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DIDDY4 WHERE THE HELL HAVE YOU BEEN

sista i emailed back

that is for me to know and you to find out

it is funny   did you get my mail

Eurphoria:
lmao see them lol shame on you schiziods

sweetie do you really believe that i am sista       i am actually laughing my ass off.




please stop talking about 4play he has nothing to do with all this.

sista u have mail

davi 4play is in may kitchen you want to say hi, i will let him sign in, in a min you real funny.

wow, before i leave this tread for good, we should understand that we are on the net.


i am a counsellor and can no longer be part of this.


@sista i respect you as a black woman and as my sister, what we believe  took a long time to achieve, remember our brothers and sisters need to be educated slowly with love and empathy.    

@superman as my king i say this with respect you should not be weak and allow others to lower yr standards

@davidylan  and EUR I hear what you are saying and understand where you are coming from, you should also understand where i am coming from, i do not dislike you davi and eur you ma girl to, i understand that sista said some things which i have not seen, if she did then it was wrong. if you choose to be with another race then it is yr choice and i do not dislike you because of that.




@mamaput

my boys are black and as such they are soldiers going to battle to fight their own wars, i am giving them the tools necessary to survive, my battle has been won a long time ago.


you guys should just let this go it is becoming ridiculous.  

Eurphoria:
your ex husband became very violent you say and yet in the same breath you say he is not a violent man? this is a very ambigous statement. You may have helped him to seek help but that does not mean he is not violent, i mean lol he did beat you, how can he not be violent?

my husband has never been ominous in nature and had never done any thing to hurt me , he behaved the way he did for a reason, he was going through some thing very traumatic at the time we had been together for12 years , EVERY ONE HAS GOOD IN THEM NO MATTER WHAT. the human mind is very delicate and disturbance can be created quite easily.


DO NOT GET ME WRONG AFTER WHAT HE DID I COULD NO LONGER BE WITH HIM AND I LEFT. no woman should stay in a violent relationship.

davidylan:
You are not one to talk about juvenile delinquency. You are not an example i will want my daughter to follow. You would have been better served not responding to my post because it was not intended for woolen heads like you. Yeah your son at 10 is doing what 14 yr olds do, why wont he when his father is no where to be found!

I do not dislike my race, don't say what you don't know because you don't know me. I would hate to address you this way, just stay out of my business and i'll stay out of yours. there are certain people who would type this and i would respect them, u've never been one of them. One of the reasons i have always avoided you.

on a tread like this i will not disrespect you, my son  does the works of a 14yrs old at school at home every thing is done by me, yes i left his father and it was for their best interest that being said.

MY HUSBAND LIVES IN BARBADOS, MY CHILDREN HAVE HIS EMAIL, HOME ADDRESS, PHONE NUMBER AND SPEAK TO  AND VISIT HIM WHEN EVER THEY  WANT TO NO MATTER WHAT TIME OF THE DAY IT IS THEY CAN CALL HIM AND THE ONLY REASON I AM NOT WITH HIM IS BECAUSE I CHOOSE THAT .

you are one angry boy, trading what you think is insults like the above is what i meant about behaving like a (juvenile delinquent) and  is the reason why you will never get the respect you deserve FROM OTHER BLACK WOMEN, if you think that i will dislike are insult you because of what you have said think again ( AS A BLACK MAN YOU ARE MY KING AND I WILL TREAT YOU AS SUCH.     

it all has to do with who we are,  i wrote a poem a few months back and every one thought i was talking about sex.



Mr black man touch me
with yr magic stick so     (his loving hand)
that i will summit claim   ( be respectful and loving)
back your position as     ( as responsible men that i know they can be)
it was told because as   
a black woman i was      ( to think i can raise proud black boys on my own)
to darn bold.


when ever i counsel couples the man always says she does not respect me, and it is true black men are proud solders, their colour is their armour their hands are their weapons, some times they use them against us black women because we show little respect for them.The respect that was taken away should be given back to them by every black women.

i can not disrespect a black man because HE is my king and the future of my children, regardless of how lost he is.

do not forget his age