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Isn't this supposed to be in the 'jokes' section?

First, Someone asked what your friend(or you) is doing with two women and that's a very good kweshion.

Second, your topic is kinda different from your post. In your topic, you sounded like only one of both partners loves the other while your post says both love themselves but to varying degrees.

Third, You did not back your post with reasons so how can we back our choices with reasons? Your friend must have different reasons for loving the two women but might not have the right reasons for loving one of them. So if u can produce reasons, one can easily say which of the two ladies is better, love aside.

But if I'm to directly answer your question based on the minimal information you provided, I'll say your friend should marry the person he loves most.

Oya here are my reasons:
1) Love, cannot really be measured. You may think you love someone more than s/he loves you while the person is thinking the opposite. In relationships, you can never tell who loves who more. You can only tell when someone loves you more(because you already know how you feel toward the person), but you can't be so certain that you love a person more.

2)Selfishness and self-centeredness is not good. Choosing someone who loves you more than you love them, as a reason to marry him/her, portrays both. It means you think of yourself more than u think about him/her. If the person loves you well enough that you think you can spend the rest of your life with him/her, then forget who loves more. The 'more' there na jara

#MY VIEW

@Mr knowitall, indeed, u know it all.

@prinparix, I join my hands for a stronger force so he can go deep down into the river.

@Op, This your post should serve as a good lesson to everyone, men and women alike. Maturity is not only of age. There is also maturity of the mind. Its not like its too early for a woman to marry at 24. A woman of 24 is of marriageable age, but is she ready in all ramifications? Your wife might be old enough to marry but deep inside her, she still misses her 'girls' gatherings and gists. Remember, most of her friends are likely to be of same or lesser age and may not be able to give her the right advices as a married woman. she's probably still clinging to her teenage life
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Understanding the unspoken words(I.e, expressions) in your partner is very important in relationships, so also is putting the feelings of your partner ahead of your own. Your wife probably doesn't know all these.

I suggest you sit her down and talk to her. You can't keep hiding in your room or running away from your house for ever na! till when? I also suggest you don't let her know you're attracted to her friends as a reason for wanting them to stay away. That might reduce her trust in you. Try to make her understand that as a married woman, she should learn to act as one, cut down on some childish things and learn to consider your feelings.

Above all, you need to be patient. She may not understand now, but with time, she will. Be patient with her and pls, zip up. U said your wife is fine and 'shapely' as u like, then what more can u possibly ask for?

JMOI: Could, would and should are in the past tense, while the other ones are in the present tense. Also, the first group can be used when you want to do something, but you are not sure if you will be able to do it.

Op, I must commend your thread. Its really educating. But if 'can', 'will' and 'shall' are present tenses, then which ones are future?

Na wa o! So many lecturers in the room!
some peeps be like: (@Op, don't go correcting me here o, this is slogan!)
'Op, what's this/that', 'op, is this right/wrong', etc

I don't understand some people sometimes. Most of you have been harbouring these misconceptions for long, yet, you can't take a minute to ask google and you sleep and wake on NL? I guess you're waiting for mr OP the lecturer to come and clear it all, whom as it seems, got more than he asked for when he said; "ask your questions".

Even some of the so called lecturers are giving us 'heavy blunders'. Some people claim they can't take time to go through the 'corrections', yet, the single comment they posted has the same error they 'don't have time to read' and correct.

Ok na. Me sef na learner. I'm also learning. Oya make una pieces my post for errors. I want corrections biko. I'm not too old for it

Pls, there's this mexican tv series I watched last year. Didn't follow it up to the end and I missed alota episodes. Can someone pls help remind me the name and possibly a good link where I can download it to my MOBILE??

Hmmmm, all these people with this weird church appointment. I don't get all these stories o. Abeg, u people should not let the desperation and frustration of joblessness becloud your senses of reasoning o. I don't see any reason why someone should not know what he/she is getting into before u get in. What if you're being employed to do something bad? You can never know unless u get deep in and then it might be late to pull out cos your life might be at risk!

Why in hell are they hiding the jobs? If it is legal, they should be bold enough to come clean with what they do! I'm not asking anyone not to go o, but be careful. The world is bad o.

#MY VIEW

DankemzI: So After graduating from secondary school, what happens? Is the scholarship till tertiary level?? Probably Uniben?. Nigeria has a long way to go... When in the western world CIA,FBI,SWAT etc, will be rushing to train,educate,recruit de boy

True. And when they(CIA, FBI, etc) succeed in training him well with a good job and good living conditions in their country, making the boy have no reason to want to return home, then, nigeria will start complaining of brain drain.

@truth4mean, I think the reason behind the boy's detention and constant security scrutiny is to determine if he has negative motives or accomplices, so don't sweat it. Its being over stressed already.

Tolexander: This is the problem about nigeria.

A boy stayed hidden in a plane tyre for minutes and was docked.

It is very obvious this guy will be good in airforce or as an air detective and should be trained in those lines

Oga, so because YOU THINK he will be good at some airline job, the boy should be trained in the line and then forfeit his dreams if its not in that line? Clap for yourself.

Ogarj: Almighty n Ever Livin GOD,d Creator of Heaven n Earth we tnk thee 4 d past week,we Glorify thy name 4 d Testimony(ies) given. Recieve d Thanks giving of our Hrts n Bless us all wit Uncommon Favours,guide us,direct our thoughts,kip us out of Temptation and Bless our Hustle dis Week n 4eva. In JESUS Mighty n Precious Name we Pray. AMEN

AMEN!!!!!!

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ezejohnson: i wrote the aptitude test for the scholarship, scored 67, but never had from them since then, thought they have selected those they needed.

I'm asking of job aptitude test not scholarship

Is it that NITDA has not recruited yet or no one here has any information on the job aptitude test they conducted some months back? Y no update yet? Or was a new thread created and I missed it?