₦airaland Forum

Mhistasaints:
Hello guys! I need a simple advice. I am a married man, my ex-girlfriend is also married. I've been married for 2years now and she got married 2months ago. When I got married, she told me she was disappointed at me, that why couldn't I come and beg her when she said no. She was the one that left me in the relationship telling me that her people say that I was too young and had nothing. I focused, achieved and got married at 23yrs.

Of late, she chatted me up and we discussed. She started being too intimate to the extent of trying to discussing her sexual marital life with me on her she doesn't like having sex with her husband. Few days ago, she started asking me for money. I am sensing something fishy.

What do I do?

ami213:
Check Qlife or IOM website to check for available dates and book an appointment afterwards.

Anon123:
For the police certificate, kindly go to Alagbon police state CID in ikoyi. Its cheap(depending on your bargaining prowess) and its a few mins thing, you are given the police certificate.

For medicals, you book for it.

Either visit IOM in Ikeja or Qlife family clinic in VI.
Google the two names, you will get their site to book.

Oggg:
you dont need them for student visa. Anyway for police report go to fcid alagbon in lagos or zone 10 in abuja.

Oggg:
u dnt need both for school application nor visa. Who said u do? Abo are you going for a course whre u will be in contact with vulnerable ppl? Thts d only group tht needs police report. Oga check well

Oggg:
u dnt need both for school application nor visa. Who said u do? Abo are you going for a course whre u will be in contact with vulnerable ppl? Thts d only group tht needs police report. Oga check well

ami213:
Go to Alagbon police station. It is done for five thousand naira (5000)

Oggg:
police and medical report for what

Rilwayne001:
Nevertheless this is Nigeria, and he’s from the north (supposed first class citizens of Nigeria). I won’t be surprised if the case is later buried and Kyari becomes a free man.

tunlex01:
What for?

doctokwus:
Oya tell me,I know you want to come up with one conspiracy theory.
I am open to any ideas,so let's hear it.

Dukeolumidemans:
They don't want to send this guy to face justice in US. They prefer to give him life imprisonment because after some time, everyone will forget about him and move on. The next Aboki administration will bring him out...una no smart at all.



I come in peace!!!

doctokwus:
For the NDLEA under Marwa to have even broadcast that tape for the public shows they also know how dishonest and corrupt the Nigerian police id

Yankeeboy02:
I just want to share my story to the world.
When I graduated, I was so blessed that I didn’t hurt for job, before I got one. I was working in the bank and was paid well, within a year I rented an apartment and got married, things was falling in place and I felt on top of the world before I started gambling, how I started it, I can’t explain. I lost all my resources and money within two years, I was sacked eventually and life became worst for me.
I got another job and promised my wife, family and kids to be a responsible father, but the urge for gambling keep coming, I couldn’t control the urge, I lost the job again.
My wife believed am a good man, but I see myself like am cursed and it is not that am getting money from the gambling.
I am sick and tired of life, I am a failure, sometimes I feel like committing suicide, I have brought shame to my family and kids.
Please I need help, am jobless, money can’t stay in my hand, I will go to gambling shop and lavish it.
Am I cursed, I need help

adeheritage:
What help do you need, what steps have you taken?

tesppidd:
And if he does time for the drugs case in Nigeria the US would still require his extradiction even if it is 30 years from now.

You think the Nigerian government doesn't know this?

WhatCanIsay:
That Abba Kyari is a corrupt police officer and a criminal is no more surprising, we have crossed the bridge last year.

What should grab our attention now is the high smelling level of corruption and deceit in the police force. The NPF told all Nigerians that Abba Kyari has been suspended of his duties subsequent on his investigation. But today we were all made aware that it was all smokescreen, Abba Kyari has been functioning as a full fledged police officer even with his own police team under his beck and call.

He wasn't even bothered about the crime he committed and the "so called investigation" against him. He has been committing more crimes and arrests with the blessings of the Nigeria Police Force. This should tell all and sundry about the decay that is the NPF, the more senior you are, the more corrupt you are.

I think we shouldn't not just be flashing light exclusively on Abba Kyari, rather all lights and indignation should be zoomed upon the NPF authorities.

AdeniyiA:
You are very correct, the NPF needs total overhauling but I doubt if it can be done by this set of people who thinks they own the land and can do whatever they want.
I raise this same issue on a post by EFCC where they declared him wanted, I initially thought they made a mistake when I read 18th January 2022 but on finishing the post I was dumbfounded that Abba Kyari is still active even till this moment in the NPF. I Was like wtf! �

FadiyayTee01:
There is something fishy about the whole issue. I am still wondering why it is this time the allegation surfaced when the alleged is going through a probe that requires extradition by FBI. This looks more or less like using small evil to avert bigger evil, I don’t know if anyone understands me enough.

Righteousness2:
You Board private jet,
You eat jollof rice
You travel round the universe,
You Own all the resources, connections and things that money can buy,
BUT you Live in evil, Abominations and sin and you Depart this Earth without JESUS Christ,
Ladies and Gentlemen, you Have wasted your Life. You will Perish in Hell.

Never allow the Vanities of life Confuse you and make you be an enemy of GOD.
Eternity is to long to toil with the few tears we have on Earth.
Repent! Amend your ways , Surrender to JESUS Christ and Live for HIM so that it will be well with you.

Baawaa:
This country is not balance,he was suspended and he is still active in the service, no wonders that all sacked security officers still function after sacked.
Moreover, his wanted by EFCC should be monitored,is like these people are playing on our collective intelligent

FirstbornWds:
I agree with you about the favoritism part, partially.

But the only reason why I am against Gavi is his reluctance to release key passes immediately. This should have been addressed already by bringing in Auba and playing Ferran on the wings or better still, remove Ferran for Dembele.

FirstbornWds:
I beg to differ. That boy is young and is already playing a top 9 for a team like ours already... It's not going to be easy..



If there's anything I'll bless Koeman for doing, it's gonna be the inclusion of Luuk De Jong and the emergence of Pedri.