₦airaland Forum

Moana:
Some people are ruthless. Its unfortunate this guy had to go through this. Karma will surely deal with that woman. He should annul the marriage since it was never something genuine.

How are we sure Karma is not dealing with him? I know a guy who dated a lady for 8 years only to go back home for holiday, got married and brought his wife back with him only to find out later that she was not who she claimed to be.

Some men do not want 'Westernized women', they want women they can control so they go back home to marry. Marriage is a big deal. You need to know the person very well and with long distance you only get to see the side he/she shows you

This woman was really wicked but I don't believe in long distance marriage especially. People already cheat during long distance relationship. Can this man also say he has never cheated during his 4 years apart?

Black people have a lot of problems. I just sometimes feel that we need to move away from blaming other people(whites etc) for our problems and start facing them.

What we first need to work on is things such as tribalism, the hate that we have for our fellow black brothers and sisters just to name a few

I can debate on and on about this but if black people want to see change then it has to start within.

This is so distasteful. I see no humour in this...

timilinda:
May it happen to her sons, n male relatives who r/may be in support of what she is doing, IJMN!!!

This makes no sense at all. Why are you wishing bad on innocent folks. So if your family member did something bad does that mean bad stuff should fall on you simply because you are related? To make it worse you still had the audacity to say IJMN. Wow

I cannot believe this. I am in utter shock...

onila:
their anger problems is sexy

when my latino housemate is angry, it turns me on

latino men dont shout on women too. .so hes never rude to me

I guess it all boils down to personal preference. I don't like guys who have anger problems. Often times then not it leads to abuse unless you are into that kinda thing..

onila:
many Caribbean and black American are African descent

but many feel they are not African descendants but that does not change they are

Many Carribean and AA know that they have African ancestry, it's just that not all of them want to be associated with Africans.

Latinos are a diverse group of people with many blends. The Afro latinos do have African ancestry but they also have European ancestry so saying they are representative of one part of their mix is incorrect.

onila:
some pple consider them Africans

i just think they just have African roots

Mzdarkskin, the former Jamaican on NL user feels they are African just like Caribbeans

It doesn't matter how other people feel. It's about how Latinos feel. I believe some have African ancestry but they do not consider themselves as Africans and I know quite a lot of them

Strahovski:

Shut up bitch. . The Latinos have no African roots. Don't deceive yourself.

80% Latino guys are gays. .I have worked with many Latinos in Mexico, Europe and Asia. .so no one can argue or debate on the Latinos with me.

Besides Latinos have anger management problems. And stop creating a thread thread about everything. Ish

I can't help but find the irony in this....

lagmostkuit:
I'm sure some ladies ain't oblivious of that fact!

Well media plays a big role in it and low self esteem. I don't think people just wake up one day and decide to bleach

It takes a lot of things internally. I know personally growing up I used to be teased about my dark skin and 'nappy' hair from black kids mind you which just made it worse. The fact that I was African was also another reason to be teased

So I really feel that people who bleach have a lot of psychological and internal issues going on. Those people are not happy with themselves and do not accept themselves for who they are. It's just low self esteem

MrCuddles:
It's not only Nigerian people that love bleaching or don't wanna be black. Americans are the kings and queens of bleaching. MJ took bleaching to another level. At least in Nigeria we don't get oppressed by white people, we oppress them. Nigerians bleach for vanity reasons not because they have been ridiculed for being a niggar.

BTW who told you Nigerian men focus on only the colour, she has to be curvy. She must carry front and back and definitely know how to cook and make the bed rock

Lol I didn't mean it in a negative way. Bleaching is a problem for a lot of black people from AA to Congo. I just wish people would just accept the way they are.

Yes I definitely know about the curvy part and the cooking and bed rocking is typical of any African man, in fact men in general

lagmostkuit:
They think when they bleach, they'll be more beautiful and attract men to them.

Men that love dem ladies black will still go after them so why bleach?

Anyways, their fuvking business

This is so true

lagmostkuit:
Looks more like an animal's leg

Lol. I just can't fathom why anyone would want to bleach. It makes me sad to think how some black people really hate being black. I guess it's also the society cos I know Nigerian men tend to love yellow bones as I have been told...

I don't believe those who wear make up or wear weaves have low self esteem. It's personal preference. I don't wear weaves and I hardly wear make up but when I do it has nothing to do with low self esteem. People have different reasons for putting make up on. I don't think it's right to judge others for their personal choice

This is a very impressive app. Keep it up

I do not know much about Nigerian tribes but from what I have personally noticed I think the Yorubas dress really well

No offense but this sounds really absurd

gallivant:
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which place is this?

It's good to see Nigerians and Ghanaians getting along. It's possible after all

Eww that is so disgusting and unhygienic. I pity her husband

Ewww that is so disgusting and unhygienic. I pity her husband