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dvampire-naughty


kiki-? girls i have to think about this i want it to be right you are just great oh (strong)


hmmmmmmmm-new-but-wild

kdk- religous

mariam A:
d best tin is for you to pray n fast about it.

honey is that going to stop him, face fact he does not want you any more move on with ya life sista

owen do not get me wrong, i was beaten by my mother to the point where i was 18 and i looked her in the eyes and said that if she hit me again i would have to sin and hit her back.


i do not slap them for every thing, but i stand by my word when i say some kids should get a slap and when i say slap i do not mean mercy-less beating no way one or two slap is enough.


yes i am a single mother of 4, 3 boys and one girl i do not need to slap them now because they are getting older now i do more talking than anything.

non of this moving easy into the forum, we gonna drop u right in the middle welcome to nl suga

it just can not be looks alone sweetie

hmmmmm my ideal man should be over 5ft 10,


dark in colour, i love it when a black man get all sweaty and slippery,

he has to have full lips (there is nothing as disgusting as a man with small lips) i want lips that i can suck, bite and play with,

skinny men no way he has to have some meat that i can sink my nails into,  and i want a man who can pick me up especially in the bed room

his d i c k well this is very difficult to find but they out there, it has to be long and fat( not fat but short or long but skinny,


i must be able to communicate with him on all levels( iintelligenceis a must)


my man must love his culture, his people and his colour he should also understand the stenght with in him
as a black man, a true descendant of afrikans.

@owen


this topic seems to be very important to you, deeper than just your believe so, i will not argue with you over to hit or not to hit, what i will say is this, not every child can be discipline this way, i will not use a belt on my daughter i feel girls need to be spoken too and have privileges taken away, i do not go around like a mad woman beating my kids far from it, i do a lot of go to yr room, but some occasions calls for a slap, i make a point not to hit them if i am angry and believe me months can go by with out me hitting them. lets just say my children now know how, when and where to behave a certain way.

omg i need to make a cup of coffee and then come back to this one

you are sooooo mischievous

@owen

don't be rediculous why would i use a cutlass on my kids i live in london where you can hit as long as you do not mark.
i know when it has moved from discipline to abuse.


my youngest son has this habit of misbehaving in school, if he does not get his own way he would trash the class room i will have none of that, the first time he did it i put him to sit down and had a talk, i told him what i expect from him, the second time the same thing by the third i peppered his ass with licks he is now one of the top studentS, mind you after age 11 i will not hit them i feel at that age their pride as men has develope for me to hit would be to chalenge their manhood.


HOWEVER IF THEY FEEL THAT THEY ARE MAN ENOUGH TO DISRESPECT ME AFTER I RAISED THEM ALL BY MYSELF I WILL BEAT THE SHIT OUT OF THEM I DEMAND RESPECT FROM THEM ALWAYS NO MATTER WHAT AGE THEY ARE.

@ANALITICAL


i will not punch them however i will use a belt, it has been a long time since i have slapped my boy but as they are getting older some how they feel that i am no longer in control so i had to bring the belt out.



THEY ARE PERFECT LITTLE ANGELS NOW

suga candy neva mind

@owen1968


i said the same thing when my boys were that age, but at their present age i think i need to start punching them down, i have three boys and believe me they go through stages in life and a parent must change discipline accordingly.

Dvampire:
o mi gosh! really?! *kneels before coco29 in supplicative gesture* please teach me. please.
*what an experience it will be under coco29's tutorial classes. hope i survive it*

i think i will post a topic on the matter share my expertise with the forum

Dvampire:
@coco29, you know that i love nl alright and i also love

Dvampire:
girl, i gotta give it to you. you've gat experience in the kissing field, no doubt about that. i think i need some tutorials and practical demonstration from someone so vast.

not only the kissing feild darling

kissing is one of the dirtiest thing we can do, so i do not go around exchanging saliva with people i do not love yuk. for me to kiss a man it has to be deep love.


a kiss is also for me the deciding facter in a relationship, you know when you kiss a guy and the lips just don't fit, him has to go no matter how strong the feel.

Dvampire:
yeah right.
@ geebaby. welcome to nairaland girl. home of the good the bad and the *whispers to geebaby* don't say i told ya.

mr you should let her make up her own mind about nl i love it, so do you

Dvampire:
coco29 what was the tongue for i only said what i knew i would do. aint no crime in that or is there?

god, suga i was just saying hi

sure everyone else does and if you want to make friends just join in the conversations, read the threads give your opinion and it will start from there.

hi sweetie, i will be ya first pal

for me it is reading and writing poetry

that is not what

Ugwumba:
The true translation from the original Hebrew of DEUT 22:28 is:

If a man find a damsel that is a virgin, that is not betrothed, and lay hold on her, and lie with her, and they be found;

The two Hebrew words used here are: 'taphas' - to lay hold & 'shakab' - to lie down with, which have been erroneously translated to 'rape' in some English translations of the OT.

The word for 'rape' used extensively and almost exclusively in the Hebrew OT is 'chazaq' - forces to lie with in DEUT 22:25 and GENE 34: 1 -7.

I leave those who can read Hebrew with the original scripts to confirm this.

כִּי-יִמְצָא אִישׁ, נַעֲרָ בְתוּלָה אֲשֶׁר לֹא-אֹרָשָׂה, וּתְפָשָׂהּ, וְשָׁכַב עִמָּהּ; וְנִמְצָאוּ. DEUT 22:28

וְאִם-בַּשָּׂדֶה יִמְצָא הָאִישׁ, אֶת-הַנַּעֲרָ הַמְאֹרָשָׂה, וְהֶחֱזִיק-בָּהּ הָאִישׁ, וְשָׁכַב עִמָּהּ: וּמֵת, הָאִישׁ אֲשֶׁר-שָׁכַב עִמָּהּ--לְבַדּוֹ. DEUT 22:25

i try so hard not to have discussion on religion, then some thing like this come up, the bible has been translated so many different times that we have lost the true meaning of some of the words of the most high.

the meaning is, if a man and a woman were found having sex, if she was a virgin then the man should marry her, it is said to be rape because women were seen as vulnerable, not necerserally meaning the were raped.

it would be the equivilent today as having sex before marriage.

i think it was a nice thing


@dvampire