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Pecoleee345:
No.....she had miscarriage twice
It was two year into marriage I got to know she had an abortion while in school.

She has a weak womb according to test results.

She has a weak cervix which is the opening of the womb.

Pecoleee345:
So she suffering from cervical incompetence is my fault.....or she not telling before about the abortion is my fault......I just don't understand.

She has a problem she caused herself but I should be one running around to solve it for her??

FYI i was ready to pay for medical solutions but she insisted it is spiritual attack from her side......so what am I supposed to do tie a rope to her neck and drag her to the hospital??

My brother incompetent cervix have nothing to do abortion sometimes, i know virgins who suffer same fate.It is nature just like we have hermaphrodites,people whose organs are not well developed are bound in nature(humans and animals).
With a cerclage she can keep the baby till term.Please my brother if she has other good qualities, try reconsider her and give her your conditions in the marriage.
Many women suffer from it these days.It can happen to any woman who had full term baby in the next pregnancy.
How old (weeks) were her last pregnancies?

Please educate yourself on this topic
https://www.nairaland.com/889053/pregnancy-pregnant-going-through-high/6188#103236799

The Igbo has been craving for the mantle of leadership (at the Federal level) since the inception of democracy in 1999; rather than being used as ladders to the actualisation of some self-centered politicians with little or no political will to deliver when the need arises.

It’s against this backdrop, the IPOB was formed to agitate self-independence with view to look for alternative route to the actualisation of a better governance since past and present governments have failed to address their heartfelt desires holistically.

What is the essence of being a Nigerian when some Nigerians are still more Nigerian than others? We can’t continue to blame secessionists for the political instability in recent times when we as governments have failed to address the root cause of this problem as we ought to do.

Though I’m not in support of Nigeria’s disintegration but I’m an advocate of a better Nigeria where everyone is treated with respect and fairness as against what is obtained today.

As far as I’m concerned, Kanu isn’t the only threat to the peaceful co-existence of Nigerians as often perceived by this regime but a mighty force to the actualisation of the Biafra nation, which the Buhari’s government is seriously guiding against.

It’s no sin to agitate for self-determination, especially when the aggrieved feel marginalised or not being treated with fairness in terms of governance only if this right is within the ambit of the law. But the question now is, does the present administration obey the rule of law? There is no sense in condemning a criminal for his sins when the accusers are also guilty of the same anomalies technically.

For us to nip this issue in the bud (if rather not too late), we should start seeing every Nigerian as being part of the government and accord them with the respect they truly deserve. You can’t be lion in the jungle of ideas when you keep depriving others of their rights to the dividends of a better democracy.

The Buhari’s regime should listen to the yearnings of the people and not turn deaf ears to the basic necessities while chasing shadow in guise of discharging its duties.

What stops the government to engage separatists in a round-table talk if this we provide a lasting solution to the problem at stake? Can’t we channel the same energy in fighting opposition by coming up with better initiatives to make informed decision geared towards uniting us rather than the unnecessary things that divide us as a nation?

Both the circled dot and the lion should embrace peace and come up with a resolution that will be instrumental to the betterment of our democracy at large.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.vanguardngr.com/2021/07/nnamdi-kanu-a-circled-dot-in-lions-den/amp/

Nnamdi Kanu, the embattled leader of a separatist group popularly called IPOB, has been in the news following his incessant agitations for Biafra restoration in recent times.

Just like the Biblical days of Noah, many could not believe when they first heard the news of his re-arrest by the Nigerian Government on Tuesday, June 29, a development that stirred mixed feelings across the country.

The ‘supreme leader’ as fondly called by his followers has been trending on social media amid his appearance at the Federal High Court, Abuja, for the continuation of his trial.

Recall the self-acclaimed leader of the Indigenous People of Biafra had jumped bail granted him by Justice Binta Nyako in late 2017. However, Kanu told the Federal High Court in Abuja on Tuesday, June 29, that he fled the country to save his life.

The IPOB leader and four others were arraigned before the Federal High Court in Abuja on a six-count criminal charge bordering on treasonable felony in June 2016.

Though they pleaded not guilty to the charge, bail was denied them by the different judges who had earlier tried the matter, including Justice Nyako.

However, Justice Nyako following the deteriorating health of the first defendant admitted him to bail to enable him access quality medical care.

The court had in April 25, 2017 admitted him to bail in the sum of N100 million and three sureties in like sum, one of whom was a serving Senator, Eyinnaya Abaribe.

Kanu’s bail was however revoked in March 2019 and a bench warrant for his arrest issued in November 2019, following his long absence in court for his trial.

The court also separated the trial of Kanu from five others earlier arraigned with him to pave the way for the continuation of their trial.

Nnamdi Kanu vs FG

The present state of Kanu can be best described as a man in the den of lions with so much control and command. One could only imagine how a man gives directive to millions of followers while in UK at the detriment of the government who viewed his authority as a threat to its administration.

Now that the ‘circled dot’ has been captured by the power that be, there is need for caution from both sides (the aggrieved and the oppressor).

This is not time to flex muscles or stir chaos but a battle of ideology that must be tackled idealistically.

A careful look at Kanu’s ideology reveals the aspirations and desires of a tribe who feel cheated and isolated in spite of their input to national development.

Hori, Hori, Hori
Nnamdi Kanu
Is Another Failure�����

Biafran4life:
Pls tell your hungry ije what ever.That if he is a man and have what it takes let him make his presence and location in any part of imo state know.That we beg him to come to imo state and do his live video.We are ready to pay his expenses as he looks poor and hungry

Go and find him in Abuja he doesnt need to step his foot in Imo.Bunch of murderers.Ijele is the only sane Igbo i have seen.Narcissistic tribe.

Frelex:
if Jesus was a prophet, then is Mohammad A god?

mohammed is a prophet.He is more revered than Jesus in Islam.

jahsharon:
Stop what you are smoking before it stops your life.

Igbos are Yoruba brothers.

Stop disgracing we Yorbas on the internet.

The common enemies are the blood sucking herdsmen from the Sahara desert whom we must unite together to send far away from our land.

Can a brother be happy with your troubles times like the Igbos?I will rather pick Edo/Urhobo as brothers than Igbos.
Our enemies in Nigeria are the two land grabbers namely Igbos and Fulani.
Igbos do it in a camouflage way (fake drugs and beverages,robbery,arson and burglary of markets(steal the sweat of your mothers),kidnapping,rituals,Cheating in the markets etc while fulani do it without pretence.
A Nigeria without Igbos and Fulanis will be paradise on earth.These two are chaotic people everywhere they go.
If you are married to their women,she only married you for your property to inherit when you pass on because women dont get inheritance in Igboland.

Omoluabi1stborn:
Yes, Yorubas are even minority in Nigeria at large

In your dreams

BiafIntel:
This is a fact they will never ever admit about Ibadan and oyo state in general. Even in Lagos, Ndi Igbo outnumber the yoruba 3 to 1, yet they will tell you otherwise.

When your people kill Yorubas with fake drugs and beverages.It is estimated Igbos kill 500,000 Yoruba indigenes every year from fake drugs and beverage consumption.
The solution is for Yorubas to stop patronising Igbo shops across Yorubaland entirely.We must start that campaign now.

You guys will pay for your sins one day and experience ikwerre and Hausa/fulani treatment across Yorubaland.

https://www.facebook.com/100048690579243/posts/299385995027751/?d=n

Ok

Billionaire looking like houseboy

newbornmacho:
Source?

https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/breaking-cbn-stops-forex-sales-to-bureau-de-change-operators/%3famp

AJSfan:
When will they apologies to Christians?

Jesus is a prophet in Islam.

Kingrefreshed:
Why will Tinubu jail his Son. This is unacceptable!!!!

He is Obi Cubana’s son.Wetin concern Yoruba with Nyanmrin drug hustle.

Ibkhaleel:
This man called for war, wanted to divide the country, and caused great harm to Fulani people nationwide.

Many Fulani had to leave their homes in the SW and resettle in safer climes all because of this man, now he is begging for leniency? For all he has made the Fulani to suffer, he needs to be brought to justice.

His house was raided based on intelligent report and was found to have stockpile arms and armunitions.

Where did he get them from?
How many security personnel did he killed before getting them?

Where did fulani killer herdsmen get their AK47 from?How many did Buhari and inmigration arrest? It is not a must fulanis live in Yorubaland.You can send the Yorubas in the North back to Yorubaland.

How can fulanis kill,kidnap,maim and rape our women in their homes or farms and expect us not to talk like the hausas? If fulanis do anyhow, we will teach them a lesson our forefathers taught your ancestral land grabbers.
There are many igbohos waiting to take the mantle of leadership.
The fate of Fula in CAR might befall fulanis in Nigeria,if you guys dont fear Allah and retrace your steps.Allah is not with the oppressor but the oppressed.

Jchi9876:
Make then give am rat poison make e peme naija needs depopulation

You can take the rat poison too,you will doing The world a great favour for getting rid of a sadist like you.

TheGidRedpiller:
Let me use this medium to first of all give respect to the MEN who submit their lives to put their respective countries in front

Now, on our part as male civilians and redpillers alike, i feel we are betraying these millitary men by not warning them about getting involved at all with women!

The funny part of all these is that women actually know what they are doing, these biittches actually think ahead! As a millitary man who can just be called to duty at anytime, his life is 50-50. What these evil gender do is to make do with whatever time they get in the absense of their millitary spouce, invite another guy into her husband's house, commit adultery on the matrimonial bed for as long as it can take and then when the millitary man finally dies, she takes everything he left behind and either continue from where she stopped or just look for the next best thing!!

No man deserves this treatment, it gets worse when its a millitary man.
No Biittch Deserves The Ring! Go MGTOW!!!

Still Typing

Nonsense military men are highly promiscuous too,they sleep with any women at the new destination.You can advise your mgtow to go homo stupid writeup..

ChiefSosa:
A great degree of sanity will be felt in Nigeria, if we can just get rid of the North.

Sanity will be restoref if we get rid of some parts of the North and the East.The rest can work in harmony.

Dtruthspeaker:
The womb man aka woman is the trusted tool of Satan.

They are married to him and they are his daughters. Do you not see how great there evil and wickedness is and can be?

This is very wrong.All mammals in the animal kingdom have sex and it has nothing to do with devil.

Men must face reality that nature made women attractive to them and they must have self control,if they are truly the stronger sex.

Most crimes are committed by men than women folks.Narcisicism and Borderline personality disorder is common in men than women.

Sex is the same as eating food.Both are needed for the surilvival of all living things.It has nothing to do with the devil.
How come monkeys having sex is not devlish?

Asiwaju the next President of the federation of Nigeria.

LamidiCownu:
Empty rant..
Whatever spurious stake you think you have mean nothing . A stranger new to nairaland would think the loser owns more than a 2 × 2 shanty where he hawks his okrika
You'd never be welcomed in Lagos and would never be considered one of us.
You can deceive yourself all you want.

Imagine a clown from an inconsequential tribe with no political and economic value in Lagos talking about stakes.

Stakes that an Olu from Ede or Ade from Saki can take away from you with a stroke of the pen.

If the polluted hell hole you crawled out from is conducive, you wouldn't be slaving in Yorubaland.

See a slave feeling funky for paying his dues to the ultimate land lord of Lagos.

Who's a bigger land lord in Lagos than the man you losers love to hate

Have your useless parents paid their rent to him for the month

I'm sure before I press the submit button , hundreds of your hungry and brain dead kith and kins are struggling to enter a night bus to come pay their rents in Lagos too

Lastly, in Osun they live longer and healthier because they drink good water and eat from a good soil while you on the other hand drink polluted water which is one of the reasons why your brain isn't working fine.

We shall continue pillaging that oyel like the rest of Nigerians while we leave you losers to battle cancers , parkinson's , dementia and other sickness from consumption of toxic chemicals from your grossly polluted water and land .

Good for nothing unsophisticated creek crab !!

My brother the oil yoruba uses is from our kith and kin in Itshekiri in Delta,Ondo and Lagos.We owe no one an apology for using oil in Nigeria.

Priceless007:
Hello Nairalanders,

It's a long story, but I'll try to keep it short and to the vital points. Please endure the length.

There's a girl i met at a theological college in where I was studying to become a clergyman and also learning a skill under the civil engineering department of the college. She was my junior in the course, as I was a year away from graduating from my first course, while she was just a fresher. She was always having issues getting through her courses and projects and would always ask for my assistance since I was the course rep in that department. It was forbidden to have any intimate relationship with your course mate or anyone in the college for that matter, the penalty would be expulsion. But unfortunately for me, out of sheer lust and seduction on her part, and gross indiscipline and lack of self control on my part, I got intimate with her and we ended up committing fornication during one of our semester vacations. And it just happened once, of which out of deep regret and remorse I confessed the matter to the college Admin when the next semester resumed. We were panelled, after which I was suspended, while she was expelled.

During this time I was learning a skill sponsored by the college, of which I use to get paid some weekly stipend. After I was suspended I was also stopped from continuing my apprenticeship, because I was not to associate with any of the students or lecturers in the school while my suspension lasted. So I was without a job and without a source of income since I wasn't yet mastered on the skill. The condition that was given to me to resume my studies and apprenticeship was that I should go and get married before I could come back to college, so as not to be tempted to repeat my error. But I wasn't ready for marriage whether financially or any other wise for that matter. So while I was contemplating my next move, this girl came to me that she was pregnant, that she needed us to go and see her parents. I told her I had no money neither was I ready to father a child at this point in my life. I pleaded she should give me time to think about what next to do. Two weeks passed, and I called her to enquire about her welfare but her number wasn't reachable, I decided to go to her place, but I was told she had travelled a week ago to go see her family. A week later, I received a call from a woman telling me she was the girl's mother, that her daughter came home with a pregnancy, and she asked me if I was responsible for the pregnancy, I answered her in the affirmative. She then asked when I was coming to see her family. I told her I wasn't sure about coming to see them that I needed to speak to the girl first. She said okay, then later that day the girl called me, and I told her to come back for us to talk deliberate on the way forward. When she came she told me her parents (who are by the way divorced) will not accept her nor the pregnancy without me coming to see them for marriage arrangements.

I explained to her I wasn't ready for any such thing, that I have a calling to answer and a course to finish, that what happened between us was just a stupid and careless mistake that has been as a setback for me to achieve my goal, and that I was ready to overcome the trials and get back on track, and I explained to her that before then I had neither dated nor been intimate with anyone for over seven years, and so any kind of relationship or marriage was not even in my nearest future plans, and besides, I didn't even have a job, not to mention having enough money to embark on a marriage plan. She said she would never accept such excuse, that I should look for whatever means to make sure I come see her parents before her pregnancy becomes obvious. She also said that she needed money to move her belongings back to Imo state where her family resides. I agreed to raise some money for her. I went to do some menial jobs and raised some money, about ₦20k, which I gave to her and she traveled back to Owerri. From then on her parents kept calling and pressuring me to come and see them for marriage arrangements. I told them I was going to come, but just to introduce myself to them as the person responsible for their daughter's pregnancy not for any marriage arrangements. But they disagreed, that if I wasn't ready to come for marriage that I shouldn't bother coming. I pleaded with them to give me enough time to look for money to come and see them, but they instead started threatening me with court cases and arrests, at one time they brought the girl and some soldiers to my family house and harassed my family members including my mother.

So I later traveled to Benin city to go look for money. After one week of my arrival in Benin, I lost my phone and I couldn't retrieve my number. I lost connection with them until I got back to Uyo where I got her phone number from a friend of hers. At this time, I was told that they came to my house several times with police officers claiming I raped their daughter and impregnated her then absconded. At this, I established contact with the girl again and she told me that I should not bother her that she wasn't in the mood to talk to me, I kept calling her but she often ended up abusing me or we often times ended up in quarrels, so I left her alone for sometime.

Two weeks ago I related the matter to one of my distant uncles, who advised me to gather some money and go see her, I called her and told her I wanted to come and see her before she puts to bed, which is expected to be sometime next month (August). But she told me that she still stands by what her parents had said, if it's not for the marriage issue that I should not come, that I should rather send her the money I would use in coming so she can use it to buy the baby clothing and buy some hospital requirements before she puts to bed. I called her parents and they told me the same thing, and said if I don't come for the marriage agreement before she puts to bed, that after she's delivered of the baby I should forget ever coming, and should never mention that I have a child anywhere not to mention coming to claim it ever in the future. And that I should just forget about her and the child.

The issue now is this, I am a bit frustrated because I seem to have lost everything at the moment because of this issue; my calling, the skill I was learning is gone, I have no job aside the menial jobs I do at construction sites which isn't available regularly. Now the little I have saved so far, I am contemplating on whether to use the money to pay for my skills training and continue with it and start my life afresh and forget about her, the child, and her parents, or use the money to support her in her hospital requirements for her delivery. Because I don't want to be seen as abandoning her when she is in this condition, and I also don't want to give up on the child, though I'm not capable of taking care of the girl and the baby right now, and probably, I might end up getting married but not under my present circumstances. I know I've made a grave mistake and this is the consequences for not being true to myself and my calling, and I deeply regret it, and I've suffered for it in any way I can possibly imagine, but I also need to put my life back in order, because right now I'm so devastated that I'm contemplating terrible alternatives to survive the storm, I'm at a very critical moment of my life and I just feel like giving up on life altogether. Please I need your help and advice on this issue. Thanks.

PS. Please if anyone is willing to teach me any skill, I would be very grateful and willing to learn.

Try to learn any skill you want on youtube.

Princeton92:
When will they retire??

They can retire in your house.

Ikinternational:
I hear river niger flies over the SE

It's amazing how many nairalanders have never stepped foot in ss/se yet full of opinions n advice

We are talking about seas and oceans not river ogbeni.