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Technology Market / Re: All Offerup, Letgo, Craigslist, 5miles, Ebay, Amazon Deals.*READ FIRST PAGE* by conyema12(m): 11:00am On Jan 29, 2020
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Are they original
Phones / Re: Phone Engineers On Nairaland Willing To Assist You - Part II by conyema12(m): 10:48am On Jan 29, 2020
Good afternoon guys ... pls where is the best place to buy a used unlocked iPhone with great quality. I once bought a brand new iPhone 6 for my wife in Dubai and it doesn’t last up to 2 years while the one I bought for myself directly from apple in 2015 is still alive and kicking.
I have a feeling the UK used is more stronger. Any idea guys cos brand new iPhone from apple costs a fortune. I would like to get an iPhone 8 or 8plus
Sports / Re: Has Ndidi Outperformed Kante At Leicester City? - BBC Sport by conyema12(m): 3:04pm On Jan 28, 2020
I think there's a conspiracy issue as regards Ngolo Kantes and the position he is being played. How can He be continously played out of position. Every Tom dick and Harry know he is one of the best holding midfielder out there.
He does better shielding the defense and kickstarting a counter attack. Both Sari and Lampard doesn't want him to hit some kind of record, after all he is black...
Car Talk / Re: Maintenance Tips On Cars. by conyema12(m): 2:55pm On Jan 28, 2020
eRex:


Pardon... R15 not R16

Car came with 195/60 R15..

Look so tiny on the body not to add our terrible roads.

I changed it to 205/65 R15..
Still great handling and travelled with it on several occasion

Great
Car Talk / Re: Maintenance Tips On Cars. by conyema12(m): 7:26am On Jan 28, 2020
eRex:


Use 205/65 R16

I use same too
Fits well

Wow... Won't it affect the center of gravity. Your speedometer will also be off by some 94%. That means when you make 94km/hr you are actually making 100km/hr hehehehehehhe
Car Talk / Re: Maintenance Tips On Cars. by conyema12(m): 7:53pm On Jan 27, 2020
Allem:
I would advise you use 195/65R15. Is very OK and very common in the market.

OK... Thanks but from my calculations it will be giving overall diameter of 24.98inches which is similar to what I currently have at 195/70R14
Car Talk / Re: Maintenance Tips On Cars. by conyema12(m): 7:52pm On Jan 27, 2020
GAZZUZZ:


have you tried 195/75/14?

Not yet.. I feel it would be very difficult getting a 14 inch alloyed Rim in the market... That's why I am considering 15 or 16...
Then again I would prefer a wider tire 205 will be offering me an 8.4inches against 7.1 of 195
Car Talk / Re: Maintenance Tips On Cars. by conyema12(m): 6:38pm On Jan 27, 2020
Good evening gazuzz . Pls I acquired a Toks camry 2.2 pencil light.. It came in with a 14 Rim Tyre.. It seems too low I am wondering if I can use a 16 Rim alloyed Rim on it. I tried checking online at Tyreviews site I saw that it's possible to be used in the v6 model. That's 205/60R16..

Just wondering if anyone has the experience
Investment / Re: Treasury Bills In Nigeria by conyema12(m): 8:41pm On Jan 24, 2020
https://punchng.com/fg-borrows-n6-16tn-from-n8-499tn-pension-fund/

How true is this.. Just saw it on Twitter.. Could be the major reason TB rate has fallen drastically
Investment / Re: Treasury Bills In Nigeria by conyema12(m): 1:38pm On Jan 23, 2020
nwanneni:
Not true.
Onitsha doesn't pay much for rent but payment is consistent.
Las las they will join together in one apartment and make sure the landlord gets his bread.
Location is everything in real estate,even in the so called land banking you are talking about.
Do you know how many lands people have been looking for buyer for the past 10 years? undecided

I would rather go to Unizik in Akwa or Futo
Area in owerri and build students hostel.. Cos the annual cash streams from such projects are faster

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Family / Re: Taking Care Of My Wife's Niece : Please Advise Me!! by conyema12(m): 12:41pm On Jan 14, 2020
sassysure:

That's our men grin
I will even advice the little girl stay away from him. If he is ever ready to ship her out, then he isn't worth being a daddy.


@op, just hoping you and your wife will treat her as yours regardless pls.
She is very innocent and just lost her mum.
You and your wife can be the new parents.

MIL should be giving visiting right. She is entitled by law so u guys shouldn't deny her that.

As for the deadbeat father, karma always have a way of paying people like him back.


This one u are saying my wife, my wife, seems like its your wife that takes care of your kids 100%.
U guys simply amaze me.


How can I marry a man who thinks that taking care of his children is the wife's responsibility only?

Have u guys not seen the effects on u all?

All the angry boys and men we see here are abandoned by their dad's yet it's so funny they are repeating the same mistakes over and over again.
One thread here was an eye opener. Almost all the nairaland men has one or two bad things to say about their dad.

Look at how they have turned Nigeria into a laughing stock

Lol.. pls don’t judge me yet. Its not entirely my wife’s responsibility, my nature of job requires i stay away for a reasonable amount of time. But when i come home, i do play my role to the fullest.
Family / Re: Taking Care Of My Wife's Niece : Please Advise Me!! by conyema12(m): 5:59am On Jan 14, 2020
Winneygirl:
The child has a father.
What's his say in all these?
If it was the man who was deceased and the child was being taken away from the mum, we will all be screaming here.
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The issue of the childs care lies with the father and he should decide what is best for his child. Maybe the grandmothers approach was wrong, but the intention seems right. To care for her grandchild. This can be worked out between the father and his late wife's family.
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How to raise this child is not yours or your wife's decision to make.


Thank you for the raw wisdom...
At this point the decision lies with him.
He wants my wife to take care of her daughter for now.

But I would really love him to make peace with her mother in law for posterity sake. She lost her daughter for heaven sake. I won't want my home to be a battle ground...

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Family / Re: Taking Care Of My Wife's Niece : Please Advise Me!! by conyema12(m): 5:48am On Jan 14, 2020
blank:
So the girl's grandmother wants to care for her grandchild, understandable. Why are they trying to force her on you guys instead of someone who wants to take care of her?

Can't her dad work out some arrangement with his MIL so that he gets to visit her on occasion as he obviously doesn't want to take on her care.

It's called being a dog in a manger.


They had a soured relationship before the daughter eventually died... I don't think it can be fixed.

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Family / Re: Taking Care Of My Wife's Niece : Please Advise Me!! by conyema12(m): 5:44am On Jan 14, 2020
brodalikeme:
Guy, hurriedly take in this little girl and love her like your own, this is the most humane thing you will ever do in your life. She is just two and will feel comfortable having a mate around, Children are always a handful but God has given parents the grace for adaptability. None of these issues are her fault. In fact forget about all those police resolution or documentation you're talking about, dat one na just means to bend dey girl destiny. As per the financial support from your brother in law, i'm very sure he will be supportive, even if he doesn't, the girl's up keep can never be beyond what you and your wife can handle.

Don't let the opportunity slide, its only good people that are offered this kind of task

I just need the my brother in law to settle whatever issues he is having with his mother in law..... Because she wants to take the child away with touts during the burial ceremony...

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Family / Re: Taking Care Of My Wife's Niece : Please Advise Me!! by conyema12(m): 5:05am On Jan 14, 2020
Curiouscity:
Bro, brave up and do it as if you are doing it to God, assuming you believe that there is one.

It is not like the mom and dad are alive and healthy, yet the want you to help them. A 2 year old kid doesn't eat much. If you are too worried, your parents inlaws can provide clothing and diapers(if required).

My parents took in many cousins of mine whose parents were divorced, dead or critically ill. They were not rich,but God blessed them.


Thanks very much... That's exactly what I want to hear
Family / Re: Taking Care Of My Wife's Niece : Please Advise Me!! by conyema12(m): 5:02am On Jan 14, 2020
donstan18:
Would you have asked these questions if the little girl belongs to any of your siblings?

No! You won't.

From my observations; You truly do not want to habour that child but don't know how to face the bad talks that will come after it and possibly, the reaction of your wife.

Oga! If money is the problem to sponsor the child's education. Discuss it with your wife for her to discuss it with her brother , so that they'll know how the girl's education and welfare will be financially taken care of.

Thanks brother... I would have asked if the conditions are the same.

The conditions are that the young man lived an irresponsibile life while the wife was sick and and should learn the take responsibility.

While the second is an offshoot from the first because of the sour relationship with the mother inlaw. Just to avoid her tracing my house to cause trouble I need them to settle the matter with the police as soon as possible.

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Family / Re: Taking Care Of My Wife's Niece : Please Advise Me!! by conyema12(m): 4:55am On Jan 14, 2020
Osasnidas:
Wise decision to sign an agreement with the family, involve a lawyer too if need be.

The issue of parenting this girl should be tabled to avoid any stories, i am sure that the deceased mother's family have people too.

The part of the brother supporting the girl financially in the agreement should be bolded, very vital. grin

Since she is just 2years old, it wouldn't be much of a problem, because at this point in her life the little girl needs a mother figure, am sure your wife can provide that since she is a mother already.

Peace.


Thanks for your contribution. The issue of the agreement is purely to avoid an issue of the mother in law coming in future to claim the child.
Or create problems for my family.

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Family / Taking Care Of My Wife's Niece : Please Advise Me!! by conyema12(m): 9:48pm On Jan 13, 2020
My brother in-law who is my wife's only brother lost his wife late last year due to kidney problem. She was just 29yr old, they were married for only 3 years and blessed with a 2 years old daughter, same age with my daughter. During the burial ceremony the girls mother hired some touts and police men to cause problems and whisk the little girl away from my in-laws, claiming the boy was instrumental to her daughters death . However they couldn't succeed. It was agreed for my wife to go with the little girl pending when the matter is resolved. This just happened less than a week and the matter hasn't died out.

Now my inlaws are suggesting for the little girl to live with us and start school for now till the long vacation holiday (June).

My concerns are:

1. I am of the opinion for the matter to be fully resolved in a police station with agreement duely signed before she can settle in my house for now...

2. I am also seeing it ad a huge burden on my wife. We already have 2kids and it's a mouthful at the moment.

3. The brother will have to be financially involved


Pls I need suggestions on how to handle this so my inlaws won't see me as not being helpful.

Both my inlaws are retired and comfortable in their own house
Politics / Re: FIRS Workers Threaten Strike Over Fowler’s Handover To Abiodun Aina by conyema12(m): 1:15pm On Dec 11, 2019
itsme01:
cool



Mumu people, after Fowler did his magic as a US trained financial expert, and widen the tax bracket while delivering huge revenue which Nigeria had never experienced before.. this fools want to try their luck grin

Anyway na their turn so let them enjoy the 8 years Northern zoning, soon 2023 go reach



..
If you think the North is going to relinquish power come 2023... Think very hard

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Car Talk / Re: Maintenance Tips On Cars. by conyema12(m): 2:50pm On Nov 30, 2019
double3:

Nope...abnormal
Probably caused by a leak in your cooling system

Thanks... I will have an Ac guy take a look at it
Just that the engine compartment is so tight
Its a 2gr fe engine on Toyota rav4 2006
Investment / Re: Treasury Bills In Nigeria by conyema12(m): 1:51pm On Nov 30, 2019
The current TB rates are not a reflection of our economy. Its just an abracadabra econometrics of the CBN.

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Car Talk / Re: Maintenance Tips On Cars. by conyema12(m): 12:33pm On Nov 30, 2019
I keep refilling my AC freon every 2 months after compressor and condenser replacement. Is this normal?
Investment / Re: Treasury Bills In Nigeria by conyema12(m): 5:15am On Nov 15, 2019
DigitalMallam:


Present investment future look gloomy, remember Emefiele has been druming it to whoever cares to listen that tough days are ahead. Hasn't reached the bottom yet, so rebound not coming any time soon.
This really calls for concern. With some idle fund, tenants are already paying up, 13th month salary will soon enter, one really need to look elsewhere for opportunities. And I've had enough commitment already with digital agric, never been lucky with stock (guess not my thing). Time to plan a vacation with my family rather than succumb to paltery 9%. Then wait till all my tb matured and switch to bond, then will be using the interest for digital agric, MMF and school fees. Perhaps one can also look the way of helping some idle but enterprising youth. Had some discussion but they all want salary job.

HI bro can you throw more light on Digital Agric
Politics / Re: Buhari Can Preside From Anywhere, Says Oshiomhole by conyema12(m): 3:31am On Nov 06, 2019
Oshiomole is one of the reasons naija is where we are today... How can he make such a statement... He should know that posterity will certainly judge him
Politics / Re: Obadiah Mailafia: Tinubu Set To Be Used And Crushed By Some People by conyema12(m): 3:49pm On Aug 25, 2019
CrimeKsmart:
Abeg who knows this one?

Everybody won use Tinubu get fame grin grin.

Weather Tinubu will be used and dumbed or not, all I know is power will come back to the south come 2023 and with the game on ground now, SW is likely to have it.


Unfortunately... Atiku will contest again and th northern APC will rally behind him indirectly to make sure the power stays in the north. If you think either ibo or Yoruba will ascend that seat without support from each other think very hard

The north will continue to run things till the south get sense , cos demography is stacked in their favor

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Politics / Re: Buhari Removes Power From Fashola’s Brief by conyema12(m): 2:25pm On Aug 21, 2019
BOAR:


Tell me one single minister that performed better than him in term of generation, transmission and distribution of power, even those that swallowed $16B didn’t achieve what he achieved.

The problem with most of you guys is hate has beclouded your sense of logical reasoning and you think and act more with your assshole than with your brain

Please stop celebrating mediocrity joor... Fashola failed woefully. He had four good years and achieved nothing....
Don't let ethinic sentiment becloud your logical reasoning

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Politics / Re: Governor El-rufai Wants Zoning Stopped In Presidency by conyema12(m): 8:45am On Aug 10, 2019
Is he saying that Tinubu is no longer going to get a shot at also villa come 2023?

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Politics / Re: Ruga Ultimatum: We Will Hold Northern Governors Responsible – Ohanaeze by conyema12(m): 10:23am On Jul 05, 2019
Benekruku:
If I want to be fair and go by the recommendations of those that antagonised my humble and honourable self when I was in support of RUGA,

I will clearly state that the Ultimatum is well deserved. Many quoted me on Nairaland saying "RUGA should be done up North ONLY". Fine! And now they are also telling you to go trade in your region. Anybody that needs your product would come and buy in your region.

I think its fair with all honesty. If a Fulani or Hausa man is limited to trade in certain parts of the country, then I think other tribes should be limited to trading in there own region too.

I feel does that came for head when I was supporting RUGA can now find a better resolution to the impending doom that stares at us at present.


The English people call it "Tit for Tat"
Warri people call it "Do me, I do you"
Men call it "An eye for an eye"

If you need land for your livestock farming.. Go and acquire it financially from your host, just as the igbos up north do.. They weren't given the lands and shops free by the Govt.

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Travel / Re: Giving Birth In Canada by conyema12(m): 4:15pm On Jun 22, 2019
Hotstepper:

Call a no on from the website. someonr will.answer, just make sure it is within the time they are there...think they close 1pm but things migjt havr changed now





Thank you very much
Travel / Re: Giving Birth In Canada by conyema12(m): 6:15am On Jun 22, 2019
Hotstepper:
Correct




Please do you have a contact of their staff at the Nigeria High commission in Ottawa. We have sent our application with the relevant docs. We only need to call to help us hasten the process cos we are actually counting days.
Travel / Re: Giving Birth In Canada by conyema12(m): 11:30pm On Jun 19, 2019
Hotstepper:

There is no Visa on arrival anymore for babies. VOA is really for people is business like going to naija for biz


Thanks Hotstepper..
Wow... Meaning it's only emergency travel documents that we can use at the moment
Travel / Re: Giving Birth In Canada by conyema12(m): 10:27pm On Jun 19, 2019
Good evening all. Pls how is the visa on arrival usually processed. We logged into the Nigeria lmmigration website to apply for a visa on arrival for our new born, it turns out it’s actually a business visa. The information seems vague as they are demanding for introduction letter, addresses of local and foreign companies etc.
am wondering if am in the right portal.

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