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really? how so?

:p

really?

Then sweetie you need to talk to him, if he truely love this other women then let it go and continue to be his friend if that is possible.

@debra

(my opinion as a fellow nl member)
i was on the other side(the baby mama) the reason why i slept with him was not for love i did it just because i could, thing is men are so easy to stray and the fact the he said that you are difficult to deal with has nothing to do with his cheating, he did it because he had the chance and to get himself out of it he blamed you, i do not believe that you should leave him because of what he did as you are married how ever you have to consider if this some thing you can forget and move on from.

(As a counselor this is my opinion not advice)

Relationships are very difficult,  and it just does not work its self out, it is some thing you need to work at, your husband said the you are difficult to live with , you need to get clarity on this IE what does he mean by (difficult to live with) then u can move on from there, men cheat for all sort of reasons and some times they have no reason, however that does not mean he does not love you, what the two of you need is to sit down and talk about this, not argue, the two of you need to know what you want from this marriage, if it is to save it then you are going to need professional help to regain trust in him and for him to understand why he cheated. If you forgive him you should not bring it up again, because it will become a new issue to argue about and put even more strain on the relationship

wormedup?

u said it, girls are gullible not ladies.

with respect every thing else will follow. A man who respects and knows that his lady is a queen will treat her as such.

another attention seeker.

dcuddles:
thanks you guys, @coco, yea i knw where u are coming from fine he wasnt the kind of guy i would have gone for on a normal day,but based on the circumstances in which we met, thats tru someone, i was actually trying to get to know him better and all,so it wasnt like i was using him or trying to, anyway im glad u guys have given your various opinins, im moving on quite alright,aldo i stll have this urge to just yell at him when next he calls,

have consider the fact that he may have liked you but was afraid of your rejection.

all this in the land where not going to church is a sin. Nigerian have religion but not god.

girl is some thing wrong with you? what the hell do you think we will say, leave the man.

candylips:
babes that has gat nothing to do with my point

so what my dear candylips is your point

Pain:
Come This Guy Y R U Flooding Nairaland With This Same Topic? How many time would we reply U. Please If U Have Nothing doing, then take a vacation. What is It. If U think Six Years Of Compatibility isnt good enough then dump her!!!! Or give her to your da to sample her. Then perhaps he'd make betta judgement of the whole issue.

Men , Some guys wont cease marvelling me. Seun Please this guy is taking valuable space. Space that u can atleast advertise on.

Pain that was rude and uncalled for.

nothing once a woman lose trust in you it will take jesus for her to get it back.

NB it means good bye


and you simply TELL HER THAT YOU LOVE HER.

being treated like a lady has nothing to do with creativity, all it takes is respect.

to much wine can be very bad for ya health

creative?

Douzy:
You must be some psychologist. Think you could get me on the (Sigmund Freud's) couch, do some psychoanalysis of ma crazy mind and gimme some psychotherapy? I guess I would be obliged.

i am, but i do not do psychodynamic counseling i think he was a bit psychosomatic

i am going out with 4play.

Necorios:
Hey everyone,i need your advice on this: i'm in love with this beautiful chic who gat everytn to be a wife material,she's d best thing that eva hapnd 2me and we av been dating for almost 6yrs and we intend to get maried in 5yrs time (2011),

after 5yrs with some one you love, who u are happy with, you let ya dad who is not in the relationship or ever will be tell you that it is not compatable?

sweetie not even the ten commandments could help you get the perfect man, because they are like fruit they go bad after a while no matter how fresh they are bought.