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Man up and call the broad. If she rejects you so what, there are other crayfishes in the sea and you should always have backups anyway.

Face down backside up. As a show of gratitude, Just let him pound it.

Why are you so concerned about stopping your man from cheating. Are you gonna lock him up in a cage forever? The sooner you start to realize that you can't control another person's actions, the easier your life will get. Take responsibility for your own life and be the best woman you can be. If that's not enough for his ass, tell him get to stepping.

Congratulations on marrying an attention LovePeddler. Some women never grow outta that slutty phase.
Remove the pussy from your mouth and tell her point blank that you do not want her to go to that club, but she can do whatsoever she wants.
If she decides to go to the club, just ship all her property out, change your locks. Headache relieved.

Tell him to suck on your penny.

sistawoman:
Four Times a week is too much.

You should in no way determine how many times is enough for him. If he enjoys it why not?
Accroding to you, as long as there's TRUST nothing else matters.

sistawoman:
I would be totally pissed. . . esp since I have only been 4 x's this year.

Why would you be pissed? I thought you said it's all about TRUST.

Such a woman is not fit to be called WIFE.  But if you must go to night clubs, then your husband must be present.
If clubbing is still very much an important part of your life then stay single!
Intentionally exposing yourself to the temptations of adultery is a tall sign of irresponsibility, which will only lead to problems.

when the man you own accientally cheats on you too, don't complain either.

ownership does not automatically mean he's incapable of cheating, right?

Please let's discontinue this conversation. Ownership indeed

My wife won't complain when I divorce her either.

Exactly. No one owns anyone. What are we: animals? properties? slaves?

Ownership is not to be confused with commitment.

Ownership with proof

no wife owns me.

You are right. I misread. Regardless, the girl is just daydreaming. Would she be able to muster up the spine to ask his parents to ask for permission before seeking errands from their son?

He's married, not OWNED. And he can reasonably exercise which errands to run and which ones to reject.

It's the excitement of women's liberation movement getting into their fuckingg heads, that's what.
These retards do more than is required of them an become insanely irrational in their thought process.   It makes them look like frustrated bunch of wenches in a pissy fight against the male kingdom.  vivaladiva in particular is simply an annoying bambling brat.

If it doesn't stretch me, why should I have to receive "permission" from my wife
Is she my boss? Maybe common courtesy would suggest that I inform her, but the decision to proceed with the errand is on me; I am a responsible man and I trust in myself to use sound judgment to decide whether the errand is over-tasking or cutting into family time.

bawomolo:
how does killing an animal compare to a conscientious relationship between two ADULTS?

don't be putting out my government name out there negro

They do compare. Don't attempt to negate valid arguments simply because they do not buttress your point.

Awesome to see that women are seriously hell-bent on thumping this gender-equality bullshit.

IF I ever find out that I'm dating a feminist, I will probably make her life a living hell by making sure that all things we do are fifty-fifty . . . before dumping her.

Gender-roles is more important to me in marriage than gender-equality.  That is why I would not date a woman who prefers the latter to the former.

Topic is very telling of how men cater to women's emotions just to make them feel like dieties.

Clearly the man knows the answer in his heart (most on this thread chose their mothers), but would instead choose to lie to his wife to make sure she feels cherished and unequalled. #naijawomenhatebluntness

bawomolo:
are you comparing being a carnivore to getting married?
what would we not hear.

Are you now looking to trivialize the importance of "animal consent", which according to your earlier entry shouldn't be "overlooked"? I laugh out loud at you Mr. Awomolo.

How about some consistency?

bawomolo:
how does your dog consent to this marriage, can he sign a marriage certificate?

These sentimental arguments can easily be torn to shreds.

If "animal consent" is so important, why don't we require animals to consent to or sign a death agreement before killing them for food.

bawomolo:
don't sidestep the question, does the definition of marriage include polygamy? who gets to define marriage. heterosexuals?

It's not about who gets to define marriage. It's about what marriage is and has always been. I think I've done extremely well refuting all the points and barrage of questions you raised.

If homosexuals would like their domestic unions legalized by federal authorities, I hold no grudges against them. Let the state and federal government grant them benefits as they deem fit.

bawomolo:
they were, jim crow laws back then boldly stated marriages couldn't exist between interracial couples. i know it's hard for people to associate the gay rights movement and the civil rights movement but they both have parallel.

by the way, who defined the institution of marriage. is polygamy against the institution of marriage?

that a state ban on gay marriage is unconstitutional?

That marriage is a union between man and wife and the state/federal government extends benefits to them for reasons emanating from that definition. Clearly, interracial union does not breach that definition, does it? Once the government recognized this, the Jim Crow laws were annulled.

Now, defining marriage as a union between lovers is clearly sentimental nonsense which gay rights crusaders and their proponents like to trump.

5p1naz:
thats why u shud stick with a partner who should also hapin to be your wife and learn the withdrawal style slowpoke if you are nit good at it, some people are. . .

What kind of a buffoon are you. Ad hominems are very telling of your age and level of reasoning.
Take a deep breath and step away from the computer before you break a nail.
I guess reading comprehension is primitive to you and yours.

Thanks for posting half the story.  For what reason has the man decided to go back home?
What's with the reference to culture?  Are you insinuating that Nigerian men abandon their pregnant wives when they're due to deliver?

Enough with the "Nigerian Culture" tripe please, the man just seems insensitive to me that's all.

Help her in any way you can if you wish to and stop looking to drag this beyond its shores.

I bet you also think unwanted pregnancies and stds are also cool, nitwit.

Birthcontrol pills, cervical caps with spermicides, etc.
Keep in mind that I know these preventative measures are not 100%.

Why do some people continue to have unprotected sex?
Then when the pregnancy comes they act surprised as if they're unaware of what they have been doing.

People need to get smart.

It's a username; just like yours.

Sell it on ebay/craigslist.