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Just like only when I enter trouble from using people's money to bet, I changed (temporarily in the past) to find a solution, I find it hard to stop womanising (since I became a sex maniac) till when I catch infection

My kind of romp/sexual exploration gets to a stage I do crazy things. From locking of lips with random girls to sucking their cunt and mammalian glands to diving in raw

I once changed for a while when I caught Chlamydia and vowed to change after seeing the side effects. Yet I still dived in raw yesterday when the sex was getting long and I couldn't cum

woginid967:
Mumu me thinking i was a saint for doing only lonely housewives.

Guy you're on track

ah. Woman addiction is for only the rich o.

I once sold my TV, generator etc to feed after womanising made me broke

Trying to substitute brothel visitation with soapy

I feel bad and hate myself at the moment. Despite managing to abstain from betting for about 19 days, I am still caught in the web of patronising brothels. Went there yesterday. But I spent less

Good news, for once I bought a new bag, new trouser, one boxers and one shirt. Made some side deals that fetched me 20k at the office. What is left, I will be using transport to the office. No more trekking

It took me over nine years to 'gradually stop' betting. I just started Olosho visitation last year and will take time to stop. But I know this can make me broke

So I will regulate it by visiting Olosho only once in every three days. That's about 10 times a month. Not more than 3k on each sexual encounter. So help me God

Tozocalamity:
One day u wil grow past all these challenges bedeviling you. Dont give up on yourself.

amen. Thanks bro for believing in me

Jeon:
This is why we want already made simp Men. Because most men's future are destroyed, delayed and denied using their own hands and will be hoping that someone should /will bear the calamities she knew nothing about in the name of faithfulness and loyalty.


😁 😁

future 'delayed' but not 'denied' by God's grace

DaddyCoool:
At least you are not in denial. You see yourself as you are, no sugar-coating

hmm. What about my bleak future following this lifestyle?

It's hard saving up....

I am a spendthrift. Hard buying essential things due to my addictions

I am voracious (I buy and eat almost every thing I see)

I am addicted to bet9ja (though I have abstained so far for 14 days). I stake uncontrollably with all I have, and with people's money

I am a 'brostitute'. I visit brothels every now and then when money enters my hand (even when I am not hard, I just want to lash).

Thanks to my younger brother. He has a great fashion sense. When ever he buys new clothes, I start using his old ones. But my case is becoming worse. Some of my boxers became worn out (it has reached the limit of patching). I was left with four. You won't believe I took three boxers from my brother to make everything seven (for the seven days of the week).

Why didn't I just buy for myself? Hmm. Find it hard helping myself. When I sell some of my items or make money, I immediately think of feeding my addictions instead of getting something useful. I currently use a paper bag to the office instead of buying a bag. And I can give Olosho up to 8k. Or bet heaven and earth. Or even take expensive beer and pepper soup when 'i arrive'

Chydon888 I noticed you tried sending me a PM. I am no longer using that mail

You can reach me on pirogee76@gmail.com

enemyofprogress I saw your post on my new thread 'i regret having sex' on wanting to help me with something. I will be more than glad sir

acesoul oluwaleokey Drshobz Albinoflash I noticed you tried sending me a mail yesterday. I decided to reply you on this abandoned thread. That mail is no longer active. You can reach me on pirogee76@gmail.com

Also noticed one or two persons volunteered to pay for my teaching on the act of long sex. I will be glad to help if I can be helped. Really broke

For someone battling with addictions like junk patronage and betting, getting addicted to sex is terrible

Since I mastered the art of vigorous sex making without Cumming, I urge to have a repeat each time

This makes me always broke. And when I am broke, I go back to betting with people's money, finding ways to recover.

Lost 14k to call girls in brothels. Trying to recover it at bet9ja shop, left me with 24k loss. So broke, frustrated and hungry

So I got paid on the 24th and decided to try ladies of easy virtue one last time, before I abstain and manage my scarce resources.

On getting to the brothel, I was approached by an advanced call girl who I regularly avoided. She was fond of increasing the price of intimacy while I was on the act for long, knowing I could not pull out while enjoying the act. She wasn't looking bad, so I just went with the flow. On getting in, she asked if I would go in raw or with CD. I opted for CD sharply. She wasn't pleased and inquired why I didn't want raw. And said if it's other girls I would not mind

After some time of digging in without Cumming, I pulled out and dressed up. To prevent her billing from getting to a certain level. I went for another girl who Normally allows me go all the way without much billing. Surprisingly, she asked the same question. If I wanted raw or with CD. Without thinking twice, I chose the latter. I could see disappointment in her face. I rode with reckless abandon till I came

I once had Chlamydia from unprotected sex. I also have throat discomfort/likely infection there from reckless mouth action. So I am wiser now. No longer moved to play raw

My question is: 1) are GIRLS no longer scared of pregnancy, STD or AIDS

2) Are they just open to doing it with me because I am close or they are blinded by the pleasure of raw sex

3) Do they even get infected at all, to learn their lesson

I survived on a customer's 3k, which I need to give report on by Monday

God guide my footsteps to change for good.

I wonder the lie I will formulate.

Henceforth, I will be giving aboki phone to charge for me. No more going to betshops

Thislifesef:
Wahala.
Baba japa

they should have known better than to give me breathing space. I pity the guy because he will not Balance that day. Once I am paid sha, I will pay back (as always)

Calabar1stSon:
Troll. You shouldn't own a phone from how you've described your life to be.

you have no idea what addiction makes one do.

I played with all I had on bet naija virtual and booking today. Then played extra on credit. I only had 1800 on me to settle 7800 debt.

I told the guy I was coming to bring the balance 6000. But I escaped

My phone has been malfunctioning to update regularly, but I am still clean

Day 5 - 17 August, 2023 (clean)

motionarena:
I can provide d loan

is the offer still on?

Help with 15k to pay back 20k.

Latest 24th August


Need something to feed before my next pay on the 24th

I start again

141 days to the new year for me to change. About 20 weeks

Day 1 - Aug 13, 2023 (clean)

imagrg:
Stop betting and random fvcking.

You will progress if you do.

that's true. I failed again because of those two things

I made 8k from some deals at the office on Friday.

Friday night 5k went from patronising two Oloshos

The remaining 3k I tried on new season to try and recover the Olosho 5k on Saturday, I lost. The thing is, I don't know how to keep friends. So I relax in betshops to charge phone and talk with people or I will be lonely on weekends.

Seems when I get money, I lose my senses

How I wish a lady can agree to co-habit with me, to help manage my resources.

I make about 74k monthly, yet living a wretched life when not married

Day 4 Clean

Day 3 clean

Day 2 - 10th August, 2023 (clean)

monsuru56:
is the group still alive?

you mean the WhatsApp group for betting addicts?

I had 9500 naira left yesterday (after selling my CAMON phone). The devil entered me. I was supposed to patronise Olosho 2k and then manage with the rest before my next pay.

But I thought foolishly of adding like 5000 extra so it will last the month. Especially after hearing of a guy who won one million from bet9ja Virtual (though lost over 600k the previous day).

To cut the long story short, I lost it all. I had sleepless night yesterday. Currently begging colleagues to loan me money to substain me the remaining days of the month. I have not eaten today self. The phone I am using now is terrible. Charging port bad, network appears and disappears and the screen damaged

I know my triggers now.
- charging at a betshop instead of office
- wanting to visit brothel instead of soapy
- eating in fancy places instead of local places with okada men

God help me to go 145 days (days left in the year) without betting, to regain my sanity. I will update daily on my progress. Your words of encouragement and advice daily will help. Don't see me as a lost cause

Day 1 - August 9th, 2023 (clean)

abba190:
thank god u can now stop disturbing us with that ribdo shit

hmm. Though my alliance with them was ephemeral, I am grateful for their support. Seeing their alert every Monday then was a relief, considering no one hardly remembered me

DevilishMan:
Been a long time we had a Nairaland funeral since Hunge.rBAD.

Looking forward to it...

hmm. I shall not die. I will keep striving

ahnie:
Your problems strong oooo

yea. I keep telling myself it's a stage in life I will overcome. Now 31, still finding it hard to

At times, we sit and reflect retrospectively on our obnoxious lifestyle since we became an adult and begin to feel penitent and sardonic.

I wish I could turn the hands of time, to the nostalgic moments of childhood with no worries.

I have lost it all. My sense of reasoning, my sanity, my finances, my peace and my health. I now intermittently wake up at night with paranoia, scared of what each new day will bring. I am a ticking bomb

When money comes, I misbehave. Later, I exude contrition when i am broke and wish to change

- for food, I only get a miserly meal now. When money was available, I was a spendthrift & prodigal, instead of planning for the tough times. The woman who gives me free food on credit till my pay comes, is now late. Lots of financially indebtedness to people

- for health, during my reckless patronage of oloshos, I sucked clitoris and their mammalian glands. This now gives me throat discomfort that alters my voice, food passage & body temperature.

- for source of income - my side hustles have been cut off. ribdo.com terminated my writing contract. The extra lesson I used to do is also off. I couldn't meet up I guess. Now I hope on the monthly bank pay that is paltry

- trustworthiness - after recently abstaining for 26 days from betting, I used both my money and customer's money (to open account) yesterday. Now I am palpitating and contemplating running. But to where I wonder. Make Dem nor arrest me or lynch me one day. Its hard even asking colleagues or friends for help. Them don tire for my matter. Just looking unkempt.

Contemplating what to sell to offset this new debt. I don already sell my generator and TV (the only asset I have) when I was flexing and patronizing olosho. Hopefully I can sell this phone to sustain me a little

Illegal1:
omoh........dis ur story go make person preek rise ooh..


anyway sha,u try.and u also get luck say nah quite grl u meet,if nt,2k too small for her,after all the fucking and sucking

I was just lucky with the girl. Some do bill o

Just 2018 here. You still have some few years to suffer before you advice yourself. I have been there. If you have not lost much or suffered much, you will continue to bet

Our love for sports as guys is our own downfall.

The only quick fix now is to get another addiction. Like me, I chose brothel visitation and upped my sex game.

Now I struggle to get money (both legally and mischievously) to satisfy the urges of my groin.

Instead of struggling to satisfy baby (virtual), choose from quick teller, balling, smoking drinking or womanising

Continued...

I asked her if she knew doggy and she responded by turning and getting on all fours. I was startled. Probably she had been well trained. I held her waist and knelt behind her. I began pounding in out. She swallowed her moans initially and later let it out when the thrust was much. But I was gleeful that she did not respond over board as experienced olosho did faking moans. Her moans were from real discomfort that turned me on



After some time, I lied flat and made her climb me and ride. As she did so, I sucked her boobs at interval when she reduced the pace and bent to meet my face. Intermittently, I would hold her waist and raise it up down up down as her opening pleased my rod that thrust from underneath.



At a point, she would open her mouth down as she savoured the sweetness of sex/love making. I wasted no time to envelope her lips with mine. She responded well as she seemed to be enjoying my style of sex. One thing that made the ladies at the brothel subsidize for me and rush me also was because I knew how to explore and please them



At a point, she was like 'I don tire o' repeatedly. I was not concerned. I was hustling for my cum. I had done soapy earlier that day. It had a way of delaying my climaxing. My length of pounding was non negotiable no matter the size of girl involved. I was burning my money too. So I chuk till I am satisfied (difference between banging a call girl and girlfriend I guess)



At a time, she went numb as I raised her waist up down to go down my cock. I was kind of palpitating, hoping within me as I continued the thrust that she had not given up the ghost. I was kind of relaxed when I felt her Breathing on my shoulders.





I turned her over back to missionary style. If I wanted to cum, I had a move I used in missionary. I will make the lady lie flat, close the legs and thrust that way. It gave me a fetish picture of forceful tight thrust. I sucked her nipples at interval as i performed this act. In few minutes, I came inside the condom and got up to dress up. Instead of her dressing up before me, and dressing the bed like other oloshos, she was just lying exhausted and pleased. She was also smiling sheepishly with eyes closed or in dreamland. The knock on the door from her roommate who wanted to entertain her own guest or probably check if she was okay, got her up to tidy the place. Surprisingly I gave her 2k on my way out and she didn't complain.


(More of my sexcapades in brothels is on r i b d o . c o m)