newold:
I decided to create a new account to make these post.

To make the long story short.

I never realised what i was getting myself into until i started googling and then discovered what i had gotten myself into. This has rendered me hopeless, almost useless, and broke.

Since 2020 until now, i have only laboured in vain. i became unable to take proper care and provide for my family not because i don't get paid from work (i do have a work which i do) though the pay does not come every time. Greed, wanting more i would say has lead me to these part that is about to break and destroy me completely.

I have a very loving and hardworking wife, who has saved me countless number of times. i have broken her hearts by these singular addiction. i have tried several ways to stop. but once money gets into my hand the first thing that comes to my mind is to feed my addiction.

Most times i cry alone in the house and wished i could turn back the hand of time. I have felt depressed, lost weights, and my confidence, and the suicidal thoughts as deep down i know i should be better, i should do better for my wife and child.

i lost everything to these monster, my car, my peace, my respects, even some friends.

since 2020 now, i have no savings, infact i empty my account in less than 24 hours because of my greed.

on several occasions i have used the money meant for purchasing another car since after i sold the other one. i spent the money to feed these my monster.

even when i WIN i lose it all back. just 3 months ago. i had lost almost #2m. these happen within 2 days.

I am slowly dyeing inside. when i look at my child and my wife and what my actions have put them through. and for the fact that i keep going back. i then feel there might be something else wrong with me.


I have followed some forums for help but i keep going back. please and please if you know how or what to say to me that will help my situation please do.


PLEASE FOR ANYONE WHO WILL BE READING THESE.

ALWAYS SAY NO TO GAMBLING.

IF YOU HAVE NEVER GAMBLED BEFORE. BPLEASE IS BETTER YOU DON'T TRY SO AS NOT TO EXPERIENCE WHAT MILLIONS ALL OVER THE WORLD ARE GOING THROUGH, INCLUDING ME

Sorry for all your losses, happy to know you have realised your vulnerabilities. However, if you have the determination to stop, you will....no sermon or advice will make you stop, but your own decision.
For a start, can your wife keep ur finance? If yes, once you get paid....send all your funds to her after deducting what will sustain you till ur nxt pay and see how you will improve with peace of heart and a loving home. This should be your first step of not spending ur money....above all pray to God for assistance.

Cheers!

Unyimekelvin:
I'm totally down,i mean emotional damaged by All this acts of mine.

I started masturbation at 16, now it is up to 6 years i could not stop it ..also betting .. I'm a strong addict on this..... especially virtual game this shit has eaten me deeply, plus masturbation i can't understand anything in life again...i tried stopping it but I couldn't...

Note i does this gambling online... this how its always goes, when I fund My bet wallet,i will start playing virtual games( in the space of 6 years i have Lost up to 5million naira) ND if I don't winn ;i will divert to porn from porn to masturbation...

I got My dick injured through masturbating some one should help out please... just drop your advice biko...

I don't even know how to write this, cos I'm crying now

Hey, pray to God to heal you, take your mind and heart off all what you have lost and set a new path for yourself......trust me, you will be marvelled at your level of progress.
Remember trust God and be determine to get yourself out. Cheers and God bless!

Eberex:


Your head dey there. But you missed one person, Madonna

Yeah.....dont cry for me Argentina....

09093081928

itsnazum:
WhatsApp group dey but let's stick to n.land

Would love to be part of it. Thanks

Nice!!! But y not also create a whatsapp group too.

I myt find my wife here, so I am tempted to comment. Would appreciate any Edo lady, fair in complexion, age BTW 24-27yrs, Abuja/Kaduna based. Serious minded n ready for marriage ( whatsapp 09093081928) Cheers!!!

I myt find my wife here, so I am tempted to comment. Would appreciate any Edo lady, fair in complexion, age BTW 24-27yrs, Abuja/Kaduna based. Serious minded n ready for marriage ( whatsapp 09093081928) Cheers!!!

I myt find my wife here, so I am tempted to comment. Would appreciate any Edo lady, fair in complexion, age BTW 24-27yrs, Abuja/Kaduna based. Serious minded n ready for marriage ( whatsapp 09093081928) Cheers!!!

Hello beautiful peeps, I need a wifey..... Thought I myt be connected here.

yasmina85:
My BF and I have been together fo years (6+). We both have good jobs, we're both well in our 30s, I think we love each other (I sure do) and we get along fine.

3 years ago, he wanted me to move in but I said no, not before marriage.
Since then, it's been the status quo. We spend time together either at his place or mine.
When I bring up going to my father he deflects with something like "don't worry, it's coming"; "I'll go when I'm ready, be patient"...

Last year, I got mad and sort of gave him an ultimatum.He said he would but was still draging his feet.
I became bitter, he felt over pressured and we started fighting and arguing for everything.
We eventually broke up and spent almost a year appart. He came back 6 months ago and things are like when we first met

The problem is, I feel like for him, it's a whole new relationship and we have to let it mature like any new RS.
For me, we just took up where we left so we've been dating long enough. He either commit or leave me alone.

I don't want to lose him but I can't do this anymore. I really don't know why he can't bring himself to at least do the door knocking.

Please what can I do ??

Funny world I swear, and here I am wanting to know my boo's parents......she no gree. I wish I could control love n emotions......

Alexkene:
Minister of Defence is higher than CDS and not the other way round. Stop confusing people.

If U read well, you will understand that I was in agreement to CDS is greater. Seems you read upside down.....sorry bro. Did you even read what I said ***on point*** to? The comparison was btw CDS and COAS

Alexkene:
Minister of Defence is higher than CDS and not the other way round. Stop confusing people.

If U read well, you will understand that I was in agreement to CDS is greater. Seems you read upside down.....sorry bro. Did you even read what I said ***on point*** to?

win2kwire:


The COAS is ONLY one of the main deal in the chain of command, the loyalty of all divisions of the Army is to the people of Nigeria THROUGH the COAS, CDS, defence minister and President.


The COAS can issue APPROVED ORDERS to move troops & rotate Brigade and battalion commanders as at when he feels necessary (but must memo defence ministry), GOC appointments is at higher level but the COAS announces it when approved!

The CDS is NOT a ceremonial head to coordinate joint ops within the DHQ, the CDS is the principal commander for administration, morale, discipline and budget for the ARMED FORCES!!!

The COAS is NOT more critical than the CDS, the commander of the ARMED FORCES (aka CDS) is more HOLLISTIC in considering the combined forces strategy and operational abilities. The COAS is a commander of AN ARM of the defence forces, he does not have oversight of all Forces (army, Navy, air force - the CDS does)

COAS does not command troops, he issues orders to direct reporting units (GOC, Brigade, Battalion) ONCE appoved by the president and Defence HQ which the CDS is part of)

Hierachy =
Highest - President
2nd DHQ - (CDS, Defence minister, minister of state)
3rd - COAS, CNS, CAS

On point!!

TonyeBarcanista:
Administratively, the CDS oversee the activities of the COAS, CAS and CNS. But operationally, the CDS is "just there" while the COAS controls the ground troops and the entire Army.

However, CDS only take charge during "joint" operations, which is rare.
Also, though the CDS has Administrative supervision over the COAS, he CANNOT tell the COAS what to do at any given time. Only the C-in-C enjoy such power. All Service Chiefs brief the C-in-C irrespective of their title.

The COAS by virtue of the control he has, is more powerful and influential within the army than the CDS. The COAS is more dangerous too.

Hence, a C-in-C could make anybody CDS but the COAS is usually a TRUSTED general.

@OP The COAS na him be d koko

Good but do not forget that the CDS is also a FULL general. Therefore the COAS who is a lieutenant general must obey his orders

pyyxxaro:
The person above me must be a member of the Indomie Community


Good evening I'm Frank Olise

I am Frank Olize, do you know where your children are***** thats alwaz his intro

schendy:
Interesting thread.

How do I start.... going on 29 (look 24 though), in my opinion, marriage sometimes seems overrated, be that as it may, I would definitely love to be married and stay married, but the guys of these days ehn..... I reserve my comments ... Anyway I still believe there are Amazing, Honest, Hardworking, intelligent, matured, goal and family oriented guys out there I just feel they are few and far in between.

I would love to make friends, male and female not withstanding.

Hw abt women of nawadays? Truth is me self am scared, i don't even know who genuinely loves me. I pray God guides n direct me.

the guy in question tried to steal his wrist watch.

dhabeautyjas:

I observe when u update the android camera, video call will be disabled. Just restore d update of the cam and you are good to go

thanks but pls he can I go about it pls.

pls help!!! can't find the video call options for my infinix 16gb +1gb. seems it does not HV pls assist on hw I can do video calls with mine and also select music as my ring tone. thanks

And dat's Kachie......FUTO Mech Engr. congrats bro.....

both options are awesome and achievable.,..... differ the admission for a year n work period!!!

so so disheartening to read this, checked her name on Facebook n was so shocked to see her pretty daughters n cute son she has embarrassed by her actions. not all that glisters is gold after all ......

funny days....remember how I Will melt candle behind the cork, so that my defenders will be strong.....thanks op

Damminglola:
I counted 33 squares ooooooo. Did anyone count the same?

Very correct.....

thirty three.......33.......its 16 (small sqrs) + 10 (8smaller sqrs and the 2 small sqr housing dem)+ 1(biggest sqr)+ 4 (1/4 sqr of the biggest sqr) + 2 (center sqrs)

for sure he will be found....Very certain as far as God liveth.

Well I doubt if Buhari would want to contest come 2019. However, will be rooting for Kwankwaso should he contest. #MyDreamNigeriaIsHere

haliee:
Olumirin waterfall is located at Erin Ijesha in Osun state.It is indeed a sight to behold and makes one appreciate the beauty and serenity nature offers. It was my first time visiting. Every moment I spent there was worth it.

I hardly comment here, but Ur beauty won't allow me this tym. so so lovely Cheers!!!

kilokeys:

haaaa.. nobody knows i am here i.. shhhhh.... which emma sef?.. no pinshure?

lol.......wen I see ur pic I just laid. Emma Yaba make I Holla ur no.

kilokeys:
girls love a clean shaven face anytime anyday

Kilo..,..!!!! so u are naira landed too? Lil Na Emmanuel. cheers!