₦airaland Forum

Paulajeigbe:
I know this may rock the table at various point with various reasons. Yet, I want to ask the women and the wife's, who may be in this at this time or who have done this before as a get back response to pepper their man just for offending them. Did this solve the matter? And then I am asking, please what lesson or point do you want your man to get or gain, when he offends you and he is asking to be intimate with you and you are carrying the gateway to his kingdom away?

Has this pepper him approach solved any thing? I don't think so.

I wish we know that sex in marriage is a powerful tool. And so to use it againt your husband is like using a weapon against yourself. It does not end well. It will affect your whole family. Because once your man is no longer focused at work,all he now sees are ladies in the mini's and the bikini's and the spaghettis and noodles, things he has been seeing but because he has a woman who is giving it to him well and with joy, na wahala dey knock o.

So what should you do woman?
Your bobo offended you, and one way or the other he hasn't apologize yet. He is forming and shurning and not even paying attention to you. So it looks as if the both of you are doing Tom and Jerry in your home.

Then 10pm he is coming close to you bringing his key. He want to enter Into the tabernacle and just be lost there. Abeg wife, woman, this is not the time to turn , then you look at him , and then you now hissed and cover yourself with the duvet. Noooo!!!
He has only come to resolve matters. Lol! Welcome him, calm him down and then take him to paradise gradually and steadily. Don't raise the matter of what he has done yet. While he is still worshipping and doing all of the different worship styles let him. When you have taken him there and then back, this is the time to open up your heart. Tell him his offense and how hurt you have been. Pour out everything.

I know some men are insensitive. Immediately they have stood up from the place of worship, and then dash out leaving the woman just their. Yet, for a majority this is the time they just want to listen and truly listen. When a man truly know what it means for him to have been taken to the tabernacle of worship and back by his wife whom he has offended, he will apologize. For someone like me, I won't only apologize alone, I ma take her shopping, I will make feel like the woman she is. I will kindly that light again. Sabi it was the tabernacle you she took you to, Kai !!! Wait until she takes you to paradise all because you triggered the girls and the beautiful woman in her.

We men have lost our wives because we weren't sensitive. And by the time we are realizing the damage has gone too deep and things done spoil far.

So in summary, and in conclusion, denying your husband sex because of offense isn't the way. There are better ways and approaches that brings the result you desire.

Kindly leave you comments I would be reading and replying. Peace.

chatinent:
Oga, it will not remove any hair from your body to stop being puffed up with pride, apologize for your wrong, and enjoy peace!

Is it a military regime?

Your whole body offend person dey keep malice but your odogwu dey form emissary.

By the way, I see you are seeing cheating as an alternative! It is wrong! Cheating is not among your options!

chival:
Virginity is a virtue no doubt and young ladies should strive to go to their marriage beds with their virginity still intact. However, the truth is that virginity alone will not guarantee a successful marriage. I have been married for almost 13 years and I know marriage takes a lot of work and sacrifice on BOTH sides.

honey930:
I am a YouTuber myself and I verified my AdSense account about 5 weeks ago after a long and tortuous process. It could take that long if you have no idea on what to do. I received my PIN in May in Ogun State. That PIN is actually for ADDRESS VERIFICATION.

Do not listen to anyone advising you to cut corners. You can't beat Google. You have a lot to lose if you do. They don't.

Google AdSense is more concerned about your name and address being EXACT match.

For Nigeria, they accept: National ID, Driver's License and Int'l Passport. I used the 3rd...and they will send your payment once it reaches a threshold of US$100 and not US$150.

Once your name differs, your account WILL NOT be verified. Intact, the name arrangement is very important. If your profile name is in first name/middlename/surname format and you submitted an ID in surname/midname/firname or any other format, your account WILL NOT be verified. After 2 attempts, your account will be on HOLD and your ads will STOP running.

My account was held 4 times when I started the verification process in August this year having received my PIN in May. But I held my ground and I got 2nd, 3rd and 4th opportunities to RE-UPLOAD.

You can only contact Google AdSense if you are a YouTuber from the HELP menu of your YouTube Channel. I did that and I got a response from YouTube Partner Support in 24hours.

Do same.

But b4 you do make sure you cross-check the details on your AdSense profile and ensure an EXACT name and address match with whatever documents you have.

Note: Your address MUST match your payment details too.

Google ain't taking chances. But they will listen to you. So, contact them.

Don't play smart. They will block you and never revisit your case. DON'T LET THAT HAPPEN.

Stand your ground, be honest and goodluck!

Barrister026:
My dad called me on the phone 2 days ago asking if I be coming home for the holiday, which is unlikely of him, because I just left home not quite long and he hardly call. (I school within our state, studying law)..... while we were on the call he mentioned about the Dr appointment. (We normally do routine check-up every 2 months )

Throwing the question to me if I even know my blood group. (I replied, no)
At FIRST I thought it's just a normal question.

Am 21yrs old, eldest among 3 siblings and I think my dad has something planned out, he's an Internet freak even more than I, he's actively online on twitter, facebook, and seeing all the uproars about DNA test here and there on Nairaland, I think he's going to ask me to come to the hospital with him disguising it as me Knowing my blood group (for a DNA test.)

The thing here is am scared, because all my life I have seen people saying never to trust a woman (I love my mom, but still am scared)

What if it's a DNA test (which I strongly believe it is)
What if it's turns out complicated
Would he still accept me? Or abandon me to myself.
So many thoughts running through my head, they are reasons for that.

He's black, I am fair (though my mum says I took his father complexion)


Pls help me...am thinking to stay back in school or go home This evening.
Am confused.

Barrister026:
My dad called me on the phone 2 days ago asking if I be coming home for the holiday, which is unlikely of him, because I just left home not quite long and he hardly call. (I school within our state, studying law)..... while we were on the call he mentioned about the Dr appointment. (We normally do routine check-up every 2 months )

Throwing the question to me if I even know my blood group. (I replied, no)
At FIRST I thought it's just a normal question.

Am 21yrs old, eldest among 3 siblings and I think my dad has something planned out, he's an Internet freak even more than I, he's actively online on twitter, facebook, and seeing all the uproars about DNA test here and there on Nairaland, I think he's going to ask me to come to the hospital with him disguising it as me Knowing my blood group (for a DNA test.)

The thing here is am scared, because all my life I have seen people saying never to trust a woman (I love my mom, but still am scared)

What if it's a DNA test (which I strongly believe it is)
What if it's turns out complicated
Would he still accept me? Or abandon me to myself.
So many thoughts running through my head, they are reasons for that.

He's black, I am fair (though my mum says I took his father complexion)


Pls help me...am thinking to stay back in school or go home This evening.
Am confused.

ojesymsym:
I just took out one of my expired ATM card and read out the number to him.

Magnoliaa:
Oil is in your head. I liked you before; it grew after I saw you and now it's tripled after this post of yours.



...and no bite. Hahahahaha. They'll be fine. That was how they were raving about sex dolls that year, too.

New year, new trends to get mad about and post their dark opinions on the internet, they feel like gods and move on to something else.

AmazonTopaz:
Lol abeg leave them to be making noise online how many of dem fit even afford to pay for DNA test.


Why is this intelligent man telling them the obvious please let them find out their truths if e go well for them congratulations the ones wey e nor go well for let them not be suicidal.Also they should also be subjected to DNA test too some of them are not from their fathers loins since everything wan scatter let it just scatter finish.

Even in the olden days men fathered children that were not theirs let the tracing begin everyone of them asking for a DNA test should be tested to see if they are their fathers sons.

FutureIsFemale:
Oh! What a relief. Finally a man who uses his brain has been unveiled.

NB: I don't support infidelity.

My concern is the emotional breakdown of the kids and the family at large.

LilMissFavvy:
Mr. Salami is right. This is exactly what I said in another thread. As long as a child bears your name and see's you as a father, you can forgive your wife and continue, especially if she has appologised and willing to turn a new leaf. It's needless scattering your home and breaking the innocent child's heart. After all in most families of today, it is husband and wife who cater for the children, so don't say you are training another man's child, you train the child with your wife, not alone.

Let me watch as the "men are polygamous in nature" crew will attack me . They can't seem to accept what they dish out. Some have fathered kids outside their marriages.

Trumann:
Men, no need to make noise about DNA. Get your children's toothbrushes and if that is too difficult, give them straw to drink Fanta with. That straw is enough to conduct DNA test with.

Once you have the results, if they are yours, congrats. Don't tell your wife.
If they are not, wait for a time when your wife has gone out, get a carpenter to change the locks to the door of your house and tell her to meet you at her father's house.

In the presence of your family and hers, present the result.

Here is a link for DNA testing centres in Nigeria.
https://www.finelib.com/health/laboratories/dna-and-paternity-test.

Don't spend your life training bastards, be smart. Do that DNA test today.

Trumann:
Here is a link for DNA testing centres in Nigeria.
https://www.finelib.com/health/laboratories/dna-and-paternity-test.

osuofia2:
Sheikh El zakzaky is right, If Nigeria were to be under Islamic republic there wont be one single Beer, Olosho,No Ipob, No Afonja Skull Miners. Nigeria will have fresh Air.

Efe42:
My girlfriend just ended our 8 month's relationship with no suitable reasons. When I asked her, she said because I don't give her attention anytime she's talking and she mostly talk about celebrity and social media life style which I don't find interesting topic on.

I'm so tired this evening feeling down about this!!

Kobojunkie:
You tell a mother not to kiss her own baby, from her own womb, in the mouth, why?

If you need to seek counseling for the abuse you suffered as as child, then go get it quickly. But to try to restrict a woman from showing love and affection to her own baby because you were abused is a bit too much.

And using the teenage girl living with you as reason to scold your wife is ridiculous. Tell the girl she is not to do the same to the child, not scold your wife for showing affection as a mother to her own offspring.

Seniorwriter:
Rearrange the name El-Rufai.....it simple is same with FAILURE!



@Seniorwriter

Doraty1:
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Mangekyo:
Nice one
... Go PSG

Meanwhile someone find me 5H make I take watch this match na

Boss13:
Don't be desperate.

oluwasegun007:
They are not serious,

Fuel bubu is ready to sell to them at very cheap price.