ab1x:
Move closer to God. Always pray before you sleep. That is the only potent charm I know of.

LadyTianna:

Simple solution: Start calling guys in his presence. Tell them to feel free to call you too. Talk for long periods of time with them. Make sure you smile, laugh and joke while on these calls. Your man's brain will reset
If he complains, tell him they're just your friends and you didn't quarrel with them

veave:
Errrrrr. You go need patience oooo.

One thing you should know is that your brother is now married and is firstly responsible to his wife and kids before any other person so him allowing three extended family to stay in this hard times is an act of kindness and bravery please don't add more stress to his life by bickering with your in-laws. We women are troublesome by nature then when we see someone who has our time we extend the trouble. The truth is
1. There is no way the room would have been left for you while there are women in the house (they need privacy).
2. Why will you say that you will go to the village? Don't you know you give your brother some kind of security in the midst of his wife and her obviously troublesome sisters by staying with him? Has he asked you to leave yet?
3. You where wrong to slap the young woman, no matter what the grieviance is you don't touch a woman.
4. They where wrong to throw your mattress out but please forgive them and move on. Thank God your brother made provisions for a replacement.
5. Take this place as a training ground for your future, if it's anything you should be bothered about now, is to be more determined about gaining independence and making it in life.
6. Leave rofo rofo fight for women, in fact ignore them totally for your national peace.
7. Hustle!!! Hustle!!! Hustle oooooo!!!!

Hugs.

frozen70:



Thanks for the acknowledgement

frozen70:


It's not a curse or whatever negative

You are gifted but you are yet to know how to identify it or use it well

But my advice is that, your tongue is powerful and at the same time is dangerous

Best option in the interim is to control what ever that will trigger your emotional being

Stay away from people who hurts you if you can

Always prophecies positively no matter the hurt or better still just don't react if you can

Go closer to God and he will perfectly give you the ability to prophecy into people's life and you will make your fortune from it

Don't always allow people around you know that you have mystic power that can bring one's down fall, they may dread you and you will be left alone

Remember, use it positively

Alwaysachick:


If i keep pacifying him and he has no control again, won't it lead to physical or public abuse one day? What If he raises his voice at me in public one day?

Alwaysachick:
Good evening ladies in the house,

I have a friend he is every good thing but overbearing. He kept that part till we started dating. I don't have issues with a man wanting to be a man but when he does it to the extent your opinions don't count again and if you do otherwise even when you are right, it gets him angry. Shouldn't it be a thing of concern?

I've been feeding his ego but I think its getting out of hand. The relationship is getting serious but my fears have started building and im beginning to ask myself if I can cope??

Please help a sister, what can I do to stop this? Married women in the house with husbands with such traits how do you cope?

Should have have learnt from my parents but my father is the exact opposite and with my observations, his dad is also overbearing his sisters at always complaining.

Enoch07:
better tell them now because Las Las they will still know, so pls take that bold step and tell them now!!!

Newbreed2018:
She thinks all men are like her toy husband.

Newbreed2018:
I ain't going no where with u evening newspaper.

Newbreed2018:
I also have to report u for creating multiple account Elesta.

Newbreed2018:
Or did u ask him to goan warm the food?
Elesta AKA Combination123

Newbreed2018:
lts good u unfollowed me. I wonder why u had to create a new moniker, first thing u did is to keep a tab on me follow me. Then insult ur father.

In as much as ur husband is my friend I wouldn't take crap from u or fail to admonish u where necessary.

U have but succeeded in shaming urself and husband online.
Kudos Elesta.

Newbreed2018:
Little one keep quiet.
Why are u following me Elesta?

Newbreed2018:
How did u know Elesta?
Guess u r same.

Newbreed2018:
Lol
Madam, seun cannot even save u.

Shebi u opened this alternate moniker to attack me

I knew it'd get to this hehehe

Now sing, My helper ooo! My helper ooo!

Seun:
Fellow Nairalanders,

The forum was totally down for about 23 minutes this afternoon. I apologize for allowing this to happen. There’s no excuse for it.

Regards,
Seun.

faithfull18:

Can you imagine So a man who is in his forties, who married late and all of a sudden remembers he wants to quickly have kids is faultless abi. Women have suffered in this world.

Newbreed2018:
The woman is looking for ways to amend with her Animal, stupid, ediot husband
Infact na she dey beg pass now cos she's living in regret.

I guess bitter truth is hard to swallow but very effective.

She must have watched the video of the woman running around streets of Lagos questioning God on why nobody Wan marry am
You see the Power of preek?

Better chic go dey form evening newspaper go wan form too?

Now what's the essence of opening this stupid thread?