online master:

My guy u should imagine dat oooooo.....gals are now growing wings,anytn can hpn at any tym,,,,imagine am tll us ur mind

Yikes! I'm not a guy! Anyways will get back to u on dat one, still cannot imagine d girl that wud do such

Sorry, I can't imagine... The scenario is very unreal to even imagine it; that someone's girlfriend would slap his mum, not even his wife, even if its the wife, wot an abomination.

peelovee: I dont know what to do with this pregnacy.....
My fears: Its ten weeks and I dont know if it will be safe for termination
What about my life
What about My future


As for the marriage I have decided to let go..

advise pls

OP, I really feel for you, this is surely a dilemma no one wishes to be in. If you had known d first time round, u wud not have given him a second chance to ruin u like this, u wud have just counted ur loss that time and I'm sure by now, u wud have been healed of any heartbreak u felt then. Well dear, we know its too late for what ifs, so lets tackle the problem we have at hand.

Based on my personal opinion, I won't advice you to go into marriage with that fella, except u choose to sha for the sake of ur unborn child, but for ur sake u may be entering a life of continuous heartbreak/lies in the hands of this man and his mother. Whatever u choose to do, pls have that baby. If that baby was to speak to u from ur womb, I'm sure it wud plead mercilessly for its life like every human wud if their life is being snatched from them, and wish to be given the chance to live through life (school, work, raise its own family etc). I'm sure this child wud b grateful to u for sparing it. Nevertheless, I'm sure u have family to support u but if for any reason u cannot or do want the child, there's always the option of adoption, u can even arrange for the right family to adopt your child or better still in a way that u could always come back for the child when u r ready. Good luck dear.


P:S- Why did the fella say u can't separate him from his mother? I'm just curious cuz it's too serious for just a random statement

My gal is looking gud as always!

Ok, I thot u said in ur 1st post dat u made up ur mind to leave dem when u went to fetch d bills from the car but ur now saying dat u had no intentions of paying and u had it in mind to leave dem while dey were racking ur bills high! I don't gerrit!

Whatever d case maybe, I think u shud just leave it as it is. D girls have learnt a big lesson of a lifetime. Except u want to keep ur friendship wit d gal, den u can contact her n make amends. Its totally up to u if u wanna b friends n spend dat amount of money on dat kinda chiq, who used d pretense of love to get to u, hoping to suck u dry wit her friends. And it was rily rude of dem to take ur presence for granted by booking other men in front of u. Moreover u ve a fiancée so keep to urself.

But in d first place u shud ve taken dat calibre of chiqs to d razz-iest joint in ur town, dat wud ve smack dem in d face still but u've mind sha. One way or d other some1 wud ve bcom a mugu dat day, and it wasn't u.

So far it's beautiful and classy... And so far it won't rust or fade as time goes by, I don't mind if its cheap! I'll rock it! I'm not worried tho, my guy has taste

Nice 1... Thanks

deavicky: name sophia
age 96
tribe sokoto
location Niger

Hahahah, ur funny. Hawt chick by d way, lucky man

swaggie!!!:
Haven't u heard the saying, "there's no account for taste" ? This means that some people just like some things for no reason while others don't. The fact dat u dnt like something doesn't mean others shouldn't. Get used to it!

Spot on.... U took d words outta my mouth

Eze Promoe: [b]It is this inferiority complex that is killing Africans especially Nigerians that you see comments like this. So the worst thing even a jobless man will do is to sit and watch Home Videos eh? SMH.

Many African countries are appreciating the handwork of Nigerian film producers, they watch Nigerian movies and dream to star in a Nigerian movie but you guys will just stay here saying rubbish.
That lady that sits all day watching home video, is she more jobless than you who have make NL your office?

You guys should learn from the Chinese how to appreciate what they've got, that is why despite Chinese been spoken only in one country but has only world recognition. Hausa speakers are 3 times bigger in number than the Swiss speakers but Swiss language is more recognised than it. Its that same inferiority complex that is killing Africans.

How would you expect Nollywood that is barely 20years to become like Hollywood that took 420years+ to be where it is now or Bollywood that is 110years?

Some people might be talking because they watched Nollywood last in 1999, but I tell you, there are many wonderful Nollywood movies, try visiting a cinema and stop patronizing Alaba marketers.

I'm a fan of Nollywood movies and yes I'm proud to be one. I don't care what any of you say here.
THANKS! [/b]

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Olu-Emma & Ass.:
Not different from losing data on your phone and laptop.

I knw, but dis is slightly diff, if he came with d intent of just flashing.... Let me just assume it was a costly mistake then...

Wow, can a mother really do this to her own child No matter d level of poverty com'on! Even some animals wont do this! God will favour dis child, amen oh..

gosh, wrong on all levels... Is dis pure wickedness or wot? lol

awww cutie

Another newbie here..... Pls were are the refreshments and welcome pack?