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7 years and one month.Will be getting married this December.He's my best friend and i'm madly,helplessly,passionately in love with him

@ Hotstepper,

you are da bomb.Thanks for d accurate info.

Dear Readers,

Please i witnessed a hot argument between two guys about the tribe of Actress Chioma Akpotha's husband.One of the guys said that she's married to an American.How true is it.Anyone with useful info about his nationality and possibly his tribe should please let me into the info.Just for clarity .I am ahuge fan of hers

hi Dr Kathy,

Thanks for your reply.You are truly God sent.

Hi Dr Kathy,PlzI'm still expecting your reply.I have been waiting to see what you think.Pls can you kindly send me a reply.I'll really be happy if you did.Thank.

Hi Doc,U r a blessing to us in this forum and i wish u all the best things in life and God's blessings.I'm 23 and have been sexually active for 6years now with one particular person thoughout this time.3 years ago i was diagnosed with PID from a pelvic scan and a HVS revealed that i had staph aureus.The symptoms i felt were prolonged periods,pain during sex and after urination,blood after urinating and the urge to urinate again just after urinating,pelvic pain,vaginal odor.I was placed on antibiotics in form of injections and tablets.After i completed my medication,i repeated d pelvic scan and the HVS.The scan revealed the existence of fluid in my porch of douglas but i was told that it was because of the infection and it meant nothing as i took a HVS that said that i was perfect and the symptoms had vanished.One year later,i fell pregnant,something i couldn't achieve for 3whole years of unprotected sex,no form of bcp although not actively TTC.I had an abortion which i regret but soon after the abortion,i began to feel dull intermmitent pains on my lower right abdomen with lower back pain too.Asides that i dont have any other symptoms but my last two periods lasted for two days only instead of the usual four although they appear normal in colour and consistency and volume.They come at the right time give or take 2days earlier or two days late and i usually have painful menstruation on CD 1 but this time,it was not more painful than usual but was tending towards my lower right abdomen.I'm seriously worried because of my history with infections and i know the effects it can have on fertility.Could i have another infection.No abnormal or foul smelling discharge no pain during sex etc.I've gone for another pelvic scan 3-4months ago which still revealed the presence of fluid in my porch of Douglas but the HVS ruled out the presence of an infection.What d'yu think and why do i find it difficult concieving though i BD only once in every cycle but around mid cycle.I need urgent help because this whole thing's tearing me apart.

Marriage is not the same as relationship.In marriage what you should look out for is his good qualities and not his looks.But even at that,u have to at least be proud to introduce him to people around you.If he looks scruffy,u can encourage him to have a haircut and a clean shave,wear clothes that fit and smell good.That and a good character will help you to overlook his ugliness.But above all he has to have a wonderful personality and self esteem.

Hi
I just stumbled on this topic and deciced to make a contribution.I agree that marriage has a lot to do with financial stability,maturity,love,and above all God's plan for you but ladies should have it at the back of their minds that your chances of childbearing are reduced as your age increases.Medically,ladies in their early to mid twenties stand a better chance(25%) chance of conception every month while those from their mid-twenties to early thirties have a 20% chance.those in their mid thirties have a 15% chance and when a woman starts having children at that age,that's when you might have cases of down syndrome,slowpoke children and so on considering that you will space your childrens age,its always good to start on time but that doesn't mean that if you havent found Mr Right you should become desperate.Work on your reasoning and dont wait for maturity,you can attain it by being logical in your reasoning.So for the ladies,pray to God to get married say in your early to mid 20's cos i know of a lady who got married at 20 only to have fertility issues that lasted for 10years.She had her 1st child at 30 so due to her early  marriage she didnt have much to loose as most of her mates who got married at late20's/early 30's just had about the same number of kids.Guys when you are financially stable and ready for a lifelong commitment to one special lady,That's your own ideal age.