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it is sad who the hell says any thing nice to our admin

ThiefOfHearts:
I would abandon the person, if that makes me a "horrible woman". Good. I come first in my life.

People like that don't change, else you'd STILL be with him, Coco.

when i met my husband i was 15  when i left him it was because we grew apart , i still love and i always will.

mide2:
i feel you, coco, i used to say, i would leave any man that raises his hand up at me. Until it happened to my cousin, and honestly, i will say they were in love, at least they were so fond of each other. But he suddenly turned into a batterer, its just shocking and unexplainable. You hope and pray he changes not just walk away like he was just a friend or a casual date.

i will give my opinion as a counselor

some men find it hard to express themselves and for some the only thing they can do is take it out on the person closes to them.

or it could be some thing has happened to him that he feels he can not express in any other way.

Radiant:
She should sort herself out. Believe me, no man or woman is worth a miserable life. Even my family can't make my life miserable talkless of a man I don't know from Adam. No way!!!

sister no woman should have to suffer in this way, however i believe that woman have the gift of healing some men do not deserve to walk the face of this earth but there are some so hurt so damage that it takes the love of a woman to heal them.

my brother was a drug user for many years. every one tried in vain to help him, after about 10 years doing drugs, he met a woman and she told him if you want me STOP  and he did, when he was going through detox he beat the shit out of her, but true love is unconditional.

i have been in that situation and i must say  the emotions that goes with domestic violence is complicated, i stayed with my husband because i loved him, and i believed he could change.


some times situation alone will make a woman stay with a violent man.



do not ever think that the woman is stupid, love should be unconditional when the man you love turns into some one else, what is a girl to do abandon him with out trying to help?

put simply-


older men are like aged wine.


while younger version is like grape juice.

rotflmao how sad