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You need to be in control Coogar. . With Ile, you even forget to use your Gifs. Shows how intensely she gets you.

Okija juju: I will simply evict her or use her for blood money that I will lavish on my wife.

Okija juju: O.P
Family comes first... #And I am speaking of your immediate family, not extended family.

Ujujoan: Don't mind her . . . it's not her fault sha, I probably had the same thinking at her age!

Same thing happened to my dad. He just graduated and moved back with his wife, stayed temporarily in his brother's house. Wife made life hell, but brother calmed him and made sure my parents were settled before leaving. Brother lost everything. House, retirement, savings in a business deal gone bad based on a loan. Guess who built the house he lives in and supported him for over 20years as he never recovered. Guess who ran away anyway with her kids. Even my mum still doesn't know my dad bought land a built for his brother, I know this because his tongue slipped one day when he was telling me his schedule.

Everyone has a role to play, no one is expendable. Life is transient. Don't jump into situations you cannot handle and then start causing trouble. Is it too much to have patience and practice peace? Am sure if you have problems tomorrow, you will run to your family for backup. Well, shame will not let you.

SailorXY: Having 3 years on his contract & being British is nothing, we heard ?rumor? of €20m being offered for Wayne Rooney. I wouldn't blame the Madrid board for being conned into the scam by Levi *dude is not really as st.upid like his face potrays* because they have more money than pubic hair, but this guy is not even the best player of European nationality! Heck, he is just at the front door, probably half the player Cristiano Ronaldo is/was. Bale just about got the PFA *im not sure I'm in same boat with the FA*, but let's see if he can do it again. I wouldn't offer above €50m tho *just me*

ileobatojo: Halleluyah o!! Or did someone hijack your laptop?
*I endorse this message!*

Ialwaysask: Nairalanders how would you advise this man?

My younger sister has been living with me since I became independent and moved to Lagos to start a new life. That was eight years ago. I got married three years ago and my wife moved in with us and since then I have known no peace. They are constantly quarreling, making accusations, and have even exchanged blows a few times.
My wife packed out of the house in April with our two small children and said she would not return until my sister leaves the house. I can't send my sister packing because I am the only relative she has in Lagos and she just finished her university education and looking for a job. Asking her to leave means asking her to go back to Owerri where our parents stay and that's not what she wants at this time. I can't afford to get her her own place but I want my wife to return home. What do I do?

SailorXY: Hahahaha did you mean to say Madrid will bid N85m or c85m for Gareth Bale?? Mtcheew if I hear ..

lorretta u: at the bolded,
Who did the 'damaging'?

safe06: My love,my swtheart,my angel,my heartbeat,its almost a year but I'm yet to receive a sign that u will be coming soon,why Ȋ̝̊̅§ it taking u so long to come to us,mummy and daddy?Ȋ̝̊̅§ there anything about the house dad and I are living in u don't like?Ȋ̝̊̅§ it the brown stain on the white colored wall?its not my fault sweetie,its from one annoying cockroach that was disturbing daddy when he was sleeping,I smashed it against the wall,I can't bear sharing my husband with anybody/anything,(but u are an exemption),that's y the ghost of the roach refused to leave the wall,but if u promise u are coming soon,I ll paint not just that stain but the whole house.Oh,I don't think its the wall,it must be that my lousy neighbour that always screams the roof down each time she sings,don't worry sweetheart,once u arrive she won't sing again,I assure u,I will spoil her singing confidence by going to ask her who d hell iz the guy with the horrible voice dat keeps singing every morning in her house,with that I'm sure she won't even advice her next generations to venture into music. So u see baby,I'm doing everything possible to make life sweet for u.Daddy already feels bad,coz he feels he's guilty,he thinks u heard him when he said "cutie,when we get married,I want to enjoy u for a whole year before we start welcoming our babies",my baby,daddy dint mean it like he said,he was just being threatened that when u arrive,he won't be allowed to play with ur "food-shop" again,I feel daddy's pain too,u will understand when u grow up and get married. Please my baby,I want u to start ur journey now,mummy goes through lots of aches and discomforts every month U refuse to come.. hope u know say the money wey I dey use buy painkillers and sanitary towel for reach to buy U pack of caprisone?so baby,think am well ooo.I WANT U HOME ,NOW!!!

dayokanu: LOl at those who think relationship and infidelity has a formular

ileobatojo: I'm geriatric, you want to shoot my patella ....and I'm the 'winch'?

jennykadry: My one and only ile, will you and Coogar ever become friends?

jennykadry: Did someone with a brain post this

ileobatojo: People are welcome to go and read the articles and apply their own brains to the article. Just putting the evidence of the lies out there for all to see.

ileobatojo: Clearly your reading comprehension issues are in overdrive today. I have no time for pointless rigmarole. Have a good day.

ileobatojo: He is a caveman not for being impotent but for feeling the need to deceive me with such a pointless lie. If I love someone, I'm more than happy to marry for love and avail myself to the multiple scientific fertility advances the 21st century has provided.

Are potency and impotency the types of subjects you discuss on a first date? And there are actual women who would show up for a second date?

ileobatojo: Just an fyi to everybody reading, the bolded is a pure lie. The evidence that those stats are a lie were provided by Coogar himself in the thread below...
https://www.nairaland.com/1299794/when-nigerian-woman-divorce-husband/8#15873641

Where would I find such a useless caveman in the first place? How would we have started associating with ourselves in the first place? In this day and age of modern science? When sperm banks are a dime a dozen?

lovelydoll: you know a women can easily get pregnant by another and pin it on you and you would never know cause you brought the condition, and if she is not getting pregnant by you she will be desperate to be pregnant by another for u.

ileobatojo: Kudos to any man that finds a mindless sheep of a woman to consent to such a disrespectful plan. At the very least, the woman too should set love aside and involve a lawyer in drawing up a foolproof plan accounting for any negative occurrence. Anything less than that suggests the man might be marrying an imbe*cile.

ileobatojo: Well, that's deceitful and the man who falls into her trap is a victim of her deceit.

What about people who married as virgins but couldn't get pregnant. By your test driving logic, such people don't deserve to get married right? How many people should she have allowed to test drive her?

ileobatojo: Exactly, the men here saying that the woman is not a victim are deliberately trying to ignore this simple fact of societal pressure which immediately puts the woman at a disadvantage.

greatgod2012: Olorun a je ki won gbo.(May God let them hear).

The truth is that, when a man gives such a condition for marriage, it means the man never really loved the lady, what the man wants in the lady is the ability to be a baby machine., not a genuine love for her
Ladies, beware.
May God help us all.

ifihearam: Really!!!!! I must be really impatient to digest the quote below dated 28th may(just 4 days ago)

" I want to tell my aunt that if she is going to search for a guy for me he has to be born here in america or atleast grew up here for most of his life.I have already tried to date guys fresh from africa but they all just seemed to fall right into that Typical nigerian/african mentality. that i just do not like and can not cooperate with"