Nuyokoi:
it appears you're not over your "Ex".
a problem or misunderstanding didn't have to occur.
you didn't marry her bc it wasn't meant to be.
moveon.com

married people can still cheat - under the guise of being married.

that's not your business.

but your wife isn't consenting ( "the wife said no no no and she is raising dust over it" ).

the bigger picture? your wife doesn't like your relationship with your "Ex" \ doesn't want you communicating with her.
how do you not see that?

You are mean oooo

Mindlog:


Let's flip it, as a married man how will you feel if your wife contacts her Ex to help her out with foodstuffs because you have no meaningful job?

Should your wife let you know she is contacting her Ex?

Will you as a husband believe that her contacting the Ex will be a one off thing?

How best do you think your wife's Ex can help without causing friction in his own marriage?

The husband resisted at first because Of the Ex husband but the Ex assured him that her husband will not mind. She is trying to survive here.and no dirty things on the mind.(both sides)

Twenty8:


It okay for you to help a person in need, and your wife is right too. Help your wife to understand you're only trying to help, but don't go overboard and derail from your noble intention.

Well Said.

CalliDora1:
Why is he trying to ressurect a dead relationship? Doesn't he know that a bond can start forming again from that little gesture and the woman might want a come back.?

It's totally wrong. On no account should he connect back to his ex cos its very risky and temptation can come from there.

Men...

Except there was misunderstanding or problems between the husband the Ex before you tag it dead relationship. Every Ex is not and enemy. There is nothing risky there, both are married.

FortifiedCity:
The man should have genuinely done that without involving the wife.

It's not too hard to decode that the wife wouldn't agree

Behind her backs? I think it too dangerous if she finds out and she can read a lot of meaning to it. Trust women on that.

Nuyokoi:
truth be told, as a married man,
1. communicating with your ex is disservice to your wife
2. your wife's response to this situation should be respected

that said,
1. render the assistance (with your wife's approval)
2. cut off communication with your ex thenceforth

There was no problem or misunderstanding between the husband and the Ex.

Just that the husband changed location and met and married the wife.

The Ex is also married with children but finds it difficult to feed her family. Her husband has no meaningful job.

She specifically requested for foodstuffs like yams & co. What is wrong in given it to her with nothing attached and with the consent of the wife. All Ex are not enemies.

Is it proper for a husband to give a gift to his Ex. through his wife.

An ex called the husband that she has financial problems and that she needed foodstuffs.

The husband is planning to assist her this December through his wife but the wife said no no no and she is raising dust over it.

The ex was kind to the husband before he changed location and married the wife.

Please is there and problem in the above.

Please continue your daily report. We are following. Lol. Shameless people.

Warri people please continue to be on guard until you see them in detention. Audio Arrest.

They think that they are good in combating diseases. Lol . They will learn when it is too late.

What do I need to provide to check the Vin.

MartinsD12:

It's not a full 4G phone it only works on airtel 4G only, no mtn no Glo

So bad. I'm using infinix Note 6 and I'm flexing 4g with MTN.

I want to upgrade to Honda. I was offered CRV 2003 and Honda pilot. I don't know which one to go for. Please advise.

Relax. If someone wants to help you he will come for you. Stop spoiling the little girl time to glow. Wait for your time. You are an instrument God used. Stop forcing yourself on people.

Let it not fall in the hands of the terrorists.

I wonder how David looked at this and bed her.

Africonji:
Smh. This thief should focus on his Efcc case and his business instead of wasting money on a hopeless venture. There is no vacancy in Abia till 2023. OVI all the way. Whoever know Uche Ogah should advice him not to waste his money because even I will follow to chop his money if he decide to campaign, but nothing for him in the end. Mark my words.

In a sane clime OVI will get Third place after the Election. Tagging behind Alex and Ogah. OVI is a monumental failure. May God liberate Abians from political bonage OVI is celebrating.