₦airaland Forum

Well thank GOD when I met my husband I wasn't slim. So he knew what he was getting himself into.

Shea butter is the it thing for me. The dandruff I had was so embarrassing that going to the saloon was hell for me. I mixed the shea butter with my chlorestorol hair conditioner left it in my hair for some hours and gone is my dandruff.

I have tried so many expansive saloon treatments and nothing help. I apply the shea butter every 2days on my scalp and believe me my hair and scalp have never look better. So I don't care about the smell

I think mikel should double the money but then on the head of the kidnappers. U will see how much info he will get abt the whereabouts of his dad. Never pay ransom if u do your doomed.

I am based in Nigeria and I need to blame the married women in Nigeria every time I am out with my husband I see allot of married men either with there friends or some small useless girl.

U hardly see them with their wives which is very disgusting. If even my husband can complain about that well it says allot.

Why I say I blame the wives: Can't u control ure life? can't u make sure your husband comes home after work? If your husband takes u out stop nagging about his drinking and his friends. U are his wife look for the right time to tell him about his bad friends. And stop pretending. I do have lady's night out with the view women I know in this country they all smoke and drink but according to them there husband doesn't know do'h when u come home won't he smell it? Sisters pls wake up and smell the coffee lying,cheating and pretending doesn't take u any where. Like your husband is stupid.

Kids these days are not different it is the parents that are different. When growing up I watch cartoons from 6pm-7pm. After that it was watching news with my parents and of to bed. I played allot with friends either in our compound or theirs. There was always something to do. Now kids sit in front of the tv the whole day. And the parents are hardly around. Winter or no winter we would always keep our self busy. And that's the same way I raise my own kids. We should go back to community life. That's my two cents on this.

Just exchanged in abuja for 162 this morning

When will u ppl learn not to let relatives move in. Nairaland is full with topics like this. We have a 3bedroom apartment and its only me and my hubby. Marriage on its own is hard work. I dnt need a maid or his relatives to come and add their own. Stay alone with ure hubby and take care of the house and ure men. I dnt get why u ppl bring others into ure homes. Sighs,

Lol am scared seems like he's nt in a good mood

I've experience this nonsense of my husband siblings coming to stay with us when we moved to Nigeria 3years ago. My husband came a month before me so for his siblings to stay with him in that period no problem sins I was not around. When I came over I sit my husband down after 3weeks and told him we cnt start our new life like this. It was hard for him to tell them so we started having problems. I didn't know anywhere or anybody in Lagos but I took some of my stuff and checked into a hotel. He called me after two days that the house was empty if I can pls come back home. Its a risk I took and it worked out for me. We even moved far away from his family because he wanted no problems between them and us. So talk to him and make him understand pls. Maybe the situation is not easy for him to. Goodluck my dear

Girl nip it in the but this problem. Call ure parents and his for a meeting. Make sure u print out those emails so that he can't deny. After the meeting ask him to leave the house with his parents cause u need time to think and heal. Pls dnt be afraid men in general like strong women. And pls dnt forget to go for counselling the both of u. In cases like this u need to take ure stand from the get go if u want a healthy and happy marriage. Think abt ure on born child dnt u want to raise him in a happy and healthy home? He or she deserves that, u deserves that and ure husband. Some women are unbelievable and their own enemy. That girl ure husband is cheating with I bet she knows he is married and that ure pregnant.

How was the meal

I am dutch never hear of that before. They were even insulting our former prime minister and nobody ever got arrested. Source pls

@Pagan ure to funny. I bet that guy cnt speak english. So his price will drop further. And I dnt think he will taste that gd. Rethink ure price am waiting

@Poster be honest to ureself where u faithful all those years abroad well I doubt that. I dnt know one nigerian that has a wife and kids in Nigeria and that lives here in Amsterdam that doesn't have a girlfriend. They even make babies with them. A beg poster.

Sins I have 3daugthers why not give u 10k is that a deal

I need a toyota highlander '03 or '07 or a matrix '05 or '07 I need a price list pls people

OUR ORDEAL:Newly-wedded couple narrates seeing ‘hell’ in hoodlums’ hideout
6/28/2011 12:00:00 AM
⁠Sunday Nwaizu and his wife, Caro, will not forget Sunday, June 19, 2011 in a hurry. It was a day of tears and blood for the newly-married couple as they escaped death by the whiskers from the hands of hoodlums who showed them hell at the Jibowu railway line, Lagos Mainland.Nwaizu recalled that he was returning from the East where he had gone to pick his new wife. The man who doctors are battling to save his life at a private hospital in Yaba said he and his wife had come back to Lagos with an early morning bus.He said they left Onitsha at about 10.30 pm on Saturday and the journey was so smooth until they arrived Ore, Ondo State around 2 am before the driver claimed he had information that armed robbers were operating on the highway and decided they should stop.He said at about 3.30 am, the driver told them that the information about the robbery claim was false and decided to resume the journey. Nwaizu said they arrived Lagos safely and some passengers alighted at the Berger and Ojota bus stops while the couple continued with the vehicle until they arrived their destination, Jibowu. According to him, when they arrived Jibowu at about 5.00 am, there was no sign that hoodlums were attacking early morning travellers and workers.He said he and his wife decided to take a short cut through the railway line to Moshalashi in Mushin.It was an exercise that nearly cost him and his wife their lives as they met some hoodlums who were armed with dangerous weapons and smoking in the darkness. He said he heard a coax voice reeling out orders that “we should stop and hands up” and he became confused whether to run or not but that his instinct warned him to obey the brigandage as they may be carrying guns. Nwaizu said they were surrounded and being grilled.He said when the hoodlums requested for money, he told them his predicament on how he has exhausted all his money in the village. “They asked me to chose between my wife and money.” The man who was coughing out cake of blood said: “When I insisted that I had only N500 on me, two of them grabbed my wife and started stripping her and at that instance that I warned that I must not live to watch them rape my wife.”He said immediately he made the utterances, the hoodlums started inflicting him with machete cuts. “They were cutting me without mercy and I temporarily passed out and later regained consciousness so, whatever that they did to my wife, I can’t tell but the rest is history.”The man who decried the state of insecurity in the Lagos metropolis said he wondered why the police and the vigilance groups did not intervene even when he was shouting on top of his voice calling for assistance.”On her part, Caro said on the Saturday they were embarking on the ill-fated journey that rubbished the wedding ceremony they did, she had earlier warned her husband against night journey but he did not listen.She said she had refused travelling with him until her in-laws persuaded her to travel along with her husband.Caro, who is also nursing an injury, said at Ore when the bus driver raised the alarm that robbers were operating on the road, she warned her husband that they should wait at Ore till the following day.She said: “As soon as the driver announced again hat the information about the robbery was false, “my husband advised we should continue the journey, I wanted to object but when I remembered what his family would say, I followed him.”The lady who said she was abused by the hoodlums even after brutalizing her husband, blamed him for their ordeal. “ I am not blaming him that we were attacked but I am blaming him because he had no serious business to do in Lagos that day. He is a businessman and he is on his own. Now, see how we have ended up in Lagos. The attackers rubbished our honeymoon.”She said it was in the hospital that she learnt that two factions of street urchins popularly called “area boys” from Mushin and Fadeyi were fighting. She also learnt that they were not the only victims that suffered casualty. She wants Governor Babatunde Fashola (SAN) to prevail on the police to beef up security in Mushin and Fadeyi areas.⁠

He is not a drunk and am not a nag. To me it is not normale that u want to go and visite ure friend 30minutes away from our house and your contemplating in your had that u might spend the night. People please read my post well before replying. And more so he never has or will raise his hands on me why read more meaning in the post @obowunmi are u married?

@obowunmi I never said my husband was or is cheating at me am questioning his behaviour

He came in around 22:00u stone drunk now at 2pm he is awake cooking rice putting on all the lights and watching tv thus disturbing my sleep. I didn't want to sleep in the bedroom to avoid problems I asked him why he's doing this and he's just laughing this is just looking for trouble. But trust I would just ignore him. This is to me so disrespectful. I called him twice before he got home and didn't pick my call guess he wants us to quarrel but I won't give him that satisfaction. If he has a problem he should open his mouth and talk we are not newlyweds. Maybe I am the problem by giving him to much respect I don't know

@snowdrops this has nothing to do with me suspecting him of cheating. When I called and asked him he told me maybe he would sleep out ok why not tell me before leaving the house a married man has no business sleeping outside his matrimonial home if he travels that is different. Don't u think

@snowdrops so it is normale for your husband to take his toothbrush and toothpaste without telling u that he will sleep out in the same town we are living?

@odunno I was not being bitchy ok I only answered ure question @pukkah this is not the first time from time to time he will act like this depends on the friend he is in contact at that time. And when I call him to order to remind him that he is not a bachelor the above will be his reply. And that's y I ask if I am the problem.

What does that have to do with my dilemma don't u have free days if u works goshhhh

My husband left the house this morning telling me he is visiting his friend and I was like ok no probs. It is when I wanted to take my bath I notice his toothbrush was not their and toothpate. So I called him to ask him why those two items are missind if he's not planning to come home. His answer was of course am comming back home. And I was then why did u took those things with u his reply was why am I treating him like a small boy and I know if he finally comes home he will start yelling. Is it normal behavior as for me its not.

So nobody thought about why the efcc had to arrest him just before the president's visit to the US president.could it be that this guy who represent the youths of Nigeria whom the likes of Babangida has written off as no goods to leead the country been seen as an arrogant 'over sabi'small brat that wants to rub shoulders with elders be a torn in the flesh to some people who had no choice but to surrender him as the fall guy or the best pawn for negotiating any deal.how come nobody is suprised this guy lost his re-election bid.who thinks David Mark would have survived such an onslaught if his head had been asked for on the negotiation table.
My dear people if you think the zoning debacle is all over or that Jonathan will be allowed to rule in peace please do have a rethink.Does boko haram come to mind anyone.what's their origin and what were their initial fights for so what are they doing in Abuja now.As far as I'm concerned the next for years will make or mar Nigeria and our dear President knows this and is willing to make any and even further concessions to have a peaceful reign even if it means pawning Sambo or David Mark.There will always be corruption charges not been talked about right now that'll be flying left right and centre the.
I am not holding forte for Bankole neither am I calling him a saint but Nigerians really need to think outside the box sometimes.

Is it not ure leaders that are giving them a free hand in all this. So the Nagirians that works there can't give him the beating of his life and close down berger until they start treating them with respect Nah wah for Nigerians oohh.

I reside in Garki 2 and I have light almost the whole day I dnt need a generator. Maybe we will have power out ache for 2hrs a day. And I moved to Garki sins december.

Why is this useless man not in jail. And wife beating is not something to take lightly it's not normal

@dem people and rhino_5 shame on u guys. U dnt say things like that its below the belt and very harsh. No women want to be barren. And before u guys think u can attack me I have 3 beautiful daughters.

I taya for dis country oohh. It doesn't make any sence. Can't call either only visaphone is working now.

lol, thanks for the offer of payment