₦airaland Forum

Yyeske:
You have no right to talk about him since true sons and daughters of Omambala are settled with Obiano

More like true aguleri sons and daughters have settled for him..... Bia leave matter.... Go and mark it somewhere Willie is not coming back... The election is a clear race between osita chidoka and oseloka obaze.

Yyeske:
Allow ndi Omambala to speak for themselves please

So I look like a calabar man to u abi?

PaulOgenyi:
Ugly dirty woman, you said you are from Oyigbo, Rivers but you have not commented on disaster happening in your cursed town. Stop commenting on Anambra matter because you are not from Anambra but a cursed old woman from Rivers state. How do you know between Obi and Obiano who's better? As much as I know that Obi tried his best but Obiano is a better governor than Obi. Obiano is the best so far followed by Ngige and then Obi. As for this election, Obiano will win with a landslide. Go and write today's date.

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How do u feel after spewing all these diatribe?

You feel awful right.... You feel you messed up and lack self control..... You realize that the lady you quoted didn't insult u...

You feel guilty... Do the right thing and apologize.... It won't cost u anything man.

Regards

Smh

This marriage is so so heading to the rocks.... See massive red flag.

10k bet that this marriage won't get to 1year mark.

Who's betting with me on this?

Gosh..... I took time to read your write up and I'm appalled at your patience, siiilly understanding and gross docility..... A woman that you are not yet married to..... Ur case is indeed serious.

Stories like this touches the softest part of my soul and makes me lift my hands in gratitude and appreciation to God for blessing me with a woman that is the best among women.... I will forever love, cherish and adore my wife till my dying days.

Let your friend show remorse as long as it will take.... He needs to satisfy his conscience that he has truly atoned for his sin... If the girl and her family refuses.. Then he should take a walk and learn from his mistakes never to hit a woman no matter the provocation.


My policy in life is to apologize where necessary... I don't believe someone has to roll and crawl on the ground before the person should be forgiven.... Just apologize and satisfy your conscience... Then move on... Life will definitely go on.

Kaiiii..... I honestly and sincerely pity this man.... A woman did this to him... And she is not even showing any iota of remorse..... Kaiiii.... May God give him the grace to overcome this wahala that he gladly inflicted on himself... Amen.

Let this be a lesson to all men.... We all learn from other people's downfalls and mistakes.

mctowel01:
Abeg what did you survive in 2010?

My brother..... You won't understand.... I believe what the op is going through is just a minute fraction of what I went through in 2010....but here I stand.... It was a sad experience.....

blessgreg:
madam u are looking for trouble where there is none. height of ungratefulness to d president.

You lack morals and won't go far in life with this your mentality......

Loyalty is everything.... My respect for this woman just grew by 300%..... She is a ride or die chic like my wife.


God bless you hajia hassan..... U r appreciated.

silkytouch:
Na wa oO
See as boys don use hunger and agro wey de their eye brutalise these niggies...check out lumps!!

But...which kind dogs go gree make thieves comes thief them? A whole security officer of the animal kingdom!

Lazy dog, see as en even pose yakata for the thief body.

O boy you get mouth sha.... I don laugh sotey people think I'm mad..

Hahahahaha.... I had to go and look at the pictures again... Walahi that dog is very useless... See the way e pose for the thief body...... Chaiiii....

tiredoflife:
I ve a sick father.....the pain that I can't help is so much....I don't know how I will feed today....God what did I do wrong.....why all these issues.....when I am trying to correct it all.....I messed things up more.

tiredoflife:
yes there is fear.....pain....regret.....I am beginning to lose my mind......its over.....I will walk away.....to a far place to take my life in a lonely bush.....hope they don't find my body

You are still alive Oga.... Lol

See ehen... If what you came here to do is elicit sympathy from faceless people then you have failed woefully.... You have to realize that nobody truly cares.... You have to get up and help yourself... Not about coming online to rue about your misfortune... Everyone has a story... A bad one at that.... I always tell people, if I can survive what I survived in 2010..then there is absolutely nothing no one will not survive.


Go and help yourself... Pray often too... Stop looking for sympathy here... No one truly cares guy.

Hmmmmh

Big kudos to your cousin for even agreeing to live under the same roof with her..... I applaud him walahi... The guy try nobi small....... I for sure won't even stay under the same roof with her or have anything to do with her..... I detest a cheating wife..... I prefer my wife has a foul mouth(all women do sha).... I will gladly forgive my wife if she tries to poison or kill me and I survive than a woman cheating on me...

The marriage should be dissolved for the sake of the man's sanity..... It can never be repaired.... Let that man not use frustration and anger and kill the woman in her sleep...... Ask your cousin (or even u, I suspect u r the man) to take a walk... He can never heal.

EfemenaXY:
I was going to say I understand your plight, and offer you some words of advice until I saw this:



Bunch of jokers everywhere.

Madam judgina.... Innocent odinkemelu..... Clap for ur sef..... This is all you can say to a distressed woman.... A woman like u... Smh.

You can see that she is disturbed by her husband's nonchalant attitude... I bet the husband does not even have time for her and her kids... So yes she is distressed hence the need she is seeking for friends online..... Stop judging her... Advise her or stfu.


@op...the worst thing that can happen to a woman is to marry a lazy, docile, uncaring man... A man that doesn't care about what people say or how his family feeds is worse than a responsible woman beater... My beloved mom will always say one should marry someone that has a little bit of shame.... It's worse when ur spouse is shameless and doesn't give a hoot how people perceive him.

Your husband is so so far gone and it will take the grace of God to make him responsible....just focus on your kids and get a nice boyfriend that lives like 13miles from your home... You deserve to be happy... Make urself happy... Life is meant to be enjoyed.. Not endured.

Poor kid with his unusual sense of entitlement.... See how proud you even write... As if we all owe you 5k....you just come here.. Scribble some jargons and expect someone to boom send 5k to you just like that.... Miserable blockhead.


5k is a whole lot of money... An average laborer that spends 8hrs at a building site... Carry blocks and bags of cement... Mixing concrete earns less than 5k after all the stress... Yet u just want someone to send u 5k just like that.. With this ur nasty attitude and foul mouth.

Poor indigent thing.

VeniJu:
In life, there is no free money and I don't believe in such a phrase. I only asked for help. it doesn't mean I am lazy. read my post again. I've been trying my best, thinking I'll meet up the deadline.

Labourer work is 5k a day... Do it for just 2 days and you get your 10k in full.


Stop disgracing yourself and lineage here... Go get busy Mr man.

blank:
Not nice.

Ok

Gullible human being

Is this still available?

gbaliciousgbali:
oya go put head now. Give am head to neutralize the jazz

I don't mind feeling the warmth of the olori's lips on my fully erect amuuu..... Nothing will happen.... All these ur superstitions are fake as Felicia

Nice lips... Will definitely feel it's warmth on my amuuu someday..... Same with that Regina Daniels..... Two of my conquest before I die.

Welcome back to the hustle and bustle life of the singles....

thorpido:
Funny thing is by tradition,she can't re-marry.

Says who??

Guy bone that talk... This woman is a Benin woman.... She can do and undo..... There are tons of men with better jazz neutralizers that will sleep with her and nothing will happen.

Stop with all these unfounded baseless superstitions.

Only 1m?

It's not even up to 0.01% of the bribe the IGP was accused of collecting.....

babythug:
MrBrownjay1

Literally you're asking him to abandon his mum because she's under financial strain for now?

Chai na wa oh!

babythug:
OP sorry about this situation.

Look for jobs/ opportunities in your locality so that you also minimize or eradicate transport costs.

Offer people home lessons in mathematics, accounting and the likes!

Check car washes for openings, fast foods may need an accountant

What can your mum do? Even if petty trading? Can you turn to her relations?

Good luck and this too shall pass

babythug:
This is an insensitive comment and its because you haven't walked in the OP's shoes before!

Just what if the dad is being geninuely unfair eg he's married* another woman into the family they should accept it because he has the upper hand financially?

Gullible thing

chiraqDemon:
Well I've always thought a man should put his kids b4 himself till they r old enough to take care of themselves, that includes fuvkiing up his sanity because of them. Idk ppl have different views on these things

U r right.... Thats if u have a considerable and sane spouse... But when an insane woman wants to use emotional blackmail on u... Using ur kids to mess up ur brain and life... It's best u allow her to keep the kids.... My happiness is key... It supercedes my children anytime any day.

Regards

Kaiiii..... People dey see things for this life sha....

Let her take ur son.... Ur major priority now should be how to get ur sanity back.... And u need to be successful in life cos that's the only thing that will make Ur son look for u in future regardless of all the hate and vile your wife and her family have imbibed in him..... Become a governor, president, oil magnet or wealthy and your child will definitely look for u himself.


You dug ur pit man... Enjoy the supposed warmth and coldness of your pit..... Imagine going to stay with her in the hospital.... Or even allowing her mom into ur house repeatedly after all she has done.....u r a wuss iiiiidioot...... Get lost jare.

Unimaginable123:
that magun doesn't work. I can tell u with certainty

Pls clarify Me....are u so so sure..?.... Make person no go make headline news for Linda ikeji blog

chiraqDemon:
The kids might not look for him cos surely she will tell them that he abandoned them. And what that will cause is hatred. Besides how does one walk away from his kids and then sleep at night with both eyes closed.

Bro, just pray situations doesn't turn u into a carefree beast... Most ex are very bitter people and will definitely instill hate into their kids regardless of how nice the father is..... I suggest the guy takes a walk and reappears say when the kids are matured enough to make decisions for themselves.

Life is tough and one had to get tougher to survive... The man's sanity and sound mind is of topmost priority here.

gloria34:
brother, u can't imagine the kind of lies dat woman will fill those kids wit if truly she she is what her husband describes. when u luv ur kids, such thoughts can kill u

The guys sanity and sound mind should be topmost priority now... The kids will find him in future.... Life is hard but we are harder.

yaqq:
young man! u don't need a court here! take the law into ur hand! look for them, hunt she n her mum, beat them to stupor, take away ur kids, let her be the one to take u to court! man up!

Things like this happens to slow calm people.... This kind of problem will see men like us and pass us by.... The wahala will avoid insane gra gra people like us and go to trouble sane calm guys..... It's sad.

For the woman to disobey court summons twice shows the kind of person she is... She like trouble pass food.

The man should just take a walk... Abandon the kids too and go and start afresh... The woman is not worth all the stress.... His kids will look for his in future... His major concern now is to get his sanity back.

1Sharon:
So you would have preferred he go for a young girl instead of a woman on his level?

My dear... He needs a woman with zero financial baggage.... He should flee from single mothers for now... He is poor

pius29:
Nobody wey no fit to make am oo. Don't judge what you don't know.

U are talking off key here..

ShyCypher:
My parents are alive and doin' quite well, thank you very much. Both of them.

Very childish & cowardly comment.

The way and manner you reply every damn word thrown at you validates the claim that u have never spent a full month with a woman..... Oga u lack experience and cannot handle a woman.....

You just displayed the first sign of a woman beater by exchanging words with every Tom dick and Harry.... From exchanging words the next thing is to slap ur woman,then comes the blows.

Real men don't talk much... They just ignore and allow women to run their God given mouth... But u.. A mega wuss will reply every damn word and still get beaten....

Love his sense of humor.

Life is too stressful to be antagonistic and bitter

Kudos pator

czarina:
Aunties, make una take it easy.... I think he was trying to be modest tho... I don't believe a single man in his forties would still be trying to make ends meet... He should be relatively comfortable. #My thoughts

Hell yeah... Then how can a reasonable man come online to advertise for a woman at 42yrs?.... Never been married... Not settled.... Looking for a single mother or matured woman... Not even a young girl... The guy get issues walahi... It's his type that kills a woman's destiny.