MorningStar233:

Yes I have

MorningStar233:


Its ok, I don't mind

MorningStar233:


Its hard but what will I do, I have decided to let go...the will of God will be done

MorningStar233:
Oh God, wahala everywhere..... My bf does not apologize cha cha, he lied to me that he's single when he was asking me out only for me to find out he is in a relationship that his family members are even aware of, I've been shattered for days now and he is not even remorseful at all, I just keep loving the wrong people...I will hold mind and stay on my own, I will not die

Sharpshooota:
People still watch nollywood

With no suspense and substance

Watch 10mins and predict the whole outcome

Infact from the pictures.. Let me summarize the movie
I. K meets poor mercy Johnson that sells mama put
He goes extra length to convince her that he loves her
She later agree.. They Wed... Happily ever after.. The end

Nogodye:
Even when you treat some women right,they still display their arrongance...Its part of them.

tsephanyah:
Empty vessels



“Some people might try to tell you that it’s a banana. They might scream, ‘Banana, banana, banana,’ over and over and over again. They might put BANANA in all caps. You might even start to believe that this is a banana. But it’s not. This is an apple.”


019 sai Baba

ManirBK:
GOD BLESS ECOWAS CHAIRMAN
GOD BLESS NPOWER
GOD BLESS NIGERIA

dopemama:
We hear.... Lost my dad yesterday... So sad

chloride6:


I'm coming to 35 marina to arrest you.

ultimate77:
Sometime ago in February, I created a thread as this, major advice I received was "let her go and start a new life" I knew that was what I wanted. But still holding to the egoistic, non respectful, unrepentant, unapologetic and blanked brain girl... I loved her without boundaries... Same thing OP mentioned here are her qualities.

Gave all. In my power.. Well, that is by the way now, though I cried my eyes out but walking away was the best option. I even had to observe marriages from elderly people. Coupls married for sometime now so I can treat her well. But this girl will never even bother learning anything new even after knowing i want to house her.. Gosh!!! So annoying...

Well, I moved and today, though I'm still searching for a fair skinned respectful Yoruba or delta or even kaduna lady to marry, I'm happy that girl is out ofy life.. I can't even stop thanking God. I would have had HBP.

Bro... I swear, you just have to move on, take that bold step, I know it's never easy.. Mine was 3years, your race is just 2. Just try, ATTITUDE IS DIFFICULT TO CHANGE ESP. WHEN THE POSSESOR IS NOT INTERESTED IN KNOWING IF THEY ARE POSSESING IT.

just move on. Bone the girl. You will be strong eventually just like I am right now. Cheers man.

Areaboyfriend:


Bro I have been there. And I know how this feels. You are really into her and trying to hard to make your relationship with her workout, while she's of the carefree attitude.
See it is either she doesn't genuinely love you and making good use of the situation ( to her gains) or she's seeing someone else and wants to frustrate you out of her life. These days, people hardly say "break up", they act it!
The earlier you get this into your head the better. You are trying so hard because she's doesn't want to stay with you bro. Okay ask yourself.
What has she done for you?
What efforts is she putting in the relationship?
I bet if things go wrong today, she would gladly move on and you would be Stucked still in the begging syndrome.
You deserve better my man. Read the signs and use your head on time.

Angy55:


All the best. Do have a pleasant night.

Angy55:


I feel your pain bro. Just try and relax, cool off a bit. Look for something to distract yourself. Don't communicate her for like a week and see her reactions.

Newbielearner:
You have been all over her. I can perceive you have been telling hher she's one special angel.
Your world has been full of imaginative thoughts. You can even see her carrying your kids.

She already knows all this. Then her real character can unveil. You should be grateful this happened.
You just have to leave her for a while (no attention ). She wouldn't bulge at first. Later, she would start displaying an humble character towards you. It's their dragonian principle. Because you love her, you would forget all her wrongs, and ignore the warning signals.
In marriage, you have to love your wife. Thus, you would inevitably experience worse than this after marriage. Your type is one of those men who after marriage lost their creativity because the tamer is at home. You would enjoy it when Lagosians traffic delays you from getting home early from work. You'd better heed this warning signs and pick race.
However, you cannot ascertain if my advice is right, until you marry her, and your kids start telling you that they would report you to mummy

BecaciaBarbie:
Hummmmm.....from experience, I'd love to hear her own side of the story. But if you truly she is egoistic, something I dislike so much....mehn....i can't encourage you to go on with any marital plans and yes it sucks so much, when you have to apologize every time for her own wrongs even...she is slowly making you weak! I used to have a boyfriend with same character when i was a teenager, life was miserable with him yet I didnt want to let go, but when I finally did....it felt like I just got out of a bondage.
I won't advise you break up with her, but I'd advise you withdraw yourself emotionally.

Angy55:


It's a red flag that she's tired of you. She's trying to put up attitude, so that when you get tired and break up, she would see an excuse to say 'you broke up'. and start shedding crocodile tears.

The decision now is yours to take.

lilmax:
its not odd for a man to apologize, its just stupid for a man to apologize for what he didn't do

you have given her the ego, so deal with it

delugajackson:
You are obsessed with that lady my friend, and emotional obsession is the worst form of slavery. The moment you started apologizing for her wrong doings was the moment she lost respect for you.

If she can't get off her high horse and take responsibility for her actions, then I'm afraid the journey you're embarking on will not only be a terrible one, but a miserable one as well. This is just a tip of the iceberg, marriage might be worse, and you will still create another monicker to whine about your egoistic wife.

Stop begging her, stop apologizing for some bullshít, stop acting like a whimp. Man up and grow some fúcking balls. Women love possessive men with that "I don't give a fúck attitude" and sometimes a bad áss behaviour. Be a man and show her who's boss! If she fails to succumb, then you have every right to kick her áss out the window.

milemimi93:


I never said u are a playboy. I was just wondering why you'd create a new moniker just to post your problem and seek for advice like is there anyone here paying ya bills or what?

No hard feelings bruv

SIRTee15:


The above is the koko.....
That girl doesn't love u the way u love her....
Worse still, it doesn't seem she fully appreciate ur love...
My guy, u gonna find it hard to tame that girl n I seriously doubt she will ever be fully submissive to u....
My advice is don't burn urself out....
Gradually withdraw n begin to draw limit to how much emotional attachment going into the relationship....
I know the above is difficult but it's better than getting exhausted n then u become frustrated due to unreciprocated love....
If u take the above steps, she will definitely notice the change....
Her response will determine ur next action....

Hector09:
Nawa u even apologizes for her wrong doing, maybe am nt human thats why i can not luv cus i see this type of thing as a sign of weakness and iberiberism

milemimi93:


First of all, it was needless creating a new moniker because the said lady since she's on NL, when she sees this thread she will know the person behind the moniker. Also you shouldn't give a fvck about nairalanders what they gon say or do. Or is there any nlder u are dating that prompt u to create a new moniker so she won't know you have a real girl in the real world?

Now to your matter, give her a little chance. Everybody deserves a second chance. Her character is what most ladies possessed.

Netanyahu1:
If you see the signs please move on, 90% of people don't change in marriage they remain who they are .

In other words if you feel irritated by her now you most likely will be during marriage.

2buffagain:
Bitch-made men everywhere...

Caring0:
I hate when a girl refuses to let me give her head ehn especially if she is someone I am dating and really in live with.

Giving a girl head makes me feel like a amb just eating her all out watching her scream
Eat her for*30 mins and make her scream she must respect you

Katier00:
So sorry that we don't choose who we fall in love with. Weigh your options and know if you can stay with her, if you can't please let her be. From your story, you have really invested in this relationship but you know what, you can still let go for a broken relationship is far better than a broken marriage

dingbang:
Dude, just have it at the back of your mind you aren't marrying that girl... Simple.. Play along... If she offers you sex, you bang.. But let it be known to you that the Rship ain't heading to the altar because she is not the kind of woman you imagine to spend the days of your life with.

Angy55:
But you've seen all these signs from the very beginning and yet you loved her all the same.
Why consider the character now?

There are some character that can not be changed. It's in-built(natural).

It is a mistake for a man or woman to enter into marriage with the hope of changing the character of the marriage partner.

If you break up with her and start up afresh with someone else, the new one may not possess an egoistic character but another nauseating character.
There are not prefect relationships just as there are no perfect humans.

Lalas247:
Seems she can’t admit she is wrong...
Well I doubt she will Chang might even get worse ... if you really love her and still want to marry her then that’s the compromise you will have to accept ...
There is no perfect relationship! If this is her only flaw then the question is can you live with it ?
Btw the grass isn’t always greener