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welcome sweetie

i know some of you may think that i am quite stupid for this comment, however i have to say not all men who hit does it because they are cowards, it has a lot to do with what they have witness as children and how they show emotions, not all men deserve the chance to retribution after hitting a woman but some do.

In the final year of my marriage my husband became very violent, i could, simply have walked away without ever talking to him but i know him and he is not a violent man instead i helped him to find counselling.

davidylan:
Most sensible post i have seen today! Black man this, white man that! The most important thing is that we grow up into men and women that others can be proud of. It is not about what white men or black men have "invented", it is about what WE as humans and not as white and black can contribute to our society!

So many of us are so busy "feeling proud of their race" they have no time to contribute positively to the race they claim to hail from! While black men and women are busy "teaching their kids about black inventors", white parents are pushing their own kids to aspire to the top!

what positive thing have you done for yr race? All you talk about is grammatical errors and BEHAVE LIKE A Juvenal delinquent, Read what you have just said life is not all about money, once yr children have reached the top, what? If they do not know who they,  are why they had to aim for the top.  you need to ask yr self what is  about being black that you despise so much.


At 10 years old my son is doing the work of a 14 yr old, he has been ready for secondary schoolout 2 years ago, but that alone can not and will not get him to the top and make him stay on top. When he get to the top i want him to help other black people get to the top.

as you are a black man, i will not be mean but in order to know where you are going  sweetie you need to know where u are coming from. 

mamaput:
The problem is that some of us are not here to learn.
Its more like an "Auntie i think it is because" thing.
Not everthing has to rotate around the "good old white man.
When we takl about boots then lets talk about boots and not the fact that itwas invented by a ? man.
lets be cool

mamaput i disagree, i have 3 boys who are in school learning about what the white  man did and invented, what do they learn about their own race? nothing, i am the one who teaches them what we invented  and where we came from, because they need to know that:BLACK PEOPLE ARE NOT LAZY, THEY DO NOT GO AROUND BLAMING THE WHITE  MAN FOR EVERY THING THAT GOES WRONG IN THEIR LIFE, BLACK MEN ARE THE FUTURE OF OUR RACE LOOK AROUND YOU TODAY AND SEE WHAT IS HAPPENING ALL OVER THE WORLD AMONG OUR PEOPLE MY BOYS NEED TO KNOW THAT THEY SHOULD BE PROUD OF WHO THEY ARE I DO NOT WANT THEM GROWING UP HATING THEIR RACE AND THEMSELVES.

IF WE AS BLACK WOMAN DO NOT KNOW OUR ROLES AS TEACHERS AND HEALERS TO OUR KIND THEN ALL IS LOST.

i must say yr girl is either deeply in love or in deep shit because i will not sell my p----y for no man.


as for you if what you are saying is true, what kind of pressure have you put on her, to make her want to do such a thing.


you need to think about that and answer the question for ya self.

Hey guys a new year is coming, which means we all have the chance to change 1 thing about ourselves, that we do not like.



for me i have decided to stop swearing