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April 9th, 2025

Day 4 - womanizing-free


Day 14 - betting-free

April 8th, 2025


Day 3 - womanizing-free


Day 13 - betting free

April 7th, 2025


Day 2 - womanizing-free


Day 12 - betting-free

TeddBundy:
It is well with you. You will overcome this.

Amen. Thanks. I go again

April 6th, 2025

- day 1 - womanizing-free

- day 11 betting-free

TeddBundy:
Bro Happy New month
Hope you’re good

I fell heavily

I hope to re-start soon

March 13


Clean

March 12


Clean

Day 10 - march 11 (betting free)


Day 3 (olosho free)

Day 9 - march 10 (betting free)



Day 2 olosho free

My access to money for the next one week has been limited. So I have no choice than to regulate womanizing.

Hopefully, soapy suffices

tobore4u:
There is an adage that says "No matter how far u have gone in the wrong path, you can choosed to turn back".

With self determination and a willingness to make it right we can surely testify.

Are u still with ur banking hustle?

yea, luckily

Day 8 - march 9th

Betting free


Day 1 - womanizing free (my challenge now)

tobore4u:
No Betting Challenge

Day 1 2/3/2005

nice one.

We are in this together

I just put my sportybet account on 90 days self-exclusion

What triggers my betting now is brokeness from womanizing that makes me try betting to make more and patronize women. Though their companionship makes me flee from betting but I have to look for just one that doesn't demand much


March 3rd 2025

Day 2 - free betting

Free womanizing

Free reckless spending

Was happy I only spent 2700 yesterday. I know because I was broke, that's why.

Hopefully my spending doesn't exceeed 5000 if I hustle something today

TeddBundy:
It’s two weeks later, how far?

starting afresh

Thanks for the follow up

Day 1 (march 2nd)


Clean

We only just take a little break when broke

Once money comes, we fall back to our obnoxious acts. I am a living witness

Also, don't try using one addiction to fight another. You will end up doing both

No matter how we try, we are doomed

So it's Saturday morning (10am to be precise) and people are going about their daily activities.

Currently in a brothel (daily routine when free), chilling at the bar section. I am relaxing with a bottle of coke and snacks while I chat with the area boys/weed takers, as well as the call girls there.

Ever since I switched from betting lifestyle to this new life, my life now has meaning. I no longer have too much problem as in my bet9a/sportybet days.

When I was addicted to virtual, I will go to the shop as early as 7am. Help the shop workers open the shop and tidy the place till they start work. Then I start wasting my life on all sort of games till I lose it all, then sell my property to bet and later even gamble with people's money. Even while at home then, you can transfer to your bet account and still lose if addicted.

But with brothel life, your money only goes down little by little and this addiction is easier to control. All I just need to do here is help the area boys once in a while with little cash to purchase weed or beer while we chat. Then I pay intermittently for sex from the prostitutes. Sweet company


No more fleeing one location to another due to my betting woes

At times I wonder if the source I make money at the office dries off, how will I survive

I have to limit some of my actions for the next 30 days to see how much of my life I can recover.

Three habits I hope to drop for a while:

1) betting
2) womanizing
3) reckless spending on food, drinks, anything I see or gifting people

I spent 20k on Tuesday and 30k on Wednesday. Despite knowing resources are scarce and also knowing my debts are piling up

My spending limit a day will be 5000 (hopefully). 3k feeding. 1k transport. 1k miscellaneous (water, recharge card, tissue, drugs etc). So help me God

Hopefully other addictions like love for phone and limited soapy (to cover for woman temptation) can help me survive any temptation to relapse. I won't mind borrowing too when in need, to avoid temptation of thinking betting can help me solve my problems

Will start my update today February 6th, 2025 (clean)

I am back. You may be surprised having not heard from me for a while. Though I have health and financial misfortunes but I am still kicking. Life could be harsh at times seeing good people perish while bad/wayward people like us keep pushing on.

So after abstaining for 21 days of the new year from betting, I went to a Bet9ja shop last week. I was determined to hustle something to feed my womanizing addiction.

I won 25000 naira on Saturday last week and I was euphoric. I took one of my closest olosho to a shoprite-like eatery to 'spoil' her. I thought I had discovered the logic to winning bets. How foolish was i

With betting, it's better losing than winning. When you lose, you are sober and go home. But when you win, the hunger increases. I went back the next day (Sunday). I not only lost the 25k won, I lost 50k given to me by a customer to help save and also lost 82000 I borrowed from palmpay (via flexicredit) too.

Now the loan will be due on Monday and defamation may set in. The customer may soon demand for her money too. Greed/lust is the opium of a man

I just wish negative things will stop courting me and I stick to only naughty acts that will not put me in trouble (like soapy, junk, carbonated drinks only) to be placated

Starting afresh

January 1st, 2025


Day 1


Betting-free


Olosho-free

Before I finally quit, just returned from a brothel and lashed two Okpo.

One old

One young

To get a last taste of what it feels like before I quit

12k in total spent


Time to quit and start saving....

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In as much as I regret the first day I step my legs into ezeko brothel, I can only savour the sweet memories I have from there.

Anytime I soapy with blue film, if I watch bj, I reminisce the one I had there to cum faster. If it's doggy, kissing, lap dance, helicopter style etc, I just imagine the one I had to get high

Now it's Christmas day, neighbours and colleagues promised nothing as per rice and chicken to celebrate the day. But the food vendor at the brothel asked me to come and I am currently enjoying fried rice and chicken with cool music in the background

Though I may not be able to fvck for the next one week due to my broke status, but the sight of the ladies of the night there doing their thing and twerking will be enough to keep me placated.

It's far better than bet9ja that will make me lose it all, as well as gamble with other people's property. And flee location after location.

Currently hanging out with the bad guys (not scared of the unknown) there at the back awaiting how to manage the 100k debt I owe palmpay that will be mature by boxing day.

If I had known, the 40k I used on sportybet, trying to raise the 100k I owed, would have been used on up to five oloshos. That way I know I will be struggling to pay back something I used to enjoy myself instead of 'computer' that has no feeling

I would have loved to try smoke to clear my head, as they are doing here, but I am scared. Hopefully palmpay don't send defamatory messages when I don't pay swiftly. Those who have owed them for long, please how long is the grace period they give?

I just uninstalled Sportybet app after losing 38k to Virtual football. 90 percent of us (youths) are cursed/in trouble

I am just deceiving myself as I will likely download it again after sometime

Off to Oloshos house to clear my head with the little money left

Debts keep piling up (physically and loan apps)

Day 5 - bet free


Day 2 - Olosho free

Day 4 - betting free



Day 1 - Oloshos free

So I was given some Christmas items (provisions and foodstuff) yesterday at the office. I sold them to my colleague 20k.

I hoped to have a good weekend with the money.

Boredom at home today (abstaining from brothel life), made me download Sportybet app again. I played all sorts of rubbish as I constantly transferred with ease to my bet app from Opay.

Now all the money is gone. I should have managed a cash of 16k in my last bet before it failed. Now I am left with nothing

Going forward, any money that enters my opay app, I will quickly withdraw it to avoid temptation of transferring to the bet app.

Luckily, palmpay has borrowed me again after maintaining a good credit history after my last default.

Off to Oloshos house to clear my head

So I abstained three days from the brothel I normally frequent to have fun. I thought I was doing myself good. An idle mind they say is the devil's workshop.

While bored at home, I re-downloaded Sportybet app. I started winning and losing back and front till I lost about 50k.

So sad at the moment. Not connecting with people only made me soapy all day and lose all I have on bet.

Back to the brothel, to enjoy my regular routine with my last 7k (suya, one beer, one Oloshos), then chat and dance to music till night time

It's funny though. They are beginning to see me as a regular face there. They are now tired of advising me


What's the point going for check up when I am still a Randy man


Just wasted my transport and their syringe/needle


Currently in a brothel

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So I complained in my earlier post that I noticed some strange inflammation on my genitals. I took a full satchet of beecham ampliclox and tetracycline, all to no avail.

I was tired of waiting to heal as I needed to feed my sexual addiction. I went back to the brothel in my area yesterday and lashed three lass at intervals. I ensured they put off the light before I UnCloth, so they don't find out about the bumps.

Though I started with a rubber on to protect them, but sadly as I pounced ferociously from behind, the condom always burst before the thrust ends.

Just like an addicted drunkard can't do without drinking (despite ill health) or a gambler can not stop punting (despite misfortune) or a smoker not stop smoking (despite lungs issues), I am helpless.

A brothel is the only place I find solace from life's challenges (for now)

God knows how much I have spent on treating infections since I switched to sex addiction. Currently battling with an abstruse infection that is likely herpes or staphylococcus aureus. Discovering bump-like inflammation on my genitals.

But definitely I am not switching back to betting. Will likely try to be distracted with social media (my phone), music, junk and masturbation.

Any time I go into sex, there is always tendency of wanting crazy stuff like kissing, raw sex or sucking that can get me infected.

So I got frustrated with womanising (since November 2022) and also tired of squandering on ladies and treating infections. I decided to try out a stronger addiction to overcome it (just yesterday, 60k went down to womanising).

I was scared of trying weed considering lungs issue and how it could affect my mental state. Soapy was no longer as addictive. I decided to credit my old betting account (about 50k). All have been lost to virtual football after temporary gains. Betting is something I had stopped for nine months.

I feel even more disillusioned than when I spent money on woman. With women, I flex and get temporary joy. I also get to spend the money longer than when I bet. I just used up my last 50k on rubbish odds.

This was just within minutes. If it was with woman, I will spend the whole day flexing the cash bit by bit. Nonetheless, none is good if I plan to prepare for the future

I noticed I no longer gain satisfaction from the brothel I visit regularly.

No matter the romantic escapade I undergo. Be it cowgirl, doggy style, missionary, sucking, kissing, raw etc

Maybe it is because the girls in the brothel are now too familiar to me.

Time to search for a new brothel to satisfy my sexual hunger.

Though it's risky as it will take time to settle in there. It will also involve me leaving my neighbourhood to a distant place, late at night

If only the Queen mothers at the familiar brothel here can be consistent in finding new girls

At times I wonder how I spend much on sex and romance. Feeding plus hook up girls cost me 30000 naira on Saturday. Now the remaining 16000 naira I have is gone today - Sunday. In as much I can't do without sex, I have to regulate it.

I realised it's about 100 days to the end of the year. Hopefully I can manage 10000 naira per day till the end of the year on Oloshos and not spend more than that. To do that, I have to detached myself from giving freely to them and only pay for sex.

I will have to stop touching touching during sex and focus on penetration to reduce cost. From 7pm to 11pm, I lash five girls daily at interval (2k each) to regulate my conji/addiction.

I will also have to be strict and not be moved by their requests for gadgets or edibles. Any one that becomes too demanding, I replace quickly, to avoid being in a tight corner.

As for my feeding and transportation, I will leave it at 4000 naira daily. Meaning a total of 14000 naira daily. I pray I keep to this target. I need to start saving up. If not for anything, for my rent or for when my source dries up