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Please I need car gurus to help suggest the best car between Ford edge 2012 and ml350 2008 model.

Kindly factor in the availability and low cost of spare parts, cost maintenance as I intend using it for my daily commute and mechanics.

Abeg make una help ur guy.

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Gazzuz
Lexus
Valrianz
Deportivo
Etc

tintingz:
Unfortunately this isn't even the true, I'm not supporting tiwa either, I watched the video I didn't see an angry woman but an emotionally down woman, while teebillz was on his way to the lagoon to commit suicide. According to my psychological reasoning, teebillz was guilty of what happened, he was even the one that expose the marriage clash in media.

So which study is that? In fact in study I found it says people that got angry are most times the ones being honest because they are frustrated and pour out their mind. But I don't hold to any of these studies as truth can't be judge on ones reaction or emotion.

Women tends to express thier emotions than men, I guess that was what happened in Tonto and Churchill saga, I don't believe in any of them stories but we can't deny Tonto who was frustrated was all lying and no true in her words?, she gave evidence of her bruises.

Oga... U need to learn to know the difference between '' angry and disgruntled ''.... That's the first step... Then we can discuss... You are just running round in circles and it's mentally draining...... You believe tontoh because she showed u her bruises but u forgot the same tonto posted pictures of cars, diamonds, phones etc gifted to her by the same husband she has been denigrating...... You tend to believe an emotionally imbalanced woman..... It's ur call.

tintingz:
TeeBillz was only the manager of Tiwa(I don't know if he's still the one), so even if I agree with you that teebillz sold his car to finance tiwa's music videos, are you saying tiwa hasn't pay her dues? So all her shows-profits hasn't clear the so call car? Is the deal not on agreement?

According to her, TeeBillz spent the money gain from the shows lavishly and even the family account on edible catering and cuting his hair while tiwa is working day and night in the studio to produce good music and mind you tiwa can get another manager. Now tell me who's doing the work here?

Oga.. Why will u believe a disgruntled woman's words?


Why will u do that?.... Studies have shown that an angry woman spews thrash and lies 98% of the time... All her words are spewed via hate and anger with her only aim being to revenge.... Take the case of tonto dikeh and Churchill...

tintingz:
This is a open forum, anybody can contribute.

I take this as fallacy.

Take example of Tiwa and TeeBillz saga and tell me what you think.

Bro, it's a huge sin for one to believe the rantings of a disgruntled scorned woman..... It takes a person without any iota of reasoning faculty to believe a man like teebillz that sold his car to finance tiwa's music videos will not provide money for ordinary pampers and baby food.

tintingz:
Are you literally saying a rational debate or argument doesn't exist or people shouldn't engage in this?

It is not by force to respond to the OP.


@bold, Same goes for the husband, it goes both ways.

Why have a debate and waste everyone's time and data when the Op already have a stamped opinion?

Most husbands are selfless... They may be proud etc but they spend 95% of their income on their wife and kids with literally nothing for themselves while most financially buoyant women spend on their kids but hardly spend in their indigent husbands.... So ur opinion that it goes both ways is null and void...

alexialin:
Well buhari is NOT my husband. And the role of buhari to this country is different from the role of my husband at home.

U can't compare politics or duties in the workplace to duties at home.

A man has always been the head irrespective of whether he has money or not.
Anybody that's rich be it man or woman is not by our power at all.
It's either by the grace of God or by the grace of the devil.

So if I am successful more than my husband? It's not because I have two heads and he has one head, neither is it because am the only one who knows how to work smart and see results. Everything in this life is by backed up by Grace . And not only by Individual powers.

Anyways av been taught from my teenage years, a Man is always the head of the home. While the wife is his support system.

I will still care ,love and respect him, knowing fully well he will become successful once again, and someday.

If my husband and kids are happy. I am happy and my business will flourish.
But if my husband is not happy but depressed due to my actions towards him cause he has no money for nw, it will affect my business and state of mind.

And that's why am very careful not to make a mistake of marrying a drama king, or a sadist.
Such kind of men can't even date, how much more settle down with.


So for me o, I don't know of other women out there.

My husband remains the head of our home through thick or thin, in richness or in poverty, sickness and in good health. He's the head.

Shikena.

I love u... I'm serious

May God bless you and grant you a hard working and selfless man.... Amen.

tintingz:
Interesting, so as the wife you did the responsibility your husband suppose to have done but he still deserve the head of the house?

If Buhari didn't do the responsibilities as the president but he is responsible in character and tries to break through, does he deserve to be the head of state, will you vote him in next election?

No sane person should answer your question since you already have a mindset of your own.


But note that life is like a pendulum.... The rich proud arrogant wife today may be poor, desolate tomorrow and will definitely need the husband.... Money and power is a visitor and will definitely visit everyone someday.

Nellychinma20:
Hey dude ,I never said that
Two wrong doesn't make a right .

That's what u implied... You didn't reprimand the girl for acting childish by dropping off her ring, squealing to her friends and family that she dumped the "terrible guy" etc

I expected ur analysis to be just and fair... Sorry but u sound biased.

Nellychinma20:
U really sound childish ,sorry to say
And your own side of the story is really not convincing enough
U trying to tell us u were in good terms and yet she did that
U not matured enough for marriage ,so cos she dropped the ring u now have to send the rest of her belongings away .
And even have the guts to say u sent her out of ur house from the look of things she's being staying with u but u asked her to leave.
And u took back the phone u got her as a gift.
You remind me of when I was 7,I did just that too
Anyway obviously u don't even know what u want.

Women and drama.... So the woman that dropped the ring is matured abi??


Smh.....

Where are the feminist and all those delusional women and semi-men??....they should come and defend this erratic woman...... If it were a man they would have advised him to walk away... Let's hear what they will say now.

Kaiiii


Churchill dey chop better food sha.... See this rose girl... See thick legs and laps....

Jesu!!!!

So many sick irresponsible female on this post.... Rubbish human beings.

@op....the man has apologized... Let her be... I always tell my wife... I will never debase myself before I'm forgiven... I will apologize 6times at different intervals and that's it... Even if she doesn't accept it or not... I will never talk about the issue again.


Allow her to stay in her father's house.. Let her enjoy and have fun... Someday she will calm down and then the ball will be in ur court... Then u will do and undo....my dad will always say that anger doesn't last forever... Just calm down... The woman head go clear.

delishpot:
I am not disrespecting your reservation, of what use are we if we can not try to make others see 5uings from our point of view too? Na wa sha. So if someone tries to make you see things from another angle, it means they are disrespecting your reservation? Is that the mindset you have? Ngwanu, no vex.

Sincere apologies if I sounded harsh... No vex abeg.....

But I'm talking from personal experience...i will never support anyone that adopts a child to succeed him.... You can adopt a child to help impact on the society... But not for the child to succeed u... Most adopted kids are ungrateful, rude and insolence and will leave their adopted parents in future to look for their real parents.

I don't have time for that kind of drama jare.

delishpot:
Tainted bloodline doesnt exist. It is just your ego making that claim. Even your own child can turn wild while an adopted one will care for you like he is your blood. Tame your ego and work with open heart and hand.

I rather deal with my kids ego and wahala than cope with an adopted child's good deeds.... Heck I will be so damn disappointed if my child doesn't inherit my legendary intelligence and stubbornness.....

I have my reservation towards adoption.... Kindly respect it.

Regards

delishpot:
Because e better for you na.... if you were unfortunate to need someone to take you in as a young child I am sure you would not be happy to hear someone discourage who wants to adopt you with those words. Such is life.

I understand where u are coming from but I rather get my trusted brother to donate his semen than opt for adopting a total stranger with tainted bloodline.

thorpido:
You actually should have commented on what you understand
That you don't believe in doption does not annul the legality of it.Adoption is backed up by law.
Did you read that the man initiated the process of adoption before he died and it was not the woman's idea alone?

Oga it's my opinion... I don't believe in it no matter the legal or societal acceptance attached to it..... I don't fancy it... It's my belief... Same way gayyys disgust me despite the acceptance some people give it in so many countries.


I rather remain childless or get my blood brother to donate his semen than opt for adoption... God forbid

thorpido:
Culture sometimes hinders justice.An adopted son is a son.
Let the court decide.

Say what u know.... I don't believe in adoption.... I rather have all female kids than adopt a son..... Let no one come and spoil my bloodline as I don't know the bloodline of the adopted child.


The woman messed up by adopting a son after her husband's death... She should have insisted on the properties bequeathed to her daughters....


Let the properties be bequeathed to the daughters of the man.... Most daughters are more useful than male kids sef....let the court reprimand the woman for adopting a child after the man's death and give all the properties to the female kids.

This Willie is always looking high and lost.....

valarinz:
Hmmm

And how did you reach the conclusions that there are no "competent" Volvo mechanics in Lagos, i'm eager to learn

I doubt if there is... My former boss used to have an S6 or something like that... She complained bitterly about the dearth of good mechanics.... I love this suv but mehn.... No one wants to buy wahala jare.

tamethem:
e pain am

Lol.... Go and make peace man

tamethem:
You are mentally derailed and you dont deserve to be among the living for this kind of reply you gave me you may not livë to see the coming new year.

Did I insult you. How on earth do you think you can just be raining insult on ppl on the internet without knowing who they are. I didnt insult you. Did I?

Was it stated the husband of the lady said he was not aware of her getting loan from the guy?
The husband said he knows the guy as the one loaning his wife and her sister.

You can mention me to sick mods like you who wouldnt follow the trend of replies before banning.

You and the Baboos that gave birth to you are sick.

Get lost... Who is asking for all these rubbish explanations from a degenerate like u?

U r dull... Grossly dull... That's not in contention.... And let's see who will not see the coming year.

tamethem:
How do you mean? So she shouldnt have collected loan becos the husband is alive or because married women or men are not supposed to collect loan.

Sorry im not understanding. Its obvious the lady needs loan because she needs money for business and her husband doesnt have the kind of amount.

Is it collecting loan from another person as a married woman that is a crime or the husband not being able to give her the sum she needs.

Please explain your question

Dullina... Whoever gave u access to a smartphone should be tied to a stake and shot..... You obviously see nothing wrong with a supposed married woman going to collect loans without her husband's knowledge.....Something she didn't discuss with her husband..... How do u guys reason?

Sammiejokes:
My oga sorry to say, u are the mumu ladies take advantage of because your wife has no respect or fear of you at all. You saw a man in your wife's car after rejecting ur offer to carry her and you did not order her back home with your kids. Bro I must say u be mumu. You better Man up before one Segun destroy your home.

I love you brother.... I swear I do... Pls do u stay near ajah?... I promise to take u out this weekend for this ur wonderful comment..... Best regards

Nawaoh... Seems I will have to improve and treat wifey better than I have done in the last 6months.... She deserves it walahi..... See Wetin my fellow man dey go through all in the name of marriage..... Wow... Wow

Oga that guy is bannging ur woman... U can rue all u want but like someone suggested... Go and run a DNA test on ur supposed kids.... I sorry for you walahi.

How are wish there are competent Volvo mechanics in Lagos.... It's just sad

I will be so so disappointed if a man of kanu's caliber and societal standing does not have disappear and appear jazz... The igbos call it odu ona..... So many rich men posses it... Even small small cultists in the university have one..... So I believe kanu must have disappeared during the military invasion..... If not... Then I'm disappointed in him walahi.

JayCynic:
This guy never receive punch from SARS officer yet, the day him receive am, im go no say Buhari na Hausa man

My brother.. I went with a friend to bail someone that was arrested by FSARS guys... O boy... As I enter compound.. I realized that truly one doesn't need to have all the money in the world to realize that God is faithful... Chaiii... That place is not a good place at all... The torture they mete out to boys there will turn even the devil to a Saint.

I can understand how u feel bro... 6yrs is not beans walahi... I can relate to all u are saying after investing time, money, emotions etc... Ur greatest fear is the fear of starting afresh and trusting another woman after your experience..... I have been through that shiiit but trust me... You go dey alright last last..... I didn't really feel mine cos I was the one that did the cheating and had to beg and plead for forgiveness for a whopping 6months but she refused...

So calm down... Ask ursef if you can forgive... If not just move on... U will meet someone some day.

AverageAnnie:
you've been trying to see your son......U never serious sha

He may be right... So many vindictive and vengeful ex use their children to blackmail and antagonize their ex husbands..... Try and go to any custody law session and marvel at the extent vindictive women go to deprive their ex husbands access to their own children..... And trust me... Tonto seems like a vindictive unstable vengeful person... And she can use the son as a tool.

Cheating is very bad... Very very bad.... I lost one of the nicest, sweetest adorable soul in 2012 due to cheating. We were so in love and I took her for granted... She had caught me once, I apologized and the second time she looked at me and took a walk.... I begged, pleaded, sent emissaries etc but she was gone....very bad experience for me.......... God gave me another chance and I got married to an awesome woman that I will never cheat on..... I have had so many near cheat experiences but mehn... It's not worth it.



I will never forgive a cheating spouse... Never.. And in the event that I'm caught via messages, recorded calls etc... I will never confess or own up.. It's better I leave people that will judge the case with some level of doubt .. I will only confess if there is a video recording of me in the act or if I was caught red handed.... I don't wanna lose my wife,I will just enter depression one time if she leaves my sorry a.r.se.

Dahyormine:
since sunday we neva hear anytin from Mr man, e be like say ogbeni don carry jombo!
sha dnt go near lagos lagoon.

Mehn... Hiv test is crazy... Remember when I was going for my marriage course... The church wanted us to do the hiv in the church hospital at the same time... Wifey was team no seeex till marriage.... Omoh I excused myself and quietly went to a nearby clinic... Did the test and came back to the hospital with enough confidence to last me a lifetime.....those were the longest 1hr of my life.... I promised God heaven and earth if he saved me...He saved me.. . But we are all men and prone to sin.

itsene:
Lies and adultery will crash any marriage, I don't care how much you spend!

Lies, adultery (in the case of the woman.. A man will be forgiven), and domestic violence.

Regards