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You're right with these statements....

You see that number 3, I'm sure, that lady is seeing another dude na you no wan do...

It's high time men know that " if their women cheat on them, they should let her go" because if they forgive them, they will cheat on them again and still blame them for forgiving them

obiekunie01:
1. she is still seeing that guy that got her pregnant.

2. They hardly walk away from that kind of guy.

3. i know the effort i made to discourage one like that from coming to see me years after she settled with her mumu husband that she always talk down when she comes visiting.




LISTEN TO THIS GUY. HE IS SO ON POINT.

Her comments just weak me sef...
Jumping everywhere trying to make OP see reason why he should stay with her.

Justbehave:
I don't know why you don't have sense. He said he will prefer she leaves with the kid,you said it's a bad decesion because she won't be there for her other kid and that broken home is the major cause of bad kids but you still went ahead to tell him to ask the wife if she will still be with him and then count his loss. Since you don't want him to separate from the cheating wife,why are you telling him to ask her? Why repeating what you said is a bad decesion? Or do you like to talk plenty without reasoning just for talking sake. Spit.

Simplyfun:
You need to tell your wife that the 4th child is not yours. If she wants to argue with you then show her the DNA result. If she know who owns the baby you can give her time to return the child. But if she didn't know the person please train the child. But don't hide this issue from her parents.

And of course, she would still be meeting the father of the baby.

if you forgive a lady/woman for what she suppose not to be forgiven for such as cheating, she would do it again and later blame you

LMAO...
Are you joking ? Because this your comment get as e be....

You don't even see anything wrong in what she did because you don't condemn the act... bravo!!

He should tell her to return the baby to the owner .... make I laugh again abeg even though the statement isn't funny...

Is the baby a bread/groundnut/biscuit ?

That can be returned to the seller(father) because you don't like it.

If he dare stay in that relationship/marriage, I can bet it that she would still cheat over and over again.

If you read the OP message very well, she was already 2 months gone before he pinned the baby on him.


OP note this that if you forgive a lady/woman for what she suppose not to be forgiven for such as cheating, she would do it again and later blame you.

Sweetplum:
I suggest you tell her to return the child to the owner.
I can't take such thing if I m a man.
Try and see if the relationship can work after she returned the child. If it can't work, separate. A broken heart can heal. A damaged home can't heal.
Link to the previous thread of the op
https://www.nairaland.com/7252543/unsure-father-fourth-child

Rexymania:
The hot water, while pouring it inside your Pap should be little. Pour it gently

I think it depends on 2 things; how the pap is mixed with the cold water and 2ndly, how the water is poured..

obiekunie01:
corrected sir.

in fact she raised this issue here bc she is having a problem with the side dude now.

I thought as much sir

For a lady/woman to do these...

obiekunie01:
see how insulting and disrespectful you are to your husband.

I guess there's a side dude somewhere

Newfoundlove:
U better start to dey find new or fairly used husband

Are you sure she doesnt have already?

Women of nowadays that once they start making money like this.. they feel they don want to be understand the control of one man until when old age sets in...mtchwww

Meteoritey:
Due to work, my husband and I live in states, and my husband lives in Canada. 3 months ago we had some serious skirmishes during our phone conversation and in the heat of the argument, I told him that he does not appreciate the fact that I am raising the kids and doing everything alone.

To my disappointment, he told me that he is overworked more than me. This really angered me. This got me angry and I hung up. Although He tried to reach me for 4 days, and also sent me some messages, I cut him off without replying, about 9 weeks later, I sent him just a message on an unrelated issue, he ignored my message, after another month, I sent him another message, he also ignored. It has been 3 months now we have not spoken to each other.

Recently my brother had a baby, and he only called once to congratulate them. Moreover my younger sister got admission to a university to study the same course that my husband studied, so naturally, my sister contacted him. My sister said he advised her on what to do and what she should expect. This was about 2 months ago. I personally did not inform him about my sister’s admission myself.

After about one month, my sister also called him for more information, but he has not been picking my sister’s call.

My sisters fiancee also called him to inform him about their upcoming marriage (my same sister that got the admission) he only spoke with my sister and her fiancee once, he stopped further communication with them on both issues of admission and marriage, and that he only spoke with them the first time about the admission and the marriage out of the respect he has for them.

He gave my sister the excuse that it was not proper, for him to speak with her fiancee' because he said that I have not told him anything about the marriage, therefore he can not relate further with my sister as per the marriage. And that it was out of respect that he even called my sister initially to advice her.

What are you thoughts and opinion please.

You disrespected your hubby and from your right up here, you're not remorseful about what you did neither are you are ready to apologise, bravo!!

Wait, what exactly do you want him to do about the unrelated issue you contacted him for ?

Like he should go and testify in church/mosque that you finally contacted him... Lmao.

It's obvious that your husband has been taking this same attitude of yours for years and your cup is now full.


I don't want to assume there's another side dude somewhere oooo

It's well sha...

This is it...

Fahvvy:
... is proof that this is not the first time you have given him the cold shoulder over minor issues such as this

I guess you're right about this...
It is obvious it is not her first time of doing this to him and I want to assume that the husband has been tolerating her over the years and he's obviously tired of her attitude.

Thomas, is that you ?

Truthisunique2:
Show the full area

E no suppose hard, they were jam-packed one place

I'm not going to tell anyone what to do or who to vote for in the coming election...

But before you cast your votes... just add 8 years to your current age to know how old you would be by the time the person you vote for finishes his tenure.


I'm of this belief that this country is irredeemable.

why did I say so ? you may ask

I don't think any president can fix things even in 8 years.

I am not being pessimist here because even if the president has good intentions and ready to work. What about the senators, house of reps, law makers and all


I could remember Buhari's first tenure. APC said he couldn't work because the then Senate President was from the opposition party (PDP) , and that he was blocking the bills passed. Nigerians listened to their (APC) excuses and voted in APC member as the Senate president but has there be any reasonable or notable changes? Your answers is as mine....

What would be the perfect way forward would be that they should sign it into law that any politician that embezzle money should be executed just like they do in China.

By so doing, before you go into politics, you would think twice.

And also, both ICPC and EFCC should be independent and not depend on the government for their salaries.

Maybe, we should even hire foreigners to be working for both.

I am just tired of the country...

Like, they couldn't even look good lies to tell us. Nigerians because they know we can't do them anything.

Or how can we explain the following lies...

A snake swallow billions of Naira. Like how ?
Monkey swallow billions

The point is, we Nigerians don't matter to these people.

Just look at China that's not even as religious as Nigeria.

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I'm not going to tell anyone what to do or who to vote for in the coming election...

But before you cast your votes... just add 8 years to your current age to know how old you would be by the time the person you want to vote for would finish his tenure.


I'm of this belief that this country is irredeemable.

why did I say so ? you may ask

I don't think any president can fix things even in 8 years.

I am not being pessimist here because even if the president has good intentions and ready to work. What about the senators, house of reps, law makers and all


I could remember Buhari's first tenure. APC said he couldn't work because the then Senate President was from the opposition party (PDP) , and that he was blocking the bills passed. Nigerians listened to their (APC) excuses and voted in APC member as the Senate president but has there be any reasonable or notable changes? Your answers is as mine....

What would be the perfect way forward would be that they should sign it into law that any politician that embezzle money should be executed just like they do in China.

By so doing, before you go into politics, you would think twice.

And also, both ICPC and EFCC should be independent and not depend on the government for their salaries.

Maybe, we should even hire foreigners to be working for both.

I am just tired of the country...

Like, they couldn't even look good lies to tell us. Nigerians because they know we can't do them anything.

Or how can we explain the following lies...

A snake swallow billions of Naira. Like how ?
Monkey swallow billions

The point is, we Nigerians don't matter to these people.

Just look at China that's not even as religious as Nigeria.

garriAndsugar:
E no go pass baking powder or semovita Dem burn like that

The real cocaine go don enter market by now

you code

Islandlady:
Why won't I collect the money, it is my personal money!

Oh, your personal money?

That your so called "personal money" might even be from the man's money.
The money he gives you for foodstuffs and all.
You might be the type that would keep part of it as your money..

The question is, where is the money generated by the government going to ?

Whew!!

silibaba:
God forbid BATthing.

Hand dey shake
Leg dey shake
Baba wey no well, dey shout EMILOKAN

Nigerian youth shine your eyes oo

Is N715/$ okay?

Forcing our fathers, brothers, uncles riding keke napep to buy APC sticker, is it okay?

Is N200/litre okay?

Graduates earning N30k per month, is it okay?

Loan shark took advantage of us coz of the hardship in the land and calling out contacts to defame us, is it okay?

All the corona virus palliattives given to us by the western countries were hijack by politician for their selfish gain, is it okay?

Bank debiting our bank account at will, is it okay?

Bread is now N1200-N1800 is it okay?

Cooking gas is 850/kg is it okay?

Is extortion from the police force okay?

Is the killing of Samuel Deborah okay?

Is ASUU strike okay?

Is raping our mothers and daughters, sisters and aunty okay?

Is the rise in the cost of foodstuff okay?

Agbero dressing well and feeding more than our fathers, brothers, ourselves driving kerope okay?

Their children are traveling Abroad and we are here suffering for their sin is it okay?

Another year has come, and now you want my vote once more.

They are flying private jet with tax payer money. Is it okay?

Is Nigeria labelled as corrupt people by her own president okay?

All our youth traveling for greener pasture and abandoning their fatherland, is it okay?

We cant boast of 12hours power supply and ordinary Ghana just celebrated 3 years of uninterrupted power supply, is it okay?

Traffic jam here and there in the country due to bad road, is it okay?

Unless you have long leg, you can't get a government job on merit, is it okay?



Bad road killing us on daily basis, is it okay?

Is Supreme court Governor okay?

Ritual here and there in the country, is it okay?

Our politician living flaboyant lifestyle, is it okay?

No more freedom of speech, is it okay?

Oil is in southeast and south south but refinery is in the north, is it okay?

We are yet to see feeding our children in school, is it okay?



Dey hold bottle water like say na breast him dey suck.

Dont sell your conscience for a plate of porridge pls. After 2023, na till 8 yrs later.

Kidnapping in the country, is it okay?

IS IT A CRIME TO FIGHT FOR WHAT IS OURS?

let's get it right once and for all.


Obi is the man

Labour party is the platform

We are the movement to sweep out all the aforementioned in our land.

Nigeria will be great again,

ANDREW NO CHECK OUT OO
NIGERIA GO BETTER.

All these can't be changed in 4 years by Obi's administration unless he is ready to step on many TOES which I know no politician would want to do.

Although, I will still vote him... I have my PVC ready

And I keep telling people this that

Massiveglory:
The day lagos breaks loose from tinubu, that is day lagos will see light.

But majority are blind to see, even the so called lettered.

Lagos make billions weekly and there is nothing to show for it be it in infrastructural development or others.

This team can beat man u

This Barca team is a work in progress.

We are only feeling bad because we expected too much from them in that match.

Let's give them time to gel together.

It's a project.

I believe, they would still meet Bayern again in the semifinals or final .

I believe by then, this Barca team would have the chance to show the world they are ready and are true champions but till then, let's keep supporting them.

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
Kill self esteem ke? Very lame excuse. Going into d 2nd half , bayern coach immediately removed Sabitzer & replace him with Goretzka.

Lol ...
I can see you don't know ball... he removed him because of his yellow card. Sabitzer was on yellow card and very vulnerable/close to getting the 2nd one.


It's not by force to support a team. You can easily look for another team to support.

Muller go use Barca laff again...

I dey wait for him post...

Thank God they lost this match sef...
The result has shown that we aren't there yet.

We still have one and two things to tidy up...

Guy, calm down...

Football doesn't work that way.

A good coach is a good gambler.
He can't just sub player like that, he would kill his self esteem.

The only problem Barca had was not taking those chances that they had in the first half which could have changed the outcome of the match.

Bimmarlykay:
Any Barca way talk again say Xavi was spot on with his tactics my all frustration go enter you oo.

When we saw the line up few minutes to the game we were slandering Alonslow,gane started and he proved we were correct.

Raphinha played shit why not sub him out immediately after first half.

Why not start Kessie,De jong using old Busquet in a match intensive game like this.

You come put Ferran fraudress

Why did he buy Bellerin,Kessie if you.Even Kounde lost ball many times ...omo Xavi Bleep up i dey vex allah.

Raphinha is a good player but at times he over does his things which is annoying...


Xavi should work on shooting abilities of these players.

I hope Barca learns from this game sha.

Played well in the 1HF and should've scored at least two goals and that would have finished the match because Bayern would want to ewualised at all cost by coming out more which would have resulted into counter attack by Barca resulting into more goals.

It's not bad though..

Barca can still win the group.

Mirawonder007:
But sincerely ,how barca take do this transfer window ?

This article isn't for this season

Omobola121:
No fixed fees. You appreciate them ( buyer and seller decision)

Thank you.

I appreciate

ok, thank you for the explanation.

what are their fees ?

Omobola121:
There are verified escrow here like Wese90, Cokebar, Samsard and the rest. They serve as a middleman between the buyer and the seller.

When you have any deal, you reach out to any of them ( of course the seller and buyer must agree on that particular person (escrow).

The buyer will send total payment to the escrow, after escrow has confirmed payment received, the seller will release whatever stuffs you guys are transacting.

Buyer confirm Oder received and complete then escrow will release fund to the seller.

Please, I need PayPal funds (abt 40 USD) for checkout

sorry to ask...
How does this escrow thing work ?

Because I have been seeing people requesting to use it here

Omobola121:
PayPal fund needed $300-500

Buying rate 620

Contact on my Sig

Escrow is a must.