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tobore4u:
There is an adage that says "No matter how far u have gone in the wrong path, you can choosed to turn back".

With self determination and a willingness to make it right we can surely testify.

Are u still with ur banking hustle?

yea, luckily

Day 8 - march 9th

Betting free


Day 1 - womanizing free (my challenge now)

tobore4u:
No Betting Challenge

Day 1 2/3/2005

nice one.

We are in this together

I just put my sportybet account on 90 days self-exclusion

What triggers my betting now is brokeness from womanizing that makes me try betting to make more and patronize women. Though their companionship makes me flee from betting but I have to look for just one that doesn't demand much


March 3rd 2025

Day 2 - free betting

Free womanizing

Free reckless spending

Was happy I only spent 2700 yesterday. I know because I was broke, that's why.

Hopefully my spending doesn't exceeed 5000 if I hustle something today

TeddBundy:
It’s two weeks later, how far?

starting afresh

Thanks for the follow up

Day 1 (march 2nd)


Clean

We only just take a little break when broke

Once money comes, we fall back to our obnoxious acts. I am a living witness

Also, don't try using one addiction to fight another. You will end up doing both

No matter how we try, we are doomed

So it's Saturday morning (10am to be precise) and people are going about their daily activities.

Currently in a brothel (daily routine when free), chilling at the bar section. I am relaxing with a bottle of coke and snacks while I chat with the area boys/weed takers, as well as the call girls there.

Ever since I switched from betting lifestyle to this new life, my life now has meaning. I no longer have too much problem as in my bet9a/sportybet days.

When I was addicted to virtual, I will go to the shop as early as 7am. Help the shop workers open the shop and tidy the place till they start work. Then I start wasting my life on all sort of games till I lose it all, then sell my property to bet and later even gamble with people's money. Even while at home then, you can transfer to your bet account and still lose if addicted.

But with brothel life, your money only goes down little by little and this addiction is easier to control. All I just need to do here is help the area boys once in a while with little cash to purchase weed or beer while we chat. Then I pay intermittently for sex from the prostitutes. Sweet company


No more fleeing one location to another due to my betting woes

At times I wonder if the source I make money at the office dries off, how will I survive

I have to limit some of my actions for the next 30 days to see how much of my life I can recover.

Three habits I hope to drop for a while:

1) betting
2) womanizing
3) reckless spending on food, drinks, anything I see or gifting people

I spent 20k on Tuesday and 30k on Wednesday. Despite knowing resources are scarce and also knowing my debts are piling up

My spending limit a day will be 5000 (hopefully). 3k feeding. 1k transport. 1k miscellaneous (water, recharge card, tissue, drugs etc). So help me God

Hopefully other addictions like love for phone and limited soapy (to cover for woman temptation) can help me survive any temptation to relapse. I won't mind borrowing too when in need, to avoid temptation of thinking betting can help me solve my problems

Will start my update today February 6th, 2025 (clean)

I am back. You may be surprised having not heard from me for a while. Though I have health and financial misfortunes but I am still kicking. Life could be harsh at times seeing good people perish while bad/wayward people like us keep pushing on.

So after abstaining for 21 days of the new year from betting, I went to a Bet9ja shop last week. I was determined to hustle something to feed my womanizing addiction.

I won 25000 naira on Saturday last week and I was euphoric. I took one of my closest olosho to a shoprite-like eatery to 'spoil' her. I thought I had discovered the logic to winning bets. How foolish was i

With betting, it's better losing than winning. When you lose, you are sober and go home. But when you win, the hunger increases. I went back the next day (Sunday). I not only lost the 25k won, I lost 50k given to me by a customer to help save and also lost 82000 I borrowed from palmpay (via flexicredit) too.

Now the loan will be due on Monday and defamation may set in. The customer may soon demand for her money too. Greed/lust is the opium of a man

I just wish negative things will stop courting me and I stick to only naughty acts that will not put me in trouble (like soapy, junk, carbonated drinks only) to be placated

Starting afresh

January 1st, 2025


Day 1


Betting-free


Olosho-free

Before I finally quit, just returned from a brothel and lashed two Okpo.

One old

One young

To get a last taste of what it feels like before I quit

12k in total spent


Time to quit and start saving....

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In as much as I regret the first day I step my legs into ezeko brothel, I can only savour the sweet memories I have from there.

Anytime I soapy with blue film, if I watch bj, I reminisce the one I had there to cum faster. If it's doggy, kissing, lap dance, helicopter style etc, I just imagine the one I had to get high

Now it's Christmas day, neighbours and colleagues promised nothing as per rice and chicken to celebrate the day. But the food vendor at the brothel asked me to come and I am currently enjoying fried rice and chicken with cool music in the background

Though I may not be able to fvck for the next one week due to my broke status, but the sight of the ladies of the night there doing their thing and twerking will be enough to keep me placated.

It's far better than bet9ja that will make me lose it all, as well as gamble with other people's property. And flee location after location.

Currently hanging out with the bad guys (not scared of the unknown) there at the back awaiting how to manage the 100k debt I owe palmpay that will be mature by boxing day.

If I had known, the 40k I used on sportybet, trying to raise the 100k I owed, would have been used on up to five oloshos. That way I know I will be struggling to pay back something I used to enjoy myself instead of 'computer' that has no feeling

I would have loved to try smoke to clear my head, as they are doing here, but I am scared. Hopefully palmpay don't send defamatory messages when I don't pay swiftly. Those who have owed them for long, please how long is the grace period they give?

I just uninstalled Sportybet app after losing 38k to Virtual football. 90 percent of us (youths) are cursed/in trouble

I am just deceiving myself as I will likely download it again after sometime

Off to Oloshos house to clear my head with the little money left

Debts keep piling up (physically and loan apps)

Day 5 - bet free


Day 2 - Olosho free

Day 4 - betting free



Day 1 - Oloshos free

So I was given some Christmas items (provisions and foodstuff) yesterday at the office. I sold them to my colleague 20k.

I hoped to have a good weekend with the money.

Boredom at home today (abstaining from brothel life), made me download Sportybet app again. I played all sorts of rubbish as I constantly transferred with ease to my bet app from Opay.

Now all the money is gone. I should have managed a cash of 16k in my last bet before it failed. Now I am left with nothing

Going forward, any money that enters my opay app, I will quickly withdraw it to avoid temptation of transferring to the bet app.

Luckily, palmpay has borrowed me again after maintaining a good credit history after my last default.

Off to Oloshos house to clear my head

So I abstained three days from the brothel I normally frequent to have fun. I thought I was doing myself good. An idle mind they say is the devil's workshop.

While bored at home, I re-downloaded Sportybet app. I started winning and losing back and front till I lost about 50k.

So sad at the moment. Not connecting with people only made me soapy all day and lose all I have on bet.

Back to the brothel, to enjoy my regular routine with my last 7k (suya, one beer, one Oloshos), then chat and dance to music till night time

It's funny though. They are beginning to see me as a regular face there. They are now tired of advising me


What's the point going for check up when I am still a Randy man


Just wasted my transport and their syringe/needle


Currently in a brothel

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So I complained in my earlier post that I noticed some strange inflammation on my genitals. I took a full satchet of beecham ampliclox and tetracycline, all to no avail.

I was tired of waiting to heal as I needed to feed my sexual addiction. I went back to the brothel in my area yesterday and lashed three lass at intervals. I ensured they put off the light before I UnCloth, so they don't find out about the bumps.

Though I started with a rubber on to protect them, but sadly as I pounced ferociously from behind, the condom always burst before the thrust ends.

Just like an addicted drunkard can't do without drinking (despite ill health) or a gambler can not stop punting (despite misfortune) or a smoker not stop smoking (despite lungs issues), I am helpless.

A brothel is the only place I find solace from life's challenges (for now)

God knows how much I have spent on treating infections since I switched to sex addiction. Currently battling with an abstruse infection that is likely herpes or staphylococcus aureus. Discovering bump-like inflammation on my genitals.

But definitely I am not switching back to betting. Will likely try to be distracted with social media (my phone), music, junk and masturbation.

Any time I go into sex, there is always tendency of wanting crazy stuff like kissing, raw sex or sucking that can get me infected.

So I got frustrated with womanising (since November 2022) and also tired of squandering on ladies and treating infections. I decided to try out a stronger addiction to overcome it (just yesterday, 60k went down to womanising).

I was scared of trying weed considering lungs issue and how it could affect my mental state. Soapy was no longer as addictive. I decided to credit my old betting account (about 50k). All have been lost to virtual football after temporary gains. Betting is something I had stopped for nine months.

I feel even more disillusioned than when I spent money on woman. With women, I flex and get temporary joy. I also get to spend the money longer than when I bet. I just used up my last 50k on rubbish odds.

This was just within minutes. If it was with woman, I will spend the whole day flexing the cash bit by bit. Nonetheless, none is good if I plan to prepare for the future

I noticed I no longer gain satisfaction from the brothel I visit regularly.

No matter the romantic escapade I undergo. Be it cowgirl, doggy style, missionary, sucking, kissing, raw etc

Maybe it is because the girls in the brothel are now too familiar to me.

Time to search for a new brothel to satisfy my sexual hunger.

Though it's risky as it will take time to settle in there. It will also involve me leaving my neighbourhood to a distant place, late at night

If only the Queen mothers at the familiar brothel here can be consistent in finding new girls

At times I wonder how I spend much on sex and romance. Feeding plus hook up girls cost me 30000 naira on Saturday. Now the remaining 16000 naira I have is gone today - Sunday. In as much I can't do without sex, I have to regulate it.

I realised it's about 100 days to the end of the year. Hopefully I can manage 10000 naira per day till the end of the year on Oloshos and not spend more than that. To do that, I have to detached myself from giving freely to them and only pay for sex.

I will have to stop touching touching during sex and focus on penetration to reduce cost. From 7pm to 11pm, I lash five girls daily at interval (2k each) to regulate my conji/addiction.

I will also have to be strict and not be moved by their requests for gadgets or edibles. Any one that becomes too demanding, I replace quickly, to avoid being in a tight corner.

As for my feeding and transportation, I will leave it at 4000 naira daily. Meaning a total of 14000 naira daily. I pray I keep to this target. I need to start saving up. If not for anything, for my rent or for when my source dries up

The common practice by girls in brothels is to ensure that they stroke our rod to erection then supervise the fixing of the 'rubber' before they let us slide in.

I have become so familiar with about seven of the brothel girls that they now allow me lash them raw

To repay their trust, I only carry the seven of them, buy them goodies regularly and ensure my pull out game is on top gear. Lashing with rubber is no longer exciting. My deek goes limp when I see condom now about to enter.

But it comes with a cost, patronising seven girls at interval. 84k I budgeted for the three days break is gone. I even borrowed from a colleague 20k to 25k on top woman matter.

Though distraction of betting is eliminated (since December 25th 2023), I am still squandering money

Sitting down near the speakers at a brothel, calculating how much I have spent in one sitting. Roughly 17k. Lashed three Oloshos at interval for 12k. Then the remaining 5k on drinks and small chops.

Bet9ja and Olosho houses are the most lucrative businesses at the moment. They can afford to chest the bills associated with 1200 a litre for PMS.

Just thinking, about 25 Oloshos over here. Each to remit about 25k daily (some earn more). 25k × 25 girls = 625k daily the Olosho house owner makes. Not to forget he also makes money from selling cigarettes, edibles and drinks.

I envy this investment. If only I can discipline myself to save up for it. Though I will need to be settling area boys and the police to secure the place once in a while

To every one, his/her addiction.

I am working towards regulating mine.

I calculated about 120 days to the end of the year.

Instead of spending 10 to 15k per day on women, I will look towards 1k per day for the remaining 120 days of the year (120k).

1k might be infinitesimal/minute in comparison to what Olosho's demand. So I will try and go there once every ten days (with 10k) twelve times to arrive at that figure.

That way, my conji will be put in check, my mood will be brightened up for business and companionship will be guaranteed.

I woke up with a bright mood for work, after daybreak sex yester night at the brothel. I got early to work to the surprise of others (left the brothel by 5:30).

Why I choose to regulate it, so I can have at least 500k savings by December to meet emergencies.

It was a painful parting. I really liked her but I guess she loved 'the game' more. I had picked the most lovable Olosho amongst the ones I was having sex romp with for a relationship.

Every evening by 6pm, I would retire to her room from work and cuddle, allow her press my phone and kiss her intermittently. I never seized to buy her goodies when coming over. I would ask prior to my coming what she wanted.

Gifts from apple, malt, suya, popcorn, food from eateries etc. Calling her at nights after her sexual tasks was also fun. It was nostalgic and reminiscent of the times we enjoyed free night calls.

I became loyal to her and would patronise only her, to the envy of others. I don't know if jealousy made other Oloshos report her, saying I was distracting her, and her phone was seized. I was unable to chat her up. When bored, I went over to the brothel (despite the heavy downpour), last weekend to find out what was wrong

To my amazement, she was inside with an advanced hausa guy and two other unkempt northern men were waiting their turn in front of her room. This made me disgusted. It's not like I didn't know what to expect, but jealousy came in since I was attached. I blocked her number in annoyance and fvcked two random call girls. Then I took one bottle of LIFE to clear my head before going home

No p*sy is worth catching feelings

So it's no news that I am addicted to visiting brothels. I squander a lot on different girls at the brothel. This affects my finances

It's common knowledge too that most of us that visit brothels, have issues communicating with the opposite sex. Companionship Is one thing that can keep our urge regulated

So I selected one of the call girls I am very fond of and asked her to be my girlfriend. I do visit the brothel, chat with her, fvck her only (once in a while) and buy only her stuff.

If she needs to fvck someone (to meet target), she goes to the room of her 'co-worker', while I await her in her room. I will literally be paying for daybreak sex regularly with her. Even if i don't fvck her some nights. The liveliness, fun and gists at the brothel is better than my life of solitude back home.

This addiction, though abstruse, is still better than betting addiction

So there is this young girl in the brothel i frequent. She demands too much from the guys that long to patronise her. Despite my closeness to her and buying her goodies, she still charges me based on my sexual demands to her.

if i ask for regular sex, 2k. if i add kiss, it goes to 4k. when i added doggy and cowgirl style, it went to 8k.

I was not happy about this, yet i continued. I lashed her ferociously to make good use of what i will pay.

The condoms in the bar/brothel do burst easily (due to their fragile nature), and i quickly pull out.

But this time around, i shot my hot cum in anger into her hole in retaliation for charging me high. I did not let her know. That is her punishment

This will not be the first time I will pay a fine.

Instead of me to wait till Friday before I pay for daybreak sex, I do pay for it within the week, anytime big money enters my hand

Had one regular sex around 8pm yesterday, then took one banny in with me around 11pm for daybreak sex.

Woke up late for work as a result today. Had to pay the 1k fine.

Over here, we start work at the office with meeting which begins around 7:30am. Left the brothel around 6:20am this morning. Could not get ready on time after getting home


ADDENDUM: I recently realized I no longer enjoy sex due to bruises in my prick (mainly my prick cap). There were times in the past I lashed girls roughly despite the hole being dry. I am sure it is what caused it. Now I fvck through pain. If only I can take a break from sex for like one month to make my rod heal. But life won't be fun during the period

After three days without womanising, I succumbed to go to the brothel to cure boredom. Staying at home because of the Protest did not allow me to occupy my mind with work. I tried soapy to cure conji but nothing beats the physical warmth of a woman's body. My last 16k is gone.

My only saving grace to feed today was the money I paid down with the oil beans woman in my area. I always say I will change but when I touch money or need to charge my phone (as with betting addiction of the past), I go to a brothel.

If only uninterrupted power supply in the evenings had come yesterday. The third Olosho I fvcked, had a heart-to-heart chat with me. She told me not to be offended and asked why I frolicked with different girls since she knew me at the brothel. She advised I picked one girl and allow her help plan my life.

She was the kind of girl that accepted anything I gave her and was fond of me. She opened up that she had three children back home and they were her source of motivation to hustle. That she misses that family Bond and can't wait to watch them run around and quarrel while she cautions them. As it was a way of making her not feel lonely

In the past, another Olosho had advised me to get married and have children who can take care of me at old age. There is another that would advise me to come once a week so I can save for the future. I must be that miserable and a lowlife for Oloshos to start advising me. I can bet I am the most regular person in that brothel. Multiple Oloshos and agberos there are excited when they see me there as they know I will 'deliver'


If only I can trust someone enough to co-habit with and help plan my life/finances, considering my high sex drive and narcissistic behaviours

I think womanising. Once you are deep in it, it supersedes others.

When you bet and win, you carry woman

To fight masturbation, you carry woman

When you are bored, you carry woman

When you have a breakthrough, you celebrate with woman

An erect phallus has no conscience