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[quote author=baby_123] [/quote]i told you i am evil.

[quote author=baby_123]So you will return your sister back home with armed forces. Why bother, she most likely will be returned to you with all her load in the armed forces car. LOL. And then the situations will be switched. We will now see how you will handle two women under one roof. [/quote]not possible!
return back to where? she's in her house......the SIL would get deported to owerri under fashola's lagos state deportation act. my sister would report that she's an almajairi contributing nothing but chaos to lagos state!

adaobi123: loool ! I thought everyone knew I was participating
Ermmmm...........

you "thought"?
well, you thought wrong......

[quote author=baby_123]You knew i was out to get you there. Nice slippery move. You will go and fight in your BIL house abi? . You leave your house to use force in another man's house. That would really help your sister. So you sef cannot house your sister. ROTFLMAO.[/quote]i told all my BILs that if anything happens to my sisters, i would kill them in cold blood. when these men want brides, they appear nice and gentle.......few years after, they become monsters!

i would not leave my house - i would hire armed police to accompany my sister to go deal with the intruder. i know my boundaries. pulling strings behind the curtain is the way i do my evil.

i cannot house my sister when she's supposed to be in her matrimonial house - what kinda brother would i be? homebreaker?

adaobi123: hello

you didn't tell us you are participating in miss NL contest, tell us one reason we shouldn't impose a fine of £5000 on you?

[quote author=baby_123]And if SIl doesnt? You would house your sister, no?[/quote]i would get the police for my sister to move the SIL out. that house belongs to my sister, her husband and the kids by law. would the SIL be a pest in a developed country?

where's mademoiselle adaobi?

[quote author=baby_123]LOL, okay. And if they side with their sister In this case you are already threatening fire and brimstone. Will you attempt any peace resolution. If she was your sister [/quote]i would!
my sister must go back to her husband's house and the SIL must move out. that would be my peace resolution.

Afam4eva: Oya, we don hear. America is not even competing with britain when countries like China, Russia, Japan, Germany still exist. What does Britain have to offer? It's just a small country. Britain has nothing to offer the world apart from English.

of course, britain has nothing to offer....
health is wealth - any country that cannot provide free healthcare is not a developed country. the term "wealth" has a different meaning to you.....

[quote author=baby_123]If this scenario was true, i can bet she is camped in a siblings house. Most likely married. Or her parents house. Of course, they are waiting to see what the husband will do. I wonder how she will feel though if the tables are turned and she is kicked out because her siblings spouse doesnt want another man's baggage. hmmm. [/quote]come on -
her relatives won't house someone else's wife without trying to make peace between her & the husband. nigerians love being peacemakers. this woman's action shows she's rich and independent.

Afam4eva: If i remember correctly, some years back, you used to side America against the UK. What went wrong?

who would side with america against the mighty great britain? there's no comparison - america is a swamp of piss.

[quote author=baby_123]So you assume wifey doesnt have family in Lagos who can accommodate her and her kids[/quote]family? they would have contacted the hubby to make peace if she moved to back to her family. this woman is in the penthouse suite @ sheraton hotel, enjoying the best moment of her life......

the kids must be going to school everyday since the incident - shey na family dey foot that bill too? how can you not see this man is about to go bankrupt hence the call for help?

dayokanu: According to the OP, He was living with the sister before he married.

So they go back to his pre-marital arrangements

living with the sister where? maybe a one room
we don't know if they moved to a bigger house largeky funded by wifey after their marriage.

think about it - how many full housewives have the gumption to move out because of their SILs? she didn't move out cos the hubby cheated or because he committed a cardinal sin....trust me, this woman is rich!

she's out there taking care of herself and 2 kids since april without asking any penny from the hubby. it's not an easy feat! give respect where it's due - this woman deserves a purple heart!

dayokanu: But this man was paying the bills of the house somehow before the wife moved in

how do we know his financial status hasn't changed since then? would a dependent woman leave her matrimonial house? we have seen wives put up with multiple wives in the past - they accepted the situation because they are dependent!

this madam left because of her SIL - common sense dictates she's very very financially buoyant. my spider senses even say she's the financial lifeline of this family. she moved out because she knows the hubby cannot foot the bills in the house and he would soon need her help!

Vikin: I can bet with Kim kardashan fake lips that the sicenerio is NOT feasible.

Place 100 buck and let the OP tell us!
This woman it's typically the siddon house Madame type.

the scenario is very very feasible!

wifey has left with the kids - only an independent woman would do such. she has shown she can take care of herself and her kids!

husband is yearning for her cos the weakling cannot foot all the bills - his bank account has taken a dent since april. if the wife does not return by august, start praying cos he would soon be evicted from his house. by then, the sister would know how to find her route back to owerri!

Vikin: Coogar the coogar
Argument master! Even if there is none, you will generate one.

Now, it's ...are you sure it's the wife generating chunk of the monthly bill?
Like seriously?

you mean this scenario is not feasible?

dayokanu: Are you a boss to your younger ones?

i am a boss if they are largely dependent on me.
how sure are you the wife is not the one footing the large chunk of the monthly bills? to then watch a freeloader that contributes nothing and yet disrespect her is nothing short of a travesty!

dayokanu: GEJ can read the budget and Pass a Bill, Patience cant do any presidential duty

patience can commission projects, patience can represent her husband and can make decisions in her husband's presence. would this sister disrespect her brother's wife if the brother is a governor? king? minister?

Diasporan: There is no comparison bro.Yanks gat too much of gun violence.That is the point Piers Morgan is trying proove and he has been under serious threat in that same NY.That man is being guarded by CIA as i am typing these sentence.Any attempt for him to move alone they will take him out in NY subway

to be fair, piers morgan is not in a good position to talk about gun restriction in america.....it's blasphemous!

steph7: The sister has can go back home to Owerri, she just wants to stay here because she is looking for jobs in lagos. which to me isn't an excuse, when these days every thing is done online

but there's no beach in owerri....

united states - advanced third world country....
may the dead rest in peace!

dayokanu: So how did the wife become the sisters boss in this situation?

a wife takes the status of her husband automatically...
why is patience goodluck at aso rock? did you vote for her? why is she referred to as "her excellency"? don't make me dislodge your jaw with a claw-hammer, abeg!

my wife is a boss to my junior sister!

dayokanu: Is it possible your sister was born with a "miscreant" gene?

if she's born with a miscreant gene then it begs the question - what is a miscreant doing under my roof? if it's not my wife she's fighting, it would be my neighbour or my colleagues.

i reiterate, the sister must leave - she's poison!

dayokanu: WHile most on here are assuming the sister is the trouble maker?

So what of when your wife attacks someone?

attack who?
i did not marry a miscreant, abeg! every husband must know the kind of wife they married. you have to trust your partner - that's the foundation of any relationship.

Vikin: It's common sense oh, not sentiments...she has nowhere to go, let her stay there till she has her own place or get a job,but I don't support her fighting the wife.

there are younger women in lagos surviving without being a pest to their relatives. is she 9 years of age? she cannot work, save up and get her own apartment at 21?

The wife too has her own blame.
Anyway, they are both adults and should behave like one.

the same wife that has put up with her bïtchassness for 3 years has her own blame? what blame?

dayokanu: Now tell me what you want the sister to do.

The wife attacks her she defends herself, The wife insist she leaves the house she has nowhere to go in Lagos

What do you want her to do to please this wife and the brother?

why are you assuming the wife is the trouble-maker? what is to say the illegal resident isn't the harbinger of chaos? if anyone attacks my wife, she's attacked me and i would deal with such individual accordingly.

the sister has to go......

bellong: This issue is a typical struggle and power tussle that happens between wife/SIL, wife/MIL. Women in general. It is left for the man in the house to clean up the mess and manage the situation.
The way a man manages the situation will either rip his home apart or create a solid bond between the ladies.

However, its a known fact that women hardly get along together in the same room. There must always be an issue except the very few broken ones who understand the value of life.

i disagree....
women are saints. they never ever cause trouble. there would have been no world war if the planet was populated by women only.

Vikin: Which illegal residence ...
After all, the illegal residence has been there before she married d guy,

I fact, her status is even supposed to be converted to permanent residence.
8 yrs is no beans for them to chase her out.

Let her stay there till she gets a job or gets married.

that's too soon.....
she should marry and have her kids in that house. it's her brother's house. what belongs to the brother is hers by default, isn't it?

i dunno why nigerians attach sentiments to simple issues. she became illegal in that house the moment her brother married. they have put up with her illegal status for 3 years, it's about time she leaves the married couple alone - she needs a boyfriend!

Vikin: The sister doesn't answer to her but to her brother. SIL knew the wife through the brother, since the brother is confused at this point, something tells me the wife is the trouble here. She might be the queen but if she doesn't act like one, if am the husband I will dethrone her. How can a matured married lady run away from her kingdom with her babies because she wants to prove a point. Very childish I must say. Let the hubby leave her wherever she might be, when hungar mama am, she will find her way back.

i hope you are aware the wife had put up with this illegal resident for 3 years before she was pushed out of her house.......i mean, 3 good years and you people don't think the sister should have moved out to her own apartment? nigerian women and freeloading........

steph7: Because we are possessive creatures

it's not about possessiveness, y'all are just confused lots!

Vikin: I notice most women who claim....this is my husbands house..blah blah blah are majority don't have anything to contribute except siddon put looking for whom to control and run over in hubby house ..

That's my observation anyway, they usually see, getting married as means to being the CEO of the house. If she was busy with herself I don't think she will even encounter such from the hubby's sister.

Let her get busy and see if she can contribute in raising money for the squatee and then have her freedom. After all, she saw the sister in the house before she came.

exactly, she saw the sister before she came and she saw her as a sister, not as a first wife. the sister was supposed to be a temporary resident not a permanent one. if my wife cannot boss her house, where would she boss? yours?

armyofone: Girls, we too like free thing .
OP is she contributing to the bills? Why are you unable to take a stand?
You dey fear your sister? Give her 6months deadline to get her acts together and that's it. you have tried, 8years is a very long time.
Tell wifey she will be there for another 6months time frame to get a job and a place of her own.

you can say that again......

dayokanu: Husband and Brother In law hit town to do babes runs together While the wife/sister is in the dark

that's appetising......

dayokanu: True.

I know a husband and brother in Law who hit town together to drink and even set woman parole together

please elaborate.....

[quote author=Mr_TA]Good to see Mourinho back in England after Fergie ran him out the country years ago. He waited to baba to retire and then come back abi. Don't worry Moyes is waiting for you. [/quote]mourinho ran out of england when he chased fergie with a superior squad from october 2006 till may 2007. it got so bad jose began to speak in parables. class A, B, C eggs to describe the same chelsea players he bought.....