Romance › Please Help, She's Engaged Yet Can't Leave Me Alone by coache(op): 12:15am On Mar 09, 2015 |
My honourable Nairalanders please I need your help. Its a long story but I'll summarise I just finished my service and travelled down to a relative's place just to change environment while waiting for a job. I joined a church and after a while decided to be a worker.few weeks later, I started receiving advances from several sisters of which I was able to ignore but there's one in my unit who has refused to back down she even came to me openly to proclaim her love and all that but the confusing part is that this lady which is a student is engaged to another student in her school and claims to love him too. Even though I feel a thing for her because of her beauty, intelligence godliness, and her been fun to be with yet I still maintain my ground of not accepting her advances but the pressure from her keeps increasing but I don't want any trouble.please what is the best way to handle this situation? Please I need matured and urgent advice. Thanks for your usual help and support. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Submit Your CV Online For Current Access Bank Job by coache(m): 4:40am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Do nairalanders sleep at all?? Just curious  |
Entertainment › Re: Woman With Three Breasts........hot Or Disgusting? by coache(op): 1:53pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
[quote author=tomiobj post=30962065]End tym gall end tym pic end tym thread[/quote Yeah.......and end time comment |
Entertainment › Re: Woman With Three Breasts........hot Or Disgusting? by coache(op): 11:01pm On Feb 21, 2015*. Modified: 9:10pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
Hmmmm |
Entertainment › Re: Woman With Three Breasts........hot Or Disgusting? by coache(op): 10:55pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
kodded: SHE BE LIKE ONE OF THOSE MONSTERS KRATOS THERE FIGHT FOR god of war  kodded: SHE BE LIKE ONE OF THOSE MONSTERS KRATOS THERE FIGHT FOR god of war |
Education › Re: 2014/2015 UNIBEN Postgraduate Aspirants,lets Meet Here by coache(m): 10:54pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
Osas16: I have created my student id but i didnt see any thing like clearance o I also applied for MLS but nothing on my portal yet ooo...... But how come you're the only one so far admitted into MLS? Pls show us the way abeg |
Entertainment › Re: Woman With Three Breasts........hot Or Disgusting? by coache(op): 10:50pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
Spicylate: its a Godforbid thing. I wonder hw some of these white reason. |
Entertainment › Re: Woman With Three Breasts........hot Or Disgusting? by coache(op): 10:46pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
chimimi:
 Sure....I understand #speechless # |
Entertainment › Re: Woman With Three Breasts........hot Or Disgusting? by coache(op): 10:44pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
Uyi168: Phew!..nawa o!...wen wil wonders end?...neva! I guess dat should be after GEJ becomes the second black president of America  |
Entertainment › Re: Woman With Three Breasts........hot Or Disgusting? by coache(op): 10:39pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
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Entertainment › Woman With Three Breasts........hot Or Disgusting? by coache(op): 9:37pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
Months after a woman came out with having altered her body to include another breast, she has spoken about why she had the procedure done, Jasmine Tridevil, 21, from Florida, US, claimed that to add the extra breast it cost her N 366 3560.83 and took an hour and a half to be completed. Tridevil revealed that she had the third breast added because she wanted appear unattractive to men but she still wanted to feel beautiful and be able to wear provocative clothing. Tridevil is an aspiring pop star and a dominatrix who is known for keeping men as slaves and allegedly has her name tattooed on 11 men. Source: http://m.news24.com/nigeria/World/News/Woman-with-three-breasts-speaks-about-adding-a-breast-20150220
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: How To Identify A Scam Interview Invitation by coache(m): 12:05am On Jan 19, 2015 |
LaurelP: @caoche and khaffy Both are Gnld marketers Thanks...was actually suspicious cos I can't remeba sending an application to dat firm..thanks again sir. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: How To Identify A Scam Interview Invitation by coache(m): 5:44pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
Hello people please how real is this interview message below? Just got it this afternoon.Pls if its real, what is the job all about cos I'm currently in delta state dnt want to waste my transport fare to Lagos only to be scammed.thanks.
MP-Global invites you for a Test/Briefing by 9am on Monday, 19/01/15 @ 161 Ikorodu Rd,beside Lanre Shittu Mtrs,Onipanu b/stop. 081 8480 0984 |
Education › Re: 2014/2015 UNIBEN Postgraduate Aspirants,lets Meet Here by coache(m): 12:26pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
prudie17: @ Coache uwc..lets kip our fingers crossed..btw am a sister not a brother  Ooh my God......sorry about dat dear. Its Fixed. |
Education › Re: 2014/2015 UNIBEN Postgraduate Aspirants,lets Meet Here by coache(m): 11:45pm On Jan 15, 2015*. Modified: 12:28pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
prudie17: @coache i was dere ystday and honestly am disappointed...i was told @ d pg school dàt dere's anoda batch..i went to d dept MLS n d hod didnt gv much info...i went to a senior lecturer's office n d ist question he asked was if i was recommended...meaning u need to go thru a prof...i cudnt get any prof to recommend me cos dey weren't on sit..so i guess we jst need to be patient a little. Wow...dats serious ooo...sister thanks for the info and sorry for all the stress.just like you said we have to be patient but one thing I can assure you is that we shouldn't be disturbed cos by God's grace, all will be well. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: HOTEL And Retail Jobs by coache(m): 2:25am On Jan 14, 2015 |
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Education › Re: 2014/2015 UNIBEN Postgraduate Aspirants,lets Meet Here by coache(m): 10:57am On Jan 13, 2015 |
prudie17: @coache no problem i'll get bk to u with info Thanks bro.....will be waiting. |
Education › Re: 2014/2015 UNIBEN Postgraduate Aspirants,lets Meet Here by coache(m): 11:44pm On Jan 12, 2015 |
prudie17: I need info o...has anyone gotten admission in med lab science....inshort am going there 2mao... Pls ooo update me when you go.....I applied for MLS too.thanks |
Agriculture › Re: Practical Tips To Succeed In Agro-investment by coache(m): 4:22pm On Dec 14, 2014 |
daddyfowl: As a Young Person Growing with Dreams We get involve in agro investment with high expectation as a last resort but the reality is different!!! More often than non theory are different from real practice compounding the complications of agro-practice.
As a young graduate, I venture into Broiler Rearing of 250 as a first timer. Lost only 6 during my brooding process!!! I was happy that I have done well and will be smiling to the bank very soon. Unknow to me that its not over yet. Got an invitation for a 3day out of town residential program during there 7weeks. I quickly called a friend to help out with the Fowl in my absent.
Then the unknow happened. He forgot to do the needful in a raining period and the birds got infected and we lost over 15 per day. When I came back, we ve lost over 87 birds. My dreams met the dark light. Filled with so much regret, I tried saving dem with all forms of english drugs but nothing was working until an elderly women now taught me a local method and saved my birds. Atlast: after selling my birds I ran at big lost rather than profit.
Not giving up on my dreams I sorted to build a team that will run the vision wit me. We bought a new land n got broke but we decided to start with what wont cost us much. We planted 500 plantain suckers. After 5month we started snail rearing that will cost us notin to train. We converted our first farm to a residential building and rented it out with a bid to raise more money but again we miss-fired as we spent more than we got from renting of the building.
On our journey to success lane, i discovered the following pratical tips that will help us succeed in agro-practice: (1). Be sure of what You want, How and When u want It (2). Get it rooted in Gods Agenda for notin works without God Backing (3). Acquire relevant Knowledge (4). Note that Agro investment is a process and not an act (5). Avoid over investment (6). Develop only a reslistic expection and a biz plan (7). Get a Mentor or Belong to a skill sharing Network ( . Adapt and Adopt New or existing Knowledge (9). Work to build financial partnership rather than seeking for loans or help from family. (10). Get Focus n know that there will be storms on the way (11). Build a team of similar minds (12). Be prayerful and wait for the harvest (13). Avoid expansion without two or three years repeated success
Pls Share yours with US Nice writeup sir, pls sir I'll need ur contact cos I'll need ur help on my application for the YOUWIN application.thanks sir. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Temptations Vs Our Sight by coache(m): 1:14pm On Dec 14, 2014 |
If the above method is too hard for you, here's a simpler method........ Just go and stay in the extreme part of the north where they cover-up their bodies properly and when a lady passes by, you just think its a ghost for example, Argungu in Kebbi state. |
Romance › Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by coache(m): 4:29pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
EfemenaXY: Is maturity the exclusive preserve of the woman in the relationship? What about the man? Is it too much to expect, for him to act maturely too?
You've got me wondering what exactly is / should the man's role be in a serious relationship.
Er...last time I checked, men (Nigerian men) don't do emotions. Besides, it's got nothing to do with who's got more verbal "power" or not. This is about a man who isn't keen on settling down, while his partner on the other hand is willing and ready. They're at logger heads and she needs to move on.
She doesn't need an express ticket to walk out of a relationship which is headings nowhere. Both players here have got very different priorities. I really understand your point here but truth is, in situations like this, its not about throwing blames but finding solutions. Steps like these are necessary to satisfy the curiosity that might arise later such as; maybe he was planning to propose.That's if she leaves...... or I would have left if I knew he won't propose. That's if she stays back. So I just believe she has nothing to loose by taking the chance. |
Romance › Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by coache(m): 4:02pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
EfemenaXY: Now if this isn't desperation, then I don't know what is.
Why must she plead and beg him to see reason with her? A man who's ready to settle down will be hot on her heels doing the chasing, and not the other way round. Not really desperation......its maturity on the lady's part. Ladies have verbal power while men are emotional being. The good part of this is that if she eventually leaves, there will be no regrets whatsoever cos presently now she dnt knw where she's standing.....and this will give her an express ticket on the way forward and thereby saving herself from an unseen disappointment |
Romance › Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by coache(m): 3:36pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
FavourGee: Hello everyone!
I have been dating this guy for a year now, both of us have jobs so I don't ask him for any financial assistance. for sometime now I have been getting suitors, they are five in number now asking for my hand in marriage but I keep turning them down because I am hoping on my present relationship though the stuborn ones are still disturbing me with marriage proposals.
I decided to let my boyfriend know about them, the response I got from him wasn't satisfactory. From my own understanding he's not ready to settle down any time soon neither did he tell me to wait for him nor propose to me.
I am confused right now, I don't know if I should wait for him till when he's ready but my fear is what if he never propose. I really love him and I know he loves me too.
Matured advice please.
"Please don't mind my typing skills I am typing through one kpalasa phone" According to you, you have been dating for a year now.......you said you decided to let him know about them (your suitors) and his response wasn't satisfactory. Now.........considering the time frame, your guy might still be having doubts if he should head in the direction of marriage with you especially if there are certain issues that both of you are yet to agree on, it might also be finance like some has been saying too cos a guy hates to complain to his woman about financial incapabilities. About you telling him about your suitors.....the response definitely was as a result of how you tabled the matter before him. No guy wants to be rushed but at the same time, when you're in a relationship, the relationship has to be clearly defined from the onset to prevent doubts and fears and ofcourse it takes someone with real discipline, integrity and the fear of God to do this. What can you do now? Tension has been created already, so go down on your kneels first and talk to God about all your fears but that's if you already know Him and He initially okayed the relationship for you. After that, talk to your man in a very calm and non-desperate manner. Let him be assured that you're not just after marriage, but that you sincerely cherish him. Tell him how boring and empty life would be without having the opportunity to share the rest of your life with him.Let him also know that its okay if he's not ready now but you just want to be sure and aware of his plans in life to know if you're included (I believe that's part of relationship too).Let him see reasons why you are concerned because you're a lady and you dnt have all the time in the world to be living in suspence. Study his response now and his reactions you should be able to know the next step to take. Sorry for the long post dear.......ALL THE BEST!! |
Celebrities › Re: Nigerian Celebrities Who Are Seen As Heartbreakers/Womanizers by coache(m): 4:53pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
lalasticlala: These celebrities have been seen or called Womanizers, Heartbreakers or playboys by different women at different times in the media.
For sure, the women maybe the ones going after these guys since they are celebrities and when they (guys) decide to move on, they (women) would start screaming that they've been used and dumped by these celebrities.
1 DBANJ:
I Have Dumped D’Banj, He’s A Womanizer –Jennifer Obayuwana
UK Daily Mail Describes D'banj As A 'Legendary Womaniser'
Topping the list is the one and only Koko master. Dbanj is a lady's man and has the charms to get the babes.
Dbanj has dated lots of known and unknown damsels. The one that gave him the "Womanizer" tag was his crumbled relationship with a billionaire's daughter, Jennifer Obayuwana, who claimed to have left Dbanj because he's a Womanizer. She said :
“For the record, I am no longer dating D’Banj. It’s true we dated about four years ago and we have since called it quit... I left him (D’Banj) because he is a womanizer, you know now.”
In another related development, UK Daily Mail described Dbanj as A legendary Womanizer and a playboy in an article which in reaction, made Dbanj to threaten them with a lawsuit. Daily Mail wrote :
" 'Banj, who splits his time between Nigeria, the UK and Lagos, is known for his playboy lifestyle as well as his music. He calls girls who are good in bed 'kokos'.
"While he may not be quite that rich, D’Banj is a huge star in his home country, where is renowned as a legendary womanizer."
"His nickname is the Koko master,which is Nigerian slang for someone who has a harem of women and he has even brought out his own range of condoms. There was talk he would make an appearance in the upcoming RHOA reunion show, but sources at Bravo have revealed this is highly unlikely."
2 JIM IYKE:
"I Wasted Six Years Of My Life With Jim Iyke"- ex GF Keturah Hamilton Lamented
The popular actor has been called a Heartbreaker and a Womanizer many times. The one that easily comes to mind was when his estranged fiancée, Kentura accused Jim of having used and dumped her. Jim dumped Stephnora Okere for Kentura thus breaking Stephnora's heart as she recently disclosed that she still loves Jim. Then he later dumped Kentura for stunning Nadia.
Ketura told Diasporan Star:
Keturah said she feels used and dumped
“I played along in the reality show as if I truly was a jealous and crazy lover. It was an act, but now I feel as if Jim set me up. He is a wicked man. I stood by him through all his troubles and tribulations. I helped bring him to the limelight when the light of his career was dimming. He is an ingrate and I leave him to God.”
One area that seems to have pained Keturah more appears to be the gist making the rounds that Jim left her for the Ghanaian actress Nadia Buari.
“That is the rumor I have heard and I know it is not just a rumor. They have been hooking up in Ghana. They were together at Tuface’s wedding and appear to be everywhere together. I just can’t believe Jim would be this ungrateful – after all I have done for him. I have not been able to accept this and I am truly in a state of shock. If Jim could treat me the way he did, after six years of being there for him, supporting him, encouraging him in all that he did, then I wish Nadia the best of luck.”
3 IYANYA:
"I Really Loved Iyanya But He Had Other Girls"
In one of her interviews, stunning and sexy Ghanaian actress, Yvonne Nelson disclosed how the singer broke her heart and dumped her for another actress, Tonto (may be a fling) aside having fun with other girls.
"We dated for 7 to 8 months. We had something and I thought it was special, like he was a wonderful guy but it was all lies. He had other girls and other things he was doing. Aside the actress that was in the picture, there were a lot more. That is how bad it is. We were in a relationship and he lied throughout and he was able to do all those things because I wasn’t living in Nigeria. But aside from the distance, I feel if you’re a genuine person and you’re loyal, you would still not do that."
4 IBRAHIM CHATTA :
"Ibrahim Was A Womanizer And A Gold Digger "- Ibrahim Chatta's Ex Yinka Solomon
The actor who dumped his first wife for the daughter of Kwara state ex governor's daughter was called a Womanizer by his estranged wife. Yinka his ex said :
“He was a womanizer, a Gold Digger,he collected all the money in my Acct before my eyes was open, when he saw that I didn’t have money again, he started misbehaving, bringing women into the house.” Meanwhile, there are unconfirmed reports in the media that Ibrahim's 2nd marriage to the ex governor's daughter has packed up too.
5 TCHIDI CHIKERE:
Tchidi was reported to have dated lots of upcoming and established actresses. He was linked to Genevieve Nnaji in the early part of her career among others. While still married to his estranged wife, Sophia, he was reportedly dating other women including actress Nuella Njubigbo who he later got married to.
6 CHIDI MOKEME :
"I'm A Positive Kind Of Playboy "- Chidi Mokeme
Chidi said this many years ago during an interview before he finally got married:
Image of a playboy " If I cut that image in my movies, that is cool. But in real life, I’m a positive kind of playboy. My idea of what people call a playboy is some guy who is sleek, good looking and got everything going for him with nice cars and good house. Somebody who wears the right clothes, says the right thing without any impure intent in his heart. I want to look good, drive the kind of car that makes me happy. And also make those around me happy."
Stelladimokor later revisited the topic in an interview with Chidi and asked him about his Playboy and gigolo image :
*You have been labelled as a silent playboy who dates and drops ladies at will and you agreed in an interview once that you were a positive kind of playboy.,
"Stella which one is Silent Playboy again. Is there Noisy playboy? I really don't understand what you mean but i remember that 'positive playboy' headline which i think was largely misconstrued and quoted out of context. I meant by that statement that i had a lot of intimate relationships that are not sexual. Intimate in the sense that I find that so many people from around the globe reach out to me for motivation or inspiration and they connect and bond with me because we are able to talk freely about things that they'll normally rarely share only with people with which they have sexual or familiar relationships. So i'm able to make deep rooted connections without any one person or group claiming exclusive access to me and i said in that interview that i consider myself in that context to be a positive playboy, for want of a better term."
7 PAT ATTAH
He had this playboy image then when he was the hottest actor in Nollywood before his relocation to Germany. He is now a born again in Germany but people still remember him for his exploits with several Nollywood actresses like Regina Askia, Genevieve Nnaji, Nkiru Sylvanus among others.
8 SAMMY OKPOSO- "I Did A Lot Of Womanising"
Multiple award winning, international Gospel singer, Sammie Okposo, has admitted he was once a womaniser, in his early days as a singer.While speaking during the weekend on Channels Television’s breakfast show, Sunrise, the “Wellu Wellu” crooner disclosed that he made so many mistakes that he regrets now.
Sammy, who has been romantically linked with female celebrities like Kate Henshaw, Stella Damasus and more, revealed that he lived a wild life in his early days despite being born into a Christian home.
“I grew up in a Christian family, with my father as a notable figure in the Church, however, despite my religious upbringing, I lived a certain kind of wildlife which was devoid of drinking but filled with so many other ungodly acts and “a lot” of womanizing. It got bad when I shared an apartment with other musicians and a lot of crazy things happened in the building that negatively influenced me. If I had known so many things I know now, I wouldn’t have made so many mistakes”.
9 FRED AMATAH
The Nigerian media thinks that Fred is a womanizer after he got separated from her wife, Agatha, and got involved with a colleague of his, Ibinabo Fiberesima, who bore her a cute baby girl. Fred later left Ibinabo for another lady.
10 FLAVOUR
The Ukwu singer is also seen as a womanizer. He reportedly got a baby recently from ex-Delta soap model, Sandra Okagbuo. He hasn't really denied or confirmed the report. Then he's currently involved with the immediate past ex Most Beautiful Girl In Nigeria, Anna Banner. But there was a twist as one lady called Onyinye, almost had a twitter fight with Anna Banner because of flavour.
Written By: lalasticlala
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DBANJ & ex Jennifer Obayuwana So you mean Tu-face and Ramsey Noah didn't make the top 10..........isokaay |
Health › Re: New Pill Makes Fart Smell Like Chocolate by coache(op): 9:46am On Nov 27, 2014 |
Moderator......pls do the needful na so that those poisonous fart don't spoil those special moments this season. |
Health › Re: New Pill Makes Fart Smell Like Chocolate by coache(op): 9:43am On Nov 27, 2014 |
englishmart: and you had to bring me to health section? France man, sorry no vex.......oya answer the question abeg. |
Health › Re: New Pill Makes Fart Smell Like Chocolate by coache(op): 9:40am On Nov 27, 2014 |
xcelsia: Wow this is really cool, a wonderful gift idea for Christmas lol Lol....place your order now ooo before it's exhausted and make every evening dis season a romantic one  |
Health › Re: New Pill Makes Fart Smell Like Chocolate by coache(op): 9:38am On Nov 27, 2014 |
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Health › New Pill Makes Fart Smell Like Chocolate by coache(op): 11:51pm On Nov 26, 2014 |
An inventor from France has devised a new pill that makes one's fart smell like chocolate. As one would know how embarrassing when the smell of breaking wind enters a room, this is exactly what happened to the inventor. He was having dinner with friends soon after, fart plagued the room. The pills are made of a mixture of vegetables consisting of seaweed, blueberries and propolis to name a few. He decided to come up with the idea so that people can stop suffocating each other after having heavy meals. The pill does not only assist with indigestion but makes your fart smell like chocolate and even roses. It would be the perfect gift for Christmas when people over- indulge in food. http://m.news24.com/nigeria/World/News/New-pill-makes-fart-smell-like-chocolate-20141126-2 |
Politics › Re: President Jonathan Commissions Ahmadu Bello Int'l Airport, Kebbi (PHOTOS) by coache(m): 11:55am On Nov 26, 2014 |
phantonce: Why does the airport resemble a poultry farm. Chaii..........Nairalanders ona too get mouth.......wetin serf shuuuu  |
Romance › Re: What Most Dudes Are Guilty Of.. Where Do you Belong ? by coache(m): 1:43pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
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