnight that holy ghost should destroy every woman that wants to destroy her home, distracting her hubby attention blah blah blah.
To cut long story short, our sex life changed after then, became highly erotic with different innovations and then deep down me, I started thinking if this is the same woman who had been acting soooo Boring months ago?

okoroemeka:
sex is adult entertainment,what do you want us to entertain yourself with,I hardly watch DStv these days,I don't play video games,I just manage small entertainment on my phone,the main adult show is sex,I don't know what you are talking about again

Gaggii:
I must confess, the only challenge in my marriage is sex, I was not a masturbator as a bachelor because I have girls around me, if one no come another go show, but as a married man have turned a chronic masturbator because my wife is always complaining that she is tired.

I would gotten a side chick, but I had a second thought because the consequence will affect my home financially.

Am just so fed up.

If you are married and in same shoe, how have you being coping

Bring up issue of you wanting to take a second wife since ur needs are not being met...

Tell her the marriage is not fulfilling your needs

Why is it that it is the man that is suppose to up his game in the bedroom...

The woman wey dey deny Op sex is being left Scott Free...

I think both of Dem needs another round of marriage counseling class...


If your husband no dey Bleep u well
You as a woman should up ur game and Bleep him like u want to be bleeped in the first place..

Show him how u want to be bleeped...

Enough of this mind games

Afcon 2022

maynation:

Where are they going January and how many matches will they miss?

mvem:
exactly...that's why he played both Mane and Salah

I forget to mention that the opposing needs to be shown respect too


Even the fans (both home and away fans)

Imagine traveling just to goan watch under 21lfc play Milan senior team

mvem:
they both needed rest. I think it was already planned they will play for 60mins

I thought so too


But meanwhile this is the UCL... U gatz show the competition respect and field a góod fraction of senior team players

There might be some truth to what you are trying to say but still no player is bigger than the club ... without Liverpool/klopp Salah and Mané are nothing but average players.


Reminds me of a certain time both players where stingy on the pitch...

Both tied on 25 epl goals in that particular season..

Mané needs to work harder and use his chances well... He has been VeRY wasteful for a long time now while Salah is the kopites favorite

Gbest90:

I hope so too.

But it continually seems Klopp is having issues with controlling those two.

Klopp has had problems with Salah and Mane in the past for substituting one of them and leaving the other.

And scared of any trouble this time, he stylishly removed the 2 of them at the same time against Milan. Which left Liverpool having to play Neco. Minamino and Chamberlain as front three at some point in the game.

Let's hope am wrong though.

Ihutomi:
the only English team in history to win all 6matches in a group stage in England. Liverpool YNWA.

Let's talk about 6 baby

Only English team with 6 ucl titles