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willibounce1:
Lol... sango's wife.... do I look like your little cousins. I don't understand how you people come to threaten people on the internet. " you really don't want me on your case blah blah blah" who gives a Phuck.

willibounce1:
She lied... she was gonna keep it secret till death. By the way, she ain't no wife to be. You can go ahead lying to your husband to be and get dumped. You think marriage is telemundo?

techcloud:
There are still good girls out there. No one is perfect yes, but common, any girl that can lie consistently for four good solid years to her future husband not boyfriend, not lover, her husband to be should be feared.

Yes, we have many better halfs in our compound.

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Just look at how "women" apply subtle pressure to goad a man into doing what he should not have done!

Sounds like Eve telling Adam in the Bible: Consider all l have done for you.... just ignore God and listen to me joor!
But when the man gets into poo, what does she say next: You should not have listen to me now, why do you call yourself a man sef, if you have to listen to a woman, ehn?

Look, STOP using all these "pressure points" on men, most men know it for what it is: PRESSURISING..
Kid or no kids, shun others or not, risk or riskier, she will make one damn troublesome home, built on LIES, for him.
That is not what we want for this young man, we want him to enjpy married life, not be beholden to a lying wife,.... worse that the Devil, of you ask me!



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And please dont come-back with the "victim narration" or the "you've been hurt before" tale!
Its all "pressure points" that dont sell anymore! Eyes don clear nowadays!

techcloud:
You just don't get it do you?

Truth is everybody lies, but when it comes to something you know might come out in the open in some not so distant future. It's just wise to come clean.

And if you truly love someone, you wouldn't lie consistently for good four years. In fact if you can lie to your man for four years without remorse, then I don't think there's anything you can't lie about with him.

I get your point though. But Op should know better. He's been with her and he knows her better than anyone. Make your decision man.

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Why are you are sounding like you are the lady in question?

Why did you lie to him about your age?

Old Cargo forming under-16!

Well we get all sorts of children commenting on nairaland nowadays. Am glad we are not mates and yes even if am not older than you in age which I find unlikely, am sure my level of reasoning is way above yours. That makes me old and proud!

P.S, am sure if you really apply yourself, you could sound matured. Just try.



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techcloud:
And who made you a better judge?

The guy spoke the truth.

The foundation is faulty. She will continue to shock him. That's just the truth. Any girl that can keep such a very vital information from her future hubby isn't a wife material. Better late than sorry.

Op, I'm talking from experience. I forgave in my own case like on three different shockers too(including lie about age too, I also discovered this from her mum). She will continue to shock you guy.

Break up with her or live with the regrets for the rest of your life.

Be wise man. Life is too short to marry a problem

willibounce1:
Bro dump that biatc.h and move on. You don't hide anything from someone you plan to spend the rest of your life with.

This kinda girl can get pregnant for your friend and make you father the baby till you die. Let her go and find her lying partner.. don't understand why ppl tell stupid lies.

techcloud:
Any girl that can lie about her age just to look young for you to get married to can lie about just anything.

Break up with her now.

Solid relationship is built on truth not lies.

Don't listen to these peeps talking about love. It takes trust for any relationship to last, not just love. Break up with her.

The foundation is wrong already.

Break up, I repeat break up with her. Save your future bro.

Your better half is still out there.

I'm pretty sure she has lied about other foundational stuffs too. I'm talking from experience man.

BREAK UP WITH THAT BITCH. SAVE YOURSELF FROM UNNCESSARY future troubles.

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You are just too inexperienced to know what you are dabbling into.

First, Women "age' faster than men but live longer.
Secondly, a Girl reaches puberty faster than a Boy, Women also reaches Menopause faster than Men.

The above are reasons why a man would likely marry a woman that he is a little bit older than.
I have seen "elderly people" in their fifties (about same age), coming to court for divorce! WHY? The woman claimed that her husband of almost thirty years, wants to "sex her to death"!
The husband in-turn, out of sheer frustration, says "My wife is denying me sex"!

I pity both of them but the truth is that The man is still very virile (at 55, most men just dey start sef!) while the woman has entered menopause in the last five years!
The result is that the woman's libido at that point has ran down completely while the man's is still pumping!

if such man has married a woman he is older than (say between 5 -10yrs), by the time she is entering Menopause, he is also "slowing down " and with a little sacrifice, they can both age gracefully!
So, if you say "age does not matter or affect happiness in marriage", you know not what you are talking about.

This is aside to the fact that she LIED to her Groom all through the years of their courtship.
What next?

But hey, a man who will not condone such lie would probably have taken his decision, he definitely wont come asking on Nairaland for "help"!
Women, if your man cannot take bold decisions without coming to Nairaland ......... Hmmmmm, be ready to be the Husband o!

Wetin concern me sef? ??


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FRAUD ..... is FRAUD!

Some may say "its a SIMPLE thing" but remember that any house build on FRAUD, will never succeed!

if its a "simple thing", WHY would she deceive you over it for 4yrs?
If its really a "simple thing" why was she not forthright with it from the start?
If she is "strong enough" to hide such simple things for FOUR years, what other "not so simple things" is she hiding from you?

You just have to be AFRAID of a lady that can plan her future and marriage on DECEIT!
You can hide your age from outsiders but to hide your true age from your Husband?


She has "shocked" you, she will continue to shock you .... I only hope you dont get "completely electrocuted" in the process.
This one is VERY DESPERATE oooo!

My advise? Dont marry this one o! (even if the wedding is this morning)




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sammyalways:
met her 4yrs ago and wedding is close. got the shocker of my life shez 4yrs older than what she told me. i am considering backing out as a result. coz if she cn do this to me i wonder whatelse she could be hidding. worse part is its her mum who told me. the girl in question has no idea i know. am so shocked.any help on what to do in regatds this latest discovery?

Maaamaaa:
Thank you everybody for your sincere opinion. I believe I will move on with my child alone.

Please how do I overcome the shame at work because I can't quit now, I need the money.

zanebaddo:
You better not come anywhere near north because we will kill you for betraying islam.. Islam forbids huging!! but allows girl child marriage yes!! !!

Aisha buhari is next. Buhari should divorce her, then we will tie her up and stone her to death for going against islamic marital law.

Nigeria belongs to the north and there is nothing any one can do about it.

Bari22:
Yess irreversible, hypocrisy is when eastners celebrate a 14 year old girl for doing illigal sex and at the same time blaming we muslims for marrying up our 14 year old. After all they are baby factory products, a baby is just worth N20,000 in their region.