₦airaland Forum

Casalindal:
So I got really embarrassed by some uncultured men today at the mall.. simply because you got the privileged to see my picture doesn’t give you the right to come over and want to start a conversation.. it really sad that men will never respect themselves for God sake I was with my fiancé!!! And to even imagine this guys look dirty and smell bad was despicable .. please I post here for opinions and to seek advice I’m not here to be friends or bed anyone, I’m not on anyone level here. I don’t want tag your Nairalandmonika but please let what happen this morning do not repeat itself again

dermmy:
Still in transit.

Mac2016:
I'm still left to wonder why Tiwa didn't make it to Beyoncé latest album... So shocking

Ashley86400:
Lol, I'm a Chelsea fan but I enjoy trolling them.

Ashley86400:
Ole take off your mask, we know you are David Moyes.


Warris all dis na. . .

jasper83:
Hello Clow, i'm moved by your story. Firstly there is nothing wrong with you, all i see is a young vibrant and energetic young man with a strong passion for success, so calm down we have been there before. So few advice for you if you wish.


1. In situations like this you must try as much as possible to ignore things around you because life is not a competition everybody on their own lane. You envy your peers because of their achievements but God forbid if evil befalls their enemy you will thank God secretly its not you, since you envy their achievements why not envy their misfortunes too?

2. I may be wrong though but i see you as someone who doesn't concentrate on sensitive stuffs thats why you miss out on things by a whisker. You need to control your thoughts and emotions to focus on ONE particular thing at every giving time.

Search yourself deeply , what do you really want. Do i wanna go abroad or search for a better job? I dont see why you shouldn't blast your IELTS exams, you saying your writing skills messed you up is a no no for me, bury your damn head in books and be meticulous, i mean meticulous at filing any damn documents about your abroad dreams, seek advice from core professionals, watch every steps you take carefully as if you wanna report it to your boss. Concentrate bro, concentrate!!!

One of my Islamic cleric always advised that in times of tribulations we should concentrate on one particular thing that matter to us. He likened life to a very hard rock but God gave humans a very strong hammer . So keep hitting that particular spot on the rock and it will surely crack. Your hammer is your concentration, your hammer is your determination, your hammer is your extra hardwork, your hammer is your prayers!!!

Just keep hitting it on that one particular thing(either on a new good job or abroad dreams) and i see you succeeding exceedingly.

Cheers

Skinnienigga:
*sigh

Even though I understand what you may be feeling.. I think you have a lot of positives to look at too.

I mean, you are under 30, with a professional certification, 5 years working experience and you still have a job now.

I think your problem is not having a backup plan.. Seems you were really intent on leaving the country and as that didn't work.. You feel you have achieved nothing. But bro.. You can't begin to count how many people out there who are hoping to be where you are.

Just try to make a plan for your life now.. Use what you have in hand and work towards getting where you want to be. I know it seems like you've lost motivation like Real Madrid players but don't give up. Continue to push but plan on where you are pushing to first.

Good luck and please always be grateful. You have already achieved more than several other 30-year-olds out there.

awaky:
At just 30 u're thinking this hard ? Yes u're not getting younger I know but never see your successful colleagues as your competitors but rather as motivators. Too much attention on things happening around you can make u loose focus on your own jorney of life. Stay focused and have vision towards that particular passion burning in you and u will be celebrated at your own appointed time.
In all, acknowledge God in all your ways and He will direct your path,
Cheers...

ineco:
@clow,i red ur post,but to me,still count ur self luck for still u could still afford to pay for something eg the elt exam etc there are some people who cnt afford such in result of no money but i will give advice of go into personal fasting without telling anyone or if u knw any thru man of God,dnt hesitate .

sherylbakky:
Hey Clow, many ppl are facing more than wot u described as difficulty here, but u may not know dat because there's no meeting for people suffering. U just av to b strong n keep trying.


Life is full of good n bad sides, if u dont give up, u'l smile at last dear...Yea, we wil all smile at last. Pls dont give up.

XD3G:
Hi Clow, while i feel sad about your current situation, i can tell you, there's a silver lining just right behind the cloud.

It's true most people go thru some of these before making it in life, but unfortunately, not all of us are wired to brave the odds, hence, some resort to suicide as the only way out, vices, taking the laws into their hands, etc, just to survive.



Please, you gotta keep trying, and never become despondent, nor crest-fallen. Remember, you have people looking up to you, what you do will sway them either way.

In the meantime, could you please drop your contact, let's see wha we can do together?

yetiyemi88:
Hi Clow, I'm actually glad I took the time to read the entire post. Well, not being spiritual here but truthfully, to everything under the sun, there is a time and season. Things will fall in place with time. Just trust the process. And honestly, you'd be surprised when everything turns around for good. Just keep at what you are doing and remain strong.

candyce:
Go and do one and same person affidavit.

Hephgirl:
If u r d PA u r not. Can u apply for a remark?

sleekchic:
Unless you are very young, already have a job offer and have a sibling in Canada, you sadly need to retake or/and remark the test. 6.5 in writing wont get you any tangible CRS

Google CRS tool and use it .

All the best

sleekchic:
Unless you are very young, already have a job offer and have a sibling in Canada, you sadly need to retake or/and remark the test. 6.5 in writing wont get you any tangible CRS

Google CRS tool and use it .

All the best

Ramj:
To start with nice work on your IELTS but the 6.5 in writing means you loose about 45points on the CRS calculator.

Would be good if you go for a reevaluation of your writing hoping for a 0.5 increase.

Pleaae study page 0 to really understand this EE process.


Thanks a lot, I appreciate

Je m'appelle Ramj