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Adebisi33:
Okay everyone.  Thanks for all your suggestions.  I'll definitely take the following on board:

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[li]Make relationships my priority
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[li]Join a few dating sites
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[li]Go to a church that offers conferences for singles
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[li]Say "yes" to a white or asian man if he asks me for a date
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[li]Don't dismiss a man who is unintelligent but honest, single and hardworking[/li]
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these methods would take you another 9 yrs.
you need to fast-track! dating sites are full of rogues and church conferences are filled with women in their 20s.

claremont:
A 40 year old lady deserves to shown "love" too; it is better late, than never. I will not sleep tonight until the OP listens to the cry of Nigerians, and shows us her picture or tells us the area she lives in in England. This one na by force, or by fire!

bloody optimist!

r231:
it will be nice to bring her to London

if she can cope with the hustle n bustle of the big city

toba:
im not too sure about fulham, cos i only came there to see london school of economics with my dad once

nice school, that!

Adebisi33:
This is exactly what I'm trying to avoid, and is why I insist that the man I'm dating is SINGLE.

i am single. . . .i stay in south west london.
can i see your pic?

Scooby1:
poster, make we see your picture now ?

https://farm5.static.flickr.com/4004/4399277443_85e4b2d721_o.gif

r231:
of cus. . . .at least 4 or 5 around my area

with correct chics?
invite me to one of your youth meet-ups, abeg

toba:
Which part do u reside then for u not to have noticed any Cele church? cos from Belfast to Dublin to Scotland to Manchester, we have plenty Cele parishes there

fulham broadway. . . . .i have only seen rccg here and within my 5 mile radius.
never ever seen cele peops around me.

Tosinville:
Coogar
Hey! wat do you know? you are nothing but a cougar ofcos, we're talking about churches that can deliver you from spiritual husband in 3days you're says shitt.

don't be idiotic. . . . .
so celestial churches deliver people from spiritual husbands? who's a spiritual husband?
i know you are gullible but don't add idiocy into the equation.

i just don't believe in white garments. go and advertise your products elsewhere.


[quote author=tpia@ link=topic=748317.msg9044147#msg9044147 date=1314746100]there are many single ladies approaching or above 40.

think i mentioned this on another thread which i cant recall right now.

as women get more comfortable, or have improved financial status, the percentage of the ones delaying marriage tends to rise, leading to an increase in the number of singles.[/quote]but are these women happy?
the desperate ones among them now target men that are attached and terrorize the men's spouses.

toba:
Coogar i can give u 5 diff Cele parishes that i have attended in London when i was still a member. Hartons, whitecity, Christ castle/elephant and castle are all there in London

no wonder i have never come across one.
elephant and castle? i have not been there in 8 yrs now.

claremont:
Ok then, let me be an optimist just this once and ask the OP to;

1. The OP should show us (especially Coogar) a sneak preview of what she looks like.

2. Let the OP tell us where she lives in England in which she claims that Black people are scanty.

The absence of these information will lead us to believe that this is just another tales-by-moonlight story.

the only reason i would like to believe the original poster is there are actually many women in her shoes. although the ones i know of are in their late 20s to their mid 30s. never ever heard of a 40 yr old single and searching. . . . .this would be a first but then shyte happens.

she could be genuine or she could be

r231:
Celestial Church of Christ  (CCC)

Ijo Mimo ti Christi lati orun wa

toba:
CCC celestial church of christ

celestial church of christ dey united kingdom?
i am yet to see white garments with no foot wear in this zone or maybe i have never stayed where they dwell.

r231:
the part dat doesn't have BLACK PPLE

shropshire is the only place that fits that description.
it's like another planet. residents will troop out to take pictures with you if you're a negro.

claremont:
She will definitely NOT show you pics because this thread is "MOD-inspired"!

bloody pessimist!

[quote author=tpia@ link=topic=748317.msg9044024#msg9044024 date=1314744321]the thread isnt about you and your problems, so just shut your trap if you have nothing to contribute.

thanks.[/quote]don't mind him, tpia.
if anyone insults you again, let me know.
i will curse all of them with the 10 plagues of egypt.

Adebisi33:
I really don't know what to do.  I've just turned 40 and I'm desperate to settle down and start a family of my own.

I'm attractive, I have a masters degree, my own house, and a great career but I can't find a nice man.  I don't go to clubs and bars, and only meet white men at work, and I don't find them attractive at all. 

My aunt suggested that I go to Nigeria to find a husband.  She says there are a lot of men who would love to get a British Passport (I was born in England).  I don't want to do this, because I don't think that's a good basis for starting a relationship.

A lot of friends have suggested that I'm too fussy, but my father says that a woman should marry a man who is equal or better than her. 

All I am looking for is a man who is single, intelligent, honest and hardworking.  I worry that these kinds of men are already married, or if they are single, they want to settle down with younger women.

In case you're wondering why I didn't get married before, I've been looking for a relationship since I was 22, but no black men that I met who met my criteria (single, intelligent, honest and hardworking) were interested in me.  They all seemed to be taken.

What should I do?

Thanks

what part of england do you stay?
you mean you have been looking for a relationship for 18 yrs?
phew! i could help but 40?? can we see your pics for a start?

loyika:
Why no English club sign Joe Cole SHE BI HE HAS PREM EXPERIENCE NOW!!

Hissing loudly!!

Ritch,

You want the Boss to make signings, (might not be to your liking, but deal with it) signings he has made.

GOONER 89

ohhh, shut up.
joe cole is not in his mid 20s.
gary cahill is a proper english player. samba is tested and proven.

loyika:
Prem experience my arse

How much Prem experience did Kolo Toure have before joining Arsenal Oh i see Lauren had loads of Prem experience as well Oh Kanu Nwankwo was a big hit in the Prem when Arsene snapped him up If we go by your reckoning Ritch, Arsene would never have bought Kanu

Like SAF labelled una, Media Pikins

GOONER 89

loyika, use your brains.
surely, there were better players in the league as at the time wenger bought kanu, toure and lauren that would have cost around the same price.
not all foreign players gel instantly. look at dzeko, vidic, evra, etc. can arsenal afford 6 months to bed these foreign mercenaries players properly?

i think ritchboy makes more sense than you and debosky(wenger butt lickers).

debosky:
Much better

still hurting after the barbecue grilling on sunday?
i have always told you. . . .man utd and arsenal are not in the same class.

that's the first time wenger's arsenal would score more than one goal at old trafford in the premier league.
can you believe that?

r231:
new ma arse. . . . P4M in the making

good job!
she's definitely pretty4me. same font color and she asks the most ridiculous questions ever.
i think her main objective on nairaland is to make the most topics by december.

her topics range from the most senseless to the most laughable.
"why do people laugh"
"why do people cry"
"do you suck tits"
"can birds fly"

she's so idiotic.

montelik:
To be honest I wouldn't be shocked if we signed him, but that is simply cos we need reinforcement in d center and he is d only player we are after at this moment. I don't expect d deal to happen. If it does, then somebody has really caved from their negotiating position (most likely Wesley).

well. . . . .
for the next 24 hrs, i am a transfer muppet!!!

i actually believe in the united kids(cleverley, ando, pogba, morrison) but i also think we need an experienced head who they would learn from.
besides, if cleverley gets injured, we would be screwed as he is the major pillar in the new way we play these days. . .sneijder is world class.

guardiola bought cesc, sanchez and promoted thiago. mourinho added some quality players to his squad. sahin, altintop, coentrao.
man city have added more quality in aguero and nasri. these are our rivals in europe. if we want to win in europe, we must face at least one of these teams who all have ridiculous squad depths.

if we really want to go all the way - we must cop sneijder in the next 24.
tick. . .tock. . .tick. . . .tock.

Dyt:
Stutterin. . . . .
Baby
erm erm erm erm
c ehn
its nt wat u think o
c dear
erm erm erm erm . . . . . .

you don't need to explain ish to any of them. . . . .
let's meet again at the usual spot at the usual time.

good night

montelik:
Good luck to Hargo. Better for him to at least make some nice Abu Dhabi money if his playing career doesn't take off again .

Be it Wesley or whomever, I really hope we make a central midfield signing before d window closes, after all why didn't we just keep Hargo who offered to stay and play for free.

2 yrs ago, this happened. . . . . .

https://i38.tinypic.com/24m98go.gif

b-e-l-i-e-v-e.

5stardude:
I was bannging her. .  Ya she was with the real deal ~Me~

see this mumu w@nker. . . . .
me and dyt were doing this all through last week.

https://www.lolgifs.com/pictures/31c24a1f0f671e9.gif

Dyt:
Coogar
u didnt tell me d tym na
bsyds i v bn in lag 4 a wk now
tongue

i meant[i] that[/i] other saturday.

debosky:
None at all. . . .that chapter is closed as far as I'm concerned. If he likes, let him say the poo roll at Etihad is better than at the Emirates. Some muppets will believe that as true and start carrying pure water to wash their butts during matchdays. I won't join them.

loyika:
The same Nasri that insults Gallas and Henry

Did Tevez not talk shyte about United Did Ronaldo not say he was being held as a Slave at United Did Ibra not talk shyte about Barca

COME ON MAN!

Nasri has left and is a Citeh player, wish him the best but don't take whatever he says seriously.

Has Kolo T said anything bad about Arsenal Ade that was talking crap, where is he now

ABEGI! 2ND BASS JARE!!

nASRI KO, nASTY nAS nI

GOONER 89

no comment. . . . .

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[quote author=Mr_TA link=topic=716327.msg9041092#msg9041092 date=1314714420]I would actually be sad about Hargreaves moving to City as I know he'll somehow manage to stay fit. [/quote]NMCEire Paul Davis
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Wesley Sneijder to fly into Manchester Airport on Wednesday morning ahead of finalising move to Manchester United, more to follow,
caughtoffside footie news & gossip
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COS: Man United Prepare Final £36m Offer for Inter Milan Playmaker Wesley Sneijder caughtoffside.com/2011/08/30/man…

moratti was in london today.
fergie also went to london

yolanthe(sneijder's wife) tweeted. . . . .
RT @YolantheCabau I follow my husband wherever he goes. . . . . .love him till death!

Dyt:
Innocent
i dont lyk it wen u peep unda all dese babes skirts

dyt. . . . .you are in trouble.
we were supposed to meet on saturday, you kept me waiting in maitama.
why? why?

debosky:
I don't claim to know of the presence of the 'elixir of youth' in the briefcases of certain Italian coaches, I don't claim players have dipped in form because they 'stopped running'. I don't make a thoroughly moronic comparison of a player based on 2009 results, and then compare with someone else's 2011 performances.

In summary, I can't ever make as many stupendously idiotic comments as Ibime manages in one day.

The amount of nonsense you've spewed can build a mountain taller than Vogel Peak.

When you're too dim to realise that comparing 2009 performances to someone else's 2011 performances is idiotic to say the least, why bother arguing with you?

@ DK

Where did I say Per was a good player? Please quote me

I have agreed completely with you and Ibime - he is rubbish and useless - he is exactly the type of rubbish I've been looking for

colonel debosky, no comments on the nasri piece?

loyika:
Nasri is an ungrateful C*nt!!

https://i878.photobucket.com/albums/ab343/LostSerenity12/1233445870_ae19b02.gif

this is why i like to be on arsenal thread.
six months ago, nasiri nasiri, samir nasiri, nasiri. . . . . . nana nana nanana nana.

loyika:
Errr

Hasn't Vidic been carrying Rio for a while now, and hasn't Evra been carried along as he seems to have lost some of the pace and guile he once had.

JT CARRIES THE WHOLE CHELSKI DEFENCE ON HIS OWN MOST TIMES

Mert will be a better version than Kos and as long as Verm is fit, he will do well in the prem, whether he is carried otr not doesn't bother me, as long as the defence is sorted, fair enough. Might not be the best, but we will take it right now.

GOONER 89

how has vidic carried rio? i would actually say rio carried vidic.
we are talking about 2 world class defenders here not per mertesacker, mr loyika.
in the next 8 months, we will all be here laughing at these signings. what wenger needed were tested n proven premier league defenders.
samba + shawcross would solve arsene's problems. in that area of the pitch, arsenal don't need technical players - you need no nonsense players.


nasri murders arsenal.

Former star delivers damning review of former club
Samir Nasri insists Arsenal can no longer afford to spend big in the transfer market.
Nasri completed his long awaited move to Manchester City last week before making his debut in the weekend win at Tottenham.

Arsenal boss Arsene Wenger, meanwhile, saw his side crumble in humiliating fashion at Manchester United with an 8-2 loss, but Nasri says that the club have to change.

The France international insisted it was the right time for him to leave, telling l'Equipe: "Yes, it was [the right time to leave], there are sure signs.

"The departure of Cesc to Barcelona is one of them. The defeat against Birmingham in the League Cup final was very harmful for the minds.

"Arsenal remains a big club, but the building of Emirates Stadium changed a lot of things. It has changed the ambitions, so far. But it is not Arsene Wenger, it is the club's politics, the officials.

"Arsenal doesn't have the same funds. They can't make the same coups as before in the transfer market. They are rather forced to sell their best players and bet on young ones."

Nasri was asked about why did not extend his contract at Arsenal last year, but explained: "Why didn't I extend at Arsenal last autumn? They made me an offer and my advisers made another one.

"In this last one there was a clause that Arsenal officials didn't really accept.

"Then, it lasted. When they came back to offer me again in June, I made my decision. In my mind I wanted to leave, above all after the very difficult end to last season and I also already had nice contacts.

"At first Arsene Wenger wanted to keep me. Then, both clubs needed time to agree a transfer fee.

"My agents worked well. With the lawyers they wanted everything to be in order. When the transfer is big, you have to be patient. I am also happy Arsenal could get a nice fee. I prefer to leave that way than being a free agent. I did the same at Marseille. But that €28million fee doesn't put me under any pressure."
Happy

The French star maintains he was delighted to join City, despite links also to their city rivals United.

"From the start there was unanimity about my arrival at Manchester City. The coach, the executive director Garry Cook and chairman Khaldoun al-Mubarak, I felt everyone wanted me," he said.

"The players teased me for my first training session. They said: 'You needed time to come. We are waiting for you for one month and a half'. I know most of them, playing against them.

"Training with all those good players every day, I will improve. During sessions, there is a big intensity. At Arsenal it was already good, but here it is an upper level.

"When we finish the session with a match, you really feel like you're in an official competition. There are 22 players of a very high level. In the Premier League, very few clubs can show such wealth."

Nasri is yet to win a major trophy in his career and he is looking to out that right at City, adding: "You play football because you like it, but above all to win trophies.

"I am still dreaming about a national title, a cup or Champions League just like a kid.

"I want to feel satisfaction of a fulfilled season. Individually being named Player of the Year or being in the team of the league, that is reward but it can't replace the emotion of a trophy.

debosky:
Now that's rich. . . .were Khedira and Ozil and others 'forced' changes too?

A 26 year old (not African age oh) playing regularly for the third best team in the world from the WC and he is being rubbished. . . .like I said, that's the kind of rubbish I've been looking for.

We also hear that being 28 in Turkey means you're likely not good. . . . .these soothsayers probably don't know the lad didn't leave Brazil till he was 26. But then again, I doubt these soothsayers remember that the great Gilberto Silva did not leave Brazil till he was 25.

debosky, mertesacker is slowwwww. . . . .the german team carries him along.
forget the fact he's playing for germany. . . . . . .i will also bring up the same example with john o'shea(a donkey of a player) but we can argue he's been playing for the best team in england for 8 years or there about. it means shyte. in england, mertesacker would be exposed. he's better than squillaci and djourou but miles behind vermaelen.

proudly9ja:
I want to believe that every Arsenal fan believes Arsene has done well over the years. What's painful for many fans is that if we critically look at the team we've had in the past say 6 years, 3 of those 6 years we have been short only by one or two players. More painful is the fact that many of these short comings are obvious to everyone but Wenger. Usually his excuse has been that we would be affecting the growth of his youth players.

which is why i think wenger can be daft with his reasoning sometimes. united have bought big players even when fergie's kids are meant to have been promoted. granted, it limits the number of appearances of those kids but the kids can also learn one or two tricks from the world class players. wenger should have been mixing it all these years. . . .but the kids he was dying to protect by not signing big players have all left because of lack of trophies.

i am surprised nasri's latest interview hasn't been posted here. . .debosky must have seen it but because it's the truth the fat tool won't bring it up!

A classic example was last season. We all asked for a CB during the winter transfer window and Arsene played us like football till the last day.
Eventually, we lost the CC final due to a mistake between our GK and a CB. We also lost/drew matches due to failures by our CBs. Now if rumours are to be believed, we are now close to signing a new CB. What has changed between January and now? If anything, we have TV5 back which is a plus. So why didn't AW buy or loan a CB in January?

Similar examples are abound over the past few years. Let's hope the 8 - 2 trouncing serves as a wake up call to AW.

wenger is a stubborn donkey! a tool of a man who is too stubborn to accept his dreams/vision of arsenal have failed.
i actually expect him to look at the clubs on top and match what they do albeit minimally. sign a couple of experienced players on a bargain and mix them with the youths. he started the ridiculous policy of not wanting players that are 30+ in his team. vieira, pires, ljunberg, etc had to go.

few years later, wenger signed squillaci, silvestre, campbell and gallas. isn't that daft?

ritchboy:
Walcott scored 9 in the league last season and he played less than 50% of the time. He's already scored three goals in his last four games in an Arsenal shirt this season. Walcott will outscore every winger in the EPL this year bar none, EASILY!

here we go again. . . . .

proudly9ja:
Merci beacoup
So ManCity, Chelsea and Liverpool have spent more money than ManU over this period. The first two, significantly more money. Thanks.
No worry, just send me your card's long number and security code. I don't even need your full name or expiry date.  

man city and chelsea have spent ridiculous amounts of money over the last 8 years and they don't often sell these players well.
they just dispose them off at rubbish prices.

but to be honest, wenger has done really well with those low numbers. . . . .however, some fans think he has overdone it cos arsenal should not be a selling club that prides itself in making huge profits in player transfers. with the rise and rise of mid-table teams spending lots of money, they have suddenly closed the gap on arsenal and the top 4 finish is now looking ominous.

proudly9ja:
Thanks, what about ManU, Chelsea and City? (they are actually the basis of our arguement here )

2003-2011
1st man city
bought: £557m
sold: £125m
nett: £432m

2nd chelsea
bought: £580m
sold: £156m
nett: £424m

3rd liverpool
bought: £385
sold: £239
nett: £144m

4th tottenham
bought: £297m
sold: £171m
nett: £126m

5th man utd
bought: £317m
sold: £224m
nett: £93m

20th arsenal
bought:£170m
sold: £222m
nett: -£52m

arsenal are indeed a selling club.

dayokanu:
Man utd sef wan package No testing for them

hargreaves is now a free agent o. nothing to do with man utd again.
he left united since june.

ritchboy:
Sharrap Tool-Alan!
Walcott will easily score 10 goals this season if he plays enough games.

walcott will score 10 league goals this season? you must be smoking pawpaw leaves.
ritchboy and welbeck, 2 olocious fellows.

[quote author=dipo+ link=topic=743413.msg9042501#msg9042501 date=1314728862]@ coogar.
Walcott scored 9 times in the league last term. You know he is gonna score more[/quote]torres also scored 24 in 2008! has he scored more?

@dayo-kanu
wenger might change the way arsenal defend if he signs mertersacker. . . .
vermaelen would be the aggressor and mertersacker would clean things up after him.
it might actually work out good for them but if they persist with the high line defending, they would be punished - that was what got jenkinson into trouble. . . . .fouling ashley young(yellow) and chicharito(another yellow).

proudly9ja:
free? 

Na Arsene teach me o

damnnnn, arsenal are actually in relegation in that league of money spent.
number 20. 

arsenal have spent £170m on players, made £222m from selling players with a[b] nett gain of £52m[/b] in the last 8 yrs.
wenger is a pure economist. he deserves some credits.

proudly9ja:
Can someone provide me with an 'official' link to how much clubs in the EPL have spent on transfer over the past few years (as far back as 6 or 7 years)? Il appreciate it. Thanks.

how much are you willing to pay for this information?