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as soon as my man get one morning and decide he don't love me i would ask why and then i will tell_{such a stupid question how the hell are we suppose to know what men thinks, in fact do they think at all}

i set rules from the out set, rule breaker are punished ie I STOP TALKING TO THEM.


what is the point of asking a man o baby when am i gunna see you, well you know how i see it, if you don't spend time with me some one else will.

i could not be assed to run behind him.

sweetlove and all the other niggers in the forum YES IT DOES NOW STOP ASKING

sweetlove:
@lovestinks I Get your drift, How would U cope when your man never stop lying.Or is there a way for you to stop your man from lying.

sweetlove it seems to me that this question you seek the answer too, goes deeper for you, what you should be asking your self is why am i with a lier, because we all know that if we have a man who lies then that brother does not love us.

Douzy you always here i thought i was the only one who had nothing better to do

GNature:
@Coco29

Thank you so much for being objective and honest. I don't know why people feel "training a man" would make any difference. A liar is a liar period. And it goes for both sexes as you have intelligently pointed out.

Men generally lie because (1) they don't want to hurt their woman's feelings (2) they feel this is the only way they can get what they want from a woman. So, men would always lie as long as these two issues persist.

segun111:
@coco,

I am 100% in agreement with you when you said everyone has the potential to lie and yes we all do lie in one form or the other. Now, it depend on the level of lies; white lies, we all do that just to defend our ego and the ability to think that we are right all the time.

Women lie to men as well as men lie to women, however, when you are in relationship with someone and you lie then it is a sign that you are cheating on your partner. Again, the same goes on both ways,

what i have learned over the yrs is that, a woman/man would lie not because they are afraid to lose a relationship, they lie simply because they were caught out, lies like that shows that your relationship is not real, a relationship that has gone deeper into the dynamics of who the two of you are would not be like this, a lie in such a relationship would be out of desperation IE either one of you knows that , what ever it is that was done is the one thing your partner told you would hurt him or her.

I am not a saint but i try very hard to go with my instincts and listen away from what i am feeling in my stomach, ladies we should not just take what men say because we love them, we need to use our heads and think about what he is saying, not our hearts, there are no feelings of love in our hearts, it is in our heads and until we are able to step back from what we are feeling, men will always lie.

ahahahahahahaha o lawd have mercy roflmao

isn't the guy just toooooooo cute? roflmao

Radiant:
roflmao

radiant suga isn't this hilarious, girl i almost fell of ma chair.

sweetlove you are asking an impossible question because as long as women believe their bull-shit they will continue to lie.

Sista:
@Coco29


Come on Coco, you know when a woman resorts to lying it is usually do to her being lied to so many times. Of course when we women deside that we do not want to be true any more, it is usually temporary and when we do the lying, we are very good at it but that is after being lied to over and over.

sista ma sista i have to be honest here i do not lie because i do what i want to do so nothing to explain to no one, however if u know the amount of ma sistas who call me up and say we went to this place at this time just incase he calls and these girls have some of the best brothers possible I AM SORRY SWEETIE BUT US LADIES CAN LIE, SO GOOD WE CAN DO IT TO GET INTO HEAVEN.

Sista:
@Sweetlove


A man will not stop lying but you can train him to think twice about lying by letting him see that you are not a fool. If you feel a man is lying, you have to call him on it but in a nice way. You have to let him know that you detect a flaw when you get the feeling he is lying.

Don't scream and yell, confront him lady like and maturely. Then give him some time to absorb what you and he just talked about. While you are giving him some time, do not call him, let him call you. If he calls you, it does not mean he is ready to stop lying, it could just mean that he likes your challenge.

As the relationship goes on, you will see and feel weather or not he is insincere or sincere. If he does not call you, that will mean that he is either waiting you out to come running back to him or that he does not want to deal with your challenge, if that is the case, do not run behind him, find someone else. Ultimately, if you continue to feel that he wants to keep questioning your intelligence, you will just need to leave him alone.

A man will only keep doing what you will let him do.

Ladies what is this we lie just as much as they do, it is just that we do it with class and we have our girl friends to back us up.

Like when you say you when out with one of ya girls, and rang her to say (if whats his face) call say that we went to this place and that, at this time and that.


roflmao

am good lovely, but it is true

Nubian do you not have pride?

she obviously don't want you, i can tell you for a fact that when a woman wants a man she would be on u like flies on s h i t.

miss kiki i was all over this place putting my email details and you have not said you got it i need to move it

you are welcome sweetie

roflmao

nkemkelly:
have you been to clubs lately?you must have gotten to notice how ladies get to react to some guys when asked to dance with them.they seem to like the daddies more than those they can eventually get married to.its so amazing the way ladies behave.its still baffles me because most the these ladies we see in the club come from rich homes,then tell me why they still sell at nights,the poor ones don't want to keep with one guy,they want evry boby to get a feel of them or what.please tell me what does women really want.

ahuh so you are one of those nigger who do not take no for an answer huh talking about haven't i seen you some where before. roflmao suga i only playing.

seriously woman do not want to dance because some of you stink ass niggers get a (stiffy) yeah you carring on like some dog on heat.

lol no

geebabe:
d lips are sure cute but wats up wit d glasses u look like a nerd
but u are ok en coco wats up

i am good suga

@kiki

modify

u are back lovely just as i was about to go

girl hmmmmm