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GravityDefier:
It's really painful to see someone spend his valuable time on this thread, sees the truth laid bare in its purest form and come up with some questions again which does not match the redpill instinct.
There's this girl I approached Saturday before last and we had a good rapport. She told me she's not currently online when I asked her of her contact so I had to ask her of her Facebook name of which she gave me. About Four days later (last week Wednesday) I sent her a friend request with my 2nd Facebook account (mind you I visit Facebook like once in a week or sometimes even longer). I just logged in few minutes ago to find my request still pending and my redpill instinct told me to cancel the request and I did. Always remember this: SHE'S NOT THE ONLY GIRL IN YOUR STATE.

ubunja:
how do green lights work? Look at the picture below. That's the summary of it. Then read the caption under the Pic "How you send your son Pic to babydaddy ".

I explained this last time. Let me explain again one more time.

The picture below is a green light. But if you look at the Pic it sends TWO different messages same time:
Message 1) the son in the picture: the message to the guy is "hey daddy, here is your son, see how he's grown!!

That's the surface message,, which the girl sent the picture for,, to show babydaddy his son. That's the "excuse". The pretext. The cover. This is the woman's defense. That picture is about her boy.

Message 2) the ass!! The ass!! The ass!!! That's the invitation. The undercover message. With that ass, the girl is saying to the father of her son, "see this ass? Do you miss it? You used to love it!! Come get it!!"

That's the real message. The actual green light. "come get this ass daddy!!".

Now if someone sees that picture, eg the girl's own parents, she'll say she's showing her man his son. And it will be believable. She doesn't have to explain the ass, as long as the son is there. Without the son the message will be too direct and too incriminating. And someone will legitimately ask: "Why are you sending your babydaddy your ass? Do you want his dicc?"
But she puts the ass AND the boy. The boy covers for the ass.

Babydaddy will instantly focus on the ass! And get the message. And call her.

If babydaddy isn't up for that shit and start confronting the girl about the ass, she'll quickly switch and say that's a pose she did without thinking,, she really wanted to show him the son! And thus the girl's dignity is intact and she doesn't come across as too desperate.


THAT'S THE SAME EXACT WAY WOMEN SEND GREEN LIGHTS to men out there. Women do things that can be seen as "ordinary" if you overthink it or are too slow.

Eg,, a girl can touch you lightly on the arm and ask about your tattoo. Or she can comment on your shirt quality while rubbing the fabric to feel it's quality. Both these are green lights. The girl likes you. But they're also normal things a girl can do to any guy on any given day. It's when a girl does a number of these "normal" things that you can accurately identify a green light.

Let's say you're at varsity,, a girl starts hanging around you, asking for your opinion on issues, complimenting you, asking your advice on things and taking an interest in the same things that interest you (eg same clubs, same sports) - - - that's a green light. The Girl likes you.
Now, do you court her, tell her how you feel or take her out on a date? NONE OF THE ABOVE.

This is how you deal with girls who choose you. Especially in familiar spaces like school, church etc.

ednut1:
Ski hill from bottom and top

Titaniumental:
Means nothing......Fact is:-

The last time Nigeria lost to Tunisia in regular time was 36 years ago (1985)

We have only lost one competitive game (on penalties) against Tunisia in the last 36 years.


And currently Nigeria is in a much much better shape than the Tunisians

Lightway:
Shakira refuses to marry pique because she knows she is 10 times richer than him.
So what she does to put pique on the leach is that she keeps pique as just boyfriend or baby daddy so that she too can continue to fork other guys on a low.
Even if pique finds out, he leaves the relationship and her money is intact but had it been she married him, when she cheats, pique leaves with 50% of her wealth.
This is the same style women Like Katy Perry, Celine Dion, Madonna and most rich single female celebs in USA, uses.

They finds a guy to service their pussies even get them pregnant but never marry them because they don't want to lose the wealth because these ladies knows, they too can fork other men at will.
And you tell me True love exist?
Na mumu man or guy they talk about True love and marry in a western world.
This is why i respect Ronaldo, he knows his woman is only there for the money ( he is a wise man)

TheUndercover:
Never trust a man with more female friends than male friends.

Sign of weak man.

TheUndercover:
A man can go from being a lover to being a stranger in three moves flat but a woman under the guise of friendship will engage in acts of duplicity which come to light very much later.

TheUndercover:
Appear unappealing to those who don’t appeal to you, for it is better to be undesired than to be desired by the undesirable.

TheUndercover:
Absence increases respect only when the absence is legitimate. If you ignore somebody but are observed by the ignored engaging others, you are not absent, and so elicit disrespect rather than respect. True absence is in disappearance, not observable silence.

TheUndercover:
If the group leader doesn’t like you in spite of your sincerest efforts to win them over, abandon that group. Take the loss, move on, and seek greener pastures. Trying to become a part of groups where the leadership hates you is rarely worth the uphill struggle. It is better to thrive where you are liked, than be contemptuously tolerated where you are not.

Do not outshine people who in whatever situation, possess a stronger position than you do. A local drug dealer may be a king in one part of the city, but four streets over a rival gang may want him dead. Your ego can be your own worst enemy so do not let the ego you’ve built up from being successful at whatever it is you do delude you into thinking you can immediately take centre stage wherever you go.

The environment you are in and what is working to directly benefit you within that environment is of incredible importance. Your environment
passively implies a cap on your power. It either grants you further personal power by making things easier (home field advantage, high status jobs) or takes power away from you, forcing you to compete on less favourable terms (away turf, low status jobs etc.)

Very deep. I still have a lot to learn

In light of this it stands to reason that one must always be aware of their terrain; be it the mud in a game of football, the cover in an online shooter or the dynamics of a social group.

Tonnyray:
Truth distilled to its very essence.
I bless the day I took an oath to myself just after graduation NEVER to engage in any amorous dealings with my colleagues or subordinates at work and clients.
No resolve of mine has been tested as much but Baba GOD backed it up and never let this His nonsense pikin down in that regard.

pansophist:
And their adoptive countries sef are smart. They'll offer you pathways to citizenship as a professional, just to retain you and increase the valuation of their workforce, meanwhile one country somewhere in Africa does everything to either make you leave, or not return, to its own detriment.

Ketapu:
I am very happy for you brother. You just practicalised the red pill. You should know that the red pill is hard to swallow and practice but failure to follow or practice them will make you have all sort of problems with females.

I have a lot to tell you. I hope I will be able to complete it in this write up.

First, you did the absolutely right thing by informing her exactly what you want from her. My mentor in that regard is Allan Roger Currie. In his books titled "Mode One: Let the woman know what you're thinking", what you did is exactly what he preached throughout. Many guys have been manipulated by ladies because the guys are not bold enough to tell the ladies what they want. The truths are the following:

1. The primary need of males from females is sex.

2. The primary need of females from males is provision (of almost any kind).

Most of the time, ladies are not afraid to make their needs known. They will ask for your money, attentions, gifts, etc.

Unfortunately, many guys are not bold enough to ask ladies for sex which is all what they really want from the ladies.

Also, ladies are aware that more than 90% of guys talking to them want sex. It is just that most are afraid to express themselves. So, as long as the guys are not bold to ask for sex, they will continue to manipulate the guys for provisions. If you think about what you did, that lady that rejected you will not be bold enough to ask you for any provision or help in the future since she is not ready to give you what you want. It's a win-win for you brother.

You did the right thing by telling her your mind. The thing is: YOU NOW KNOW THE TRUTH ABOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH HER.

The truth is that she doesn't consider you to be good enough to have sex with. All ladies have at least one guy they will never say no to. That guy can be their pastor, a celebrity, etc. So, for that lady that rejected you, you are just not that special guy she will never say no to. You are not her priority.

So, is that the type of lady you want to give your time, attentions, money, and what have you?

If you go through my previous posts, you will see that I've been in your situation before. Please, don't give a fucck about what she will do. In fact, this is what you should do.

1. Start ignoring her. Only do things that are absolutely necessary with her such as if you have office works to do together.

2. Keep your conversation very professional. No chit chats. No bullshit talk. Greet her normally like good morning, afternoon and the like. If you greet her and she doesn't respond well, stop greeting her.

3. NEVER APOLOGIZE TO HER FOR WHAT YOU HAVE SAID. SHE WILL LOST THE LAST RESPECT SHE HAS FOR YOU IF YOU APOLOGIZE. This warning is very important. I hope you have not even apologized because that will be a huge drawback. Your apology will only tell her that you never had any balls in the first place. You were just faking bad boy. She will thank her stars for rejecting a weak guy like you. If you don't apologise, you have a better chance of actually sexing her in the future.

4. Start talking and relating with prettier ladies. If possible, let her see you with them. That will make her jealous and she can start regretting rejecting you since you seems not to have been affected by her rejecting you. Please, this is where having ABUNDANCE MENTALITY becomes very useful. There are too many pretty ladies in the world to be wasting your time with one that doesn't see you as her sex partner.



Don't have any romantic relationship with your neighbors and co-workers. The risks outweigh the benefits.



Enjoy your night bro and stay strong.

ikenna930:
In the game of games...
Your reserves should even be better than the players you are playing with.

Lest the user become the used.

RikudoSennin:
Hi guys, let me share a bit of what went down last weekend with you people. So my friends and I planned an all day BBQ last Saturday and with the champions league final also going down that day, we decided to make it an all nighter.

Booked the hotel because I am 45 minutes away from the venue and I knew I was gonna drink even though I have been shying away from alcohol due to work-outs. 10am on Saturday, all set and ready to go with my wife. Then, she comes over to me and hands over my ring. Now, my skin for some reason itches when I have jewelry on. I don't wear jewelry no matter how expensive it is. My watches are all leather.

So, she hands me the ring and says I "must" wear it and I haven't worn this ring in a year or so due to this itching and more over, I have a very visible tan on my fourth finger o. I told her I am not gonna wear it and I will like to be on my way.

She does the unthinkable, she starts throwing mugs and dishes and throwing tantrums, banged my carry on bag so hard it tore Told her I aint wearing any ring because she knows what happens when I do and why is she insisting today when I am about to go party with my friends?

Well, I had to jaale at home and went to go have fun with my pals, I got home next day and she apologized for her behavior . Told her, when next something like that happens, I am gonna book an airbnb and go to a far away state for 2 weeks.

Kaymicheal852:
Female in male sport lol
I remember that time when hairstylist (barber ) and hairdresser are doing meetings together,then all kinds of shits and start to happen and we hear someone is dating another woman who is somebody else wife ,there is rumour, disrespect and member's funds begins to lost ( and I hear says IDI TIJE ) pussy don Chop our money lol




Our chairman have to disband the meeting before things goes worse ,the real truth is men and women can never be friends
REDPILL IS GOLDEN

Dpsychologist:
If you indefinitely PRETEND as though you're happy "just being a friend," with a woman but in reality, you are
dying to date or have sex with her, you are a weak man.

#RedpillSunday

Dpsychologist:
The only way that a woman can treat you in an undesirable, disrespectful manner is if you’re exhibiting behaviors that ALLOWS THEM TO treat you in an undesirable, disrespectful manner. That is weakness.

#DominanceMonday

TheUndercover:
All these happened because of the court vows involved.

Zabiboy:

It also played out with me and my aunt too ..
According to her, when konji finish me, i go run go marry

21cents:
Reason why every hustling dude should stay woke of their plans. bang those ones waiting for you at the finish line while you go for a young untouched virgin worthy of your resources.

No perforated hymen should be accepted after all your struggles. like Caveadullam said: Wh0res should be forced into extinction. pity yourself abeg.