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Sometimes,I wonder how you guys get the strength to think up all these crappy write-ups.

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Nigeria;a very complicated place to be in. The problems we face today,are as a result of yesterday's greed and wickedness. Only time will tell how we got here.

Pls,you need to go back to school asap and pls this time around,do not attend night school. Make sure you go to a proper school. Sometimes when I see people type the way you've just done,I keep wondering if they skipped nursery and elementary schools,and just started from JSS. Apart from your bad use of English,some of the things you wrote there are incoherent. The fact that you'd be allowed to vote,scares me. In your own words,you said you are not moved by infrastructural development;what then are you moved by?

Johnnyessence:
dangote too av joined politics not as business as usual but as political strategy.after d increment of cement before he know reduced d price Cos' people are not patronise his product again. I hope is not using this to enable Gej to campaign for us come January Cos' these are fg strategy to brief d public about our economy .PDP av loose this one again Cos' we d masses are more elaborate than d so called politician nothing can shift our stand Gej and his excos is disappointed in Feb 14 2015 polls.we are not bribe with rice,kerosene and money but will are moved by infrastructure development.

There is nothing like primitive reasoning here. If epidural wasn't invented;won't we have kids? Moreso,I find your arguement about men comparing their wives with their mothers,when they aren't half of what their fathers are/were,kinda amusing. I don't know about the men you've spoken to or been with but I'm sure if you ask my father today,He would definitely tell you He's sure I'd be greater than Him. Kicking against epidural has nothing to do with me comparing wifey with my mum. If you read my first submission carefully,you'd notice ia talked about our mothers(I and potential wifey's mum);not just mine.

bossladyMo:
I'm not against you having ypur opinion...I'm against the PRIMITIVE REASONING behind your opinion.

Here's a lady who said a qualified medical practictioner in Nigeria,asked her not to do it and gave her all the negatives about it and also told her it's an area that needs specialisation. Yet,some people on nairaland expect me to swallow the idea totally cos they believe in it. What works for A might definitely not work for B.

mmagdalene:
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I wanted to opt for the epidural but my doctor advised against it. Scared me away with all the downsides. Also said it requires specialists who are very scarce in Nigeria. I asked for names of hospitals where it could be done in Nigeria and he said it's rarely done here and he doesn't even know any hospital where it's done. And I wonder, could this be true?

Anyway, I've had my baby and I thank God for safe delivery. Very painful, yes. Would have gone for the epidural if I found a hospital where it could be done.

No matter how much you try to sell this idea or make it look like I'm being difficult,truth is that,not everybody would still go for epidural. Why don't you try and respect other people's opinion;we all can't believe in the same thing. Muslims belive they are serving God,Christians believe they are serving God,all other religions believe they are serving God;but we all achieve that true different ways.

bossladyMo:
Why don't you try passing a golf ball through your pe nis hole...let's see how natural you like things then.

For your info...a contraction in a woman carrying a 2kg baby, is just as painful as the contraction in a woman carrying a 4kg baby.

I just hate it when men try to compare their wives/women to their mothers....most of these men are not half the men their fathers are/were......mschewww!

Easy tiger! I was just stating my own opinion and never criticised your write up for one second. Must we all have the same opinion about issues? The beauty of life is that we all can view issues from different angles and have divergent opions about them. You asked if ladies would use epidural and most said yes while a few said no. You didn't say "ladies,you must all use epidural". Get the drift? We all can't belong to APC or PDP;some would belong to APC while the others would join PDP.

aisha2:
Well if your grandfather could walk 40 kilometers to the farm and do manual labour all day then walk 40kms back home, why cant you walk from VI to Sagamu? Why take a car? Things should be done "naturally" cars are not "natural " things trekking is more natural, good fresh air for the lungs and exercise for the heart
#teamgonaturalfully#

I'd advice you ignore the dude. Confronting him over it would be kinda hand falling. Keep your pride up and don't give him the impression you're aware of the whole thing. If your girl is yours,she would respect herself and not behave stupid. One way to make him feel stupid,is for your girl to pick the call the next time you guys are together,and put it on speaker. You guys can continue discussing and when he starts his talking and professing his love for her,ask her: "baby,who's this slowpoke that's always disturbing you"? Let her laugh and say: "it's jeff(your so called friend's name). Then,you ask: "jeff,is that truly you"? You can be rest assured he'd cut the call and next time he sees you,he'd start looking for where to hide his face.

Well,I don't really know much about these things but I heard some of the reasons why women have excrutiating pains while in labour,has to do with what and what they eat during pregnancy. I heard stuffs like ice-cream,chocolates and stuffs,makes the baby grow too big and also adds to delivery pains.

To be honest,I'm more of an old fashioned dude when it comes to issues like this. This is how I think of it: if my mother could deliver 4 kids normally without epidurals,and your mum(my partner) can deliver XYZ kids without epidurals;why should we(you and I) not do it this same way? I understand we're in a digital age where everyone wants everything done with just a click of a button but then,not everything should go that way. I like things being done naturally. One thing I know for sure is that,for every child my wife gives birth to,She'd definitely get a new top of the range luxury car as a gift for that. It's just going to be my own way of saying thank you for going through that pain to give me a child.

May God forgive my ignorance. I used to think Lagos was the only state in Nigeria with beaches. I never knew other states had beaches.

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