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Jan 23 - day 2


10k saved

parkervero:
Salary earners can't do this, can they?

I am also a salary earner. Try to do side deals.

That extra energy you use to do things that give you extra money for your addiction (if you have any), use it for savings

osmosis101:
Mat 5.29-30
But dis tym it isn't hand but down below

hmm you do know that approach could be fatal....

Jan 22 - day 1

20k saved

Greetings all. So, this is a new year, but many of us have started wasting away again (just like last year). It's just difficult for us to save due to bills and addictions.

Let's take the next 100 days (Jan 22 to April 30) to try at saving 500k to meet pressing needs.

We do different things daily to earn a living. Let's cut down exuberances like women, betting, drugs, flashy life etc within this 100 days.

You can drop your daily progress here, let's encourage ourselves. during this period, we can look for alternatives to our addiction, like sports, engrossed in work, video games, joining a pious society etc

For me, I will be sincere. I will overcome women addiction with soapy once every week only. For fancy life, I will only take Pepsi and not energy drink. In local places. Expensive eateries and bars sell higher. For my gluttony, not more than 2 meat per meal (meat of 200 per one). No fancy restaurant. My phone will be my companion after work. I would get another power bank to avoid charging at bet shops.

brain54:
Make I advise you COD...

Find a new addiction. One that isn't so negative or will cost you so much.

Like participating in sports... I suggest boxing.

Not on a professional level. Just to re-channel or redirect your energy.

New year... New hope!

hmm.. in this generation, only a stronger negative addiction can surpress a negative one. I once thought of weed, but I fear losing my senses.

Na wah. My lifestyle is really scary. Imagine I now add kiss when fucking my favourite Olosho. I now even beg to Bleep girls raw when I find it hard to be stimulated wearing condom

I know AIDS and serious STD is knocking on my doorstep. I now go for HIV test every three months. I am thinking of using excessive sex chat/soapy to overcome this sex addiction. So help me G.........

garriAndsugar:
Big man baller spending some cash

not that I have plenty money o. I just try to get money by nook or by crook to be happy with my addiction

Please if you are a sex maniac like me, drop your number or message me on pirogee76@gmail.com. let's motivate ourselves in a WhatsApp group to change

I already belong to the one for bet addict

Just squandered 17600 today. Yesterday I wasted 13400. Seems the more I work hard to make money, the more I am motivated to waste it on Olosho

Currently sober at the brothel, wishing I had a serious infection to stop me from visiting a brothel.

Just 19 days into the new year and I have already spent over 120k on lashing


Hmm. This new addiction is no different from the old one (betting).

Schoolshooter:
I recommend pocohantas, childofdoom and zonefree

thanks. I accept @seun

Kasdat5:
I nominate @ childofdoom

thanks.

I accept @seun

I will be going for HIV Test tomorrow. fingers crossed

Currently down with an unknown STD (this gives me constant urination and burning sensation in my genitals). this will no doubt keep me away from sex. hopefully, ciprofloaxcin can cure this.

I will go step by step. I won't promise total change once

100 days pledge of:

1) no soapy

2) no brothel

3) no betting

4) not more than three carbonated drinks a week

5) not more than 2k expenditure daily on necessities like food



So help me God

dawnomike:
Relocste from where you have brothels too close to you

hmm. Rational advice. I will need to save enough money to be able to do that

Some of us (exuberant youths) lack moderation in anything we do. I was a chronic debtor and was always in trouble from playing bet9ja. I decided to pick another addiction to help regulate my addiction to bet. Unfortunately my addiction to visiting brothels has become stronger than any addiction I ever had. Even though it improved my performance in bed, it has left me always exhausted, Hot and broke.

Whenever I am broke, I say to myself that I will change and save once I get money, but the thoughts of easy-to-tap asses and holes to drill is just too hard to resist. Now I go raw intermittently. Even catching infection (Chlamydia) or fear of HIV has not deterred me. I only change a little till I am cured

I now dread night time. The music reverberating from the brothel close by is enough to get me high anticipating my next romp with a lass. I fear my case will be like that of a nairalander who once lamented he was still visiting brothels at age 47.


10k entered my hand yesterday but it's all gone!!! No difference with betting that made me miserable. It's as if I now work to satisfy my third leg. The only difference from betting is that I still reserve small money to eat after lashing unlike when playing Virtual. But I can't save. Even when I give someone money to hold for me, I collect it back to flex

Yesterday when the money arrived, I did soapy rigorously, bought junk (with up to four carbonated drink) and even played 1k sportybet (after a long while of abstaining) all to feel remorseful and avoid any more vices. Yet I still went there to clear my head with one call girl. Same way betting made me unkempt and also to sell things, I have gradually begun that with Olosho.

PAINFUL SOLUTION

As harsh as this might sound, only when I get a permanent excruciating sickness or I have my rod permanently paralysed will I maintain focus.

progressb4andno:
You are doomed for destruction. It's your destiny

hmm. Many youths of today are I guess. I will buy as much time as possible

- wondering which stronger addiction I can adopt to replace brothel visitation. Visiting brothels helped reduce my betting urge. It must be a bad addiction. Maybe regular partying or alcohol. I know loose women can give me terminal disease, sooner than later

For food aspect, no cure to that. It gives me motivation for life. Just have to try my best to heat any food I buy to avoid food poisoning. For soft drinks, I will go for the ones with low sugar I guess (like Amstel malt)

N3TRAL:
Sorry

thanks. I will keep striving to be a better person. I may not stop olosho but i will stop soapy and betting.

Before now, when I see a mad man (craze person), I panic and flee. Surprisingly, I walked past a mad man today and was not perturbed. I walked by haggardly and lethargically. I admired his nomenclature and inhaled his pungent smell. There was no difference between the two of us. The only difference was that I was not eating from the street or looking unkempt

In reasoning, we were no different. You will ask a 'craze person' to avoid something and he would not. They do things without reasoning, just like me. My Waterloo might even be quicker than that of a mad person who lives free without worries.

I have the fear of squandering money that makes me engage in panic buying. Money doesn't last in my hand. I am addicted to bet (for eight years), addicted to visiting brothels (currently in one. I now fvck call girls raw, even kiss & suck them). Addicted to junk/carbonated drinks. I do take 2-3 daily. Also addicted to aggressive 'soapy' that has given me a flaccid dick and made me always Hot.

I never take advice. You won't believe I was paid early this month for December - salary, commission, 13th month and Christmas bonus. Yet only 5000 left with me till next here (January pay)

Day 30 - betting free


Day 5 - Olosho free

kenedyx:
Your rate of metabolism is really high, hence you have excess energy that need to be channeled out regularly. Reason why you engage in all these acts.

You can't replace a bad habit with another bad one.. makes no sense to me.

Let me tell you something that works.. gaming. Especially football gaming as in PS4. Go to game centers and play till you tire out and go to bed. Or if you have the means, buy it and keep at home and play with your homie. Even Android football games like DLS soccer can be very satisfying. Also, go on YouTube and watch videos on wide range of topics.. can be very time consuming too.

Personally, I don't see anything wrong with keeping women, but avoid prostitutes. Find babes around you and develop meaningful relationships.

Then based on gambling, bro, I can categorically tell you that you have an unforgiving spirit. You must genuinely forgive alabi for every single penny you lost to them from the bottom of your heart if you must move on. Otherwise, you will never break that addiction.

Nothing wrong with being a foodie as long as your weight is in order, but why take more than one soda per day? Don't you drink water? Eat proper and healthy foods till you fill up and you won't need take other junks and Coke or whatever.

Finally, nothing you're going through is new to the human race.. and many people have overcome these and many more, so you won't be the first nor the last. It's just a question of how badly you want it.

wow. Loaded message. I appreciate

You are right. I have excess energy to burn daily

Not much gaming shops here. It's not an urban area. I will find out

Then when ssce was close, I teach tutorials after office hours to keep me occupied all day till I am exhausted. I then retire to bed

I will also consider reading

@belteshazzar1 you can reach me on pirogee76@gmail.com

Not using the mail attach to this account

drealcivilceno:
You are doomed!

hmm sort of. I now perceive the odour of the different call girls I have slept with on my body (even after bathing). Not to talk of the odour from self service

But there are still some vices I do not do. I am not into any cult, I don't steal, I am not into yahoo, I am not a drunkard or drug addict

efembaba:
God will heal you bro. Have you given your life to Christ? Get a good church and approach the pastor for help. You can also start watching sermons along that line on YouTube etc.

thanks. As for listening to sermons, I will.

But my parents have tried spiritual means to stop my betting habits, no avail. I was once taken to a spiritualist, he gave me annointing oil to bathe with and a deliverance soap. I was also taken to a priest who gave me nine days novena to undertake with morning fasting. After little days of remorse, I fall back to my lifestyle. You can't imagine the things I have sold to feed my betting addiction. Also got into troubles using people's money. No TV or generator again. Sold countless phones I purchased. I now beg random girls for raw sex in order to get maximum pleasure. Gave one BJ that messed up my wind pipe

If I make it to 40, I will do thanksgiving

mekus15:
You need to go for counselling. Go to a psychologist. You need serious therapy.

I agree. I will be needing more than one therapist

Imagine trekking to the office after receiving pay not long ago

I have to find a way to get rid of this compulsion and exuberance when I embark on anything

It only helps me at the office as colleagues praise my spending extra hours and energy on the job

Had stomach upset this morning (as always) as a result of my voraciousness (love for eating anything I see) and overdosing on pepsi. I take up to 8 tablets of diaflush every now and then to stop diarrhoea. I just hope I have not damaged any internal organs (as I encounter pains at the right side of my lower abdomen during sex romps)

Just like in the movie, 'Sex Addict', I wish there was a physical meet-up group of addicts, helping each other to change, by sharing their daily progress. My life of solitude is not helping matters

kestolove95:
The only tin that can make you stop all this bad habits is weed... Try and take one or two wrap a day...

hmm I doubt if one addiction can prevent an old one

When I was addicted to Bet, I tried constant sexchat and masturbation to take my mind off bet, I ended up doing both

Then I tried real sex to end the first two, I ended up doing all three addictions.

I just lack moderation in any thing I do

So I got paid yesterday, it's almost all gone today.

Even when I try to stop one addiction, the other consumes me.

Seems difficult to stop all

One leads to the other, I noticed

When I masturbate hard, I get dehydrated and take lots of junk and pepsi (at times two or three a day)

I then long for sex. Currently had sex with four girls in two different brothels within two days. One of the rounds was during office hours today (imagine)

Then when broke, I think of betting to 'recover'

My body seems wired for evil

It's the only thing that thrills me

Over 84k gotten yesterday. paid betting debt of 30k. Food and Olosho took some

Left with 27k for the next 30 days. Had to give it to a colleague to help me hold and give me little by little

I don't trust myself

October 21, 2023

Day 21 - Betting free


Day 2 - masturbation free


Day 2 - Olosho free

October 20, 2023

Day 20 - betting free


Day 1 - Olosho free. I go again