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Atiku has my vote.....i rather vote a supposedly corrupt well tested employer of labour,a business man that has excelled in his business and family life, one with human sympathy and milk of kindness than vote for that fcccking mundane sloow man called buhari.


nigggah is the worse of the worse.

2019 should just come and go..

braimeddy:
He did this to his wife but you never told us what she did to deserve this kind of treatment. What if he caught her sleeping with his driver?

Nawaoh for u

No woman deserves this no matter what.....he should have just divorced her than battering her.

The man no try.....this is not right abeg

Initial gra gra

i bet my left balls that this lady is still smitten...she still has feelings for the niggggah....small persistence and pressure from that guy and she will fall yakata.

woman that has moved on no get time for all these social media validation.


sister calm down...its just a matter of time....we sabi this gimmicks.

bugidon:
Ogun state!!!

Thank God her head is still intact for the burial

Guy this is not funny one bit.

You really lack a good functioning compassionate heart.

So this is the thrash you could come up with after seeing the parent's picture.....you don't even have any iota of pity and sympathy for her kids....


sickoooo

@topic...the picture of her parents broke me...it is so sad.

May God grant them peace,love and fortitude to bear this loss...Amen

tesppidd:
what do you mean by 60 days?

we are currently in April....between May 1st and June 30th 2018 is 60days.

The way people boast and arrogate powers to themselves ehen.....this fuchhker is not even sure of his own life and here is he talking about someone else.


Anyway we have extra 60days to confirm who REALLY has GOD on his side.

vizkiz:
I weep for my country.

I weep for its future

I weep for its youths.

These ones will also answer the "leaders of tomorrow" call?

Are these the Fayose and Dino Melaye of the future?

How did we get here?

How did we (Youths) become this useless?

Where did we miss it?

Mr holier than thou.....keep calm jare

This is part of adolescent growth.....most of us did this back then in school. ...we all have fights to look up to after school. ....ours was junior field. ...you go fight you go run...after you will still dig pit or cut grass.....it's nothing new....and yes most of us turned out well and are doing great in our various lines of endeavour.


Childhood /adolescent was fun walahi

This niggah no get shame

see project a president with tens of trillion in budget is commissioning in 2018....

smh

SalamRushdie:
When he inaugurated and armed them but Buhari sent his operation Cat Race to disarm them where were You .

why have that buhari nigggah not disbanded the ones set up by fayose?

please argue constructively or leave me the fccck alone.

These are people's families for goodness sake...grow a heart since it's obvious you don't have one.

SalamRushdie:
Impeach Buhari now or allow the North Central arm itself against Buharis plans

start the impeachment proceedings by removing that docile,silyyy,mundane,fearful,relic called ortom

He is yet to inaugurate and arm a local vigilante service that will protect and guide his people from these blood suckers.

Niiigah fcccccck ortom....i feel so so sad.

Benue people should be ashamed of themselves wherever they are.

just say Okoroawusaa influenced traditional leaders endorsed the niggggahh buhari.

laribari:
You will soon find out by the time they ask your to bring your mother's blood for sacrifice in the name of riches and your bad head will now make you choose the calabash that contains short life. they will still be the ones to kill you when that short space is fulfilled.

If you are one and you just want to see what people will say. I put it to you now, you better repent before it's too late for you.

Stop taking nollywood serious jare...

The fact that you you believe all that shiiiit tells the kind of person that you are.

Firgemachar:
But Ogboni is a Yoruba cult na.

All the same, Ogboni members are hell bound.

same with fornicators,thieves,bad mouthed people etc

azu amu like u

what is wrong in being a practicing member of the ogboni fraternity??

tetula123:
daughter seduced you.lol.my sister looks like a cow to me despite the fact my friends see her as a queen..
wonder what my daughter will look like in my eyes, to the point of her seducing me and me falling.

Nigggah you sick walahi

Go get help

Radiants:
GET LOST!

Why the harsh words?

The guy may have asked a very genuine question albeit in a harsh manner...it doesn't mean we all should be harsh to him too.

@op...its not easy one bit....but if possible..explore the path of peace and get him to be financially responsible to his kids.....you can go through the lagos state ministry of women affairs at alausa...or you can send me a pm....He needs to be financially responsible to his kids no matter the issue at stake...those kids never asked to be brought forth..you guys took that decision and you guys MUST be financially responsive to their needs.

you really lack sympathy ND human kindness.

your dad was going through a huge emotional and psychological trauma that was obviously caused by the death of his beloved wife.....so many people cannot handle loss of loved ones well....they become emotional wrecks and spiral out of control.


You said your dad was doing very well and has a bright future prior to your mom's death.....you guys failed that man.....he needed emotional support and love but his family and friends failed him.

Shame on you all....you are part of the youths buhari talked about.

Nigggah man like u

JoannaSedley:
Just get a life. You are quarrelsome and most be a hard person to live. Imagine quarreling with everyone with counter opinion to what you want.
So Juvenile. Grow up .

My dear,pity his ex...FOR A WOMAN AND HER FAMILY TO REMAIN INCOMMUNICADO WITH THIS MAN-CHILD FOR A WHOOPING 4MONTHS (thats 120 calendar days) SHOWS THE KIND OF MAN-CHILD HE IS.

He deserves pity...pity and supplications to his maker.

UjuJoan2:
You have a lot of time. Maybe if you invested half as much to your marriage you won't be seeking a divorce now.

lmfaooooooooooooooooo

KOPT33:
With all due respect; all the politeness I can muster; all the respect that I feel is due to you: you're a fool.

Your respect i do not want....

doreto:
All opinions are necessary,not all can be taken.

I knew the writer of the post you quoted was coming from a place of limits to his knowledge.He has bleen lectured and refined in subsequent posts.

Divorce will come at the appropriate time after sound analysis of the facts.

You and this huge ego of yours......let arrogance go man..humility is key.....you will need loads of humility in the coming days.....you need it for the new woman you will get married too....same with her friends and family when they will ask you why your first marriage crashed......nigggah calm down and learn.

doreto:
This is to coolcatty.If you could just stop with the self righteous insults directed against me,we could be friendly.

But no,he thinks I'm down,so I'm fair game but not so...I'm humble if you know me,I don't just let people take advantage of me.FYI,I've never begged or pleaded or cried over my ex or her family since she left,as you are wont to believe.I haven't even called her once.I know the game.

The reason I'm here is to seek online opinions as well as I talk to experienced people offline,take out the occassional boredom which I believe is perfectly okay in my case.

I don't mind talking to you but step down your insults and arrogance.I don't deal well with arrogant people or know-it-alls as I know for a fact, nobody knows it all and you don't know it all.There are areas I can help you
with too even on this issue.Show some respect,my ex leaving me doesn't define me entirely.

Get the picture of helplessness off your mind as I'm too strong for that.I'll too experienced to be shaken,while this is a new one though.Even though it's a little confusing(I've never experienced it before now),I'm trying to form a strategy from online and offline opinions).If you want to help me with advice,talk as equals,no insults.I don't fear like that,so you can't threaten or scare me.Find a way to refine everything you have written up there before now because you were just assuming lots of things.

Thank you.

Learn to take responsibility for your actions and stop the blame game. ..that's the first step to maturity. ...you will definitely go far in life if you learn this all important virtue......you started with the insults and name calling yet you blame me...take the blame for once....

I wish u luck mehn.....most successful men have gone through what you are currently going through. ...it's not new.....use this period to do some soul searching. ...work on yourself and emotions......but please no matter what may.....NEVER you go to beg your ex and her family......there is no dignity in begging. ...you should be open to counselling and dialogue but please no begging ...like I said...it's better to be seen as a wicked man than as a weak man.....

And NEVER ever be the one to file for divorce first.....let it go....live your life the way you want it.....it's pertinent you get a woman that will distract you from all these wahala....that way you will forget all these and move all.


All the best doreto. ....you will definitely survive this.

Blonchilli:
He sounds too familiar, if you've experienced first hand a man who is too high up his horse you would understand. Divorce is not the way forward, what he needs is healing and acceptance. Then work on himself before dating someone else and even if he does it won't hurt if he's picky about it. That aside you should open a marriage counseling blog or something , I'll be your number one fan

Thanks bro.

The doreto Guy is averse to genuine advice. ....we have been there. ..we know people that have been there.....all he needs is humility and we will teach him free of charge how to take charge of his life and even get his ex to start running back to him.....but mba. ..pride is still sharking him.

He will eat the humble pie last last...it's just a matter of time.

eyinjuege:
All these insults over what?
You really need to calm down. Nobody is against you here.
After the initial gragra, reality will set in.
Its not so hard to get a real life divorce lawyer for legal advice. NL may not be the best place to get proper extensive legal advice.
It wouldnt amount to much anyway, as they won't file your motion online for you, so you need a physical lawyer
That may be the best thing for you to do if you really mean business.
To get a lawyer, why not discuss with the lawyer representing the company you work for to refer you to a divorce lawyer? That's how to set things in motion, get the ball rolling.

I can bet with my balls that this guy will never file for divorce.....I also know that he has been begging his ex and her family low key but they have refused. ....I can bet that the guy finds solace on nairaland and is very lonely and bored in real life......nigggah is dying slowly. .....

Real men don't come online to look for lawyers....he just want who will plead with him. .... niggah will never do jack.

doreto:
And the coolcatty nonsense continues...

I will not give you relevance and I know it's painful to your low ego.

Ego keh. ...I know how it feels to beg and yet you were refused....don't worry...you go dey alright last last

kay50:
Honestly I feel for you and I truely understand what you are passing through. I am facing the same issue as you. My wife left me 3 years ago with my 2 kids. We have been having serious problems with the marriage. Very high headed woman, Not submissive, a big time gossiper, liar and a back stabber. But then I have moved on and I haven't seek for divorce yet. Some Women are meant to let go finally. Just move on bro if you can get her divorced go ahead in most cases reconciliation won't work. In my own case reconciliation failed. Thank God I have moved on and I have cut my loss. But am still take responsible for my 2 kids.

God bless you man.....leave that proud high headed doreto.

The guy is obviously frustrated. ..has a very big for nothing ego. ...he is angry with the world and doesn't want to take advise....he is looking for who to massage his ego....

He has no game....a man with game would have counted his losses by now and moved on....but no...dead nigggah wants to show his ex wife that he is done....a woman that is so far gone...and woman that has moved on sef. .that's who this doreto Guy wants to show pepper.

Smh....

doreto:
Another nonsense. I won't allow a slowpoke like you kill my thread.
Look at this useless non-entity.
Feeling relevant as if I even know him.Guy,you're faceless and I believe you're a jobless secondary school student on midterm break.You don't know me.So when you come online,go to the threads for video games.

doreto:
Another nonsense. I won't allow a slowpoke like you kill my thread.
Look at this useless non-entity.
Feeling relevant as if I even know him.Guy,you're faceless and I believe you're a jobless secondary school student on midterm break.You don't know me.So when you come online,go to the threads for video games.

Nigggah learn how to control your emotions ooo....you will lose big time and pay better money to your ex wife if you go to court with this kind of emotional imbalance....all you do is hurl invectives...man child.


Dull thing...who cares whether you are relevant or not?