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The correct address is Delta State University Abraka, PMB 1 Abraka Delta State. Not too sure about the telephone number. i'm a ma not a sir. thanks.

Be man about it and post your whatever and know this some of us ladies are glad to know we are not perfect it makes us know we are human after all. So post on poster

@POSTER

I dont think men are threatened by successful Ladies, They just dont like being disrespected and the average view is that when you are not dependent on they you may tend to be disrespectful and even if you are not, they will likely take your refusal on discord to any issue that may arise to mean you are disrespecting them. I strongly believe a modern day guy want a lady who can assist him by every means as a wife now if you had made it big while being with them they would have had a taste your your atitude without money so the issue of you being bossy because of your status is less likely to be an issue (although it could still come up). So they dont get threatened they just want guarantees of your respect and obedience, like their dream wife (I strongly believe this is their dream).

Well, i believe the choice is your to make, So give it a good thought. Takia. Ciao

hi Douzy like your poem. Are u sure u composed it? please don't tell me u are guilty of plagiarism?

helloooo everyone, I'm so excited to be on this site. I'm new and the name is Zaneta based in Lagos.

Thanks for listing out the names of schools. i wish to make a correction its Delta State University Abraka not Asaba. The school has one Registrar who is in Abraka campus not in Asaba campus.

Hey tanx @D-reloaded and @olanajim

You guys really made sense, i tink i ll do as you have said jus place the matter as it is in public view before her and let her know she has to follow her conscience but she has to decide in time. Also, she needs to tell him herself no pretences. That it is her life but she doesnt have to live it at the expense of anyone else though i love her as a friend and sister all i can do is tell her while understanding with her. So she should know am there for her if she needs to talk.

Thanx all i think this will sell, i promise to keep you posted

TK, ciao

Yes it does,

-True love calls me Angel

-True love is 5ft 9in

-True love listens

-True love know when am just stubborn and needs attention

-True love know when am playing hard to get

-True love take me outing and make me laugh

-True love know how to make me scream in escasy

-From true love the list goes on and on

Tanx for your concern but

@Gbemyte; She is going to be 27 this year (A year older than me)

and even she knows she is not getting younger. And am not thinking of telling the Guy myself i mean thats her responsiblitity so she should bear her cross, but am worried that she is getting cold feet over the proposal or just dont know.

I just need you guy to tell me how am going to be talking to her i mean which way to express the gtavity of whats on ground to her if she doesnt already know and her parents expectation and how wrong it was to have lead the guy on for four (4) good years i mean that is mean (cruel). I want to talk to her without getting angry, cause she is down to earth kind of person and she is acting weird right now

@ omo ibo, @ aisha2 and @almomdjoy

Dont you people have friends, geninue ones that are there for you when the going was tough, well this girl is one of them for me, i mean she housed me when we were in school and when my folks were down cash wise and couldnt suppor me at a time and this is one guy who we have accept as a member of the family moreover i have my own man who i happen to love and Her guy (my friends guy) happens to have helped out when we had our own problems, so there is no issue of me stealing him.

Goshhhhh!!! you all really need to treat your friends better sometimes, even if it means sticking out ypur neck to a certain level for them. I want to be able to help now cause she would do the same for me, that's all.

Well can someone nice tell me what to say to her cause i think the problem likes with her and all she needs is someone to trust who will give a sincere listening ear and willing to help. BUT FIRST I NEED TO KNOW HOW TO CONVINCE HER THAT AM THAT PERSON.

My friends boyfriend call me on monday complaining about his girl dat he dont seem to understand his girl (My friend anymore), So as her closest friend and confidant he called me, becos he is planning on marrying her this December, infact, He had asked her to marry him and she refuse giving him any replies.

Yesterday, I confronted my friend about the issue i mean the guy is a nice guy and they dont seem to have any problems, the guy works in one of the major telecomms providers in our country and she works in a good bank. It took a long time getting an answer from her but when she repied, she said she dont seem to feel any love for him.

Let me give you a brief run down on their relationship, They met when she was in her finals in the university and he was doing his NYSC then and have been dating (Or so i thought) for four years now. I mean through when they had nothing to their present positions in life.

I asked her she could say a thing like this and how long she has falling out of love with him, She told me she gave marrying him a serious thought some few days before he "pop the big question" and she realised she had not love him all the while and that it had been a one sided affection (that's from the guy) all the way that she had not really weighted the consiquencies of her actions till now that she must have been carried way by the guys kind nature but she cant just fall in love with him and she feels it would mean doing him more wrong to marry him when the feeling is not there.

My dillema is that the guy has come to be a friend (Being my friends Boyfriend and all) and he is already down with my friends behaviour, i am afriad that telling him all this will only make matters worse. And on the other hand, maybe my friend dont understand what it means to fall in love and is confuse thinking one prince charming will come sweep her off her feet and rode her to a happily ever after.

I dont want to she the guy hurt and a dont want to see my friend cry a HAD I KNOWN, because they a good friends to me and my man and it is giving me serious concern. My Man said to ask the girl to tell her guy that though he will be hurt now, time will heal his wounds and he will be greatful later that she was truthful to him today. But i strongly believe that somehing is wrong cause if you see the two of them together all that will come to your mind is wedding bells.

Am suppose to see her this weekend and have a one on one talk with her over this issue (we have been talking ouver the phone), and am to have a talk with her man too this weekend. So Ladies and guys, brother and sisters, This is really serious i need your contribution to help me know how best to handle the matter at hand and save what i believe to be a very beautiful relationship and perfect couple. Let be candid, practical and factual please respond even if am off line i will get your message, Okay?

Thanx

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i pretty much like kisses especially wen dey are tender, however i love it he kisses me down dere, Infact i see the sun, the moon the mountains and the rivers, i See heaven, and pls the thought of it made remember wen he did it at a time, i didnt know wen i shouted kweke and got the neighbours knocking on his doors asking wats happening. ok dats the much i ll tell ur

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
i pretty much like kisses especially wen dey are tender, hw ever i love it he kisses me down dere, Infact i see the sun, the moon the mountains and the rivers, i See heaven, and pls the thought of it made remember wen he did it at a time i did know wen i shouted kweke and got the neighbours knocking on his doors asking wats happening. ok dats the much i ll tell ur

Well i would say different folk 4 different ppl cos i had a wonderful time during my service year dat when i gave my life to Christ and started seeing life from a whole different perception. As for flirting i didnt even observed it existed guess God jus kept me from seeing d things dat will upset my faith for him.

Cheating no i didnt cheat on him den all i was tinking is hw to tell him we ve to stop having sex cos we are not married.

Well i like playing hard to get i enjoy the attention and the looks of need on the guys face. dats why i still play hard to get on my man till date, If he wants to touch me i go take style form small even though i am dying for him to continue. Well, it make like for intense for me and i like it so. Dat me though other ladies might be different. Tk

Well i like playing hard to get i enjoy the attention and the looks of need on the guys face. dats why i still play hard to get on my man till date, If he wants to tocuh me i go take style form small even though i am dying for him to continue. Well, it make like for intense for me and i like it so. Dat me though other ladies might be different. Tk

my status is nearly married.

na wao its not easy! well u ppl shud pity her she cud be asking for a friend

@poster in response to ur question, i tink u shud put ur self in his shoes wat would u had expected of him. If to leave do so if otherwise u ve answered ur question, dats i wat i do in situations like dis. Take care, hope u make d right choice. _{cos wat goes around come around}.

To be truthful most ladies can but for guys make i talk true i beg e dey hard