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True.
There’s no way to know if she actually cheated or not. At first he claimed she cheated so he can be justified in abandoning his kids. Now he’s probably saying she only chatted inappropriately with another man so that his fellow alpha men won’t call him too much of SIMP when he goes back to her.

Bottom line is that he’s realized he has more to lose from the dissolution of the marriage than she does. She’s moved on and is making her path in life. While he’s still there looking for who to help him with cooking and laundry and share bills.

I wouldn’t take him back if I were her. He needs his maid back not the marriage

GloriousGbola:
I no dey. You can see the guy is requalifying his original stories. Before he accused his wife of infidelity, now he is saying it was emotional infidelity. Tomorrow he may say she was chatting with a work colleague on WhatsApp.

With that alone, nothing he says can be taken seriously as he his simply packaging himself as the blameless victim in this saga.

The original story is the husband with a wife who got a job and then started fking around. Now it is husband with wife who was chatting on WhatsApp.

What new variations will we hear about the family? Maybe he will say the dad actually lent him money.

Las Las this is a long game engagement exercise

madridguy:
Men are the price.

Men and women don't have equal right in my own dictionary and my own state of origin.

whatever makes you sleep better sweetheart

He has been with other women in the meantime. He even made posts about one of his live-in girlfriends. So moot point

madridguy:
You separated from your wife because of some chat and now you want to believe that no man has climbed her since over two years you sent her packing.

Racist white magats are the reason why election violence is rising. Nothing to do with legal or illegal immigrants

I don’t think you have the mental capacity for this conversation. I actually thought you knew what you were talking about. Yet again I have myself to blame for going back and forth with someone who’s jumped feet first into a conversation that has nothing to do with them.

legitnow1:
HAHAHAHAHAHAHANA


THIS DONT SOUND LIKE AMERICA ANYMORE.



U SURE SAY NO BE NAIJA U DEY.



EVERYWHERE U PEOPLE GO, TURN TO SHIT

legitnow1:
MY GOV WILL SAVE ME. ?

Yes he will. I dare any of you rable rousers to try nonsense on Election Day. You’ll be in jail before you finish spelling your government name.

Ask those Jan 6 maga rioters how far. How many of them are languishing in prison now and Trump doesn’t even acknowledge their sacrifices. It will be the same for rest of you if you don’t behave yourselves

You don’t need to preach to me. I’m a Christian too. I don’t celebrate Christmas to observe the winter solstice nor do I go to church on Sunday to worship the god of the sun. I do it for the same reason other Christian’s do.

But you have to know your history and don’t be unnecessarily defensive about it. We could’ve very well chosen the real date of Jesus’ birth to celebrate his birthday or worship on the day of sabbath as written in the Bible instead of letting a Roman emperor change it for us. And blindly we accepted to celebrate with the so called heathens and unbelievers.

I was born catholic. We celebrate All Saints and Souls’ Day. Two separate days of praying for the dead souls to find peace and rest. And praying to the saints to intercede on behalf of the living.

Halloween is a similar concept. They celebrate it on the eve of All Saints’ Day. The day people honor their lost loved ones, and put on costumes to “ward off” evil spirits. If so many Christians weren’t so up on their high horses, they’d recognize that many cultures have shared similarities with us. A lot of our practices we actually borrowed from them

membranus:
All days belong to God and were created by Him, including the day you termed "the day of the pagan Winter Solstice Festival". And even if it was the day we Christians choose as our Christmas Day, we are not certainly not honouring any pagan demon on that day, but our Lord Jesus Christ.

As for Sunday, maybe you don't know, Jesus Christ was called the "Sun of Righteousness" in Malachi 4:2, far before the pagans named a day to worship the physical sun, not knowing that they are only dedicating a day to the worship of the real Sun.

What does this even mean?

legitnow1:
Hahahahahahahahahahahaha!


THOSE THINKING TOO KNOW, USUALLY END UP FEELING.



U ARE NOW FACED WITH A POTENTIAL STATE OF EMERGENCY AND ELECTION IS NOT DONE.


HATE TO SAY I TOLD YOU SO....



SADLY, INTERNAL THREATS SHOULD BE THE LEAST OF YOUR WORRY SHOULD YOU PERSIST WITH YOUR FEMINIST NONSENSE KAMALA.


U WILL BE IN A JUNGLE.

NinjaMetahuman:
Trump's desperation has turned American election to a joke.

His magat cult members in Washington are extremely angry and bitter. They so much hate that it’s a blue state. Those people can do and undo to undermine the election. I’m glad the governor is up to the task

What’s the joke? I want to laugh too but I don’t get it

Jupiler:
She's spokane in the washington 🤣🤣🤣

diamond68:
hehe bro you no well oooo

AngelicBeing:
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malali:
Where are you spokane ?

Physically? Not there now

But it’s my home state and I miss it. I move around quite a bit.

diamond68:
i thought yua gomina was alex otti

I have no idea what this means

Exactly the same way you feel about the situation is the way May felt.

You people’s inability to see women as humans just like you is the reason why it’s impossible to have any meaningful conversation with you.

Yes you can feed and make love to her while she’s carrying another man’s child. The same way you expect her to care for you and serve you while you’re supporting another woman who is pregnant for you somewhere else. It’s not difficult at all.

Y’all like to claim men and women are biologically different. Well Duh.
For one you’re OBVIOUSLY not as evolved as women are.

Empathy is a sign of higher intelligence and evolutionary progress. Many men are not there yet. There’s simply no capacity for you to feel or recognize that. The neural pathways just don’t exist for you. It’s as simple as that. That’s why I know everything I’m saying to you is like fetching water with a basket but I try anyway.
Maybe in a few 100 years, a more evolved man will stumble upon the relics of this forum in an archive somewhere and he’ll get it.

chidiokay:
i love my woman, if she cheat depending on the circimstances i have capacity to forgive her, no one is infallible

But if she is carrying another man child thats on a whole new level, its only logical the man that got her pregnant take responsibility over her .... how will he do that when she is still understand my roof ?

will i be feeding and making love to another man's pregnancy or invite the man to move in nature favors a man might sound unfair or annoying but the truth

chidiokay:
anticipated, should my wife cheat n get pregnant for another man thats 90% not a mistake, a woman is the custodian of her womb ... logically she allowed it

A wife that got pregnant from outside wants to leave her marriage .. she cant marry two men so whats she up to

Its possible to share a husband but how two men will share one wife ... maybe i need to come to your school

You’re the custodian of your sperm. If you don’t want to have babies with a woman who’s not your wife, you’ll keep your penis in your underwear. It’s not hard at all

Yes you may need to come to my school to learn how to share a wife. Women have been sharing husbands since time immemorial when you people lied to them that God created you to cheat on them and abuse them. Heaven hasn’t fallen. It won’t fall if you learn to share your wives too.

You can wait your turn for marital sex the way women in polygamy have to wait.
You can provide your quota to the upkeep of the home just as those women do.
You should know your place and don’t question your wife.
You should be willing to accept the kids from the marriage as yours too because you’re one big happy family. Thankfully DNA is alive and well. You can easily differentiate which kids are yours (IF YOU MUST).

udemzyudex:
Pls explain how it will make things more expensive.

If Trump imposed tariffs on Chinese products, by definition, tariffs are paid by the buyer not the seller.
American companies buying the goods have to pay those tariffs in order to be able to bring in their goods to the country. They will have no choice but to hike up their prices to cover the cost of importation.

He was saying he’d put 200% tariffs on Chinese imports. Meaning an item that cost $1000, will now increase exponentially from $1000 to whatever the 200% tariff paid to bring it in adds to the cost.

He’s actually not a smart man at all. A Business man that filed bankruptcy 6 times. Overinflated his net-worth to get more loans from banks. Loans that he didn’t use to do anything successful. I’m just surprised people are easily bamboozled by his empty ignorant loud talking.

You guys go to church on Sunday not the sabbath and celebrate the birthday of Jesus on the day of the pagan Winter Solstice Festival. Pls rest.

chidiokay:
Can you like/love "something" but cant overlook the downside

It is possible to love two things but my sistas its not possible to love something and throw it away.

for instance,
i love Arsenal ... i cant narrate the number of hearts break arsenal has given me in decades But i cant leave that team, its a marriage for better for worse


use any other word but certainly not "love"

By your logic, since you Mr. Chidiokay loves marriage, you’ll still stay with a wife who cheats on you and has kids with another man?
That’s just a small downside right?

udemzyudex:
Some of you are just zombies and can't reason on your own, Trump already said it.

America is his priorities, if you hate him for putting America first then you have a problem because you're used to your country government putting you last or don't give a hoot about you.

The tariffs will make things exponentially more expensive for Americans. How is that for putting Americans first?

They never know what they are talking about. Bunch of ignoramuses

EnlightenedUFO:
Here you are, the number one proponent of putin BRICS trying to feel like you care for the dollar.

You are among the right wing people on this board that have repeatedly trashed the US dollar and hopes that China and BRICS reduce the power of the dollar and replace it with another currency.


You guys are tying yourself in pretzels, because the felon economic plan is a disaster.

TARIFFS NEVER MADE ANY MODERN COUNTRY GREAT!

Tariffs only helped America to grown in the olden days of the 1800's and you know why.

But in this high-powered age we live in; you think tariffs is the only strategy for economic growth? Tariffs, that the cost is being slapped down on Americans? Only an ignoramus buffoon will think tariffs will change his life.


And you couldn't find a more flattering image than the one of his court room appearances? The new york case where he got tagged a convicted felon? You should try harder bro, stop being lazy.

I’m proud of my governor . Good man Inslee

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
Why is polygamy illegal in the US?

1) Women don’t like it. You can’t force a grown woman to endure a situation she doesn’t want to because the culture you created as a man permits you the man to do it. Seems like the men just make up stuff that favors them and then use culture and religion to force women to accept it. USA said no. Men and women are equal. Men and men are equal. Women and women are equal. Everyone should pick one and gedifok

2) Tax purposes. Uncle Sam loves his money. Polygamy would lead to a situation where one polygamous family is entitled to extreme cash refunds because of the insane amount of children that usually come from such marriages. Don’t play with Uncle Sam and his money. He’ll bury you under the jail for even thinking about financially abusing the system.

3) women hate polygamy

4) women dislike polygamy

5) women find it disgusting

pocohantas:
You can never please them. So put your mental and physical health first.

Always!

chidiokay:
He made a mistake and she made a choice ... her decision nailed the coffin you can leave her out

When your wife makes that kind of mistake, I hope you make the choice to stay.

Empty skull

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
Her education is a waste. Leaving your marriage because your husband took a second wife in Nigeria? She should continue living in delusion. This is Africa not Europe or America.
The same way we reject same sex union is the same way the West reject polygamy.

Her education is a waste because she’s not sharing penis?🤮

pocohantas:
Yul left the wife of his youth to go live with another man's wife. May only found out via blogs. Yet it is this woman Nigerian men choose to blame. She doesn't want to be part of the show of shame and she is entitled to that. If she chose to stay, y'all would still have something to say. So let her be.

Hopefully Yul doesn't wake years later to play the victim like Fred Amata. Same Yul that was dancing on IG after the death of his first son. We are here watching and we hope his supporters wouldn't twist history when it starts.

These men are really something else

chidiokay:
Now she is sounding like cococandy... they are saying one thing and doing another

Marriage is the foundation of family did yul say family is the foundation

nonsense and Tpain

Yes she’s sounding like me and if I were in her situation, what she did is what I’d do too. Except I’d have officially filed for divorce by now (I don’t know if she has)

I love marriage but I won’t tolerate being married to a stupid man just to be called a married woman. I know when a woman tells you guys she likes marriage, to you that means she has to be okay with being mistreated in the marriage. Otherwise she’s not doing what she’s preaching.

Stupid!

She’s winning by 14 million more votes.
EOD

yyba:
He may even be dodging some of his relative that are looking for financial assistance

Is the in-law not his relative?

Nigerians amuse me

You can clearly see what Tinubu is doing is wrong but most of you support Trump who wants to criminalize lawful protesting. Y’all’s cognitive dissonance is something to study

descarado:
Black beans
Ur palate is something else honestly.

Don't want to remember that beans again.
Dh ate it but me, I have to use sick bowl( sorry)

Aww sorry you experienced that. It’s very delicious.

descarado:
Is it sweet

I have red kidney beans,black beans, pinto beans and other two I bought 3 yrs ago. Fear no even gree me make them. Tried black beans then m( taste was horrible to me)
Since then,

It’s not sweet. To me it tastes just like beans. I always make them with something else to enhance the flavors.

The black beans you have to drain the water and rinse it if you bought canned ones. Or soak overnight if you’re using raw beans.

I love all kinds of beans. And love love lentils 😀

descarado:
Is that red kidney beans?

Yep in the 3rd pic

In the 2nd pic is stewed black beans

ogbonti:
is japa a permanent solution? capital NO

Your solution is for them to stay and subject themselves and their kids to many more decades of

tremendous poverty, oppression, repression, massive insecurity (mass kidnappings, mass rape, herdsmen attacks, police brutality, robberies, assaults, fraud, killings) and so much lack and hunger in the land?

Possibly losing their lives, risking their children’s lives and safety etc just so they can say they fought to fix it?
Will any awards be given to those who suffered the most?
There’s no way all 300 million people in Nigeria can emigrate at the same time. Let those who can and want to leave go. The way you’re always so vehemently against the idea, one would think you didn’t understand why they leave. I’m just surprised that you know the reason.