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dolphinife: Actually, I wanted to believe that she deliberately concur to the wishes of the man she said rape her. But on the other hands, I wanted to knw why she's also head-bent in telling me.
That's where I was confused

You know this girl well. If she's lying, you'll know. In all sincerity, if her story is true, (which I doubt), then she feels bad about it and just wants to confess, free her mind and avoid you hearing it from a third party(which could be worse).

But as I don't think she's telling the truth, I insist you sit her down and ask her. Meanwhile, did you eventually go to the hospital? If no, why didn't you? Come to think of it, why did she tell you he used a condom? Was she trying to avoid going to see a doc? I hope she's not pregnant for another man and is trying to put it on you. Better go talk to her asap

Exponental: why is she not @ fault? tissue is something u can get from a mallam. Does she need to drive before she gets one? Why did she follow him in d first place. I fault her decisions.......left party, enter car, enter house, enter room. If any lady chooses to follow a guy to a private place, it's either she wants something private or she wants to give something private.

Hmmmmm. You've got a point there.
@OP, How come the guy had his way when she said she was menstruating? And if she really was going for tissue paper, why did she abandon her quest to follow a man to some place? And what exactly was her reason for following the guy? She never said she was bored! Yes. Agreed. This kind of 'follow home' ish happens at parties but she's just using the period/tissue paper story to cover up. She followed the guy on her own and she wasn't threatened in any way. That se.x was consensual.

But if you guys are really serious and you have a heart to forgive, know it that she regrets her actions and can't seem to live with herself having such in mind. Thus, she opens up to you. If you press further, she'll tell you the truth. For all I know, if this your story is real, your girl hasn't told you the complete truth.

RedBenson: What abt fuccking or sucking boobs in a well decorated eatery u invited the girl to even though those around wil stil see u pple? I've done it b4!

That's PDM - Public Display of Madness

[quote author=Atheist:-D]What about if you are shy?[/quote]I think I covered that in my post above. If you're shy about it, its cool for you not to practice it. Its not a must, its just a way to spice up your relationship. There are a thousand other ways to do that if you're not up for PDAs

Yoshiyuki: It's not surprising that most of the people on this thread that love PDA are females.....

Yeah. That's because men tend to deny their feelings. Women express theirs more and are more affectionate than men. Also, any one who truly fancies PDA, is not shy, yet can't practice it, most times turns out to be a cheat. It often turns out to be that they don't wanna be seen by their 'backyard' partners.

Many might say they don't want to be seen by their bosses, but if its not an official matter, not official hours, your boss should know you have a life outside office. For the people who may want to quote their pastors, even at wedding, couples kiss in public so no think am. If you really love your partner, kissing him or her in public won't be a big deal.

So long as its not overdone, I'm game, anytime, anywhere (except in the church)

Seun: The moderators will help me to find out whether or not the poster of that thread was offended by the home page feature and title change. If so, we will apologise and re-examine our home page posting procedures to ensure that we can continue our aggressively pro-traffic policy without unnecessarily hurting people. @mods: please let me know whether or not the OP was offended.

With all due respect Mr Seun, I do not agree with you. If a topic is not grammatically incorrect and/or does not violate your 21 commandments, I see no reason for a rephrase. However, I agree that some topics can be eye catchers on the front page, thus the need to make it draw more attention, but care should be taken when re-phrasing a line of sentence as it tends to change in meaning once it is rephrased.

Someone did that on a thread I created and gave it an entirely different meaning. Re-phrasing a sentence might be good for the front page, but remember, chances are that the meaning may not be the same.

But then, what to do is your decision, but I'll suggest that whether or not rephrasing a topic offends the original poster, an email should be sent to that poster in apology to any harm the changes may have caused. To me, its an insult to someone's intelligence, especially if the topic is grammatically correct.

Hmmmmm..... Abeg, if you feel Igbo girls are very expensive to marry, try SHUWA girls.

Please, if you don't have money to marry expensively, then don't date an expensive girl. Keep the hell off!! What the hell are all these about? The thread has turned into a tribal war. Funny enough, most of the comments here be like: 'my friend married...', 'my uncle married...', 'I heard of...'; none is is from personal experience.

If you have the cash, you see a woman to marry (with all the qualities you want) and she's from any of the states you see as having expensive bride prices, then don't marry her. Go for some cheap girl, well-bred or not. Or better still, go to a country where a woman will pay you dowry instead!!!!

Your friends tell you some hyped story about the bride price they paid, just to make you see them as rich, u come her to disturb front page.

Good things don't come cheap abeg. If you don't have the money, then BOUNCE!!!! If the women wanna stay at home for ever, its not nobody's effing business!

I'm not supporting some outrageous amount some people charge, but I think that Men who know what they want, also know how to get it. So If any man thinks there's no justification as to why some people have their bride prices as high, then you can as well, marry your sister!
#or better still, try being gay.

vivian chinaza: First of all, I said drink "responsibly." Heavy drinking is not good for anybody, be it a man or a woman.

But saying ladies that take alcohol are not taken seriously? It brings me to this question, what planet are you from? Cos your statement is quite fallacious.


P.S. I don't drink, have never tasted anything alcoholic, and I don't have a reason for that.

So why don't you take it if you think its ok? I'm sure you're above 18years of age

vivian chinaza: I don't see anything wrong with a lady taking alcohol, whether in private or public provided she is above 18 and drinks responsibly.

Oowk!

190: Da hell is all these rules listed b4 postings
Since wen all these ones start

Anyway I can't tolerate a woman who drinks beer
She has to strictly be on spirits like hennesy, JD or strictly creams like myself
She must not take it daily - I can only tolerate her drink in d club wif me where softdrinks aren't that available in essence I don't think I'l fancy my woman drinking (esp beer) I know Nigerian women are the largest consumers of beer worldwide - BBC report 1948

Seun is at it again.

Hmmmmm. Ok o

Ok. This issue has been bugging me for a while. I don't quite want to 'state' my view and make people agree or disagree, I want varying views; more like a discussion from mature-preferably male- minds.

I'm posting this because Sometimes, people do the wrong things thinking they're right. Most men will not tell a woman how they feel about it, but deep down in them, they know better. Most will even go as far as giving her any drink she wants(so long as she can take it), but when it comes to the real deal, they'll write the woman off

Guys, What are your views on Alcohol consumption amongst women? Do you think its proper? Can you tolerate a woman that drinks, ESPECIALLY in public? Do you think it has any effects on a woman's morals?

PLS, your contribution(s) can help enlighten women on this issue. Comment reasonably

No. 17 Seun, u dey fear boko boys neh?

This Seun sef, na wa o. These your rules are for humans not animals o. See as he just posted his 'Laws' and closed the thread. We no get say abi? You've 'commanded', if we -NLers- refuse nko?