Before I started having serious relationship, I was playing around.
Had as much as 9 straffing mates, some in the meantime forgotten or jilted.
Some travel and lose communication.
In the even of all this, I find it very spiritual when one of this gurl's that I know likes money calling me when I just get paid big time after a long time of no call.

Or like the one I kinda like have feelings for calls me 20 seconds after just thinking about her after such a long time and she also has not called in a long time as well.
Can someone define this kind of un-usual happening? Is it spiritual or just a normal thingy.

u should be able to extract my point from my saying below:

I think I like iice, cos she goes about her own business as assigned on every section she's being appointed, unlike some,

Sup pipple? Which moderator on the Romance section do you admire/like the most? Specify and state reason why!

[b]I think I agree on what eyo said regarding her using born again as an excuse. I read part of his post stating that he bought her an ipod, there is every possibility that her friends in school must have given her such advise, cos for the fact that someone in lagos sent someone in owerri an Ipod, they'll probably feel the guy eyo is a mugu, which I think he is not. Girls use this as a form of protection in order to hold a guy down for as long as they want, because they know sex wont be involved or any other form of romancing.
The girl sure knows what she is doing, eyo dnt fall for that crap, she wants to keep you on hold, so you can supply her everything she needs, cos she knows if she gives u sex, u might run away, I am 100% sure her friend have told her that, she might not have had such thought cos she is young, but am quite sure her friends will.
@ your recent post, go and see the chick and read her reactions from the question you speculated yu'll throw at her. I feel your pain, cos am almost in the same category you are in. cheers!![/b]

fizofly:

@poster
I don't really know what to say here, but i must tell you who ever mentioned it that internet dating doesn't work is not lieing to you.

First you guys start to chat
then it moves to calling
but bet me, the very day you guys set your eyes on each other about 45% of whatever feeling and fantacies you have for each other will be lost that very day.

Like someone suggested see them and talk to them. that's the purest.

and if you are shy and need someone to hook you up to a very beautiful,God fearing,Ambitious,hardworking and independent lady then holla at this home boy. i will hook you up in no time at all

Thanks brof, thats exactly the kind of girl that I need, please holler me at l.st4@hotmail.com

I would prefer lpool in this QF for a revenge of 07, then MAN-U at semis for revenge of 08. With the baloon ball of the EPL, we will hold posession and we'll see how the baloon will fly. Ogazi where u bin dey since?

segzi cres:

@clone who is the kid here. you can't get em ladies and you feel the internet is a good place to start!! especially nairaland!!! damn, my 2 days old cousin is wiser.

This guy beat it mehn, if it does not work for u or other pple u know, that dnt disapprove me from trying.

I am sure this phat girl is a flirt, the award whatever on the front page must award u the biggest unserious flirt.

crazykid:

@clones666

What kind of dates are we talking about here?

Serious intimate relationship.

I have had dates with almost 7 girls now, none seem to hv drawn my attn.

segzi cres:

try cock suckers.com. freak.com get_a_life.com fools.com these are very reliable sites you can acess. goodluck on your ultimate search.

Thanks sistajay, i got it, segzi, why this? U must be a kid.

what extention does nairalist have?

Please provide.

Where is best to post a thread stating that I need a new girl? I cannot seem to meet someone I love as much as my gf I lost in school. I want to give the internet a try, if it would work out. Anyone with info?

Thanks.

I am not cheating on my girl, I am only bringing about this topic due to how our campuses are, I mean guys can pressure a girl for complete two years, u know what am saying, even a good girl will later fall. I am a DJ, and a beat producer, i do not have time for myself talkless of another girl. I no even send again jare.

im a cancerian, and part of our quality is emotions. It aint bad, bt being too emotional is bad.

So eyo ur in da same shoes as I am? What are the measures you have been implementing to make urself unworried about the issue?

tonye-t:

This game is a two way thing:

let me speak from a bad brother angle,

i still believe anytime that my chic aint mine until she is mine - hope you know what i mean

there is this psyche i play on them

1. i tell them to feel free and socialise in school, because i aint their husband yet, now what this does is like "giving a dog a rope to hang itself" i discover they come back telling me i dont like them thats why i give them a free hand to relate

now believe me this, your ladies will resent you if you r 2 clumsy, give them breathing space, afterall "girl wer go spoil go spoil" so kini big deal

so far as i know, my chic in school just hates it when i pretend i dont love her, that i rarely call her,but i know deep down that i love her like heaven , take this "ladies hate clumsy guys", like the say goes "whatever you dread is what befalls you" get it?



if you really want to have her as your own, then ENGAGE HER, and give her reasons for your babish act

You are ryte!!

gaussian:

ol boy wot u dont kno cant hurt u so d sooner u get ur crooked mind off certain things d beta 4 d both of you! Most girls r Unfaithful but anyways wots meant to b will jus b regardless of how much u fight over it so try study her calls when she is around and general behaviour!

Will do just that, and one thing I am quite sure about is, to me ooo, I beleive no one can ever be as good in a relationship with that girl than me, even if she's got a guy, there will be so many things missing. Making her run back to me, although I might not know she has been going out with a dude.

pc guru:

Dude of all numbers u chose that are you a satanist

Sure I am, your father initiated me, ur mum is the exorcist, they divorced when ur mum was trying to deliver from the bondage ur father got me in.

delegirl:

i don't think dat can happen, for her to be faithful for 4yrs.

True, very true, though I love to beleive the worse, bt this is quite obvious, its not possible.

hehehe, hahaha, two rivals getting married. very funny.

MrCrackles:

It is possible to stay faithful for that long!

I really hope so.

Ifedisky:

Campuses are a severe test to distant relatioships. There is no guarantee what would happen if one's beau goes to school and it's not predicated on if ur girl is good or bad. The pressures inside campuses for dating relationships are severe and mostly peer induced so it could be helpful if you do visit your girl, once in a while, and get to know her girlfriends and establish a kind of presence in her life on campus.
There's no bigger bait in schools for guys than a babe who doesn't have a recognisable boyfriend. If your babe is "boyfriendless" in skul,they'll swarm her. She might not be able to cope with the derison and contempt of her friends who'll want her on the same "level" with em . On the other hand, if she gets a platonic relationship as a front and the guy is a sharp guy, she's dead duck as she's so likely to fall!
Your best bet is to sit her down and talk about the basis of ur relatioship. Point out the pressures she'll face and help her understand how she'll handle them. Open and maintain a communication channel and establish your presence in her new environment.
On the other hand, YOU CAN SET HER FREE. IF SHE COME'S BACK TO YOU, SHE'S YOUR'S. IF SHE DOESN'T, THEN SHE'S NEVER YOUR'S TO START WITH. Enjoy!!

I really feel ur response, man ur a genius in stating facts. However I do not have much time to visit her in school, bt in a year, I might be able to visit her twice, and our communication is constant, even though she acts up attimes, bt she still get her acts right. It might be quite obvious she'll have a front guy in school, bt I beleive she will never free me. Its just that I do not want her to be shared with me in any way possible. Gabbryl I am not cheating on her.

Bros please what do u mean by " user friendly"

Is it possible for a girl to be completely faithful for 4 years to her bf because she is far gone. I mean my girlfriend has gone to school now, but I have a feeling that she cannot endure to stay single over there for good 4 years. I do not want to share this girl with any1. Makes me feel bad whenever I think about her going out with someone else.

what part of the body is ur fistula located? I am also a patient too, I have it underneath my anal area. It has been here for 2 and the half years. I am going to create my own thread now.

darqly:

@poster, Hook up with eyo-negro. You 2 have boatloads in common, !!

boatloads in what manner? u shack Chelsea gin? wat do we have in common?

dawoyo:

@Poster,
Why do you keep beards? Though 2 me, you look cute in d pic of u, ur sis and D1 but the oda 2, wowo baptize you there seriously. I think all you need do is self motivation, you need to know you are cute and treat yourself as cute.
By d way, na dsame mama dsame papa produce you and your sister? Men she b mami water when compared 2 you as regards beauty oooooooooooo

Nobody in person has ever complained about my beards.

koolboi:

guy, hope thats not ur chick beside keke, because u r finer finer finer than her. nuthing will attract me to such a round faced girl coz she aint sexy @all

she may just be kidding, but she certainly is not as fine az u

gba bee!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

No she aint, seriously she is my sister, my gurl is way finer than my sis, even though I know my sis if beautiful.

eyonigger:

I wonder why ugly pple dey always hate fine people. Well na nature, clones rate the polling and the result tells u what is real from what ain't.

Abi ooo, Mr Eyonigger,

Czarskit:

@ gabrywyl a.k.a Loff of my Liphe

Yaaaaay! Rape! Wow! As long as they use protection. . . 'Down Syndrome Beavers'?! E no mean sha, as long as they can distinguish beauty from. . .

@ clones666 a.k.a antichrist clone
Guy! U had d results of ur poll already, y do u want to claim my Gabrywyl given glory? So u want to be raped ehn? Male Ashewo! I'll report U to ur galfriend!
By d way, how is my friend? (Ur Sis) Tell her to pick up a NL ID. . .A.S.A.P!

Guy na wa 4 u oh!! You be vegetarian? This thread is mine and it was about my gurl saying i luk ugly, so when gab said sumfin bout her cuzins, tot it was me. No vex sha!! My sis does not have time for internet.

gabrywyl:

Ahahaha! too late! I have done it. I have done the survey poll with 8 ladies. 4 said they would rape you if they saw you in reality and the other four look like down syndrome beavers

You mean me? I would not mind meeting them one on one.

frank3.16:

from the look of things u lack self confident and esteem thats why you put on them shades and leave ur beards like that. exactly what micheal jackson would do.

u need to hang around people who will help build ur self esteem and bring out the best in you. if ur girl is not doing this its better u leave her for someone who will appreciate u.

U are wrong, better peeps on here have given me reason why she says so, she is trying to lower my ego on that aspect, besides nobody in person has ever complained about my beards. I cannot leave her for ur stupid advise, better people have given me reason to still appreciate her despite her remarks.

Czarskit:

@ topic
Loool. . .
Stick wit ur gal man. . .Gud tin she loves ur personality ova ur looks. Cos beauty is only skin deep. . .
P.S: What is ur point by the way? I've actually been posting without a 'goal'. . .
Analysis:
Ur gal says u're ugly when u sure ain't. Aftall the Nairaland poll says u're cute.
Gabrywyl even did a 'private' poll. . .which also made u an 'adonis'. If u want to know whether u r cute, well here it is 'YOU TOO FINE SEF'. . .
So what's the catch?

You are mouthed, good advise giving peeps here.

Sapphic:

@ Original Poster,

It must be that your "Clifford Orji" style "bia bia" that is causing the accusations of ugliness. That kain beard fit make even George Clooney look like Bigfoot. Lose it fast.

Nah, thats obvious beef, beef that aint red enough, ur a fucking vegetarian!!

touchmeder:

ah ah this guy is fine nah.
is that ur gf wit u in d pic with D1. well if she is she'd damn pretty too thats y she probably talks like that ''na who fine pass go tell fine boy say im nor fine''
guess she is just teasing u to keep ur head in place
dont mind em boys most wont tell u ure handsome and u know it. cheers

i liked d beards too esp in d pic wit D1. na person unique style nah or mayb she does not like it. would u cut it if she asks u to?

Bro, she loves the beards, she brushes it whenever she feels lyk, and that gurly in the pic is my sister.

SeanT21:

You are just trying to seek attention that is why u are posting your pics on here.~~You want people to feel 4 U and tell U how fine U look~~!!

~~If Your girlfriend thought of U as an ugly person she would not be dating U.~~!!

Gosh!! so u mean to say things lyk I have shared with sensible and dumb peeps like u can never happen? Oh well I guess u must be the attention seeker. For real mehn,  I dnt need that. You have shown how less knowledgeable u are, how can a gurl love or date u only coz of u lookz? U are a piss that needs to be dissed.

Rendani:

attention seeker, just made up a story so that he  post his pic, drama queen or rather drama king?

Is this all what u come to do here? I rate this as hatred.

eyonigger:

Guy, u are a fine boy, some1 has said it up there that she must have been saying it to cut u off so u dnt have a swell ego. She cant be blind lyk dat. For yall saying poster is seeking attn. if so let it be, I mean I had the same problem with my gf too.

eyo thanks I am feeling you all saying good things.

Czarskit:

@ poster
WTF??!! U r good looking Man & U don't need anyone to tell you that.
Funny enuff I believe your gal is 'madly' in love with you! And I believe you should know this.
She's using the 'Ego-Killa' Strategy to hold u down. . .

By the way, who's the gal in the pic? I 'think' I'm 'gonna' like her, so how can I reach her to make my thoughts known to her?

Yes she loves me and she shows it, I ended up beleiving she is only in love with my personality when she consistently bombarding my facial looks. Thats my sister there, i do not know about thoughts sharing.

Sisi Jinx:

What is going on here??!

First 6'4 eyonigger now this??

It's got to be the water. . . Yes, Yes, that's it.  

what do u mean?

gabrywyl:

Clones666,
Why do you love your gf? What makes you love her?

To be honest with you, if someone loves someone, that person would be blinded by their partners looks and everything about the person will turn out to look as perfect!

I think your gf is very immature and I can see that its more towards lust. Have you ever asked her why did she claim to be your gf? Why did she love you? What is she looking for in you?

Regarding your looks, no, you are nowhere near ugly! As you claim that she is a beauty, well, judging on the way she talks about you, she has indeed proven herself to have a fugly heart. Tell her this, a fugly heart will eventually lead to a fugly outlook. In time to come, she will even notice it by herself.


Anthony,
Can you please quit with your nonsense? And what are you doing on Nairaland? U are not suppose to be here remember? 

I love her, and I have asked her why she loves me, she says its becoz of my personality. But stated that if it looks that she's interested in, then she would not have been mine.

DaPhoenix:

What is this one trying to prove here? That am seeking attn? Mehn some Nigerian will never desist to be stupid!!

alfchye:

U aint ugly bro. Don't you have money.Even if u like , get the look for Taiye Taiwo or Mr Bean, since you have what makes the world go round. You are handsome.
If your pocket rate is low, u are really ugly.Get money and there will be love
chikena

I am comfortable and can do 70% of what she wants.

cvibe:

She knows if she tells you you're ok, you'll have a swell ego, so she's cutting it.

I thought as much, bt things like this are done way back, not this modern dayz.

afiamanu:

well im not trying to hate on you or anythingg but do u have any pics where your whole face including your eyes are showing because wearing shades can do wondrs for some people.

but as for those pics you've posted u look decent

Thanks, here is a pic of me without shades.

English whack, story whack = you are a whacko!!

New here, my friend told me this place is good to know whats up. My gf tells me most of the time that I am ugly, says she wonder's what our kids would look like if she had babies for me. I am confident about my look, and she is always pointing at my facial look. Nairalanders please judge from my photos uploaded and tell me if its true she claims or not. Maybe because she is very fine gives her power to talk like that almost every time.