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kommon, to anyone taking it personal it's obvious she's mimicking the other lame dude that slapped person pipkin cos of eggs ![]()
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Not only family, opinions of total strangers...you see them on NL asking ridiculous questions Should i marry a single mom Should i marry this guy that hit me once Should i marry this girl that is greedy and materialistic Should i marry this muslim guy yadayadayada, sorting opinions is good but we forget that most times the onus is on us to decide our future ![]() |
lol, i have stopped bothering myself with Nigerians that are "all knowing" they believe everything is tied to media propaganda, they have not sorted out their immediate governance problem still they chook eyes and mouth into that of countries they know little or nothing about, supporting Trump? lmao the height of low self esteem, well if some ppl can back this APC regime with their blood & heart what do you expect? |
Earthbound:iwatchsouthparkonline.com That would be nice @ d hookup thing... |
itsmeurLady:Really? that's so cool...tell me a favorite line...one of mine was when Mr Hanky during a christmas holiday episode said... "i hope you guys are enjoying the musical? well if you aren't you can suck my tiny little balls" ![]()
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Earthbound:True, not everyone gets it, luckily my brother does and we looove it, also back then in school just one guy could wrap his head around it, i watch offline and online...watching it right now ![]()
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kiki...Amurikans can sha do funny things ... just watch Southpark with the extreme Trump parodies then you would understand the true meaning of "free speech"
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Lol, Ekiti get ready for an "excuse ridden 4 years" time to chop, clean mouth, fake probes and do nothing for your ppl... |
lol at ppl saying "see her black nya.sh" is it supposed to be green? when she is not african hulk, abi una own nah pink?
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Egbon Uber was trying to force Drakes hand in hopes of slamming a million dollar lawsuit, but Champagne papa no even send am
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lol, bunch of frustrated trolls, i think she is even loosing weight gradually at least compared to her ghetto bred premier photos she looks way better, they won't see the good to compliment on ![]() |
Story...no one makes another an addict, we are all in charge of our destinies, like Whitney and Bobby, Whitney never recovered while Bob moved on from his addiction...may the good Lord restore the ex-hubby |
Japan issa country enshrined with beautiful respectable and honorable traditions, not like ... |
wonderful game of soccer...best world cup ever (i followed well) ![]() Up France...Up Croatia |
I am a swinging pendulum in this beautiful action packed game... France-80% blacks + humble mbappe Croatia-epitome of hard work and fearless Any which way i am good FYI- Croatia loosing same way they beat us ![]() |
ADEMOLA144:Lol, abi, with my fake Christian Louboutin studded sandals ![]() |
just watched it now, two deadbeat girls with wack as* accent...mtcheew |
why Saidi chook head like dat? nah photobomb ![]() |
wow, never heard Jazzy been so angry...#smallgirlswithtinygods ![]() |
4601CE:#shoo |
4601CE:Do i know you? have we ever had any discussion or banter about the polls? i am far away chilling and rooting for the Academian don't jump into my mentions to spit nasty aii |
Johnnyessence:i hope so to, but what of all this APC-209 PDP- 62 polls, fake? |
lol, if APC wins then i know we are the architects of our problems because i see nothing viable Fayemi can offer than to feed fat from where he stopped and use bravado and federal might to oppress his people, anyways good luck Ekiti |
Hardlife:Bless you to sir...#bigups |
Hardlife:uwlc dearie, hold on to those words, God would see you through. |
Irenenwaka:Enrolled in a gym, at least 2hrs strong workout daily, eliminated sugar, flour and junk, ignored the lack of progress at times and kept at it, i was coming from a terrible place and had a goal to look forward to, before i knew it i got my groove back. |
https://www.nairaland.com/4605678/addiction-anonymous-it-only-get#69189092 Stay strong OP, everyone makes mistakes but to realize and try to do better is all that matters |
I leave you with the serenity words of AA that says "God grant us the serenity to accept the things we cannot change, courage to change the things we can, and wisdom to know the difference." God bless everyone. |
Trust me i know it's not easy but it's doable, i should know because i was that girl. |
It was hard but she persevered, she took over her dads dormant business while pursuing her programming, she made new friends, she accepted some old friends back who where worth it but stayed away from any bad influence, today she is 26yrs, weighing 69kg, great friends, wonderful loving personal life, has 2 PR's to choose from, a blazing career and business, God restored to her all that the locust had eaten, he can do the same for anyone struggling, we live in a country where everything is deemed "spiritual problems" that needs deliverance but sometimes we just need a listening ear and a helping hand, and developed countries have AA meetings to help with a community of like situations but if you don't have anyone to help you on the journey remember you have God and he will never let you down. |
She was ready to change, PS- This wasn't the first trial on breaking the chains of addiction but it was going to be the last. She deleted all betting avenues, cut of from all betting friends, enrolled in a gym, resigned from work to focus on her IT passion, revamped her dads office to make use off, cleared her mind of all hurts retained towards her ex, forgave everyone who ever laughed at her when she was down, forgave everyone who couldn't understand the pain and finally let go of her shame & let go of her many losses, she was done hiding. |
As the story unfolded her addiction grew to include food, yes food addiction is real and a thing, now she was in a more terrible place, she blew up to 120kg, lost her savings, ate away her salary, cut of from her friends, lost the respect of everyone who once held her in high esteem, worse off her bf of many years was so irritated by her weight gain and seemingly unpurposeful life and left, never even tried to walk in her shoes or offer any kind of emotional help((good riddance), all these happened within a space of 3yrs 10mths and 3weeks, she was about turning 25 and she realized that no one can help her except her, her destiny is in Gods hands, and the most bitter truth that she would NEVER become rich via gambling. |




