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yettymuse:
I trust the Nigerian marital legal system, them go frustrate your life enh, you would wish you didn't even open a file. Hehehehehehe don't start what you can't finish young man. Your ex abi na wife is busy healing, building her life, retracting her steps and adjusting to reality. Na you go tire!

Drops mic!

I officially sign out of this thread!

No mind the guy

Instead of him to work and develop himself. ..he is busy looking for ways to revenge. ....

Pipedreams:
Coolcatty is making sense. But bigamy is 5years in jail

No bro......you don't have to do church/court marriage.

Marrying multiple women traditionally is not a crime

Having a live-in lover is not a crime too

Having baby mamas is no crime.


That nigggah needs a distraction. ....he needs a woman that will take his mind off his ex. ....that's what he needs now....not looking for divorce.
His wife is supposed to beg him for a divorce. ..not the other way round.

doreto:
I'm planning on getting a divorce at the earliest possible time.That sounds intelligent to me and within the ambit of the law.You can not let your sworn enemies find a loophole.If you get married to another woman without divorce of the initial marriage,it is a criminal offence,especially in a statutory marriage.In customary marriage ,that can be done.And that's the import of my thread: to display the wickedness of a registry marriage.

Let's look at your advice critically.Advising me to marry another wife 4 months after the end of a marriage will be counterproductive - you need to take a break,introspect,plan ahead,avoid a transitory relationship.

Discussing dissolution of marriage in Nigeria is not popular on a forum like this.So can't you think I might be fulfilling a need,if not for anything else,at least for knowledge.Obviously,like most Nigerians,subjects that require deep thoughts are untenable to you.

I'm not pleading with you to console me on my loss or otherwise,if any.I loved my wife.I don't love her now.I might love her later,posterity will tell.Let's focus on now.

If you can't make intelligent arguments please move to threads about Davido and his shenanigans.Thank you.

P.S. I expect you to delete that your aberrant post above as it exposes your ignorance and abysmal level of intelligence quotient.

More advice needed.

You are baby...I have been through more shiiit than u can ever imagine .....so when people like me talk babies like you should sit down with a jitter and pen and take notes.

You are gloating over a woman that has obviously moved on....opening thread upon threads to elicit sympathy. ....things don't work that way.....for you to stay 4 whole months alone without your wife finding a way to reach out to you and massage your lousy ego means that you have no game whatsoever. ....you are also gamelesss if you have not mastered or gotten the emotional strength to move on after 4months.


Humble yourself and learn.....seek advise and learn from people around you. ....no man with lovely character, charming do charisma files for a divorce first.....he would have moved on tey tey and will hardly remember he once had a wife......see the way that actress mimi was shouting all over social media begging her estranged husband to come and collect his brideprice. ...that's how real men behave. ....you ignore and move on...let nature take its cause.

yettymuse:
In whatever steps you want to take, in whatever way you want to show your muscles, in whatever pattern you want to announce to the world that you don't Give AF!ck...

NEVER! I repeat NEVER EVER!!!

now read that slowly... never ever go to COURT!!!!!!!!!

In the next 365days, You would look back at your actions and most likely punch yourself to death.

Allow nature take its natural course....

This advice is not by force o, make everybody farm their farm!

By the way, I hope you have the time and resource to waste on this your new venture (divorce), I for say make you use the time go hustle hard!

Please advise the man-boy with a loud mouth.

Pipedreams:
Did your uncle move on?

Niggah is married with 3 kids now....his 1st daughter is in jss2 now.

Pipedreams:
Bro watsapp me. I wana make a similar move. 08033951736

when is the best time to call ?

doreto:
I read somewhere that one can file for dissolution of marriage(divorce) 1 year after desertion(being abandoned) by a spouse.Can I explore this avenue?

Oga go and bring your wife back let's hear word.....you are obviously still in love with her. You still send this woman big time that's why you are here asking for a divorce. .....you need this woman more than she needs you....swallow your pride and go and beg her and her family.


A man that has moved on will not even bother about divorce. ...he will fall in love and find genuine happiness in the arms of another woman. ..get married to the new woman....your former wife is supposed to see your new wedding pictures on social media.

It's love struck men that file for divorce as revenge so that people will start counselling and begging you ....your woman is supposed to be the one filing for divorce and begging you to release her and come collect your brideprice sef so she can move on...forget this woman and move on if you can.


Stop disgracing real men jare

doreto:
After perusing this thread, weighting the pros and cons of courses of action as suggested by contributors, coupled with lots of self introspection as a result of the experiences while dating and marrying my ex,I have reached a decision to tow the path of honour.

To take my destiny in my own hands alone.To take the simple path and never look back.I will never be initiating reconciliation with my ex.

IDGAF. If they take the high road,help them pave it.Move on it is. Move on to the next. Move it must be.

According to some contributors, succeed. Success is the greatest attractor.

I must thank you all for your views and posts.

If it's hard,it's not working.Friction decreases efficiency,if I remember correctly.

I prefer simplicity in all my actions,that's mainly why I am taking this path. K.I.S.S.

Thank you all once again.

Have a splendid day, people!

Great decision bro...


My favourite uncle that had your kind of problems used to say..''it is better your inlaws sees you as a wicked man than a weak man''..never you appear weak to your inlaws..especially igbo inlaws

Let it go...take your time and fall in love again...good women dey....if that one doesn't work out..you try again..just keep trying.

Goodluck man

Preetiex:
didnt samson die becos of delila so it isnt a new tin if a man dies becos of his woman,dis guy is a half baked man. wallahi

Coming from a woman....this is huge.

Atk1nson:
Bros a wife that will leave you with Nigerian police by 11pm to go home even when she could easily help is worst than Jezebel.

Even Jezebel stood by Ahab

The n11ggah still thinks he has a wife....so if they ask all married men to come out my n11ggah adebayo will step out too??

Funny world...Adebayo doesn't know millions of widowers and single men are way way better and more relaxed than him....funny and sad at athe same time.

Adebayo4christ:
ABOUT FOUR WEEKS AGO WHILE WE WERE DRIVING HOME AROUND 11PM, POLICE ACCOSTED ME FOR DRIVING ON BRT LANE. THEY DEMANDED FOR 2K WHICH I DIDNT HAVE WITH ME. MEANWHILE, MY WIFE HAS MONEY WITH HER BUT GUES WHAT SHE DID, SHE LEFT ME THERE AND COLECTED THE HOUSE KEY FROM ME N WENT HOME. MY CAR WAS TAKING TO TASKFORCE OFFICE AND I ENDED UP PAYING 20K THE FOLLOWING DAY. WHEN I ASKED HER AFTER 4DAYS WHY SHE LEFT ME THERE, SHE SAID SHE HAS WARNED ME NT TO VIOLATE D LAW AND I SAID EVEN THOUGH I DID THAT, SHOULD SHE HAD ABANDONED ME WITH THE POLICE?

Niggah you are a single unmarried widower...Damn you are fukkked...get out of that house and flee.

That woman will kill you and your friends and family will sympathise with her.....see ehen..nigeria is a useless country...nobody cares to run an autopsy on a dead corpse...this one will just mix sniper in your food and you will die peacefully in your sleep.....i repeat..there is no brave macho man in the graveyard...pick a few of your personal effects and flee....you are dead meat.

Niggah Man....watch as that woman pushes you to bankruptcy.

A man that cannot stamp his feet down..is that one a man??

smh

Deprofessional:
Please, if you end this marriage, make sure you dont go into any relationship with any woman again.

My people have a proverb that goes this way: A woman that went to seven markets and fought in all the markets, is it that the people in the markets are the problem or she is the problem.

Bro. examine yourself, it is apparent you are the problem. Why on earth will you have 2 kids from different women? if you push this one out now, you will have three kids from three woman. Haba!

Marriage is for adults and not for kids.

Easy...you should even hail the OP for accepting his kids...some lame insane men will deny those kids and encourage their mothers to go for abortion......leave his past and advise him based on his present predicament.


@OP....mehn your case is pathetic..your woman has no iota of sympathy,compassion or respect for you and your people.....coolcatty is a firm believer in the saying ''An eye for an eye""......if i were you..i will swallow everything hook line and sinker...i wont even say a damn word of complain..i will chill and wait for my pound of flesh...you will definitely get your day...just try and return the favour in fullest force...do not take prisoners man...i hate insensitive people...just endure...your day will definitely come so you can pay her in her own coin.

OrestesDante:




∆ The way some deluded entities comment amaze me...

If he had given the man a wristwatch worth #200k there won't be noise... But because the car is obviously not new.. They'll find fault... ∆

Blame the useless blogger that overhyped the gift and even called it a brand new crv.


The guy try sha... E no easy

Shebi someone gave birth to this op??

What a waste of human skin and air.


See your reasoning.... Whoever raised u should be shot.

Tufiakwa

Location??

6UEE:
At this your age your mates are thinking of how to build their own house and not forming solidarity with never do well tenants like yourself.

Lame!!!!


U think everyone's problems is to build house and answer landlord??

Smh

onuwaje:
I knw how dis feels

Just yesternight i lost my elder sis
She slumped n died


At d age of 33

And u get mind still come nairaland??

Anchor84:
Lol,how much is 2017 wen u want to sell dis one for 35m

Ignore the iiiiidioot.... Pay him no heed abeg

Armour:
This officer is a wife beater in making ...This man should not be only sanctioned but be also sent to guard room for months. On no account should a reasonable and sane man beats a woman. It's purely madness display of highest order. I do not support that women being ill-mannered and unruling either

Iiiiidioot

Running your putrid mouth like a tap


Talking rubbish all the time

Iiiiidioot

DukeNija:
Long enough. Pls don’t act desperate cos they will take advantage of you. If they want their daughter to remain married they must also act it. She’s not exactly a wife material anyways so if the marriage crashes you’ll have your peace of mind. In fact, let them be the ones to contact you cos I’m sure at some point, they’ll be tired of her in that house. Lol
This is an opportunity for you to set things straight in your marriage. She also has to show interest in the marriage and then you both can come to the negotiation or whatever table and talk about the way forward.
Please just let them be for now, while you focus on how to ameliorate your fathers condition.

Spot on..

This was exactly what I told the op.... Ignore... Expect the worse... But no matter what... Do not call or look for her.

It's ur call... This is an opportunity to get things right... You either get it right now or loose it completely.

What's dbanj doing on that pitch?

Replace him with flavor jare

Readonee35L:
E go hard o .
With that price tag.
Never import cars like this for resale unless you intend to use it yourself .

I pity the guy

Last last na 3m he go sell the car.

Mumu post

See as everyone just ignored you and your Mumu post.

Brainless man.... Asking and talking rubbish online

perry2020:
If u do not have the resources to help or do not want to help ,learn to comFort or help with the words of ur mouth,ur living comfortably doesn't mean others are,u have no idea what people go tru.
If it was by hardwork then the labourers would be the richest....only the blessing and mercy of the lord maketh one rich and addeth no sorrow

You are indeed kind hearted.... I love u already.

bitcoinmilliona:
@coolcaty i just wanted peace thats why i went but never again. can we talk on wats app

Drop ur number.. Will buzz u

I'm so vexed... Why will you even go to ur inlaws for assistance??... That's a huge no no.... You are just too fooolish and weak.

Even if you cheated, beat her etc... They shouldn't subject u to such shame and disgrace.... God curse the day I will allow any of my inlaws to talk down or me no matter my crime.


See ehen.. You need to regain your honor and glory... Ignore them and your woman for years.. Go and get ur life back... Don't call anyone... Be scarce and if u see a better woman in future.. Then marry her.

Fccck u man

Muuumu OP

You have absolutely no shame or ego.... See the way your supposed inlaws are hounding you around... Shameless man.

What in fcccccks name did u go to do in their house?... You are too docile and weak.... No wonder they are riding you.... I feel like hitting you to stupor.

They have taken away your supposed wife, pride and ego....what else do you have??

Rubbish man.... You just messed up

sdbaba:
But Coolcatty said this is a 2006 and not a 2008 model as posted by you and you never said anything so I'm assuming its a 2006 Model. Moreover its a Naija used ride not direct Tokunbo so I don't think my offer is that bad as you try to make it look.

Anyways I'm interested in it if you're willing to sell.

The car is 2006...look at the door and front bumpers.... No shinny grill or stainless door lines.

2.3m is fair price for this car

Airforce1:
Jealous people

They've brought tribalism into these because the slayking is from the East.

Why are these people so jealous of the Easterners

They are coming for u fam

Walk away bro..... Trust me

She will get worse with time.

Take a very long walk and don't look back.... With time u will meet that woman that meets at least 80% of ur criteria.

This former musician..... What does he know?

The niggggah just want to trend.

Africans should stop disgrace going and embarrassing themselves for goodness sake.


See what someone is constructing in 2017 and expects to be applauded... They should go and see what small small I. T students are doing outside the shores of this country.


Lazy docile black people