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Kellycee:
The foundation of LDR is trust n communication. When these two are there, it won't b bad n vise versa.

I concur

amarilo:
Never know this thread is still a life. Itz very very true although some will attck me but they know am saying the truth.

THEY HARDLY MARRY.

Reason

Attitude.

lol na true sha

I praise u God,cos u r d I am dat I am,D Unmovable,Unshakeable,3 Gbosa!!! 2 u my Lord cos, there's none like u.

tank u father 4 ur unconditional luv 2wards me and my family.May ur name b praised,now and 4eva.

Happy mothers day 2 all mums and mums 2 b.

tank u Jesus,u r d Alpha and d Omega

[color=#006600][/color]Philipians 4:13 For i can do everytin wit d help of Christ who gives me d strenght i need.

banom:
If you are serious, go and do HIV test.

lmaoooooooooo

mr crackles  

yommys01:
Hello Nairalanders and happy new year to every body as this is my first thread this year. I need the help of everyone here. I am in a deep mess and I need everyone to help me clear my head and do the right thing.

Here is the gist,  There is this girl from Imo state ( I am from Ogun/Benin Republic) that I have been dating for the past 4 years and about to married after attending the world cup in 2010 but I just discovered she might have been cheating. I have noticed some changes in her lately but I talked to her about some of them and she dismissed them all as just coincidence which I believe but yesterday ( being Friday 6 of February 2009) I read a text message on her phone that to some extent confirmed my suspicion.

I went to see her cos she always have some sturborn problems when she is seeing her period and Discovered that she has not eaten all day ( it was around 4pm) and had to get bread and tea for me and her to eat and afterwards she started watching film ( there were family friends and her direct in her room watching tv before I came in but for me, I hate that thing call tv ( unbelievable huh?) and don't like watching any sort of film, music or anything that is on TV except football and documentaries and the money show on AIT. 

I was getting bored and never wanted to disturb her, so I took her phone to play some games with it ( she has some nice games) but surprisely she rushed to collect the phone from me and said she does not want me to play game with her phone. It was something unusual which had me thinking. I suspected there was something she has to hide and I made sure I did not give her any opportunity to run through the phone either.I later  managed to get the phone and the first thing I did is run through her text messages and OMG there are some nicely written messages in there.I saw one from a guy name david, it was fishy but not serious and I ignored but checking again I saw one from a guy call "honey" Here is the message as copied from her phone,

am seeing my period, should I still come cos some guys don't like seeing girls when they are seeing their period,  I have changed nothing except some grammatical errors here and there.

There are some other messages of "missing you" and others sent by the guy with "love" at the end. I angrily took it up with her but she denied it even went as far as involving her parents and brothers. She claimed the guy was her brother ( not blood brother though) and that it was him that saved the number with honey.

Surprisingly my number is not even registered on her phone when it used to be "sweety".

My question is could a girl have sent such a message to a brother ? Who I don't know? And funny enough, the guy was in her house of Sunday but she never said it until her mom made mention of it when we were trashing it out with her parents. I know she is cheating from the message above but she has denied it and the fact that she was a virgin when I met her makes me think again.

When we met she told me she was a virgin and sincerely I have also had no sexual intercourse with any girl even though I was already in my 20's. We both met (sexual wise)about 2 and half years into the relationship and by all definition, she was a virgin which is very rare for a girl in her 20's. When I met her I was a broke and wretched guy who has no bank account but through her advise and assistance and most importantly caring I am worth millions today ( not bragging) and can even afford to go to South africa to see the world cup -  for my football site anyway. See my signature for the url if you are a football/soccer fan, ( adverts lol) but now this is happening,  I love her but I am disappointed but not sure of what to do and the fact that she has denied it makes me more angry as the message is very obvious, What do I do?

Advice me pleaseeeeeeeeeeeee.

Chai!!,dis 1 serious oo,1st of all,y shuld her so culled ''Bro'' kw dat she's ''ON'',Hmm smell sumtin fishy

be real:
You are a creep and I am glad that she left you.  Hopefully, she will meet a man that loves her and realizes that her past experiences have shaped her into the wonderful woman that she is today.

She was willing to love, marry and have children with the son of peasant farmers - talk about scraping the bottom of the bucket.  I don't care how much education you have now, that is what you are truly the product of, and she loved you anyway.  She continued to love you even while you mistreated her and only decided to end the marriage to allow you to move on with your life and your quest for the perfect woman and children.  I will pray a powerful prayer for this woman.

Your 'soon to be' ex wife was honest with you about her past.  How on earth was she to know about the damage to her lining.  Can you imagine how terrible of an experience it was for her to learn that this man used her and didn't love her and her unborn child?  Now she did all the right things followed the correct steps and she ends up finding out that you didn't love her either.

How many times did you sleep with her before you married her?  how many women have you slept with without being married to them?

There are many other ways to become a parent know adays,  you had viable sperm and she had healthy eggs,  you had alot of options,  ALOT!  There was even the possiblilty that SHE could have carried your biological child.

Two thumbs down to all of the MORONS here that showed any compassion towards you.

You are a FOOL!!!!!

I hope you find a fertile virgin woman with a perfect past to carry your child.  I hope that she controls your heart forever and you live a lifetime regretting what you did to your lovely wife!!!!!!!!!!!!

gbam!!!!!!!!!!!!

spoilt:
Many nairalanders have no pictures. No body has ever seen a picture of me. So how do you know I am not Ini Edo? Can you swear she's not a nairalander?  

I guess the moral of the story is whether a picture is posted illegally or not, watch what you say cos the next pic to surface may be yours! lol

And to those that add all and sundry to their facebook profiles.   .   .   .   .   .  . stop.  

imaooo

davidylan:
na wa o, mr chisimdi lets do a trade.  
mrs chisimdi for celibacy.

lol will tink abot it  

davidylan:
gym kini? 
Abeg Chisimdi that body of yours is tite . . . who is the lucky dude? 

Tnks na Mr chisimdi get am lol

~Sauron~:
Abeg na. . . . . . .Those flabs on your arms are enough to make an elephant anxious.
Stop giving me nightmares.
I know a very good gym in Dublin.

i refuse 2 gym,na by force,infact i dey go chop my xxl big mac now.

~Sauron~:
Are u Ini Edo??


If you are. . . . . .I still think you were fucking ugly on your wedding day.
U need to shed some weight.

tnks 4 d compliment but i wnt loose weight neva

~Sauron~:
Ini Edo is not a member of NL, is she??

May b ,may b nt

~Sauron~:
Odikwa serious!!!!

Serious is an understatement,O di kpokonkios  

~Sauron~:
Who is mojojojo26??

Mojojojo show ur self now o!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

MrCrackles:
Chei, wahala dey oo!

no b small wahala brashy

michelin89:
This is not a laughing matter. How can he be my friend on facebook just to post my pics on Nl without my permission? I have reported him to the administrator. He has really gotten on my nerves. What the mess? Ini Edo is a fat pig, so fucking what? I have the right to say what I want and if he has anything to say he should say to my face and not post my private pictures on facebook.

I have commented just thrice on this thread and since my first post he has been on my ass. He even fine sef? He goes around boasting here and there. i don't need to be a model to see someone has massive arms and he can die if he doesn't like my comment, but i won't tolerate him posting my pictures. If he doesn't reveal who he is on facebook today I swear I won't let him have peace on this forum again.

post im own mk we ''Hu''.

michelin89:
@ omo ibo

Who are you on facebbok? Tell me son of a bitch. How dare you?

ehe omo ibo u don enter 4 gbege

she aint bad o!!

Vaseline all d way.it's d best mosturiser.

MrCrackles:
Poster

Open your eyes and post in the right section next time!

gbam!

spoilt:
My room mate went to visit a relative in ngwa territory. She was a fat girl. As soon as she got off the public transportation, someone remarked how delicious she would be for eating. She jumped into the nearest bus and returned to school. God saved her that day! 

lmaooooooo

spoilt:
Ok people, there's something i dont quite get.
When women rant and hate on men we say that they are gold digging, ungrateful, never satisfied women. here we have someone who is apparently satisfied with her man and singing his praises and holes are being picked in her story. Who cares if its true??  At least one of you is doing it right and representing.  
Learn from him boys!!!!

lol 2 u

dunno abt singing in yoruba,but wat i luv is way dey speak yoruba.E.g Ejoo sumo ohu ka nwanne gi joko.

@poster,cos they treat dem berra.lol