I wonder why a thread would advise a man to be 30 years and a lady 25 before getting married.

As for me, a man can get married as early as 24/25 provided you are emotionally intelligent and capable of feeding your wife and intending family.

BTW, I'm not up to 30 or even 28

gonkin:
I just turned 30 on the 20th December
I am average cute.
Genotype & blood group AA & A+
6ft 1in, 71kg
Not too light in complexion
Delta state origin
Urhobo tribe
2 brothers and a sister


Hyper talented cuz i can work and fix anything
I studied elect/elect in petroleum training institute and graduated with 3.08 (lucky me)
I am really good in computers, i can fix any Japanese car both via diagnostics and via spanner. I used to be a lines man and power station operator as intern.
I speak good, cool tempered all the time and love the spund of a revving engine.

Ok time for the real deal. I have been unlucky with relationships. My 1st serious relationship was with someone older than me with almost 6 yrs. It was one of my best we dated for almost 2 yrs but alone the line she backed off cuz i was a lil premature at 23. Felt bad but i understood.
My 2nd was with a nice dark perfect girl. We dated for 4yrs she tried alot was so responsible till her 2nd year in the university. She became a high class public toilet. Was trying to cope but she's tasted wealth and even denied me in the presence of another guy. Had to call it a quit. At 27

The 3rd was an orphan. Practically sponsored her to school but she wanted more and i was still yet to get a job. So along the line she got discouraged and told me i wasn't moving as she expected and left. Dated for a year plus.
So since then i felt cold that my only flaw was not been financially stable. And I'm sick of breakups.
Currently im in construction under an a power station proton energy limted. Although the salary is shared with my uncle that fetched me the job. Passed an interview with another power company and been expecting to resume since September.
I live in delta but im currently celebrating with my parents in lagos. And im really looking for a serious relationship that would evolve to marriage.
Although my choices are.

She should be educated not necessarily a graduate
English speaking is compulsory
Should be determined to be successful
Not the type to relies on her guy for every financial need *VERY IMPORTANT*
Maximum age 32
Be very responsible with little or no pride.

Check my signature.
This is 2018 so if im OK for u Dial me 07035107426

Toks2008:
Do you know that once you are a guy above 30 and you are still very single without a fiancee or you are a lady above 25 and still not engaged then there is a higher probability that you may remain that way for another couple of years?

I know you may not agree to this but the truth is that the higher you get in age from that point on the more careful you want to be and that is where the real problem sets in...."TRYING TO BE CAREFUL"

The honest truth is that at this stage,you need to free your mind and think less of making any mistake and in fact you need to rid your mind of any panic and be yourself....in other words,don't search because those who search usually make mistakes but those who just live their lives usually find that special person when and where they least expect.

So if you are a guy above 30 or a lady above 25 and single,let's discuss about business,romance and life in general.

Though this is not a dating or meet up thread but you are very free to make friends with anyone...

Remember that it is very difficult to come across this set of single guys and ladies out there as they are usually very busy,focused and mostly indoor so let's make good use of this platform to interact.

I know this is a faceless forum and i know some people below this age group will try to derail the thread but i will appreciate if such group will maintain a status quo and allow only single guys of 30 yrs and above as well as single ladies of 25yrs and above.

*Mods please note that this is not a dating or meet up thread hence should not be moved to dating and meet up zone.

Thanks

UltraLeslie1:
Africans prioritise religion, marriage and traditions above personal development, science and technology, education and entrepreneurship that's why we're at the back of the queue globally.

Being single or married is just a small dot in the ocean of life.

Neroski:
@HealthOfficer07, you are currently being taken for granted. May I also add that you are also being disrespected under your nose. You are still dating and this is happening, what will now be happening when you get married? This life Sha.

HealthOfficer07:
I don't want to create a thread, just to share a burden with one or two people here, here is the story!

My girlfriend has a male bestie!
Always chatting and calling her!
She said he's her colleague at work
Though from another branch,
She said he has a girlfriend
Yet he won't just leave her alone
And I think my girlfriend is enjoying all of it,
I checked their chat,
She told him that she's hořny
And asked how he can help
Can you imagine?
I'm sure there are lots of talks underneath
Maybe she deleted them!
I tried to chat the guy off with a text,
While she was sleeping by my side!
In their next chat,
The guy said he's mad at the text I sent
My girlfriend replied she's madder
Because of what I did,
I was very angry,
Because they are even on same side,
Unmhmnn!
Is this not one chance?
Even though she claimed to love me
She claimed to be a virgin and no sex thing till marriage!
I told her this guy will destroy our relationship,
She said he won't that he's just a friend,
Unmhmnn, I'm a very emotional person,
And quiet truthful too,
I'm plain to her, neither am I doing unnecessary
Chats with any other girl.
That saga shattered me, I only braced up as a man
And took it calmly till she left!
Why can't we just be truthful and plain to ourselves in relationships?
Why must we be doing hide and seek?
Is it that difficult to find a truthful person to date?
What is Love turning to these days?

Funky123:
I guess there is something she is getting from you that is bringing her back to beg you....the earlier you know you aren't dating a virgin the better bro,she is up to something with that guy....Dont you think she might be emotionally attached to that guy and yes they might not date but they won't stop making love to each other even when both of them are married....Have seen cases like this so look before you leap Bro.

HealthOfficer07:
I don't want to create a thread, just to share a burden with one or two people here, here is the story!

My girlfriend has a male bestie!
Always chatting and calling her!
She said he's her colleague at work
Though from another branch,
She said he has a girlfriend
Yet he won't just leave her alone
And I think my girlfriend is enjoying all of it,
I checked their chat,
She told him that she's hořny
And asked how he can help
Can you imagine?
I'm sure there are lots of talks underneath
Maybe she deleted them!
I tried to chat the guy off with a text,
While she was sleeping by my side!
In their next chat,
The guy said he's mad at the text I sent
My girlfriend replied she's madder
Because of what I did,
I was very angry,
Because they are even on same side,
Unmhmnn!
Is this not one chance?
Even though she claimed to love me
She claimed to be a virgin and no sex thing till marriage!
I told her this guy will destroy our relationship,
She said he won't that he's just a friend,
Unmhmnn, I'm a very emotional person,
And quiet truthful too,
I'm plain to her, neither am I doing unnecessary
Chats with any other girl.
That saga shattered me, I only braced up as a man
And took it calmly till she left!
Why can't we just be truthful and plain to ourselves in relationships?
Why must we be doing hide and seek?
Is it that difficult to find a truthful person to date?
What is Love turning to these days?

lalanice:
she has no respect for you or your relationship, if she had not already left I would say you leave her. I had a coleague who also wants to start such shit with me, and right now became my enemy at work because I warned him I'm not the type to tolerate such.

Why will 2 people in different relationships be talking about being hor'ny and how to help yet you have a partner that'd be glad to talk with you?

Toks2008:
Happy New month friends...

We all shall see December 2018 in Jesus Name...AMEN!


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Sparkles003:

Amen. December is next month pop. I still single.
God dey on my case.

Sparkles003:

Amen. December is next month pop. I still single.
God dey on my case.

Lucasinho:


Amen. How are you?

I wonder why a thread would advise a man to be 30 years and a lady 25 before getting married.

As for me, a man can get married as early as 24/25 provided you are emotionally intelligent and capable of feeding your wife and intending family.

BTW, I'm not up to 30 or even 28

Sparkles003:

I'm fine and well. Hope you are too

Sparkles003:

Amen. December is next month pop. I still single.
God dey on my case.

Sparkles003:

Amen. December is next month pop. I still single.
God dey on my case.

TomatoBiscuit:
I can relate. Maybe we just may find who we're looking for in the 41 days remaining in 2018. Wishful thinking.

Toks2008:


It is well bro. Just try more and lower your expectation a bit