₦airaland Forum

emofine:
please, what is the meaning of this statement? because I would have thought that the original hair texture of any African was "the natural way for African hair to be"

you said yr boyfriend just could not grow it, in others he does need to grow it IT would grow it self




people its not that complicated, we are so use to smelling shampoo in our hair, that when our hair begain to clean it self we say it smells. That being said use lemon juice in warm water, to clean your scalp with cotton wool. if you hair is smelly then you are not eating healthy.


the point of not washing your hair is to give it time to LOCK

pleep:
I love natural hair.  I'm more of a fro' person though.

How long does it take to go from buzz cut to maybe 6 inch dreads?

i think you are missing the point, growing locks is a journey, the length represent the knowledge you have gain in regards to your culture, race,past and future it is a spiritual thing. when I touch my hair it feels powerful, i feel the power of an Afrikan, I can feel my ancestors, rotflmaoooooooooooo and white people are always trying to touch it i do not think so especially knowing they eat pork) only my man touches my hair and locks does not stop growing

african1:
^^^ Oh my gosh! I love love Afros. I wanted my boyfriend to get one, but he just can't grow it. You are sooo lucky.

Op I like deadlocks aswell. And I think it is awesome to see a girl with dreadlocks.

locks is the natural way for African hair to be, he should hand twist it first, do not wash it for 4 month, your hair will naturally clean itself as long as you do not put chemicals in it, after that he just needs to twist it every two weeks, do-grow hair oil will make it grow and it is complete natural

yes

erm satani22

if you believe in NOT LOVE(satan is the opposite of love) then king you are not able to love, so it would be only natural for you to never find love

YES

I do not believe that there is a devil or Satan you can believe in one and it would be so for you, but I see you as a spiritual being and if you call yourself a Satanist then that is what you are, ask who ever you think is the creator,giver,GOD of hell, dunno its all about you and what you want.

ikamefa:
gal me a tell yah post a pix

u gwaan get a lotta catch up i tell yah 

hmmmmmmm

king are you a Christian, if so simply get on your knees and ask God for the woman you want describe her, feel her, smell her now let it go BELIEVE THAT god WILL BRING HER TO YOU, NO WORRIES THAT IS HOW SHE WILL COME. 




by the way no matter what religion you are,or not you practice the law of attraction ( every religion believe in an unseen force (GOD) who/that/which gives you everything you ask for and more with out question you just need to believe it

satani22


STOP LOOKING FOR LOVE LET IT FIND YOU, FOR NOW FORGET ABOUT IT, SO THAT YOU CAN ALLOW IT TO COME.

you can not make any one love you, and no one can break your heart if you have no expectation of them you do not love to be love you love because that is what you are.  Forget sex


why do you love this person

satani22:
I'm enjoying your responses. From the first response, i deduced that LOVE comes first followed by understanding and mutual respect. Questn= how did u achieve these? U sat down to agree on these or through time things took their places? Questn= how can i convince someone that i truly love to love me? I don't have the resilience to hang on to requests for so long. Questn= are u an atheist?

Satani22

FIRST UNDERSTAND THAT I USE HERB ( WHAT YOU CALL WEED) IT MAKES A PERSON WITH THE RIGHT KNOWLEDGE VERY DEEP AND I SINCERELY HOPE THAT YOU UNDERSTAND WHAT I AM SAYING

to be an atheist you must first believe in god I do not believe in god as you do GOD IS PURE LOVE, to me we are all God we are all connected we are all the same being ( energy) we are all one with the universe, we do not get what we want by praying we get what we want by believing it will be so, hence the verse ask and it shall be given.


I WANT YOU TO UNDERSTAND THAT LOVE RECOGNIZE LOVE, THE PERSON WHO IS FOR YOU CAN NOT AND WILL NOT PASS YOU BY. IF YOU FIND YOURSELF IN A PLACE WHERE YOU LOVE SOME ONE WHO YOU SAY DOES NOT LOVE YOU IT IS BECAUSE YOU WANT TO BE LOVED AND YOU KNOW YOU DESERVE IT.  SO WHEN IT DOES NOT COME THE WAY  YOU  WANT IT TO, YOU CAN NOT UNDERSTAND, THAT IS WHAT IS HOLDING YOU TO THIS PERSON, NOT LOVE.  I DO NOT LOVE HIM FOR THE RELATIONSHIP TO WORK, I LOVE ME, IT IS ALWAYS MY INTENT TO BE GOOD AND HAPPY TO ME, TO LOVE ME, THEN I WOULD NOT LOOK FOR LOVE OUTSIDE OF ME, THAT IS TO SAY I DO NOT EXPECT HIM TO MAKE ME FEEL GOOD BECAUSE, I FEEL THAT WAY BEFORE I AM NEXT HIM.   WHEN YOU LOVE THERE IS NO NEED FOR EXPLANATION, OR LET'S DISCUSS HOW TO WORK THIS OUT YOU JUST KNOW.  I AM QUITE ACCEPTING OF OTHERS.

MY FATHER IS A PASTER I WAS BORN AND RAISED IN THE CHURCH I EVEN WAS A SUNDAY SCHOOL TEACHER, I WENT TO A CATHOLIC SCHOOL AND HAVE FRIENDS OF MANY RELIGIONS BECAUSE IT IS NOT MY GOAL IN LIFE TO CHANGE ANYONE BUT MYSELF AND THE ONLY THING I WANT TO LEARN IS HOW TO LOVE MORE UNCONDITIONALLY.

about religion I am a spiritual being not a religious one, i have no religion, but i belive in the principles of Rastafarianism that is to love always without judgement, to always look for the positives in life and  the universal law of attraction  (google it ) he has one and he is entitle to it with no interferance from me and he treat me the same.

marriage marriage hmmmm boy hmmmmmmm marriage is such a huge word. well if it comes to that, i will say yes


The best way to find love is to love, he is very loving so am i, now, we do not argue he does his thing i do mine, i give him his space he gives me mine , he have his house I have mine, I go to his he comes to mine. We have a mutual understanding of our needs I know how he feel about me and he me. I know when to hug him equally I know when to leave him be. If ever I need some one to talk to he is always there, no matter what I want he will try to sort it and I do the same for him. I think if you really are serious you need to make sure the person you are falling for is the right one, if you have to change your plans to fit her in so to speak then, u need to consider if its right. what is she carrying? does it matter? its up to you to know what right for you .

satani22:
Pls for the purpose of enlightenment kindly tell me how u both went about it. I'm also in love with some Nl personalities and want something concrete to come out of same

erm king you are trying to get me in trouble however here goes.

He was being really silly, on some post back in 2006 so, the then, crazy coco29 told him off, he cussed me out good and proper, i thought he was so hot we continued like primary school children for a while then we made contact to cuss via email roflmaooooooooo it was then we found out that we had like each other,  weeks later he came to my house ( i had my friend roflmaoooooooooooooo  wait with me untill i felt comfortable but as soon as i saw him i told her to fk off home I think he stayed for 3 days.

He and i have a very magnetic chemistry, at first, we continued to argue like children about any thing from politics to religion.  we broke up once for about a week then I think a month even though we spoke regularly as in almost everyday because he is so intelligent we can discuss anything he has a wealth of knowledge and so do I. it makes for one exciting relationship. he is considerate and very kind I love him. still grummpy

THE REST I WILL KEEP PRIVATE



YES sex is amazing with him it helps that is  down there

for does of you who do not know coco29 is Rasta ( what you would call Rastarian) which would mean i have long locks or what you call dreadlocks.

Today a Nigerian lady stopped me to ask what shop she can go to get her hair like mine, she said that she love those crazy hair styles   my fellow Afrikans  you do not see a queen walking the streets wearing RED_GREEN_YELLOW and BLACK, LOCKS DOWN HER BACK and asked such a question. Unless I thought, she really did not understand, so we had a conversation about it, as i had thought she really did not, so for those of  you who do not know here, educate yourself.


your natural hair is the source of your strength, when any Afrikan reach the stage where you can lock your hair YOU HAVE NOW ACCEPTED WHO YOU ARE WITHOUT DOUBT OR FEAR.





Dreadlocks, also called locks, a ras, dreads, or Jata (Hindi), are matted coils of hair. Dreadlocks are usually intentionally formed; because of the variety of different hair textures, various methods are used to encourage the formation of locks such as backcombing. If combs, brushes, and scissors are not used on the hair, the hair will tangle together as it grows, eventually resulting in the twisted, matted ropes of hair known as dreadlocks.
Dreadlocks are associated most closely with the Rastafari movement, but people from many groups in history before them have worn dreadlocks, including many Sadhus of India and the Sufi Rafaees, the Maori people of New Zealand, the Maasai of East Africa, and the Sufi malangs and fakirs of Pakistan.


http://t1.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcRPtxM0FeWcM9isYAxOpeS5ln5kcJDJOBPsRnubFz8CNeEMaVRJ

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dreadlocks

Uyi Iredia:
@ ttopic >>> I do not think online relationships are ideal. However, it might work in your case.

like, dude it was 2007? and it did work out he is a fantastic guy in every sense of the word

mukina2:
am good langa time

well i was ordered back, and i must say i really am enjoying it, if only the old landers where here



candy baby i will be on yim tonight @7pm see you there

well satani22 enjoy the single life

190:

i know you love attention hello how are you

Pweety4me:
[color=#550077]Hmm coco who r u? nevermind i ave a question[/color]?

yes

love is unconditional KING!

now I do not believe the bible am just saying, you know, check that

actually using HERB is a choice check this I am so loving you


Genesis 1:11 "And God said, Let the earth bring forth grass, the herb yielding seed, and the fruit tree yielding fruit after his kind, whose seed is in itself, upon the earth: and it was so."
Genesis 1:29 "And God said, Behold, I have given you every herb-bearing seed, which is upon the face of all the earth, and every tree, in the which is the fruit of a tree yielding seed; to you it shall be for meat."
Genesis 3:18 ", thou shalt eat the herb of the field."
Psalms 104:14 "He causeth the grass to grow for the cattle, and herb for the service of man."
Proverbs 15:17 "Better is a dinner of herbs where love is, than a stalled ox and hatred therewith."[24]
Revelation 22:2 " the river of life proceeded to flow from the throne of God, and on either side of the bank there was the tree of life, and the leaf from that tree is for the healing of the nations."

dayotheone:
you know sth , you dont always have to satisfy yourself , or it will always run you into danger

well if you are masturbating play safe then, if you are having relations continue being safe or you can fight the feeling you have while scolding yourself on being in control or you will run into danger (i mean come on)

satani22:
Love! love!! love!!!

ok well then stop thinking of hate! hate! hate! the past is exactly that, i will never understand how people can say they believe in god but do not believe he can deliver, yow just let it go, because you are holding yourself where hate is. I do not like being alone, i love having a partner to share life with, it is fantastic to see something beautiful and without saying a word my partner can see it to. stop talking and feeling that women are bad or evil because that is what you will see.

hmmm there will come a time when you will get it KING i believe that more love to you

and yes I am Rastafarian and love is my religion.

bizmogule:
After 30 minutes just crack your best jokes; you know the one that makes her laugh, remind her of one funny experience and tickle her, if she says leaev me, don't leave her just kiss her on the neck and she will mellow

erm sir who ever told you that was liar. plz do not try it if your woman is realllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll upset or about to start her monthly, you would not want to do that i can see accident and emergency department.


now telling her that you were wrong and she was right will most certainly make her mellow

Satani22


please tell me what it is that you expect from a woman

Sagamite:
Expalin how this junk you wrote applies to Boko Haram or the people that bombed Madrid or the people that are bombing Pakistanis or the people that kill kafirs in Eygpt, Nigeria or Turkey when the pant of Muhammed is drawn in Montenegro.

I await your explanation.

erm King I do not give attention to negative things everyone can do what they want it is not for me, you or anyone to judge. Ask yourself the hate that you are feeling does it make you a good Christian? LOVE, KING, LOVE close your eyes to the world, fine the love you have within. BECAUSE if god comes tonight would you be going to heaven with hate in your heart? If you are perfect then KING cast the first stone. your word of the day is acceptance

no 11 year old child should have such a life if you can not love her send her back to her mother, i mean come on



life is suppose to be fun and i do not expect my guest to do any house work no matter what the age

Sagamite:
There are no excuses or basis of comparison to justify, excuse or mitigate the evil we are seeing from Islamic fundamentalists like LagosShia and Sweetnecta.

ok KING it seems that you really are angry with islam ok i get can you change it, i don't know what religion u are but would Jesus want you to hate,


on a different note ( it is 6pm where ever you live, your wife and kids ( its just a story) are all in the house BOMB your wife is dead your 1 year old child is dead on the floor the 1week old baby is cut in half in his or her bed.  You cry life goes on, you re marry wonderful wife 2 kids same thing happens OK you cry ask god why life goes on a few years later same thing now KING you found out this is because of your religion some thing you believe in( now pay attention)your religion which you believe in says you must then go to war to defend it ( i know i do not know why GOD want little old me are you to defend him either), it is only logical that that is what would happen( religion state that we do not die, we go back to GOD so according to religion Islam is just sending them back to GOD for him/she/it or that to deal with.  No I am not Muslim i am a spiritual being not a religious one my thoughts are controlled by me.  when we learn how to love like Jesus or Mohammed(respect) did then we will understand.

more love to you

Sagamite:
I bet some people people can justify killing twins "now" and we are not allowed to complain because "back in the day" they used to do such in parts of Nigeria.

Sagamite there is no such thing as death. Unless you found some way of destroying energy.
I LOVE YOU MAN SERIOUSLY love and only love is my way of life more love to you

^^^ fantastic