fellow nairalanders,

can u continue a rltnship of 4 yrs wth no sex bt kisses and romance?

the guy is 24 and d lady is 23,can u?

lol why the tears na? yeah i can. . . . r'ship is not always abt sex, and if u're not prepared for the consequence, then it's better u abstain. . . sex no be food for survival

To be truthful most ladies can but for guys make i talk true i beg e dey hard

Abeg make we no decieve ourselves. 4 yrs ? Just Kissing and smooching? Wetin be that.

NOPE.
I better get married to him before we commit some atrocities before God.

Lolabbey, if you did, then you are the man!

Most guys can't

But I wonder where your strength comes from

Were you afraid to make the move? Were you just Godfearing Did you guys promise not to go beyond kissing & smooching
Were you immature
Or what

Besides kissing and smooching, depending on how deep and frequent no be small thing o!

opokonwa,

d tin b sey we don promise each oda.

bt now t din don dey tire d 2 of us

abeg she mak we go ahead?

lol

@poster
you sure say na una e tire or na only you e tire

Has your partner said it categorically say e don tire to only kiss & romance

I doubt o

The truth is dat some people fit BUT me i no fit try am, God forbid bad thing

why smooching and kissing if una no wan ,


but my own b say make una stop kissing and smooching.

so it makes it complete i.e no sex.

shikena.

Besides @poster,

I found out from the other threads you started that you are female.

So your man is not complaining but you
Well, if yu 're the one who has gotten tired of kissing and romancing but now needs handling and penetration, kindly let your man know.

Or better still, take the lead and let him folllow

Are you afraid to appear as the 'unreserved' partner?

I go fit abstain from sex, for religious reasons. But I may want to still a kiss once in a while.

For good four years without SEX, NOOOOOOO, I no fit lailai!
What are you waiting for since all this while, poor you!
It's worth crying, keep on crying till Jesus Christ comes'

opokonwa,
i be girl now,
i no claim man oooooo

cheers

@Lolabbey,

Please forget the yabs and hear my candid advice:

Since you've been able to hold on for four years, why don't you maintain 'n' hold on till you're married.

Mind you; 4 years is not 4 months, 4 days or 4 mins
It's not 40 days & 40 nights and it's not 400 dayz
It's a whooping 1460 dayz

Or is it that the possibility of marriage is now bleak and you want to sample the 'guzo'

There is nothing to lose in 'waiting' for something you know you will still enjoy in life. _{even if it is from another man.}

Abstinence is something to be proud of and defend. _{DO NOT MIND THE YABS.}

For good four years without SEX, NOOOOOOO!
What are you waiting for since all this while, poor you!
It's worth crying, keep on crying till Jesus Christ comes'([color=#990000][/color] .

THE TRUTH!!!

4 years
anytime i pee, im sure what will come out will be Sper. .

you need an award for that. OMG.

is a relationship only about sex? abeg. if the thing tire u, waka

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@chuchub, don't deceive yourself, girls likes it as much as men do even more. Just convince them you are not using them and after, you will still like her the same way, She will be the first to turn of the lights

if u really want to have sex, get married.

I nor fit o!

ol boy u dey try o
which kind yeye promise be that.
let me tell u,another person don dey chop ur moi-moi
next time she comes ,make una do am.if she no gree,
put three tablets of Valium 5 for her drink.
she go sleep fast then make u arrange am sharp sharp.
if she wake up make u beg am.chikena

its possible for some people, i did it for one year some 6years back,with somebody i really loved , but not too long i started cheating on her, right now i cant try it for one week. safest bet dont get into a relationship if you dont want sex, or you have made plans to get married in 6months time.

bennygee:

if she no gree,
put three tablets of Valium 5 for her drink.
she go sleep fast then make u arrange am sharp sharp.
if she wake up make u beg am.chikena

poster,
this is never an option, its better you call it quit if you cant cope anymore.

WORD! ! !

baby4u2:

if u really want to have sex, get married.

baby4u2:

if u really want to have sex, get married.

Abi!

bennygee:

ol boy u dey try o
which kind yeye promise be that.
let me tell u,another person don dey chop your moi-moi
next time she comes ,make una do am.if she no gree,
put three tablets of Valium 5 for her drink.
she go sleep fast then make u arrange am sharp sharp.
if she wake up make u beg am.chikena

bloody rapist

people have said it already, if you're tired of waiting, get married. . .better yet give yourselves space for the 'tension' to come down, then you can see if you're truly compatible for marriage before rushing in only because your genitals are crying out

bennygee:

ol boy u dey try o
which kind yeye promise be that.
let me tell u,another person don dey chop your moi-moi
next time she comes ,make una do am.if she no gree,
put three tablets of Valium 5 for her drink.
she go sleep fast then make u arrange am sharp sharp.
if she wake up make u beg am.[/b]chikena

You probably think you've said something "reasonble" but you are a[b]Bastard . You and your fellow croonies destroying girls lives will die shameful deaths. You think this is the era that rapists like you would go free, I will fight tooth and nail to reprimand all of you wicked, callous animals roaming the streets of Nigeria. It will not better for you. How dare you?

sister, we have to talk abt this ur anger oooooooo

stillwater:

You probably think you've said something "reasonble" but you are a[b]Bastard[/b] . You and your fellow croonies destroying girls lives will die shameful deaths. You think this is the era that rapists like you would go free, I will fight tooth and nail to reprimand all of you wicked, callous animals roaming the streets of Nigeria. It will not better for you. How dare you?

@topic

So whats so hard or wrong in keeping your zips up and legs closed?
as someone said above if you are tired of waiting for sex, get married. shikena.