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omonuan:
Hello Folks:

Some online outlets are beginning to name the alleged animals that violated the young woman at Abia State University whose violation sparked worldwide outrage! Lets hope these are the culprits!

GANG OF 5 RAPISTS – ABIA STATE UNIVERSITY (ABSU)  - AN UPDATE


1. Ifeanyi Ogu Justin

2. Jonah Uche (final yr or extra yr accountancy).

3. Zaki ( Duberville Lodge ABSU)


see http://babajidesalu./2011/09/21/exclusive-revealed-identities-of-3-of-the-alleged-gang-of-5-abia-state-university-absu/

i am sure these lots are innocent.
the real culprits won't be found cos they would most likely be sons/relatives of powerful cultists in abia.
nigeria is doomed!

pendo89:
I would consider 50/50 disrespectful if she looks down upon the man. I call it sharing responsibilities.cud be even be 20/80 but something!
Cool.

Blessed is your wife to be for hers is the kingdom of coogar.
amen

kingdom of coogar indeed!

mukina2:
stop being a bully kit

adegoat is no more an arsenal player, i understand he is your cousin.

but let the dgunners be

kolo toure is no longer an arsenal player. . . .
would you call toure a masquerade or a goat?

i hope you know adebayor has a sibling on this forum.

pendo89:
Oh and at that point in time you place al your hopes in the savings?
Ha in other words the wife should not even buy food and take care of other bills while you use savings to take care of kids school? cz culture forbids?
Get real!

let her save her income.
i am sure louis vuitton makes different bags every season.

Does culture care if I drink water for breakfast or buffet?

those are minor stuffs.

A woman willing to foot bills you say NO culture forbids.

let her save her money. it's not needed.
if she decides to do it, i would put the exact amount back in her handbag.

She depends on man 100% you call her gold digger

gold-digger?
show me where i have labelled any woman gold-digger.
a man must take care of his wife. if he doesn't, other men would.

She offers 50/50 you call her disrespectful

50/50 is so disrespectful.
it's like challenging him he's not man enough.

WHAT DO YOU WANT!

save your money.
only pay when he asks you to.

Weezzy:
She is down to earth, she loved me to a fault,  in many regards she is every man's idea wife material and we we have been dating for over 3years now.
we have broken up like 4 - 5 times, met her in UNI when she was still a naive fresher while I was a sophomore.
Then I graduated and moved cities for NYSC but we kept seeing each other at-least once in month, but I realize that after d last break up/make-up she was never free with me, she started feeling insecure and also warned me that a broken courtship is better than a failed marriage,

She may not be the prettiest chick I have been with (My only genuine concern over our future) but she is a wonderful person.\
She finally broke up with me last week and I'm about to move on but I honestly can't stop reminiscing the good times we had and how we planned a future we may no longer share.

I am scared of what d future holds for me, entering the dating game again after some 3 long years with a partner I never cheated on being d first and only partner I ever made love to (oops I almost forgot: I had a romp with 1 childhood crush and 1 random stranger in-btw our many break-ups ) .
I have a feeling I may not get a girl as good as the one that just left me, I could get a more prettier one, more sophisticated or maybe someone dat can blow me d way a pro blows a trumpet but I feared her love and genuine care for me will be hard to come by, I maybe wrong though.

Matured nlanders to the rescue please: should i overlook her less than satisfactory beauty or should I go on a search for an improved version (beauty queen) with a similar Operating System (who is homely & can show love and care genuinely).

you must have a very low self esteem. . . . .

there's always a better girl out there somewhere. it's when you confine yourself in the same environment that you feel like you have lost a gem.
you are still a young man. explore the world. go to many cities and you would know "the best girl you ever knew" isn't worth a dime to the other mamis you would meet out there. one door closes, another one opens.
open a new chapter. move on and completely forget your past!

pendo89:
And so if we marry and you happen to lose your job leaving me to shoulder the respon for the time being,does your jobless status make u a lesser man?
I guess culture will call you 1/4 man then

if i lose my job, there should be savings account for my soft landing!
and if i don't have any savings, i'd suspend any unnecessary expenses.

Dgunnerz:
A masquerade that dances first wiLl surely look at his other colleagues at last!#notsure,
If he runs 100m,am sure he will pity himself for wasting his little energy!

what concerns ade with masquerade!
ade has found a team that fits his style.

-----------adebayor-----------

--bale---van der vaart---lennon

-------modric--------parker--------

arsenal are in serious trouble when this team visits the emiraati.

pendo89:
@ coogar let him find you here bashing him.  

claremont won't do shyyyyyt

Which Africa now? Does 'Africa' pay your salary or meet your bills? Narrow it down to your pocket coogar.

africa doesn't pay my salary but my tradition forbids a woman paying my life bill.
hell no. the moment you agree i take you out, i foot all the bills. if you try to disrespect my by opening your purse, i shall bite your fingers.

Am even lost now.are we talking about married woman or singles? cz the issue shouldnt be a big deal in marriage.i said even if i was a married woman capable of shouldering 3/4 of our bills then whts the fuss? its investing in us.

both!
whether married or single.
men should be men!

cap28:
[b]goodluck jonathan is a complete disgrace to the african continent, [/b]he has no self respect and that is why he allows himself to be kicked around by the west, hillary clinton speaks him and other african leaders as if they are pre school children , this is the kind of behaviour gadaffi would never tolerate from the west.  the AU tried to stand their ground and stop the ongoing carnage in libya but they were dismissed, ignored and treated with utter contempt by the NATO powers.

throughout this libyan crisis nigeria has acted as pawns of the NATO powers, they voted in favour of a no fly zone - (which is an act of war) against  a fellow african nation, they then recognised a govt that continues to kill its own citizens - a raciist genocidal govt whose aim is to ethnically cleanse the blacks from libya , the nigerian govt has shown itself to be nothing more than a traitor and an errand boy for the western nations.

a fact lost on 90% of the nigerian population. . . .

jonathan goodluck is a complete swine for even putting his snouts in libya. his own country harbours die-hard terrorists fast gaining global recognition. he has not put his own house in order, nigerians don't have good roads, no regular power supply, people are homeless and yet this hat-wearing muppet is busy gallivanting the continent with his archaic ideas. if i have a choice, i'd rather be ruled by gaddafhi than that obnoxious swine jonathan goodluck. an ape of a man!

what an idiotic president we have on our hands!!!

debosky:
I jump am pass. . . .the last time we took on a United reject, we were irreparably damaged.

i am sure you weren't 17th on the table after 5 league games against 4 mediocre teams.

Let Agent Owen do the damage to Citeh and not to us.

owen has relaunched his career.
just like yakubu and adebayor.

can't wait for the north london derby @ the emirates.
ade has promised to run another 100m sprint if he scores.

OgaMadam:
the dictionary def that someone so kindly posted here

"born to unmarried parents" etc

oh dear. . . . .

https://dc347.4shared.com/img/Mytr8e7i/s7/facepalm.gif

OgaMadam:
I myself was also an "illegitimate kid" or "bastard"  whatever you wanna call it.

But i never grew up with that lable - to me, i just never let it land on my head. My father last saw me when i was 3.  

At 23 (Yes Davidylan - instinctively you will look for your bio dad - by the way i had a step dad but there was a hole there)

i looked for him myself at 23 and still to this day i was always the chaser.  

I am greatful for who i am today, my losses have somehow contributed to who i am today.  And i embrace the good and the bad.  I couldnt be more greatful.

Today i hold a masters in Accounting and Finance, i am a CA practicing in one of the biggest hotel chains ever!  how God is so good - if we just believe.  He has a purpose for you!!!!  

Peace out am out.

what criteria make a child illegitimate?

pendo89:
50/50 rule.

I love taking care of my own needs. Eat/pay bills out of my own sweat cz am not incapacitated.
To me its not about independence as such but discipline I get in handling and budgeting my own money.
I love that.

hell no, pendo.

maybe with claremont, you can dream of 50/50
but if i take you out i won't let you spend a penny.

it's disrespectful in africa for a woman to pay a man's bill.

debosky:
Why do I owe you an apology?

Even a dud from Crystal Palace (Calvin Andrew) that has been wandering from Swindon to Millwall to Brighton also scored yesterday.

Carling Cup goals don't count for anything.

shaking my head!
you ridiculed hargo's fitness video. . . . . .and then he played himself into a top 4 side.
he could have been arsenal's last piece of the jigsaw. wenger slept on a quality player again.

On other issues, I'm reading some damning commentary about Fabianski

Someone said 'Fabianski resembled a Polish Tourist visiting London for the first time, cowered by the sheer scale of what was before him'

Lukasz. . . are you Almunia in disguise?

guardian's live update?

owen hargreaves scores for man city.

debosky, you owe me an apology!

MAKABBEY:
@cooga. Did u mean those ashewo, who cares, dats reason we ave higher % of people dat get HIV in d country

ashewos have lower chances of getting infected than normal girls.

RuuDie:
God punish you ~ Pepe, Ramos, Marcelo, Khedira not suited to dirty 

Di Maria, Ronaldo not suited to simulation 

Ol' boy pack ya dirty stinking face 

beefing mourinho would only send you to an early grave.

nateevs:
Kalou and Malouda already showing why they are not featured in the first 11.

i hope fulham smashes chelsea.

debosky:
Team of youngsters? With Kalou, Alex, Cech, Luizl, Ferreira and Malouda (6/11)?

Youngsters must have acquired a new meaning at Chelski.

shattap!
as long as they are not in the senior team, they are youngsters.

united's youngsters yesterday included owen(31), berbatov(30), giggs(37), carrick(30), park(30), valencia(27), etc

[quote author=BABE! link=topic=765137.msg9193182#msg9193182 date=1316628578]Ok, good good. Then stop having s[i]ex[/i]. If you can't have s[i]e[/i]x without getting pregnant, and you're gonna abort the baby eventually--Stop Having S[i]e[/i]x. It's that simple.

I expect every normal and civilized human being to know that, you're expected to get 2 things out of having s[i]e[/i]x---- Pleasure and Baby(s).

Therefore, know what you're getting into. [/quote]stop having s[i]e[/i]x? is that even possible.
do you know how many women you would put out of jobs if you ban s[i]e[/i]x?

there would be a global meltdown!

armyofone:
No no, i'm not taking it to the extreme  common. Not even one iota of feminist is in me 
i just feel it should be a [b]shared [/b]responsibility.

do we share fallopian tubes and the womb?

Shaking my head

you will soon shake your bootay!

Emperoh:
^^^^^^
That's assuming that Chelsea don't match us up per last season's UCL dominance and that Citeh all stars don't gel.
I really marvel at how Fergie has been able to build us up into a strong UCL power house.
I can barely see us below the top three position. We are struggling with RM for 2nd pos.

no english club is capable of beating fergie's man utd in europe.
not man city, not chelsea, not arsenal.
it would be home n away victories.

Emperoh:

Rewind 5 -6yrs back and remember how we struggled with the quarters and could barely make it out of groups
despite our dominance of the local scene.
Our play is giving some sort of credence to the fact that the EPL is matching up. Can remember him saying his team's matured now. I really marvel at what's he's been able to do. We barely concede goals and even win tough away fixtures.

blame it on tactical naivety. . . .
fergie went to europe then thinking united's blood and thunder attacking football would scare most teams - but it backfired.
continental teams would sit back, catch united on the counter and score good goals. fergie did all the playing, they did all the scoring.
he had to master a new approach - that new approach is why our game in europe is usually conservative, slow tempo and lots of patience. . . .but when the opportunity avails itself to sting - we go for it and close shop. in the end, there were loads of 1-0, 2-0, 1-1 results.

Emperoh:

But as he said, Barca is the challenge and i am salivating to see how he meets up to given UEFA's bias towards English sides. His mind games readily come to mind.

barcelona won't win it this season.

Emperoh:

BTW, heated argument. Folks believe that RM is way better than we are. Have argued myself hoarse
But these goons read a whole lot into the CR7 and JM factors. Wetin u think?

Methinks having beaten him at Inter and the undisciplined back of RM we can nick them all round.
My fear is keeping the front guys quiet and then who wins the battle in the middle.
Their full backs are as indisciplined as anything and i keep imagining Nani and Young shaiting and pissing all over Marcelo and Sergio Ramos!!

Wouldn't mind such a fixture. But i am wary JM has a more deadly arsenal in RM than in Inter

if the players don't get carried away with jose's mind games, united should beat real madrid.
they have no defence at all but their attack is good excluding di maria and benzema(those two are liabilities).

armyofone:
see the problem? why are men scared of such injection? why would they blame a woman for making them do 'clip it' something to help you enjoy your se.x while not worrying of an unwanted baby. yet they don't like condom cuz of what?
really it is not just fair leaving it all for the female.

females should handle everything. . . .
the womb is in the female, not in the male.

why do i need to spike myself when i am not even carrying nada?
armyofone, why do you take feminism to the extreme.

by next year, you would urge men to take injections so they can breastfeed their babies.
yes, they should not leave it all to the female.

sexkillz:
Spot on bro! People like lefuelefufufu, yeye4live, tellwisdom, Mr Cork! IMO, if you value a woman you truly love, and see her as an asset, nothing wrong in spending on her! if you dont spend on her, who will? I am yet to understand how buying a BB, Brazilian hair, shoes or whatever, for that special person in your life, to make her look good for you could be termed nonsensical! But when your take home salary cnn NOT take you home, and is not up to the price equivalent of a BB, why wont they make crass comments?

i agree with you 100%

i don't understand how men open their mouths and say they cannot spend on their women. if my woman looks good, i get the credits too.
women need to be care for and it's when men don't care that these women seek alternative means to get the care they lack.
i spend lavishly on women - and i have not regretted doing so ever. if i get what i want, how much i spend is not important.

horny4u:
Put your pic out first , i am so curious

ladies first!

armyofone:
I read a journal where it said male pills will be out soon. maybe it will save many guys/girls prayer of not getting pregnant before sha.gging.

you know, guy takes pill this month, gal takes the pill next month. no more worries for abortion.

umm odikwa risky

and you think men would take male pills?
there are certain injections men can take to make them fire blanks but then there's always the phobia for side effects when these men are actually ready to knock their spouses up.

[quote author=BABE! link=topic=765137.msg9193014#msg9193014 date=1316626908]That's why motherless babies homes and adoption centers were invented. That's more pleasing to the eye than the vulture scenario right? Yes, it is.[/quote]in nigeria? adoption centres?
only few of the babies who are lucky to be rescued from the dumps make it to the centres.
majority are found dead in their baskets.

horny4u:
hahaha I don't consume nothing I work out because what you don't use you lose, if you want your abs to last for the next 40 years then you start working them.

pictorial evidence then. . . .

Even Village girls with great figures go for the best and most ambitious village boy. Some Villages even beat the men to see who is the strongest before he can claim the girl.

they go for whatever comes their way.
and as for villages beating their men to determine the strongest bloke. . . . . .since when has being the strongest equates being the richest?
mostly, na poor people dey even strong pass. years of years of climbing palm trees with bare palms.

In the city, he has ambition and works towards making a success of himself or he clears road for the stronger man not just arm muscles but pocket muscles.

ohhh, pocket muscles?
are you sure?

Oh well Naomi campbell: beauty is in the eyes of the beholder

i agree. . . .

[quote author=BABE! link=topic=765137.msg9192901#msg9192901 date=1316625874]If there's nothing wrong, or rather if nothing is going to be wrong with the child and mother medically, during and after gestation, then don't kill the damn baby.

The baby shouldn't be "responsible" for how it came into existence.[/quote]and when the parents cannot cater for it and leave it in a refuse dump for vultures to pluck out it's eye. . .that's more pleasing to the eye, right?

otokx:
There is no need to beat around the bush; the child is a bastard but the mom does not have to drum it into her brain.

with all humility, you are a Arrow!

femmy2010:
The fetus obviously has the same DNA as everyone else and can’t possibly be classified as any species other than homo sapiens?
Again,just wondering oo.

sweats and shaved hair have d-n-a.
when you remove those, have you committed murder?

Siena:
Personally, other than health reasons, abortion can't be justified. This is my opinion, others will see things differently.

but the foetus isn't technically human?
or is it?

horny4u:
@cougar
Do you know how many squats i do in a day, do you know how many side bends and lunges, how many puffing on that cross trainer to keep that booty tight, and donot say some girls have it naturally ( all things need maintainence and thou shallnot cast your pearls unto swines) , cos all men were born naturally brilliant but if you leave school to do yahooyahoo or shepenomics and you donot come out with a sound degree its the same.

some girls have it naturally.
if you have to do squats, side bends and lunges to keep your curves tight - then watch what you consume.

In life you determine what you want and you plan it with pen and paper and begin to work towards it,
So therefore a woman's figure is synonymous to a man's pocket.

it is not.
never can be.

some women have this figure without working for it.
there are no gym facilities in the village and when you see some village girls, naomi campbell would green with envy.
they are not only curvy, they have good skins.

no man is born with money in his arse-hole. . . .
so in that wise, body shape is not equivalent to money.
you are clutching at straws here.

very few rich men will go to the market and bring in a wowo fowl , everybody wants a figure 8 tight booty babe,

not in all cases.
most men don't even want the figure 8 girl. as long as she's beautiful and well-mannered, other stuffs are purely academic.
figure 8 tight booty babes are only in demand and rap videos.

yes, every man wants to sleep with these kind of tight booty babes but only few men would consider marrying them.

No excuse or pity me i have no dreams here,  but i love you, trash bin.
(roll your sleeves and get to work)

No excuse  or pity me i am  size 34 and my waist and hips are same but i have a heart of gold, trash bin.
( stop the choc and get running)

Lets be realistic, an ambitious man who is successful is just as wanted as  Naomi campbell so young men should take note , if school ain't for you , learn a trade , just make sure you get rich or die trying.

who wants naomi campbell?